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Bar Soap

Friend asked where I got my soap, since he's not able to find Ivory. Told him I use Body Wash, he was surprised. Also told him a mutual friend showers using Suave shampoo. Do you use still use bar soap to bathe?

by Anonymousreply 188August 25, 2022 10:43 AM

Yes, but the following is very hard to find, at least at my Woodman's and Walmart:

Oil of Olay - Unscented -Sensitive Skin.

Best bar soap evah.

Don't know if it comes in body wash.

by Anonymousreply 1August 21, 2022 5:36 PM

Yup, still use Ivory.

by Anonymousreply 2August 21, 2022 5:45 PM

Ivory is the best by far. It's available in most any grocery store and bodega, not to mention supermarkets. I can only think OP's friend is looking in too many upscale shops.

by Anonymousreply 3August 21, 2022 5:49 PM

Bar soap is environmentally better than plastic body wash containers. Bar soap is being seen as a smarter choice in upscale brands in 2022

by Anonymousreply 4August 21, 2022 5:50 PM

Yes, I also, according to the internet, am the only white person who uses a washcloth.

by Anonymousreply 5August 21, 2022 5:55 PM

Bar soap generates lots of paper labels that can’t be recycled though so I’m not so sure about that. The plastic bottles body wash comes in can be.

Also bar soap is swarming with bacteria after a while, whereas body wash is much more sanitary.

by Anonymousreply 6August 21, 2022 5:57 PM

Nope, r5. I use them too.

by Anonymousreply 7August 21, 2022 5:58 PM

R7 I knew twitter was lying ;)

by Anonymousreply 8August 21, 2022 6:00 PM

I use 100% shea butter bar soap that I make myself. One pound of shea butter super fatted at 20% makes a ton of moisturizing soap, and it is easy to make.

by Anonymousreply 9August 21, 2022 6:01 PM

Cetaphil bar soap is very nice. Smells nice, rinses away clean. It’s good.

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by Anonymousreply 10August 21, 2022 6:02 PM

R9 your perceptions are unfounded by facts. Nice try. Just keep using your body wash. Nobody cares anyway Wyatt you do.

by Anonymousreply 11August 21, 2022 6:04 PM

I prefer using bar soap for my body these days as I find them generally better at lathering (also more economical).

by Anonymousreply 12August 21, 2022 6:05 PM

R10, you can also use their liquid wash. That’s what I use, and it is very gentle on the skin, while doing the job.

All soaps and even shampoos, are usually very harsh on the skin, and throw off your PH Balance.

No bueno.

by Anonymousreply 13August 21, 2022 6:07 PM

I haven't used bar soap since Granny was forbidden to make our soap out by the cement pond. Darn that Mrs. Drysdale.

by Anonymousreply 14August 21, 2022 6:08 PM

I am white and use a wash cloth. Often with bar soap. Which is mostly Italian and North African. I also like sulfur soap occasionally - such as during heat waves.

by Anonymousreply 15August 21, 2022 6:09 PM

I have bar shampoo, too, from Clarins. I buy soaps and things from Clarins, La Roche Posey and Cetaphil because they smell good and work well. Also Clinique mens soap

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by Anonymousreply 16August 21, 2022 6:10 PM

North African soap what brand?

by Anonymousreply 17August 21, 2022 6:10 PM

I’m trying to debase you

by Anonymousreply 18August 21, 2022 6:11 PM

WTF are you talking about R11. I plainly stated that I use bar soap and not bodywash.

by Anonymousreply 19August 21, 2022 6:12 PM

People have the wrong idea about getting clean. They have been trained to believe that soaps and body washes must get sudsy, in order to correlate that one is clean, after bathing with sudsy soaps and washes.

Not true.

The ones with zero suds are the ones that get you very clean, without irritating your skin or drying it out.

Cetaphil…

If it’s good enough for your face, it’s good enough for your ass!

by Anonymousreply 20August 21, 2022 6:13 PM

I bathe only in the blood of virgins. Nothing exfoliates quite like it.

by Anonymousreply 21August 21, 2022 6:15 PM

I use Yardley Oatmeal and Almond. It’s affordable and works with my skin.

by Anonymousreply 22August 21, 2022 6:15 PM

Shit I meant that ass flap r6.

Sorry r9

by Anonymousreply 23August 21, 2022 6:15 PM

R21 But, they are so hard to find anymore.

by Anonymousreply 24August 21, 2022 6:16 PM

Do those of you that use bar soap live alone?

by Anonymousreply 25August 21, 2022 6:19 PM

Australian Botanical Soap goat’s milk and soya bean. It’s triple milled!

by Anonymousreply 26August 21, 2022 6:20 PM

Moroccan black soap with rose. There are many brands. Savon d'Alep from Aleppo (Syria - Middle East) if you can find it. Many brands. Turkish glycerin soaps. Goat's milk soap unscented - Tunisia.

by Anonymousreply 27August 21, 2022 6:24 PM

[quote] Shit I meant that ass flap [R6].

Let’s see.

She completely melts down when someone states an opinion different from hers: check.

She’s too flighty to even tag the correct person in her reply: check.

Sounds just like someone who would moisten a lump of fats and leave it lying around her home for days, periodically rubbing it all over her body.

by Anonymousreply 28August 21, 2022 6:26 PM

I don't like body wash. I never feel like I can get it completely rinsed off. I use bar soap from Kiehl's and Dr. Bronner peppermint castile liquid soap

by Anonymousreply 29August 21, 2022 6:27 PM

R27 shove most of those up your pretentious ass. You’re overreacting on the international soap thing

by Anonymousreply 30August 21, 2022 6:27 PM

I only cleanse with with the cum of 19 year old gay virgins and rinse with the tears of Welsh nuns.

by Anonymousreply 31August 21, 2022 6:28 PM

Dr Bronners is an enemy to your skin barrier. Anyone who uses it must have Teflon skin

by Anonymousreply 32August 21, 2022 6:28 PM

Over reaching

by Anonymousreply 33August 21, 2022 6:29 PM

R30 they are cheap. I live half time in Cairo anyway so why is this pretentious?

by Anonymousreply 34August 21, 2022 6:29 PM

I like Pears.

by Anonymousreply 35August 21, 2022 6:30 PM

R30 I live in Santa Barbara CA. Who the fuck cares?

by Anonymousreply 36August 21, 2022 6:30 PM

R34 r34

by Anonymousreply 37August 21, 2022 6:31 PM

You seemed to care to snark about someone's soap.

by Anonymousreply 38August 21, 2022 6:32 PM

Yeah, Dr. Bronner's (liquid soap) smells good (almond) but is *harsh* on the skin.

Neutrogena bar soap is also harsh in that it really strips moisture from your skin.

by Anonymousreply 39August 21, 2022 6:32 PM

Ivory is a great soap bar because it still uses beef fat as an ingredient.

It makes sense for cleansing that saponified animal fat is mild on our skin - like dissolves like.

by Anonymousreply 40August 21, 2022 6:33 PM

No just the pretentiousness

by Anonymousreply 41August 21, 2022 6:33 PM

R37 is a turd emerging from the ass of a dead dog.

by Anonymousreply 42August 21, 2022 6:34 PM

Ivory bar soap, I find harsh, as well.

I do like those Yardley almond oatmeal soaps.

by Anonymousreply 43August 21, 2022 6:38 PM

Rock Hudson got the AIDS from bar soap!

by Anonymousreply 44August 21, 2022 6:41 PM

Ivory is old school crapola

by Anonymousreply 45August 21, 2022 6:44 PM

I use Dove bars of soap

by Anonymousreply 46August 21, 2022 6:46 PM

Been using Safeguard™ for decades after years using Zest™(which caused a nasty breakout once, I assumed they altered their formula) Happy with the former, bought several dozen bars of it when I thought, needlessly as it happened, that it was being discontinued. I use it for everything below the neck.

I really like Kiss My Face™(which was discontinued for awhile, but returned after the company either restructured or was bought out) to wash my face and lately have been using it for shaving(I put the too-small-to-use shards in my shaving mug, it lathers up a treat)

Never cared for Ivory™(it always made me sneeze) although my mom and grandmother loved it.

I keep a bar of Lava™ soap in the kitchen to use if my hands are excessively grimy, like they usually are after some gardening chores. It seems to rinse better than the antibacterial/glycerin liquid soaps, so it's better if I'll be handling food.

My husband LOVED Magno™, for the color and the scent. Is it still being made?

I can never remember if it's Pear's™ soap or Neutrogena™ that is mild enough to use when brushing your teeth. Made the mistake years ago of using the incorrect one. Yuck!

When I see bars of Fels Naphtha™ soap for sale I always smile, it was a staple in many households(for a plethora of uses) when I was a kid. They must sell tons of it since it's still in production.

r46 I use Dove Bars™ of ice cream. 😁

by Anonymousreply 47August 21, 2022 6:52 PM

R47 I still use Fels Naphtha. It comes in handy for a lot of things. My mother used it often on my dad’s greasy clothes.

by Anonymousreply 48August 21, 2022 6:56 PM

Another, like r27, whose bar soap comes from Aleppo. It's made with laurel oil and sold by way of a retailer in Spain.

I use that or shower gel.

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by Anonymousreply 49August 21, 2022 6:56 PM

I bought some Sasquatch pine tar bar soap but took it back because I didn't realize that it has "heavy grit" in it.

by Anonymousreply 50August 21, 2022 7:19 PM

Bars of soap aren't allowed in many settings because of the bacteria that forms on and under wet bars. Our schools and group homes switched to liquid soaps in the '80s, then people started buying Soft Soap for their homes, so I'd forgotten bar soap even existed until I saw a sliver recently in a friend's bathroom.

by Anonymousreply 51August 21, 2022 7:26 PM

I love Kirk's coco castile bar soap. It's the only soap that doesn't turn my skin red, itchy, and blotchy. It's easy to keep bar soap dry between uses, not seeing where this is a problem unless you keep it directly under a leaky shower head.

by Anonymousreply 52August 21, 2022 7:29 PM

Paper soap labels can be recycled.

by Anonymousreply 53August 21, 2022 7:30 PM

R47 Magno still exists, and I have to get myself some soon. I had some years ago and absolutely loved the scent.

by Anonymousreply 54August 21, 2022 7:34 PM

Copa soap and Trader Joe's peppermint soap.

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by Anonymousreply 55August 21, 2022 7:35 PM

I make mine

by Anonymousreply 56August 21, 2022 7:35 PM

[quote]It's easy to keep bar soap dry between uses, not seeing where this is a problem unless you keep it directly under a leaky shower head.

But it doesn't dry immediately, which is why it's not allowed any more where many people may use it frequently, before it dries completely. People can buy bar soaps for their homes or personal bathrooms at work, but whenever a frau puts a bar of soap (usually reeking with excessive fragrance) in one of the staff bathrooms on our campus, it's immediately removed.

by Anonymousreply 57August 21, 2022 7:37 PM

I still use bar soap.. like someone said, I feel the residue of body wash and feel its not rinsing off. My fave is Lever 2000, but it's been harder to find the last few years.

by Anonymousreply 58August 21, 2022 7:38 PM

Yes, I use bar soap (pine tar soap).

by Anonymousreply 59August 21, 2022 7:50 PM

What, no Queen V?

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by Anonymousreply 60August 21, 2022 7:54 PM

I absolutely still use bar soap exclusively (in the shower, anyway.) My preference is Dove Men+Care Minerals & Sage. It's hard to find, but I ordered a whole bunch (along with the shampoo and antiperspirant) online so I'm well-stocked for year or two.

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by Anonymousreply 61August 21, 2022 7:55 PM

Orange Dial.

by Anonymousreply 62August 21, 2022 7:58 PM

"No. Bar soap does not appear to transmit disease." See link.

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by Anonymousreply 63August 21, 2022 7:59 PM

Body wash makes the shower floor slippery and I feel like it leaves a residue on my skin.

I like a good goat milk soap but it has to be very lightly fragranced. No major brands, usually hit or miss from craft fairs.

My go to bar soap is Market Basket’s shea butter soap. It has a very light soapy smell. I have to go to Massachusetts to get it so usually stock up when I do.

by Anonymousreply 64August 21, 2022 8:04 PM

I loved these. Don't see them much anymore. These and a long trough urinal. So sexual.

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by Anonymousreply 65August 21, 2022 8:07 PM

Some homemakers have a soap dish in the kitchen sink, reusing the same soap. Excellent way to spread germs.

by Anonymousreply 66August 21, 2022 8:10 PM

I love the invigorating chemical-blast smell of Irish Spring in the morning It’s a childhood thing I never outgrew.

by Anonymousreply 67August 21, 2022 8:14 PM

Read this nervous nellies:

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by Anonymousreply 68August 21, 2022 8:20 PM

[quote]I am white and use a wash cloth.

Were you wearing your MAGA hat when you typed that?

by Anonymousreply 69August 21, 2022 8:26 PM

R51 you don’t have friends

by Anonymousreply 70August 21, 2022 8:29 PM

R54 you just like the name Mango cause ur queer

by Anonymousreply 71August 21, 2022 8:31 PM

Still use bar soap (usually Zest). Rinsed off body wash makes the tub slippery af.

by Anonymousreply 72August 21, 2022 8:35 PM

I use Dove soap fragrance free and for sensitive skin. I use Vanicream bar soap on my face.

by Anonymousreply 73August 21, 2022 8:37 PM

Soap is a very strong base chemical, so bacteria doesn’t settle on it.

Pubes, on the other hand…

by Anonymousreply 74August 21, 2022 8:42 PM

Most of the cleaning videos I have seen on Youtube mention that bar soap makes more soap scum that sticks to the floor of showers and bathtubs. It's a lot of regular scrubbing to keep it managed.

by Anonymousreply 75August 21, 2022 8:46 PM

Some very tender to the touch gals on this thread.

by Anonymousreply 76August 21, 2022 8:49 PM

Eldergay at R1

Amazon seems to sell the soap you are searching for.

They deliver to even the far reaches of Flyoverstan

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by Anonymousreply 77August 21, 2022 8:53 PM

I use bar soap but a friend makes it.

Smells/cleans better than any soap I've ever used in the past and is all natural.

I tried Dr. Squatch once but the scent I got smelled like Stove Top stuffing on me.

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by Anonymousreply 78August 21, 2022 8:54 PM

raw african black soap

by Anonymousreply 79August 21, 2022 8:55 PM

raw African loads

by Anonymousreply 80August 21, 2022 8:58 PM

Is it true white people don't believe in washing their legs?

Wash your legs, white people!

by Anonymousreply 81August 21, 2022 8:59 PM

R5 and R7, I use a washcloth also. R6's response brought to you by the United Plastics Council.

by Anonymousreply 82August 21, 2022 9:02 PM

Any bar soap I've tried makes my skin feel dry and tight, and I don't have sensitive skin or anything like that. Are there any that aren't drying?

by Anonymousreply 83August 21, 2022 9:03 PM

I used both, bar soap, usually Dial (the Spring Water scent) or Coast, and believe or not the Arm & Hammer Body Wash is great.

There's no oil in the A&H (I hate Oil of Olay & Dove body wash, my partner likes that crap, it's too greasy, I guess if you have dry skin, it's fine), the A&H has a great clean scent and leaves me refreshed.

I also like the Dial for Men body wash, it comes in two scents.

The A&H Body Wash is available at DL fave, Dollar Tree. The same size A&H bottle is over $4 at Rite Aid.

by Anonymousreply 84August 21, 2022 9:09 PM

R47, as mentioned above, Magno still exists. The bar soap I rarely see in shops, the shower/bath gel is everywhere. There are a few options beyond the traditional scent (including weed, who knows why.) I wasn't sure about at all at first about the classic scent, but quickly came to like.

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by Anonymousreply 85August 21, 2022 9:11 PM

I hate soap scum in my bathtub/shower, so I switched to body wash because I read somewhere that it doesn't leave soap scum (because it's technically detergent, not soap). Amazingly, it works. I don't have to scrub down my bath/shower every week now; I just rinse it in very hot water with the handheld shower attachment after a shower or bath, and scrub only when I start seeing dirt (maybe every 6 weeks).

I use Dove sensitive skin foaming wash and a Salux skin cloth (a Japanese scrubbing washcloth).

by Anonymousreply 86August 21, 2022 9:28 PM

Mango!!!

by Anonymousreply 87August 21, 2022 9:28 PM

R86 nobody cares

by Anonymousreply 88August 21, 2022 9:29 PM

r86..."with my shower douche..."

by Anonymousreply 89August 21, 2022 9:35 PM

I think some of you are missing the "joke." The "white people don't use washcloths" concept is some kind of viral stupidity that's been going around black Twitter for ages. First it was that white people never wash their legs; then that white people don't wash their hands; then that they don't wash their faces. The general gist is that white people are feral, filthy, and stinky, with strange and superstitious customs.

Twitter. It just never disappoints.

I think it's ridiculous. I'm white, like the rest of us wypipo, I bathe once every full moon, whether I need it or not, in cow piss and dung, as our cultural customs dictate.

by Anonymousreply 90August 21, 2022 9:36 PM

I'm white and don't use a washcloth. Just soap on skin.

I do, however, always wash my legs and feet.

by Anonymousreply 91August 21, 2022 9:39 PM

[quote]I think some of you are missing the "joke." The "white people don't use washcloths" concept is some kind of viral stupidity that's been going around black Twitter for ages.

Yet more lies and bullshit which is also posted about on LipShit Alley. They hate white people there, mostly white women. However, they seem to worship some disgusting white comedian, forget his name, because he's married to a Black woman.

It's usually some Black female going on about her "white college roommate who never washed her legs". "never used a washcloth", "used the same washcloth on her vagina, ass and her body" and "my white roommate used the kitchen sponge to wash in the shower". I guess some of this could be true, especially if you live with a stoner.

I heard a story about a home health aide who used the same pair of reusable Playtex gloves to wash a bed bound patient, change their diapers and do the housework! Talk about getting an infection!

by Anonymousreply 92August 21, 2022 9:54 PM

After years of using body washes or gift soaps bestowed on me, I’ve bought Dial in the past year. Some surgeon’s offices recommend using it before surgery (like Hibiclens) so it must have some valid antibacterial qualities. As well, it’s recommended for children with impetigo.

Since I rarely wear deodorant due to allergy issues I convince myself the Dial residue helps fight BO. But maybe others think I stink.

by Anonymousreply 93August 21, 2022 10:02 PM

When I was a kid Ivory soap would dry my skin. Is it different now?

by Anonymousreply 94August 21, 2022 10:04 PM

Here's the deal, as much as I love shower gel, nothing beats bar soap for the stinky parts. I use Marseilles bar soap for stinky bis and use shower gel afterwards on my whole body. I don't use a washcloth, bar soap scrubs my hole and bar is rinsed in the shower There's also a Swedish salt soap that I absolutely love, but haven't been able to find lately...I need to shop online I guess.

by Anonymousreply 95August 21, 2022 10:04 PM

Another whitey for washcloths here.

by Anonymousreply 96August 21, 2022 10:04 PM

I love to take my big boy bar of soap and shove it up my ass then push it back out

by Anonymousreply 97August 21, 2022 10:06 PM

r97, soap on a rope was invented for that very purpose, make sure you hold onto that rope.

by Anonymousreply 98August 21, 2022 10:07 PM

My mom bought Ivory and I like it for nostalgia’s sake but it leaves much soap scum in the bathtub (even if you are taking a shower.)

by Anonymousreply 99August 21, 2022 10:08 PM

I use Aveeno body wash (original scent). Best price is from Target. I also use a Salux-type nylon wash cloth.

Doesn't dry out my skin and doesn't leave much soap scum in my shower. Smells nice (light smell). I do take the bottles to the recycling center.

by Anonymousreply 100August 21, 2022 10:08 PM

To those who make their own soap I tip my hat to you.

by Anonymousreply 101August 21, 2022 10:09 PM

Stupid ass

by Anonymousreply 102August 21, 2022 10:10 PM

Dial & PHisoHex cleanser both had the chemical Hexachlorophene removed from it years ago. It was discovered to be a carcinogen. People want to know how and why they developed cancer years down the line. Just look at the garbage put in so many products which were deemed to be safe.

This same chemical was also in Ipana toothpaste! Bristol-Myers' discontinued Ipana toothpaste brand at one time contained hexachlorophene.

The formula for Dial soap was modified to remove hexachlorophene after the FDA ended over-the-counter availability in 1972.

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by Anonymousreply 103August 21, 2022 10:11 PM

Using body wash seems like a big waste of plastic to me. I like pré de provence soap. I store it on a metal soap dish that allows it to dry.

As soap is so strongly alkeline, this hysteria over germs seems a bit silly to me. The most germ-ridden things in the shower would be the loofas and poufs that some people use.

by Anonymousreply 104August 21, 2022 10:12 PM

R95 True about bar soap being best for stinky parts.

by Anonymousreply 105August 21, 2022 10:12 PM

It's weird how many threads on bar soap we have.

by Anonymousreply 106August 21, 2022 10:13 PM

[quote]However, they seem to worship some disgusting white comedian, forget his name, because he's married to a Black woman.

I'm guessing Bill Barr.

I don't think LSA has as many black people as is assumed. I think there are a lot of white people pretending to be black people, and some of them do the "white people are gross and smell and don't wash properly and can't cook and are all evil" thing because it's an effective way to troll. There are definitely trolls like this on Twitter, and LSA sounds like Twitter in bulletin board form most of the time.

by Anonymousreply 107August 21, 2022 10:17 PM

I think it's a generational thing. I have an Airbnb and I offer bar soap as well as shower gel, 2/3rds never touch the wrapped bar soap. I offer a neutral fragrance, and one slightly scented shower gel. Most of my guests tend to be somewhat younger, under 40.

by Anonymousreply 108August 21, 2022 10:17 PM

I just walk through the car wash.

by Anonymousreply 109August 21, 2022 10:20 PM

Stick it up your ass

by Anonymousreply 110August 21, 2022 10:21 PM

Yes I use bar soap. In fact, during the pandemic when no one could find liquid hand soap anywhere, I remembered being a child growing up before liquid soap was invented and simply used bar soap to wash my hands. It's messier, yes but it actually cleans better. Now that liquid soap is available, I use it for hand washing. But I still shower with bar soap. I love Dove Shea Butter.

by Anonymousreply 111August 21, 2022 10:24 PM

I buy shower gel by the gallon from Vitacost and refill my pump bottle. I'm still using plastic, but not nearly as much.

by Anonymousreply 112August 21, 2022 10:24 PM

R83 - Dove soap shouldn't leave your skin dry. My dermatologist recommends it.

by Anonymousreply 113August 21, 2022 10:27 PM

R58, they have Lever 2000 at Dollar Tree. It's a 2-pack. They sell Yardley there too, if you Yardley people are looking for that. Body wash doesn't work for me. I feel like I smell like a monkey without bar soap and I need the bar to lather up my legs and armpits to shave.

by Anonymousreply 114August 21, 2022 10:30 PM

Dial, Dove, Irish Spring, Ivory, Lever, Safeguard, Zest...this sounds.like my gym class in 1976. They were terrible then

by Anonymousreply 115August 21, 2022 10:40 PM

So many basic gays

by Anonymousreply 116August 21, 2022 10:41 PM

I remember liking Zest. Also, Lava did actually work for greasy hands. L-A-V-A.

by Anonymousreply 117August 21, 2022 10:42 PM

I use a deep pore cleanser lotion. In the shower, I use a water activated gel cleanser, then a honey almond body scrub, and on the face an exfoliating gel scrub. Then apply an herb mint facial mask, which I leave on for ten minutes while I prepare the rest of my routine. I always use an aftershave lotion with little or no alcohol, because alcohol dries your face out and makes you look older. Then moisturizer, then an anti-aging eye balm followed by a final moisturizing protective lotion.

by Anonymousreply 118August 21, 2022 10:48 PM

I've been using soap--bar soap and other kinds--from Lush for years now and have been happy with it.

by Anonymousreply 119August 21, 2022 10:49 PM

R118 nobody cares you’re still ugly

by Anonymousreply 120August 21, 2022 10:50 PM

Sweet baby Jesus, R118, I don't do that much work in a month - and I haven't rehired a maid since COVID.

by Anonymousreply 121August 21, 2022 10:50 PM

R118, let's go to Dorsia tonight.

by Anonymousreply 122August 21, 2022 10:52 PM

I'm mixed and I wash my legs. Probably the of color part of me makes me do that.

But I was staying with this somewhat upper class white guy on Long Island and I went to shower and there was no wash cloths. I yelled out "Where's the wash cloths?" And he VERY CONDESCENDINGLY said "I don't use wash cloths. No one I know use wash cloths."

I chocked this up to what my grandparents called the "White people are crazy 🤪" theory. It was used for everything.

by Anonymousreply 123August 21, 2022 11:18 PM

Bar soap and wash cloth, great for rubbing scrubbing off dirt, yes some of actually get real dirt on us.

by Anonymousreply 124August 21, 2022 11:18 PM

I use a washcloth because I like it. But what's the difference if you do or don't? Nobody uses a washcloth to wash their hands, and your hands generally get dirtier than any part of you other than maybe your ass.

by Anonymousreply 125August 21, 2022 11:21 PM

People don't use washcloths or scrubbies because they so quickly become bacteria farms when left in the shower, and because no one wants to use the same cloth on their face as they do the rest of their body.

I use a cloth on my face in the shower and that's it, and even that requires a tall stack of washcloths because you need a new one every time. It's a pain. I absolutely get why people wouldn't do it.

by Anonymousreply 126August 21, 2022 11:25 PM

Old english lavender, the lavender in it kills bacteria.

by Anonymousreply 127August 22, 2022 12:07 AM

You talk about wash cloths being "bacteria farms" and then use it only on your face. That doesn't make sense.

by Anonymousreply 128August 22, 2022 12:08 AM

How many of you are using shower gel with no scrunchie or loofa? ...you're definitely not getting clean with just your hands and shower gel.

by Anonymousreply 129August 22, 2022 12:18 AM

Mary R118 is 83 but is often mistaken for 80.

by Anonymousreply 130August 22, 2022 12:23 AM

Lume 4 me. Best bar soap around.

by Anonymousreply 131August 22, 2022 12:34 AM

I genuinely do not understand what you are saying, r128.

by Anonymousreply 132August 22, 2022 12:40 AM

“Accidentally” dropping the body wash just isn’t as convincing.

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by Anonymousreply 133August 22, 2022 12:42 AM

How about those of you who actually work in fields where you get dirty and sweaty? How the hell do you get the funk and dirt off your bodies? Just using soap with your hands sure isn't going to work to get even one day of work related dirt off you body.

Most normal people use both a wash cloth and a body/back brush. What's the big deal about using one wash cloth a day? I cannot believe some of these responses.

by Anonymousreply 134August 22, 2022 12:43 AM

You're just going to have to seethe all day about the fact that I, a stranger on the internet, said that I can understand why people don't want to deal with buying a stack of washcloths and having to launder them frequently, r134. You'll just have to go around all day gasping in shock because you cannot BELIEVE some of these RESPONSES!

by Anonymousreply 135August 22, 2022 12:47 AM

My dermatologist told me you should only use soap on your underarms and groin and ass. Soap strips the natural oils from your skin.

by Anonymousreply 136August 22, 2022 2:12 AM

R1, you obviously are a DL nothing, since you wasted the R1 spot by rushing in with twaddle and not performing your job of ridiculing the OP. THAT is what an R1 is to do, before we all move on.

Moving on, I also use Oil of Olay Unscented for Sensitive Skin. Even though your DL skills stink, at least we know your body doesn't!

by Anonymousreply 137August 22, 2022 2:19 AM

Trader Joe's TEA TREE OIL, discontinued as a bar soap. Available as a wash.

by Anonymousreply 138August 22, 2022 2:34 AM

Claus Porto is delightful.

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by Anonymousreply 139August 22, 2022 2:35 AM

Im using Trader Joe's oatmeal bar soap, it is not as good as the Tea Tree Oil bar soap.

by Anonymousreply 140August 22, 2022 2:39 AM

The plastic bottles that you purchase contribute to the plastic Islands floating in the North Pacific.

You will be dead in 30 years but your plastic purchases will still be alive in 30 centuries.

by Anonymousreply 141August 22, 2022 2:41 AM

I am white and use bar soap and a washcloth to wash everything. And a new washcloth every day. I’m not an animal.

I was unaware this made me unusual.

by Anonymousreply 142August 22, 2022 2:53 AM

I love triple milled fancy ass soap from places I have never visited. They lather and smell so goooooooooood and they last a very long time.

by Anonymousreply 143August 22, 2022 2:56 AM

I like Caswell Massey soaps. A little pricey, but worth it.

by Anonymousreply 144August 22, 2022 2:59 AM

I have Little Seed Farm goat milk soap and I like it. When it’s super hot and humid I use Irish Spring body wash. Can’t use it on my face, though.

When I travel I take good old Cetaphil and it’s fine.

by Anonymousreply 145August 22, 2022 3:05 AM

Don't bend over to pick up the bar of soap in public showers - homophobic advice from homophobes.

by Anonymousreply 146August 22, 2022 3:08 AM

R86 Eww. I clean my bath/shower weekly. Six weeks? Really?

by Anonymousreply 147August 22, 2022 3:09 AM

I use Olay or dove whatever's on sale or clearance.

by Anonymousreply 148August 22, 2022 3:21 AM

R136 that is what I do. Soap on the pits, ass, and cock and balls. Nowhere else. I use a shampoo bar and conditioner bar - the conditioner bar is more for my scalp than for my hair, as my scalp gets dry. I wash my hair every third day, and just rinse it other days.

Cold process soap is easy to make, you just need oil, water, and lye - fragrances and colors are optional. There are calculators on-line for the amounts to use. Just be careful, and remember to always add lye to water, never add water to lye (it can cause an explosive reaction.)

If you add water to lye you might die - a little rhyme to remind you.

by Anonymousreply 149August 22, 2022 3:46 AM

R136, bits, pits, and tits.

Once a month whether you need it or not!

by Anonymousreply 150August 22, 2022 4:32 AM

^Granny Clampett.

by Anonymousreply 151August 22, 2022 4:35 AM

Dove soap is not a soap, but a syndet (synthetic detergent).

by Anonymousreply 152August 22, 2022 4:43 AM

Thanks for the links r63 and r68. I'm an infectious disease epidemiologist and I'll admit I've avoided bar soap for years because I was taught that pseudomonas grows under it. It's not really a threat to most people, and I figured rinsing the soap probably took care of it anyways. But they were still telling us that 20 years ago. I do believe it's true (pseudomonas can grow on bars of soap) but now at least I know it isn't likely transmitted from person to soap to person.

I don't do soap public health, so it's not like I've been spreading bad info around for 20 years, but always good to learn something new.

by Anonymousreply 153August 22, 2022 5:16 AM

OP Great thread.

R27 I appreciate your post -- will buy some Aleppo soap on Amazon.

by Anonymousreply 154August 22, 2022 5:34 AM

Castile soap.

by Anonymousreply 155August 22, 2022 6:05 AM

The residue is a big bitch to get off the tub. Has that been mentioned?

If so, tough shit.

by Anonymousreply 156August 22, 2022 6:06 AM

R47 I love the scent of Safeguard, Bronzie. I always keep some in my linen closet. On fragrance sites, it is said to be related to a famous perfume, or based on its formula. Sadly, I do not recall the name of the perfume in question. Perhaps some other posters may know. I hope P&G do not discontinue it, as they've sold off so many bar soap brands over the years. It is definitely a classic!

by Anonymousreply 157August 22, 2022 6:10 AM

r153 Give your soap a sniff, if it smells like grape juice either toss it, or scrub off a layer to two..

r157 The scent IS great, as is the deodorant power. I keep a few bars unboxed to dry out a bit, it makes the soap longer lasting when in use.

r98 Soap-on-a-rope was invented for sailors aboard their ships. It prevented the soap from "accidentally" falling to the shower floor, which might have invited unwelcome(?) advances. It DID make washing your feet rather difficult though, since you could never life your legs high enough when the soap was hanging around your neck(old joke, from an uncle who was a Navy veteran 😉)

Washcloths are definitely the way to go. I don't understand why so many people do not like them, they are: a good, if mild, scrubber and exfoliator; easy to launder( I use one, rinse it, hang it up to dry then in the hamper it goes); economical to purchase(you can usually get deals on a 6 or 10 or 12 pack) Wash your face first with it, THEN use it on the rest of your body. Or use another one, if that's too ick-y for you.

by Anonymousreply 158August 22, 2022 6:38 AM

[quote]You're just going to have to seethe all day about the fact that I, a stranger on the internet, said that I can understand why people don't want to deal with buying a stack of washcloths and having to launder them frequently, [R134]. You'll just have to go around all day gasping in shock because you cannot BELIEVE some of these RESPONSES!

Doll, I'm not seething over moronic strangers who don't use washcloths or have bizarre bathing rituals. This thread sure doesn't affect my life personally .

Most of you must reek. Most humans simply cannot get clean by using just their hands and soap.

What's the matter, you don't own a washer? These days, even in NYC apartments, landlords have included washers AND dryers. There's no excuse, you simply seem cheap, lazy and ignorant. Who doesn't own and use washcloths?!

Unless you use a powerful industrial strength showerhead, DEAR, using your hands to wash yourself, simply isn't going to work, you will still be left with some level of dirt, and products you use on your body, such as lotions or sunscreens.

by Anonymousreply 159August 22, 2022 9:32 AM

This thread, I swear

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by Anonymousreply 160August 22, 2022 12:02 PM

I’m not assembling IPhones, and I’m not scrubbing layers off my bar soap.

It’s just not going to happen.

by Anonymousreply 161August 22, 2022 12:06 PM

Yes. Less plastic for one reason. I use Harry's soap various wonderful, mild scents for body. Ivory soap for the private bits.

by Anonymousreply 162August 22, 2022 12:22 PM

Sisley’s soapless cleansing bar for face, Musgo Real for pits, Dior's Ambre Nuit for taint and hole, Diptyque's Eau rose for penis glans.

by Anonymousreply 163August 22, 2022 12:32 PM

Pretty sure that’s a line from Frasier

by Anonymousreply 164August 22, 2022 12:37 PM

I use Pre de Provence bar soap, and I am slowly working through all the scents.

For the LOVE OF GOD, do NOT buy the Starflower. (The blue one.)

Big mistake.

by Anonymousreply 165August 22, 2022 12:37 PM

[quote]I use a deep pore cleanser lotion. In the shower, I use a water activated gel cleanser, then a honey almond body scrub, and on the face an exfoliating gel scrub. Then apply an herb mint facial mask, which I leave on for ten minutes while I prepare the rest of my routine. I always use an aftershave lotion with little or no alcohol, because alcohol dries your face out and makes you look older. Then moisturizer, then an anti-aging eye balm followed by a final moisturizing protective lotion.

R118 is the queen of MARY!!! You seem insufferable. All that effort and still no one notices dear…you aren’t anymore beautiful or young.

by Anonymousreply 166August 22, 2022 2:22 PM

body wash!

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by Anonymousreply 167August 22, 2022 3:03 PM

R166 the joke is on you.

by Anonymousreply 168August 22, 2022 3:05 PM

R166 that is a monologue from r167.

An excellent film.

by Anonymousreply 169August 22, 2022 3:05 PM

[quote] I use Harry's soap

Markle trolls have seizures

by Anonymousreply 170August 22, 2022 3:10 PM

Plastic isn't the only issue with bodywash. The primary ingredient in body wash is water. Water is heavy. Shipping water around the country increases emissions. Bar soap is more concentrated, smaller, and more product can fit in the same trunk.

Same thing with liquid laundry detergent. Concentrated powder detergents are more eco-friendly, as they don't contain water.

by Anonymousreply 171August 22, 2022 4:14 PM

I use Irish Spring bar soap. Always have.

by Anonymousreply 172August 22, 2022 4:22 PM

And I was just reading that only 14% of plastic is recycled. (a lot we actually send to recycling ends up in a landfill - there's no market for all that recycled shit)

by Anonymousreply 173August 22, 2022 4:22 PM

Now that you mention it, this will make a good stocking stuffer for the bougie and thrifty types in your life.

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by Anonymousreply 174August 22, 2022 4:33 PM

Has anyone tried P&G’s waterless soaps and detergents?

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by Anonymousreply 175August 22, 2022 4:35 PM

Soaps that smell are trashy.

by Anonymousreply 176August 22, 2022 4:36 PM

I just get a monthly flea dip, whether I need it or not.

by Anonymousreply 177August 22, 2022 4:38 PM

R176, I loved the "There, I Said It!" thread. Let's do another.

by Anonymousreply 178August 22, 2022 4:39 PM

I love bar soap. I feel you get cleaner with it and a washcloth (yes I said it), than using a shower pouf and gel. Shower poufs are bacterial nightmares as well.

If you use a soap saver your bar soap won't get all soft and weird on the bottom, it dries out. We have a few in the house.

Favorite bar soaps are: original Irish Spring, yellow Dial, and Zest. Safeguard is ok too. HATE Ivory, had my mouth washed out with soap a few times with it and and I don't like the ginger smell.

by Anonymousreply 179August 22, 2022 4:43 PM

R175, I haven't used EC30, but I have used Frey's laundry sheets. I like them, but most of these products advertise themselves as plastic free, and they aren't. They are made with polyvinyl alcohol, which is a plastic. It can be broken down in a water treatment plant that has the right microbes, but most don't. As a result, they contribute to micro plastic pollution.

On the plus side, they are lighter to ship, and can be cut to a smaller size to suit the size of the load/machine, unlike a pod, which is wrapped in PVA.

Ease NY makes a laundry sheet using recycled cellulose fiber instead of PVA. It doesn't dissolve, but the sheet is compostable. I haven't tried it, but plan to.

by Anonymousreply 180August 22, 2022 5:56 PM

Who knew there were anti-washcloth queens.

Only on DL! SMDH.

by Anonymousreply 181August 22, 2022 9:20 PM

^ lol. Exactly. What a bizarre thing (basically filthiness) to defend. These are probably the same weirdos that think bidets or other forms of post-no 2 butt hygiene are “gross” 🙄

by Anonymousreply 182August 25, 2022 6:05 AM

Only at the gym so I can drop it in the shower and see their reaction

by Anonymousreply 183August 25, 2022 6:07 AM

Only on DL could this thread take off.

by Anonymousreply 184August 25, 2022 6:07 AM

What’s a soap saver?

Sounds like something you’d get in that Lilian Vernon catalogue I’ve somehow been receiving for 30 years.

by Anonymousreply 185August 25, 2022 6:09 AM

Yes. I'm trying to reduce my use of plastics, so I buy bar soap.

by Anonymousreply 186August 25, 2022 6:23 AM

It's a soap dish with some raised divets, so that the water dries or drips away, leaving your soap bar nice and dry, instead of a gummy mess.

by Anonymousreply 187August 25, 2022 7:34 AM

Next time you're in Marrakech, head to souk Seffarine and pick up a copper soap dish, for its natural antiviral/antibacterial properties if not its beauty.

by Anonymousreply 188August 25, 2022 10:43 AM
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