Have you hired an escort for sex?

I've hired erotic masseurs but not a full fledge escort experience...yet.

OP- Is a FRAU

I once hired a male prostitute and his name was Frank Garvin.

I do in-calls and out-calls.

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I did a few times in the past. The first time was when i was quite young (mid20s), and I wanted to find if there was a technique that allowed me easier entry as a bottom, since before then I had been doing it doggie-style and missionary-style and it had been uncomfortable and painful. I discovered from my first escort it's much more comfortable to sit on the dick, which hugely improved sex for me until I became more comfortable with the other positions.

I did it a few more times when I was older to see what it was like to have fantasy sex with gorgeous muscular escorts. Some were great, some were okay, and some were awful. I felt like I got what I wanted out of those experiences and didn't need to do it again--I haven't hired an escort in ten years, and have had only sex with boyfriends and hookups since then.

I haven’t done it in years but I have hired escorts about five times, first in my early 30s and last in my late 40s. Honestly, it never lived up to my fantasies. For me it was about experiencing sex with someone who I thought had a perfect, hot muscular body of a degree that exceeded my ability to snag him without paying. In my experience, it was fun to touch, lick, and suck “physical perfection” there was no passion and the sex was often super mechanical. Not a real surprise of course. The worst was two bisexual film glam artists who I engaged for a threeway, and who jerked me off in the first 10 minutes and then wanted me to leave. They seemed emotionally volatile and potentially violent so I just paid and left.

I will say I enjoyed by two "massage" experiences. It was a nice massage for the first half, guy started off in his underwear but ended up naked and of course a happy ending as it got more sexual toward the end.

Though my understand is in the era of onlyfans there can be slimmer pickings with rentboys. Some guys don't need to scort with onlyfans money coming in.

I knew a guy who escorted in his 20s. He said he would be hired by a full range of men: young/old, gorgeous/ugly, professional/working class.

They all liked to be able to schedule exactly what they liked when they wanted it

R5- How old are you?

I had to rent a Ford Escort but all the hookers did was just turn their backs or flip me the bird.

Here's a video of him . I made a mistake.

His name is Fred Garvin not Frank Garvin.

I'm going to start marking my calendar for when this exact same topic comes up around here. I swear there was a thread less than four months ago. Soooooo annoying

Generally, I call an escort for sex AND drugs.

No. I'll argue that anyone sexually active has paid for sex at some point, in some respect, but an exchange of money for services (or some equivalent)? No, never have.

Yes, but not for sex. Just cuddling and hanging out. I like huge, muscular guys.

I am so fabulous and look 30 years younger than i really am so 99% of escorts end up paying me !

I sold myself when I was young and hot in college and grad school. Flash forward 3 decades. I hired a few escorts in my 50s and had mixed experiences but there was one mature Turk who really pushed all the right buttons. Then I stepped back and stopped because frankly it's a lot of money that could be better spent elsewhere. I just deal now with whatever sex I can or can't get anymore. That's aging. Also aging people lose their wits. They get deluded about the whores. Or they don't protect themselves from dangerous whores. Two of my johns when I was young kept hiring whores well past a reasonable age. Their murders were in the papers. It's not uncommon.

R1, same here. I like to get a good massage that will eventually lead somewhere else, but I want the actual massage too. Sometimes it's less rub more tug...

Oh do fuck off, R12. You know that replying to a thread bumps it up further, right? Just shut up then.

r12, you seem to be under the startling misapprehension other people are here to entertain you.

Nothing could be further from the truth. No one here cares whether you are annoyed, or bored, or anything at all.

R19 its his only life, complaining thread troll, he is so annoying.

Current (female) sex worker here. I'm in my early 30s. Most of my new clients are good-looking straight guys in their 20s who seem to have lots of expendable income.

One of my regulars works remotely in tech; his company provides him with $200/month for fitness expenses and pays for bi-monthly house cleaning. These dudes are all over my city. No complaints.

I think hiring SWers is becoming much more commonplace.

I'm a guy in my 60s and have hired an escort on four different times when visiting New York and twice again while in Paris. Oh, and twice in Berlin too (same guy twice - he was that good). All the men were how they described themselves, didn't rush me, and I was completely satisfied. No drugs were involved.

Was was so naive the first time. Thought I could pay by credit card and then ended up paying by check. Thankfully the escort in this case was accommodating, in many ways. Just make sure they know what is expected when you meet up, so no one is disappointed or surprised. Oh, and have the agreed upon cash available when they arrive.

Yes. When I’m on vacation. If I don’t connect with someone while out and about, I hire someone. I’m on vacay and I’m damn sure gonna get laid.

Do you actually connect emotionally to an escort. For me, I like sex to be passionate and much of that is emotional

No! I turn it down! I’m tired of having sex with my boyfriend. He won’t let me rest.

Maybe I do; maybe I don’t. I’m no telling what line of work my gentleman callers are in.

Fiddle de dee

[quote]Have you hired an escort for sex?

No Rose, I had an extra ticket to the opera.

[quote] I’m on vacay and I’m damn sure gonna get laid.

You won't without paying for it if you keep referring to it as a "vacay."

I think we've found the problem...

*takes long drag of cigarette, hikes up fishnet hose*

You don't pay them for the sex, you pay them to go away afterwards.

I've always had a curiosity about it, probably partly because of its forbidden nature.

I'm at an age and stage where my libido had changed.....a little less revved up in some ways, and more specific in others. For a particular type or scenario, I would consider it.

I've said this a number of times on other threads- The male prostitutes ( at least the ones on Rentmen.com ) are always average looking to me. If I'm going to pay for sex ( which I never have) I want said prostitute to be very good looking - at least to me. I'm not going to pay $250 or more for an hour of sex with someone I find only average looking.

I hired a 6'5" naturally magnificently built, beautiful dark skin, charming and polite, honest, hung huge man straight out of French Africa. Someone I'd never meet in my life, never come across. It was an adventure worth the price.

Rentmen are not the most handsome. The most handsome are often very discreet 3rd or 2nd world men, often bi or gay for pay bi, who travel around Europe and advertise locally. They get the 3-4k a week on their working tour, which adds up over 2 months, then go back home where the value of the cash is enormous. Then they come back when they need it again. Never do porn.

The next time I'm in LA, I'm renting Trevor LaPaglia- er, I mean "Joe Dicarlo."

I’m in love with you, R30.

I'm available, OP. Worth the money for you. Can travel. All types welcome. DM me on Insta.

Here's another not dated at all pic of me, OP. Make your fantasies a reality DM me.

Hos be hoin'.

Several times. I'm a sex addict, and I only care about the pleasure. I don't connect emotionally with sex partners. I know that's not a good thing, but it is what it is.

Do hired pee pee girls count as escorts?

Asking for a friend.

Yes, highly recommend it!

I have a certain type who is my ideal sex partner. Hairy, facial hair, handsome, somewhat muscular

Interestingly, in my life, I’ve only had sex with that perfect type once—and wow, it was hot . I’d like to find someone else but feel that it was such a rarity, I’ll never find it without paying for it

What else would one hire escorts for if not for sex?

Fuck jo! My bf is so fucking horny I’m exhausted

Never paid for sex, but thought about doing it legally in Amsterdam.

I wish I could go to Brazil so I could hire someone like this.

Brazilians have huge cocks

I miss the days when strip clubs were more prevalent, like Madrigal's in Chicago. You could see the guys up close and personal, get a sense of their personality, and then ask if they were available for a private dance.

[quote] What else would one hire escorts for if not for sex?

As someone said above, you can also hire them for cuddling. Or also for body worship, or for companionship.

Oh, many times, many many times.

Or a rousing game of canasta and perhaps some competitive origami or scrapbooking.

The possibilities are endless!

How does body worship work exactly?

I hired two Latinos in my 20s for a sexy-threesome (they are MY type). I was high as a kite at the time and had a fantasy in mind. I showed up at their place in Venice (Los Angeles) and it was a dump. They were sketchy. I was sketchy. I left after 5 mins.

Paid them $300.

Never again and I'm 46.

How much do you tip if you get a guy from rent men? And why is a tip required if they are getting all the money?

R7 there has been a “comeback” since covid ended imo. Lots of hot guys are working again and traveling around.

I’ve had a sting of good experiences in a row so something seems to be drawing them out of the wood work.

Not for fucking or sucking, maybe I would for body worship or affection, or maybe a professional cuddle.

R54 I don’t tip a lot because the tip is pretty much built into the rate these days. Sometimes I will round it up but tipping is not required or necessary they seem happy to get their fee. I don’t haggle. I set a limit in my mind and I don’t go over that.

I’ve had a couple of guys who were under charging. They didn’t seem to know the market. Those guys I tipped more.

My limit is usually $200 max. I don’t think I’ve ever paid over that.

I wouldn’t haggle unless you get more than one hour. Let them offer a discount, if you let them know that is out of your budget they will often come back with a smaller number.

No, but I'm not a desperate, pathetic whore. Just a regular one.

U do u

I've never paid for sex but I wouldn't go to a $200 whore. $200 is nothing and anyone who fucks for that amount has got to be pretty desperate and unhappy. Seems like exploitation.

R55 Yes monkeypox lured all the hot self-destructive rent boys back to the yard.

[Quote] $200 is nothing

People seriously pay more than that for an hour??

I’ll just jerk off to porn

R46, yes, go to Brazil.

Guys like that are a dime a dozen and CHEAP.

Go to a bathhouse and the hookers are all there. You can take them to you hotel and have them for a weekend for nothing.

^Seriously. Like $50 will get you a primal Third World Man whose basic sexual instincts and prowess will blow your mind.

You won't get some scuzzy meth'd out "bi" tweaker, preeny muscle queen just lying there so you can "worship" him, or some insufferable scene queen constantly checking the time and/or the Grindr messages on their phone while your fat ass flops up and down on their phone.

Brazilians fuck like primates, definitely bang for your buck. .

I live in Europe and occasionally check out the escort situation in nearby countries known for the quality of their gay porn models. The options are NEVER decent. Never.

* Yes, surprising how ugly Czech people are. Like average British ugly. Although I think the porn you speak of was from the 90s and 2000s before the rare sizzling gay for pay actors realized their scenes would live on forever thanks to the internet.

Our fun in the Czech Republic has always involved other tourists.

[quote]Go to a bathhouse and the hookers are all there. You can take them to you hotel and have them for a weekend for nothing.

[bold]NO. NO NO NO NO NO.[/bold]

Personal safety rule #1 in any developing country, Brazil in particular: [bold]NEVER EVER[/bold] bring a trick back to your room. Easiest way to get robbed/raped/shot/etc.

The whores hang out in bathhouses so you can have your fun there - the bathhouse provides small private rooms for a small fee. If outside of a bathhouse sex hotels are an option.

^ Good advice. And at the batthouse, you can collect yourself after a session and get into another one during the same visit.

Also in many places only registered guests are allowed (especially where horny old men tend to go for local trade). This is more out of concern for their reputation than yours (no one wants the bad publicity of being the place where that horny old Gringo got robbed and beaten to death).

Brazil is a mixed bag though. You can find a hotel that cares or doesn't care about the publicity associated with sex travel. At minimum, find a place that requires guests check in with a government ID. It's a deterrent against funny business, but not a guarantee.

I was treated for cancer and cannot really perform. I’m 60 and on good shape bit It’s difficult to explain with potential hookups who want more so I’m considering hiring. Where in NYC do you Find one other than rentmen?.

I really think that rent men is the only game in town.

There was another thread about alternatives but not sure it turned up anything

R68 that’s a common scenario and the pros will take good care of you.

If you travel and can hire in the medium sized college towns that is where I’ve had the best luck and the the general southeast area of the country.

after radiation treatment for prostate cancer, i suffered from impotency and erectile dysfunction for months. I hired a gay porn star to help me regain my potency. As it was a transactional relationship, payment for services rendered, there was no performance anxiety or bitchy bottom complaining when things did go (in) the way he wanted.

guy was very patient and helpful in getting me back into top shape, over several sessions. would do it again.

Where & how did you find him t71?

Thank god we can get whores on our insurance!

the google machine, things like "erotic work" or "erotic massage" but you have to wade through a lot.

also this was precovid, pre monkeypox, so not sure if some of these are still active, as demand probably plummeted

On rent men many lists their vaxes including MPX and it’s reassuring to know they never lie

Anyone tried a sex vacation? A friend does it all the time—in Brazil, SE Asia, Caribbean. Whores never say no and they’re cheap there

[quote]Have you hired an escort for sex?

No, but I do enjoy a good marinara.

Are there sex cruises with escorts that can be arranged onboard?

R17, I agree with you about the safety issues. One miscalculation and that's it. Fini.

As far as the money being spent elsewhere better...jury's out.

I met this one guy putting himself through grad school. He got inside my head and gave me everything I didn't know I needed.

We'd meet for dinner and part after breakfast. I can't put into words how it made me feel.

Sure, ultimately, not sustainable -- aside from the money.

It showed me what people can have out there. I wish I could see him one last time.

R79 - thats what I did for a few of my johns. But I got greedy and asked one for 50K for a year of exclusive companionship on weekends and school holidays. He asked me if I loved him and I said no, I thought it was clear that the relation was great, but transactional. He wanted to hear "love" even if it was a lie. He's one who got murdered 20 years later.

I’ve been partnered for 30+ years with many ‘ups and downs’. At this point we’re so intertwined neither of us will go adrift and face the repercussions. I don’t believe I could handle the intricacies of finding escorts nowadays. Traveling long distances is not an option.

I've done it many times -mostly when traveling. Only once did I have a bad experience (a latin guy in Palm Springs who advertised as versatile, but only wanted to fuck me and wouldn't take no for an answer). The rest were really nice guys. One super hot guy in New York was romantic and cuddly, and threw in extra time for free. Another time in New York I ended up with a struggling actor -and it turned out we has some close mutual friends. He panicked that I might mention meeting him, but I assured him I would never out him. The sex was fantastic. With most sex workers, if you treat them well they will give you a great time. It may be transactional, but it doesn't have to be impersonal or cold.

Someone upthread pointed out that you end up paying for sex one way or another -even if cash isn't changing hands. I see nothing wrong with hiring someone , as long as you treat each other respectfully and honor their limits.

R80, yikes.

That is so incredibly sad.

Didn't he realize that you telling him you couldn't say it was intimate in its own way as you were being so honest?

This is also sad, but if I had the money and the guy I knew was open to it, I'd meet him 10 times a year for 18 hours. We'd do something fun, part ways and I'd look forward to the next time.

It's nothing long-term or sustainable, but until I find the real thing -- if ever -- it'd be so much. We pay for so many other needs to get fulfilled. Why not companionship?

The thing he used to do the most was he'd look at me and chuckle (in an endearing way) when I'd get all wrapped up in something that didn't matter. He helped me get some perspective.

FUCK I miss him.

I guess we are not talking about $20 street hustlers here.

You don't get much for less than $500

Yes—and he became a good friend over a period of time. It was a safe “outlet” for hot sex (and getting crazy every now and then). As it was, we also had a mutual love of politics, travel & culture…many great conversations about the world beyond sex. We were muy simpático 🍆🍑💦🤙🏼

A good escort is skilled at telling you things you want to hear. Chances are, you're not as "simpatico" as you think. He's just good at his job.

and how is that any different from a boyfriend?

[87] Fair point, as that has been the case in other situations. As to my “preferred” rent man, I’ve known him for 6+ years at this point, and there’s a genuine friendship there.

Your mileage may vary…

It was pretty much a frau-fest, so possibly not many of you have seen it, but there was a recent film called Good Luck to You, Leo Grande about a frumpy woman's quest for her first orgasm via a hot escort. I've never used the services of either, but it seemed to me the escort was a lot more how I'd imagine a sex therapist to be than a sex worker.

Can anyone with escort experience comment as to how realistic the film was?

I was curious abouT straight sex. I was In Berlin and I asked a cab driver to take me to a whorehouse. It was such a rip off. I had to pay to get in. Then I had to pay to even get touched. She kept dragging it out, asking for more and more money. Eventually I gave up and left.

R90 I saw the movie. The escort was kind of deluded and full of himself. He gave her what she wanted even when she put up a lot of resistance. Its her money. She wasn't abusive to him. The implication was he was very expensive and it seemed realistic.

[[89]] …a walk on wide side, or more, doesn’t hurt. It helps!

+wild

Massage, absolutely. And good masseurs too!

Just sex - no thanks. Not into that

[Quote]Yes, but not for sex. Just cuddling and hanging out. I like huge, muscular guys.

The one time I hired someone, it was basically that.

R52, I can't speak for everyone, but for me, "body worship" would involve a big, muscular guy, preferably hairy, able to act/be cocky without a purse falling out of his mouth. It's all a fantasy scenario anyway.

He would flex his muscles, letting me feel or lick them while he talked dirty about how big and hard they were, about how lucky I was to be allowed to touch him. Said touching could involve dick and balls and a blow job, but not necessarily. Not into anal at all, either receiving or giving.

This is kind of what I mean.

How do you think I became semi rich OP. I love taking white dicks up my ass.

OP, I hired my first one back in my 30s sometime. IT was hot. I did it again in my 40s, and it was hot. Did it twice in my 50s, and one time was awful (he didn't match his pictures, and he'd ruined his dick with pumping and silicone injections since he took pictures he posted... blech... and he was clearly high as fuck). The other one was pretty hot.

I also had a naked massage guy for a while who would give me a happy ending. It was nice while it lasted, but then he got weird. A massage from a coked-up dude is NOT relaxing.

I probably won't do it again.

For several years I had a guy who'd come over once a month and give me a nude massage, then suck me until I was hard -and then sit on my dick and ride me until I came. He said he was a masseur, not an escort -but just liked my dick so much that he wanted to have it. Not bad for $80. I was really bummed when he moved out of my area. He gave a great massage and was a hot fuck.

R88, bingo.

Nearly ALL relationships are transactional.

My dentist calls me 'young man' which I'm far from but he's probably 7 years older than I am; he's a real daddy type and when he's drilling my mouth (sorry) and he's got that plastic thing in my mouth so my tongue doesn't actually move into the drill I feel like he's in charge and I'm safe.

I pay him.

Same thing with an escort -- only I don't need novocaine.

I haven’t, but “hired” someone I’d previously had sex with to give me a massage. He was either in training or had just graduated & needed practice, so I had my first massage (with bruises later) & we had sex right after. I paid for the massage though, not the sex.

He took public transportation over & I picked him up from the nearby station, & as we got out of the car in the garage to sneak in the house, a pesky neighbor kid rode his bike into my garage & started talking to me: howdy, neighbor! And proceeded to tell me the sob story that his family had just lost their house (it was the peak of the foreclosure era) & had to downsize. I wanted to tell the kid to scram, I was getting my Mack on.

Even though it’d be signing my death warrant, I sometimes wish I could take advantage of all the Eastern European or Arab rough trade flocking to Europe. But getting stabbed to death is one of my least preferred ways to die.

No but I did hire a "massage therapist" once from Craigslist. Flat out told him that I wanted a two hour massage with no sex whatsoever, but he wouldn't stop trying to get his filthy CS mouth on my dick and hole area, no matter how many times I told him not to.

I hired someone a LONG time ago for $40 and it was just creepy. He was a nice guy but I couldn't get past the fact that it was just mechanical sex, so transactional.

I agree with R32, I've never hired an escort for sex but I would be open to it, though they would have to be an absolute 10/10, my physical ideal for me to do it. The guy in R34 looks like my type, though I'd want to see ass and cock first too.

I'm always interested in these threads. Awhile back, there was a poster who had been an escort and there was another whose room mate was one. Perhaps they'll check in.

I escorted a couple times

Honestly, I look every once in a while, but the last several years there just haven't been any guys in my area that I'd be willing to pay for.

The selections used to be a lot hotter and better.

Amen, R108! The good-looking ones are Insta-whores instead of escorts.

Yeah. The really hot ones now go to OnlyFans and get paid without having to touch and be slobbered all over by trolls.

A masseur and he gave me two happy endings

[quote]it seemed to me the escort was a lot more how I'd imagine a sex therapist to be than a sex worker.

I posted above at r5 how the first time I ever hired an escort was to find a comfortable position for bottoming.

I asked the escort I hired then if he minded that I was asking that from him, and he said that actually a lot of his work was much more like sex therapy than he would have imagined wen he started.

The last thing I want after a massage is a happy ending. I’m so relaxed that I don’t want anything to excite me.

I like it if I can shower afterwards

No, but a few friends of mine escort. I can get it for free from them, we've hooked up from time to time.

I like to slap them

Every time I have hired an escort, they have refused to take my money and fucked me for free, and sometimes they offer to pay me money! 🙄😃

R115 is living my dream, dammit.

I haven't been touched sexually by another man in nearly ten years.

I haven't be raped in a long time, they just don't rape old guys like they used to

I know an Albanian DILF whore in Paris who will rape you, gramps. 250 euros the rape. If you want SIR to leave objects in your colon, it's bring your own, then no extra fee.

I did it a few times after a long relationship. I never had a bad experience. All were sober, polite, hard and horny.

I don’t pay for sex

you pay to play

[quote]A masseur and he gave me two happy endings

Did you have a two-for-one Groupon?

Tried once, it didn't work out. Was smelly through the door peephole and looked like a glazed donut. Sent the skank away.

You laugh at that old saw, R117 -but it actually did happen to me once. God's honest truth: he was clearly on something and couldn't wait for me to fuck him. Afterward, he said if I could fuck him a second time he'd give me my money back and $100 on top. I was young, hung, and full of cum (and dumb -then and now). So I fucked him two more times -but I insisted on paying our original fee. I felt like I'd be too much of an asshole to take advantage of him in his inebriated state. Not that he was likely to have any memories of our time together - I was just worried about Karma. It ain't gonna happen to me again, that's for sure. But it did happen thirty years ago.

R119 not many like to fuck old guys

OP, what else would one hire an escort for???

That’s what friends are for. . .

I would if I had the money

In Soviet Russia, escort hire YOU!

I’ve done it domestically in the US a few times and it’s been a huge disappointment. When I was in Shanghai a few years ago I did it and it was incredible. The guy gave me the most amazing erotic massage

Did he finger you?

Yes.

Years ago there used to be a site called something like "Daddys Reviews" where guys discussed the merits of various escorts in an almost DL-like manner, heavy on the details and what they liked and did not like.

I sort it was fascinating that there was this whole subculture of men who hired gay escorts on the regular, enough to review them and plan to sample some of them next time they were in town.

Do any of you know if that website--or a replacement--is still around? Clicking on R34, it seems the reviews on Rentmen are pretty basic and do not go into any detail.

I’m scared of contracting STD

I'm scared of the details

r135 Daddy's Reviews is still there, but as an archive, since "Daddy" passed away. The forum part of it continues on under another name and they do allow for more review-type posts now than they used to.

r135 Daddy's Reviews still exists, but in archive format since "Daddy" died. The forum continues on -- look for "Company of Men" dot org

r135 DL won't let me post a link to answer to your question, but the site still exists, sort of.

Sorry for the three posts -- they didn't show up originally so I kept trying alternate ways of posting.

The gentlemen must sign NDAs.

"I’m scared of contracting STD"

Think about it, hon. They guys you have sex with all have sex lives apart from their time with you. How are they really different from escorts, risk-wise? What protection do you use? Looked at another way, sex workers (in the US, at least) are fare more likely to get regular STI checks -and treatment -than the general population. I wouldn't go so far as to say it's safer to have sex with an escort, but just don't see how it's any riskier if you do the same things as you do with everyone else...

^i’m a virgin

But what about the unspeakable and irreparable moral decrepitude which would rub off on me from a filthy prostitution whore?

You;’re a filthy whore already, dear

Not everyone who hires escorts are like the whore mongers on that review site. Good grief.

Some of us just like to enjoy the experience. It’s kind of private and respectful for the most part. Not something I would go blab about in detail. I think some of those Johns on there get off on it like it’s a control thing or they just have no life outside of hiring escorts.

my private and respsectful parts like a good revue

Bump

I have in the past... and I probably would again if I could find one that I really wanted to hire. But I think all the hottest guys are now on OnlyFans, and the "in person" ones left to hire are not guys I'd be willing to pay good money for. Oh well.

[quote]my private and respsectful parts like a good revue

Did your private parts prefer Ziegfeld's Follies or Earl Carroll's Vanities?

There's a female-only lesbian escort service in Amsterdam that I've been considering visiting, for a couple of years now.

Yeah, yeah, I know, "females are high value, and half-decent looking young women can get sex whenever they want". Easy for incels to spout shit like that without context. In my case, trust issues, avoidant personality, social anxiety, and phobias prevent me from being able to enter that particular dance. No matter what, I can't see my way clear to ever doing it and closing the deal. I don't even like sitting on someone else's bed or having them touch my shoulder. The therapy I would need to get over it and let a girl I meet organically get close enough for long enough is more than I can possibly afford without starving.

No.

However, I understand why it’s such a convenient and desirable set up.

Fuck no! I’m not desperate

Once but we didn't follow through. I was too fat then.

[quote]I haven't be raped in a long time, they just don't rape old guys like they used to

Well you see, the sort of rape depends on what you pay.

Yes, you see, the sort of rape depends on what you pay.

It depends on what you pay!

R155, you were paying him. I can't see how being fat get in the way of a blow job.

I worked as an escort in college.....I quite good at it if I say so myself. I went to college in Sacramento and would travel to "work"...Started in San Francisco at an agency. Then I freelanced after I learned the ropes......

Sorry my spelling is off but it's very early....Escorting is an interesting gig. It is a lot more work than fucking and sucking. I traveled all over. From Dallas to Atlanta to Florida. You have to be cute and carry on a conversation. Guys who hire you and paying hundreds an hour are not looking for just a hookup. Some are--for sure. Those were the easy guys. Wham Bam...Done....But some guys wanted to go out to dinner or a black tie event. That was fine but you had to be "on". And I always had a cover story as to why I was visiting from out of state. Sometimes guys hired you (and a dozen other guys) for a pool party. That was not my scene. Did it a couple of times but not enjoyable and stopped it. I got comfortable saying "thanks but no thanks" very quickly and learning to screen out guys. If you are escorting you should NOT be taking anyone who calls. And that works both ways. Never do drugs. EVER. I had clients who did drugs. I had a client who snorted coke in front of me. It was weird to watch... He was a white collar 50 something who worked in the Financial District. Someone you would never expect. Anyways....

I don’t pay for sec, they pay me

They pay you for sec?

Tell us more, R158, R159. Any notable experiences, good or bad? Why did you stop?

LadyG hogged-up all the good escorts on the east coast for awhile. Wonder who footed the bill for it all?

Part of the kompromat.

R158/R159 is FASCINATING. Can he have his own AMA thread?

And don't worry about spelling, baby, no-one's going to "oh, dear" an ex-professional whore. We respect sluts in this house. If you don't mind further questions--what did you study in school, and did being an escort ever affect your grades or attendance? And what do you for work now? Was it a difficult switch from being a rentboy to working a 'normal' job?

[quote]Then I freelanced after I learned the ropes......

So you specialized in BDSM?

No OP I hire them for intellectual conversation

R1- That sounds like someone a FRAU would hire not a gay male.

All this sex talk makes me want to get LAID this weekend, therefore I shall be going to a bathhouse on Saturday.

R22 Do you do well monetarily?

R22 so clients like yours can't get girls the regular way, or? If not, how come? Are they nerds lacking social skills who still made good thanks to tech? Or tech-bros/Silicon opportunists who just have mean or misogynistic personalities? Or are they nice and normal enough "don't have time to date"? Avoidant? Aspie? Genuinely really curious as to your demo.

Also what kind of city are you in? Can you make rent on SW alone? And how do your best/most regular clients like you to present and show up in terms of body, attire, makeup, vibe, kink etc.? Am guessing that tastes in SW have altered radically from the classic stereotypes in the last decade.

Hope you don't mind talking about it. It's just that this is such an interesting topic, and we don't get many successful sex-workers of any stripe open to discussion around here, let alone women.

wait does R22 just cam/chat urbate/roll up, or actually an irl escort who goes out in public with the johns and makes house calls etc.? it makes a difference

R159 here...I came back to share..REAL previous escort in San Fran and other places...I am willing to throw out a story or two....Thru escorting I started meeting other escorts. One of them was late 20s. He dressed head to toe in leather gear. It was the first time I ever saw anyone wearing the uniform. He mostly worked the Castro clients..I never specifically asked him what he did with clients but he seemed to be doing pretty good. Another escort friend worked a lot with guys in the financial district. He would tease me for driving to my client appointments instead of taking a taxi..lots of experiences. Okay....I had a regular client in San Francisco. Married with a wife and he was in his 60s..I was in my early 20s..He lived in a fancy high rise..Very generous with money too.. Which was awesome. We went out for a drink when we met because he wanted to test the chemistry (nothing wrong with that). We hooked up. It was fine. The first time we hooked up, as I was getting ready to leave, he said he wasn't going to pay me the amount I requested. I thought he was saying he was ripping me off and not going to pay me. He then said he was going to pay me DOUBLE. Which floored me. Either by greed or design, he immediately went to the top of my clients list. We had a good run. Months. But he wanted to try "everything". And I wasn't really down for the ride. He was meeting guys who were kind of sketchy. Once it was his birthday and he asked me to have a foursome with him and two other guys. I agreed to it. But It was me. Him. And two escorts--one black guy and one asian guy (who only spoke spanish). He wanted the experience of three different races in his foursome. Okay. But weird.. He just started going off the rails and I stopped taking his calls. Eventually he confessed to the wife and then begged to forgive him and that he was really straight.. Predictable.. Eventually I traveled around and worked. And did pretty good depending on the city.

R91, aren't you that same fakegay dude who posted on LPSG about having some escort make you an exgay? Stop posting your stupid conversion therapy shit. Just enroll in Milo's center and be done with it.