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I'm asking for a friend.
We already know eldergays do!
by Anonymous | reply 86 | August 19, 2022 2:21 PM |
Fraus don't crave dick, they tolerate it. That's what makes them fraus.
by Anonymous | reply 2 | August 14, 2022 10:47 PM |
Old fraus crave good dick.
Often that is not young dick.
by Anonymous | reply 3 | August 14, 2022 10:49 PM |
The horny old cougars of Los Angeles do.
by Anonymous | reply 4 | August 14, 2022 10:51 PM |
Op sure they do - there are several porn lines that have been pumping out scenes with major guys like Karlo Karrera and Tommy Pistol having sex with old women over 40, over 50 and even over 70! The women clearly love the sex and it is hot to see these aging sluts act like pervey gay men!
by Anonymous | reply 5 | August 14, 2022 10:55 PM |
OP has clearly never come across the Ladies of Tattle.
by Anonymous | reply 6 | August 14, 2022 11:04 PM |
Trying to lure ‘em out of hiding, huh? Gonna ask their opinion on proper pasta draining next?
Anybody who wanted to contribute to DL discussions so much they were willing to keep coming back to lurk until Muriel lowered the bars and deactivated the lasers will KNOW the general level of esteem in which frauen are held.
Or, if not, they’ll learn right quick!
Good luck, gals! Keep yer heads down and don’t think for one single second that praising dick will grant you fellow traveler status. It’s every monster for him, her, and them selves in these parts!
by Anonymous | reply 7 | August 14, 2022 11:32 PM |
I crave masculine eldergay dick.
Where do I go for that?
by Anonymous | reply 8 | August 14, 2022 11:34 PM |
Aren't women extremely horny in their 40s due to their eggs running low and ginger testosterone levels? It makes sense they would chase a younger guy who would be better looking and have more stamina. All those middle aged teachers fucking their male students.
by Anonymous | reply 10 | August 14, 2022 11:52 PM |
I can't believe you just cited porn scenes as representations of real life r5.
by Anonymous | reply 11 | August 14, 2022 11:55 PM |
R10 it's Nature's protection that the horniest humans on Earth are middle-aged straight women approaching menopause and teenaged boys, while the least horny are old straight men and teenaged-fertile aged girls.
by Anonymous | reply 12 | August 14, 2022 11:59 PM |
I don't understand the question, a!nd I refuse to answer it.
by Anonymous | reply 13 | August 15, 2022 12:00 AM |
Most of them don't, no. They want men closer to their own age and don't wanna have to go through the hassle of teaching a young guy the ins and outs, so to speak.
by Anonymous | reply 14 | August 15, 2022 12:09 AM |
They eventually do -once they reach the point where men their own age can't get it up or keep it hard.
by Anonymous | reply 15 | August 15, 2022 12:12 AM |
Women are less visually oriented in who they are attracted to
It's why Woody Allen was able to get laid.
by Anonymous | reply 16 | August 15, 2022 12:13 AM |
Is 28 considered young?
by Anonymous | reply 17 | August 15, 2022 12:17 AM |
R16 Yep. When young women tell people me their crushes are Marilyn Manson, Jack Sparrow, Lil Wayne, Drake, Mick Jagger, etc. I can see women and gay men don't always have the same tastes in men. I don't think any gays were into Michael Bolton or Fabio like the hausfraus.
by Anonymous | reply 18 | August 15, 2022 12:19 AM |
I went to a wedding where both the bride and groom were completely into Michael Abolition. His music played throughout the whole wedding.
by Anonymous | reply 19 | August 15, 2022 12:23 AM |
*Bolton
by Anonymous | reply 20 | August 15, 2022 12:25 AM |
I can only stomach Michael Bolton's 70s and 80s melodic metal and AOR. He had no business touching soul or ballad music and being the white male Whitney.
by Anonymous | reply 21 | August 15, 2022 12:25 AM |
To gays, 28 is 45. Straight men don't see women as old at least until their 35.
by Anonymous | reply 22 | August 15, 2022 12:29 AM |
"their 35"
by Anonymous | reply 23 | August 15, 2022 12:33 AM |
Older men can't get it up like they used to so I would think a young guy would be appealing for sex but not intellectually.
by Anonymous | reply 24 | August 15, 2022 12:33 AM |
People love making that joke about gay death and such but there are so many gays that love daddies r22, it's complete bullshit from what I've seen. If guys are in shape (key point there to be fair) they can still fuck as much as they want in their 40s.
by Anonymous | reply 25 | August 15, 2022 12:35 AM |
My boyfriend is older, in his 50's he could still get it any time but he is now 62 and I noticed his erections are getting weaker. So I think most are good through their 50's.
by Anonymous | reply 26 | August 15, 2022 12:37 AM |
Older women also give no fucks and will be more assertive in pursuing a man they're into. To young guys that's more appealing since young girls are more indirect and also very image conscious. It does seem like some weird natural state of things.
by Anonymous | reply 27 | August 15, 2022 12:37 AM |
The old woman / young man is for guys who are into that, not women. Fraus can appreciate the looks of a young man, but have no interest in putting up with young men’s nonsense.
by Anonymous | reply 28 | August 15, 2022 12:38 AM |
* old woman / young man porn
by Anonymous | reply 29 | August 15, 2022 12:38 AM |
A lot of young guys on Grindr do put on their profile no one over 25 or 30. There's gays into daddies. But many young guys prefer guys their age or slightly older or younger.
by Anonymous | reply 30 | August 15, 2022 12:39 AM |
[Quote]Do old fraus crave young dick?
Not usually, but every town has its older woman who enjoys sexual pleasures with a young man. In some cases, teenagers, which can get them in trouble.
by Anonymous | reply 31 | August 15, 2022 12:40 AM |
Women put up with a lot of shit in this world. If some suburban 40 or 50-something lady wants some hachi-machi from the poolboy, I'm here for it.
by Anonymous | reply 32 | August 15, 2022 12:47 AM |
by Anonymous | reply 33 | August 15, 2022 12:49 AM |
OP should interview Aaron Johnson about this topic.
by Anonymous | reply 34 | August 15, 2022 12:50 AM |
by Anonymous | reply 35 | August 15, 2022 12:51 AM |
by Anonymous | reply 36 | August 15, 2022 12:51 AM |
Just as long as you don't get too emotionally attached I say go for it!
by Anonymous | reply 37 | August 15, 2022 12:59 AM |
It's usually the young guys get very attached to the older woman. DL fav Maxwell Caulfield was married to an older woman. Ed Furlong, Brad Renfro and the youngest son from Home Improvement were with much older women too.
by Anonymous | reply 39 | August 15, 2022 1:03 AM |
An adage I have found depressingly true: most straight men want to fuck either their daughter or their mother, figuratively-speaking.
by Anonymous | reply 40 | August 15, 2022 1:05 AM |
I was in a 3 year relationship that started when he was 28 and I was 54. He is/was the best thing that ever happened to me. We’re still in touch and will have a life-long bond.
by Anonymous | reply 41 | August 15, 2022 1:50 AM |
No. Seriously, I don't get it. I like men my own age (52) or even a little older. I just prefer men who like the things I like and can relate to specific things from our shared generational history.
by Anonymous | reply 42 | August 15, 2022 1:58 AM |
Hugh Jackman married a much older woman as did Pattick Dempsey.
by Anonymous | reply 43 | August 15, 2022 3:02 AM |
Men don't understand women. And don't worry, no one here needs to tell me that the opposite is also true, or that I'm in the wrong place etc. I know. But this "young women aren't horny" thing is 1000% wrong. They are. often as horny as the boys. But it's different for them, more fraught and complex, and that's what holds back most of them from acting the same way straight men do (just fucking anyone willing).
by Anonymous | reply 44 | August 15, 2022 3:20 AM |
OP, how the hell would we know, this a GAY forum! Is this supposed to interest me as a gay man.?
Who the fuck cares?
by Anonymous | reply 45 | August 15, 2022 3:34 AM |
The next time your Mama attends her class reunion, you should go with her, OP.
Then promptly report your findings to the DL.
by Anonymous | reply 46 | August 15, 2022 3:48 AM |
I sure believe so.
by Anonymous | reply 47 | August 15, 2022 8:02 AM |
[quote] this "young women aren't horny" thing is 1000% wrong. They are. often as horny as the boys. But it's different for them, more fraught and complex, and that's what holds back most of them from acting the same way straight men do (just fucking anyone willing).
R44 it’s more *difficult* for girls & young women—the stakes and consequences of indiscriminate fucking are much higher.
One unprotected session or one poor choice of partner has the potential ruin or end a female’s life. Even birth control options aren’t totally safe or without horrible side effects; VD has nasty long term effects on the female body; even having safe vanilla sex with the wrong man or men can get you branded a slut and ostracised. Scarlet letters are still a thing, even today. Then there’s the hazard of assault by a bigger stronger more testosterone-filled human to consider.
That’s what men don’t get, or don’t care to understand.
Which is why it’s alway so sad and pathetic and self-centred when men, especially gay men, mock women for their interests or their ways of expressing desire. Men don’t have the same constraints and dangers and prejudices to deal with, so they don’t have room to judge.
by Anonymous | reply 48 | August 15, 2022 11:24 AM |
Men have 100x more testosterone running through their body. Of course, they're a lot hornier. Sorry that some people don't like to hear that, but it's true.
by Anonymous | reply 49 | August 15, 2022 11:37 AM |
EVERYONE craves young dick. Whether they admit or not.
by Anonymous | reply 50 | August 15, 2022 11:37 AM |
We don't care, do you?
by Anonymous | reply 51 | August 15, 2022 11:44 AM |
gosh knows they so in soap opera land! countless May/December storylines of the young handsome built hunk with a female character old enough to be his mother or even older! whether willingly or blackmailed or drugged or whatever this coupling happens in soaps for decades at least back in the day...
of all the soap operas and storylines, the biggest age difference that I know of was on General Hospital in 2000, when they had the evil conniving powerful businesswoman and ALWAYS horny Helena Cassidine trying to seduce gorgeous Jax Jasper into one night of perfect sex, holding onto a drug that would stop Jax's girlfriend's impeding blindness if he agreed to fuck her...they never did, but there was a hell of alot of heavy making out, and sexual innuendo dialogue between the two.. anyway, in real life at the time the actress was 67 in real life and the actor was only 29 in real life! that's a 38 year age difference! when she was 50, he was 12..... pretty dirty pervy wicked stuff which i LOVE! laugh!..
by Anonymous | reply 52 | August 15, 2022 11:49 AM |
As an eldergay-as Datalounge defines it- I would look at guys who are at minimum late 20's and up. Preferably early thirties.
Eldergays that are obsessed with twinks who look 18 and younger I just see as pseudo pedophiles.
Twinks just strike me as kids and that kid could well of been my own offspring. How you could look at them otherwise is sick-at least to me.
by Anonymous | reply 53 | August 15, 2022 11:54 AM |
I think the biggest appeal of youth is great skin. Saggy spotted less taut skin is when attractiveness fades. For middle aged women, the ideal would be good very hard cock attached to a still-fit body with just enough years on it to have learned good skills.
by Anonymous | reply 54 | August 15, 2022 12:00 PM |
PS the cock at OP is gorgeous but he's probably 5 years away from being really good at sex, combining technique and nuance with the power and sheer hotness of youth
by Anonymous | reply 55 | August 15, 2022 12:02 PM |
Just my two cents: Having been to quite a number of bodybuilding shows, it's ALWAYS ALWAYS the middle age and older! women who go absolutely nuts when they see a very handsome bodybuilder on stage! Perhaps purely anecdotal evidence, i'm just saying. ..
Perhaps they are the small percentage of old/older women who even go to such events and yes, who are into big muscle and of course looks....
And yes, I have seen said women who act and dress like they are on the prowl at these shows... women in their 40s, 50s, 60s wearing sexy outfits because they still have relatively the looks and bodies to carry it off. Heck, i've seen even women in their 70's screaming for bodybuilders on stage...
NO DOUBT they are there to hopefully hook up even if it's only for 1 night stand no matter what, even if it's pity sex or hoping the guy is so horny he'll screw anything and they are in the right place at the right time.. I also think if this does happen which i'm sure it does after some bodybuilding show, that these much older women are totally into "power trips" being able to seduce into the sack a handsome super built young man if only one time, a woman like them old enough to be their mothers and beyond..
In closing, I believe that older woman appreciate muscle and well built men more than young women, because it's ingrained into them, when they were young, what a "MAN" is... a strong, big, protector was to be seen as the ideal, so they remember when men were men and that stays with them, thus the bigger more powerful strong built man the better and looks are always in fashion...
by Anonymous | reply 56 | August 15, 2022 12:28 PM |
[quote] I believe that older woman appreciate muscle and well built men more than young women, because it's ingrained into them, when they were young, what a "MAN" is... a strong, big, protector was to be seen as the ideal, so they remember when men were men and that stays with them, thus the bigger more powerful strong built man the better and looks are always in fashion...
Speaking as a woman, I don’t think this is true as a generality. Maybe for a fetishistic minority, menopausal women, or those with trauma.
Most straight females are hardwired to seek strong partners, yes, but not so strong they pose a clear and large physical threat. You’ll notice young and healthy fertile women in particular going for men of a similar size to them, men who they have a remote chance of fighting off or controlling.
by Anonymous | reply 57 | August 15, 2022 12:53 PM |
Of course they do, but women are very insecure sexually. The society is very judgemental of the younger man- older woman combination and of female sexuality. The ideal for a woman is to have sex with her husband only (ok today a boyfriend is allowed, but just one) who must be her age or older than her. It is like this even in the western world, not to mention the eastern where they cut her clit and cover her with tents.
So, there is a lot of self censorship in women re sexuality.
by Anonymous | reply 58 | August 15, 2022 1:24 PM |
R57 Nah, women don't seek men of similar size because they could fight them back, but because lot of people are attracted to similar. Do yoou think that a small man could not easily overpower a small woman. Small guys can be rather strong too. And violent. Like Sean Penn and Madonna pairing. Only a very big bonned tall and strong athletic woman would stand chance against a small and skinny fragile guys.
by Anonymous | reply 59 | August 15, 2022 1:41 PM |
Look at lesbians versus gay men. That puts away any myth that women have a sex drive equal to men. Gay men are obsessed with anonymous sex and lesbians are only interested in sex when feelings are involved. I wonder why certain gay men are desperate to believe this propaganda. Is it because they would prefer to believe that women are repressed, than to believe they're just not as interested in sex as men.
by Anonymous | reply 60 | August 15, 2022 1:48 PM |
[quote] Look at lesbians versus gay men. That puts away any myth that women have a sex drive equal to men. Gay men are obsessed with anonymous sex and lesbians are only interested in sex when feelings are involved.
yeah clearly never been to L-Chat, have you lmao
by Anonymous | reply 61 | August 15, 2022 1:53 PM |
Of course that women have lower sexual drive than men, but I believe, might be wrong, that lesbians have lower sex drive than average woman.
by Anonymous | reply 62 | August 15, 2022 2:03 PM |
And re R57's post, size of the guy is completely irrelevant. Women, just as some weaker and more fragile gay men, young boys particularly, should pay more attention on guy's vibe than his size. And rely on their own intuition. Because guy's size and strength has nothing to do with him being agressive or violent. There are very nice big guys who would never use their strength against someone weaker, just as some small violent assholes.
by Anonymous | reply 63 | August 15, 2022 2:19 PM |
More re. lesbians, just as male bisexuals are on the top of the list of the highest (frequently unhealthy) sexual drive, I believe lesbians to be on the opposite end of that list.
by Anonymous | reply 64 | August 15, 2022 2:48 PM |
R5 “old women over 40…”
How old are you to think 40 is old?
by Anonymous | reply 65 | August 15, 2022 2:50 PM |
R65 watching my parents age, and getting to a milestone birthday myself, I've been pondering a lot recently what age counts as the threshold for 'old' these days.
So far, I've concluded that The Beatles were right, and it's around the mid-sixties. Maybe seventy, if you have great skin/hair, a lot of vigour and a young outlook.
It's not forty, that's for sure--that is only early middle-age nowadays.
by Anonymous | reply 66 | August 15, 2022 2:59 PM |
R62 interesting that female sex drive--as first studied and recorded by male doctors & psychs--is always called 'low' in a pejorative sense of 'dysfunctional'. What's if it's the rampant shagging of males that is actually the true disordered and regressive primitive behaviour? There's that denatured chromosome, after all..
by Anonymous | reply 67 | August 15, 2022 3:03 PM |
Disagree, R57. A strong/muscular and tall man is almost universally desired over a smaller, weaker man by straight women. I'm a woman and I've discussed this extensively with girlfriends - there is often an extra frisson of attraction there when he's noticeably bigger. Can you link anything (i.e. a study etc.) that says women in their child-bearing years prefer smaller men to larger ones, because that it the opposite of what I've noticed in my own life.
by Anonymous | reply 68 | August 16, 2022 2:57 AM |
Of course they do
by Anonymous | reply 69 | August 16, 2022 2:58 AM |
[quote] If some suburban 40 or 50-something lady wants some hachi-machi from the poolboy, I'm here for it.
You're "here" for the sex between an older lady and young guy? Is it goals? A bop? Are you loving it?
by Anonymous | reply 70 | August 16, 2022 3:03 AM |
Sometimes, they do. And so do their husbands.
by Anonymous | reply 71 | August 16, 2022 3:04 AM |
I've been party to these "who has the higher sex drive" "obviously men" "no, not obviously men" so many times and it's interesting and telling how little insight men have into female sexuality. Women too, actually, which is even sadder.
Has anyone here witnessed unsterilized stray cats? Have you seen a female in heat? It doesn't look anything like a horny tomcat. Tomcats are generally always horny, always on the prowl, it's part of being a tomcat. It's opportunistic. Female cats when not in season don't seem sexually motivated. But a female cat in heat is clearly needy for dick, and it doesn't express itself in a way that is similar to the male at all. Female cats lie down and stick their ass in the air, whimper, crawl along the ground etc. (it's actually creepily similar to watching a stripper in action). There's no hunt or pursuit action there, it's all 'I need dick come and get me, and please fight over me first so I get the biggest, strongest survivor to father my babies.'
Who could really say, without recourse to some instrument that accurately gauges horniness levels, that the tomcat is hornier or less horny than the female cat in heat?
by Anonymous | reply 72 | August 16, 2022 3:08 AM |
R57.. R56 here...
I was referring to older woman in my long post. It's been my experience at least at bodybuilding shows, that older women in their 40s, 50s, 60s and beyond were the ones who were going crazy gaga over the men on stage, NOT younger woman for the most part.
NO woman or very few of "mature age" is ever going to turn a invitation for sex with a handsome muscled young man half their age, especially when 1) they are not with anyone and 2) it's the young man whose doing the offer....IF they do it's because of their own sexual insecurity and insecurity elsewhere and perhaps a bit of wariness too. WHY is this man trying to seduce me of all people?
by Anonymous | reply 73 | August 16, 2022 12:34 PM |
R72 defo watched the movie 'Felidae' recently...
by Anonymous | reply 74 | August 16, 2022 12:44 PM |
[quote]They want some Billy.
Nope- Eddie all the way!
by Anonymous | reply 75 | August 17, 2022 11:34 PM |
Some do, there was a 53 yo making out with a 28 yo at my bar recently. But usually women would think it’s off putting to be boning someone their son’s age. It just ain’t fittin.
by Anonymous | reply 76 | August 17, 2022 11:43 PM |
yeah they do. women seem to get hornier in middle age
by Anonymous | reply 77 | August 17, 2022 11:46 PM |
Jennifer Coolidge made a career of playing horny middle-aged women on the hunt for young dick.
by Anonymous | reply 78 | August 18, 2022 12:08 AM |
R78 and she said after American Pie she slept with 200 men
by Anonymous | reply 79 | August 18, 2022 12:10 AM |
The dick posted by the OP is some primo meat.
by Anonymous | reply 80 | August 18, 2022 12:20 AM |
When I was in my 30s I liked guys in their 20s or their 40s. 40s, I liked guys in their 30s. same age range difference now that I am 50 wrt younger guys, wouldn't date someone much older than me.
I couldn't date or fuck someone my son's age or younger , that's nasty (he's 30) and they pretty much look like children to me. Unfortunately, it's pretty much guys in their 30s that dig me.
Also, I like a mountain of man. Give me a 6 foot 5 inch tall, broad shoulder guy and I will be happy.
by Anonymous | reply 81 | August 18, 2022 12:57 AM |
Rescue-chick, I'd never thought of you as having a son that old.
by Anonymous | reply 82 | August 18, 2022 7:27 AM |
And those other inches, Rescue?
by Anonymous | reply 83 | August 18, 2022 8:41 AM |
Stop
by Anonymous | reply 84 | August 18, 2022 8:46 AM |
bump
by Anonymous | reply 85 | August 19, 2022 2:27 AM |
Really I support 90% of what women trily want to do sexually, excluding of course the criminal or predatory from this.
Females are conditioned and directed and pressured from birth to pursue or accept sex that they don’t have a natural interest or desire for, much of it abusive or disempowering. Most conventional straight sex treats women as an afterthought or a passive participant. It’s systemic brainwashing and coercion far beyond mens’ imagining. Womens’ true sexual proclivities are practically deviant in and of themselves, because of this.
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