What do some homosexual men get out of dating heterosexual or bisexual?

Dick.

Because those "dates" are actually GAY and you know it!

If you don't get the appeal, you'll never understand that some people date others for something other than a label.

I dated a bisexual guy, because we had so many things in common (taste in music and movies, sense of humor, worked in the same profession).

We broke it off when he got a job in a different state, and we knew we couldn't do the long distance thing. But we are still friends and keep in touch.

Guys like OP are obsessed with seeing drama and conflict everywhere.

r3 guys? pretty sure that's a lesbian. They seem more invested in rooting out the bisexuals while at the same time screaming every woman should be a lesbian. On lchat, they're convinced bisexuals try to lead them to the dick yet they show a complete disconnect when it comes to the str8 rad fems that co-opt lesbian. so, it seems redundant.

On here, there seems to be a similar contingency that doesn't seem to understand how erections work... especially that most lads can fuck a watermelon without being attracted to watermelons. and that "gold star" gays don't hold any intrinsic value for a mere hookup. Unsurprisingly, for those it does... then they have a tendency to lead with talking points better suited to appealing to rightwing homophobes. . . and illustrating perfectly why no one wants to hook up with them. yes, unnecessary drama and conflict. the new moralists.

A standing cock has no conscience.

[quote] that's a lesbian. They seem more invested in rooting out the bisexuals while at the same time screaming every woman should be a lesbian. On lchat, they're convinced bisexuals try to lead them to the dick yet they show a complete disconnect when it comes to the str8 rad fems that co-opt lesbian.

False. I (a woman) occasionally post and lurk anonymously on L-Chat, and if you so much as say something admiring about a man or a flicker of non-sexual/romantic interest in what one is doing or saying for the purposes of discussion, you get a pack screaming "invader Bi! Invader Bi!!!!" at you until you either leave or stop posting in a way that makes any reference to a male. There's a group of particular mods and elite regulars who want to make it like Amazon Island.

Ironically, the majority also seem to hate so-called radfems and TERFS--more L-Chat posters than you'd expect or think have drunk the koolaid. These may be the drive-by interloping non-regular posters, though, as the case also seems to be here over on DL.

[R4] I’m a bottom with inferiority complex. Yes, I’m probably a gold star gay.

Whos' Mark Simpson?

[R8] Mark Simpson - the guy wants to have sex with real men.

If you are gay man like me who is attracted to masculine men then you will likely date a bisexual or heteronormative guy. Btw I will fuck twinks who are good looking, and not super queeny, but I generally do like girly acting men.

Make and save some mullah and move to a gay friendly city. Would it kill you?

R10 do you or don't you like the girly men?

R12, Don't. Sry for the typo.

[R10] Why do you want to be cumdump?

I think it's hot when I think about how my man fucks women on the side but I'd only allow it if he has gotten a vasectomy and gets tested regurlarly because the semen ducts can re-attach themselves.

I don't want to be unkind, but OP's syntax and lexis is too appalling to go unmentioned.

R16 please show they/them an example on how to write more syntaxi then. Some people are from African countries like me and want to learn proper English like the British. But we can't when only scolded!

Define "date"

You are an African country? That is what you just typed. That is called antecedent. The last noun "African countries" becomes the referent for "like me". To be clear, write: African people, including myself, want to learn.....

Peruse is a different word than pursue.

the intensifier is "too", not "to".

missing a verb in the clause "but what your self worth?"

You mean to type "men were trade" not men were "trades". In this meaning, "trade" is an uncountable noun, or perhaps should only be an adjective, thought plenty of people use it as a noun. Adjectives are never plural.

Your header would improve with the addition of the noun "men".

"What do some homosexual men get out of dating heterosexual or bisexual men?"

Another OP trying to make sex between straight and gay men happen. It’s doesn’t.

You asexual grammar trolls are not helping things. Stop trying to spread asexuality.

You don't date heterosexual men. You fuck them.

[quote] I know that gays worship masculinity

Aren't most heterosexuals prancing Marys?

You are more likely to find a masculine gay man than a masculine straight man.

R4 is an example of the homphobic bisexual supremacist who is so popular on Datalounge.

Why are women allowed to be biphobic? But if you want the same honor as a homosexual male, you’re the devil. It’s like heterosexual females are given the consideration when being picky about their partner’s sexual preferences?

Because bi and hetero men have higher social status than homosexual men. Homosexual men aren't real men; they're male-adjacent faeries who lay on fainting couches in ketchup-stained caftans with the vapors.

The hottest sex I ever had was with a bisexual security guard for high end places and private events. He was so fkin alpha. He would hurl racial insults as he made me eat his cum off his boot. The only top to make me cum hands free.

No gay man has ever dated a straight guy, except perhaps, in their own mind. Why wouldn’t a gay guy date a bi guy? Can’t see the problem.

Do you guys really want to compete with a vagina? Lol. Bisexual men always say that it feels better. Why would you want to put your ego through that?

I don’t know why gay men think Straight men date them.

EGO BOOST. NATURALLY MUSCLED BODY. LEGS THAT HAVE ROAMED THE FOOTBALL FIELDS. A ROUGH POUNDING THAT DOESN'T KNOW AN A-HOLE FROM A PUSSY AND BELIEVES HE CAN JACKHAMMER AWAY. BLOOD STAINS ON YOUR WHITIES FOR A FEW DAYS (sigh). THE RARE PLEASURE OF BEING WITH A REAL MAN, A MAN WHO DOESN'T FILL THE ROOM WITH FLYING PURSES EVERYTIME HE ORDERS YOU TO SUCK IT. CALLOUS HANDS. BEFORE THE FINAL GHOSTING, A FEW TEXTS STATING AGAIN THAT NO, YOU CAN NEVER SEE HIM AGAIN BECAUSE GIRLFRIEND. GREAT MEMORIES. Need I say more , OP ?

Hotness, conventional masculinity

My bisexual ex cheated on me with a woman and got her pregnant. He left me for her.

I find bisexual men are less dramatic and more masculine. Most men are selfish including gay men, so I don't get the hysterical fear over bi men cheating and leaving as if gay men don't do that to each other. Bi men aren't privileged unless they choose to live as straight men. But then again gay men will do that too though aren't as convincing due to lack of attraction to vagina. Many bi men prefer men as we see many on Grindr, Scruff and Sniffies.

So, you think bisexual people shouldn’t date, OP?

R37 They should date straight:bisexual women or females. Besides, they all said that vaginal sex is better than anal.

As if gay men don’t cheat. Moreover, a lot of Gay men don’t even aspire to be conventionally monogamous for life

Bisexual men can date whoever they want. And even if they claim vaginal sex is better than anal they also say gay men give better blowjobs than straight women.

Bisexuals claim vagina is better than anal?

Gay men who are not dating "straight" men , OP.

Even gay men who had sex with women say vaginal sex is more physically pleasurable than anal sex

Really? Wow. Huh.

However, many straight men who have received oral sex from men report that men are technically better at giving oral sex, although straight men obviously are more attracted to women partners during this act

That’s fascinating that gay men prefer vagina to anal.

Rather, bisexual men.

[quote]straight men who have received oral sex from men

Bisexual men.

It makes sense that vagjnal is more physically pleasurable for men. Vaginas have natural lubrication

Ah. Wow. I mean, Exodus International needs to get on this. What about man-made vagines?

As someone who has had sex with a few ostensibly straight men, I find it’s always the nellies and total bottoms who obsess about the man being straight and the idea that they’ve “turned” someone.

Men who fall along the mean of the masculinity spectrum just get their nut and say “Huh, that surprised me” and then go about their lives.

But that’s a huge number or percentage of gay men. Just look at all the social media posts regarding luring straight men

R43, those men are #FAKEGAY

If men can claim to be women, gay men can claim they’ve had sex with straight guys. We live in cuckoo world. But gay men claim they’ve had sex with straight guys forever. Since the dawn of gay men. Gay men are kook.

It has everything to do with proving you're sexy and powerful enough to get a straight guy to not only get it up for you, but risk his reputation by going all the way.

lolz ^^^ nuke NOW!

R55, true but I think the straight male is valued because he’s viewed as a real man and more manly

Many straight guys are really not all that masculine.

Some aren’t

OP it sounds like no one ever wants to date you, period. I hope your life improves.

OP, they get nothing cause they don’t date them.