My coworker’s gf is a lesbian

Cuz the gay person is lying to them or used to and now they feel stuck.

If they're fucking, neither one of them is a lesbian.

If they're just roommates who cares?

OP straight men have always had a lesbian fantasy

perhaps she's a political lesbian....

does she hate women that are sexually attracted to other women and can't shutup talking about the evils of gays and trans?

There is also the hasbian -- a title thrown on all the "Chasing Amy" types - or most of those famous bi-dykes in the day that ended up in str8 relationships. This includes the likes of Susie Bright, Ani Difranco, Me'shell Ndegeocello (or whatever name she is going on since her last spirit quest. Though, she was always unapologetically butch and bisexual.)

Gold stars are valued by lesbian politics but in play, they're usually uppity cunts with more ego than appeal.

It's a pity Ms. Bright's blog was moved to the stacks.

perhaps eventually I'll find the right moment using the wayback machine to find it

but she had decent point to make on "Hasbians and other worn out slut pride" along with the seuxal invisibility that comes with age

Oh, that was quicker than I expected.. got the year right just didn't scroll far enough down:

[quote]If they're fucking, neither one of them is a lesbian.

Don't be such a bigot, maybe the coworker feels like lesbian trapped in male body.