Fisting

Hey! I have been thinking about fisting. I am really into fisting porn.

I really want to try it

Fisting with forearms is for amateurs. Foot fisting is where the fun is

oh dear god, no rosebud pics pls

Is it fisting when you add finger, they want another, but suddenly your entire hand is being sucked in and your struggling to pull your arm out, pleading for help but your screams are drowned out by mournful howls of KD Lang playing in the background?

It’s an interesting culture. I’ve fisted a number of men. I’ve even been fisted twice (didn’t enjoy it enough to do it again).

Some men absolutely love it. I honestly don’t believe the feeling is sexual more than it is an out of body experience.

Yes, I partaken. My circle of friends (none of whom partook) referred to it as "puppetry". I used to be a popular puppeteer.

Like the former guy, I have small hands and long arms. Getting beyond the second sphincter was a piece of cake.

Lots of white collar, clean cut guys are really into ff.

It's a big no for me. And I am not prudish at all. But fisting is just a bridge too far me.

I can't even watch it in porn. Not even sure why. But it makes me very uncomfortable.

Oddly enough, I love watching dildo play.

fucking gross

who wants your anus sagging down to the ground?

I don't understand these extreme fetishes

R10 it’s not extreme anymore

Yeah I have OP, why do you ask

The urban legends of not being able to hold your poop are phony. I've fisted and been fisted by men well into their 60s and 70s who have no issues with that. It's a scare tactic to keep fisting a deep, dark taboo. The first guy who ever fisted me was a doctor and he explained that it wasn't as horrible as most think it is unless they're doing it with a razor spiked glove or something.

Yes and humans taste like roast pork, r13. It doesn't mean I'd take a dinner recommendation from a cannibal.

I saw some hot definitely straight looking guy wearing this T-shirt and from a distance I thought it said FIST RUMP a Veteran.

It feels good on the prostate.

It does not. And foot fisting is way more fun

I’m mixing up a squeeze bottle of X Lube as a write this.

I’m a week and half out from my 3 weeks since my monkeypox vaccination. I can’t do anything sexual with another guy until then. So I’m working on sitting on bigger and bigger butt plugs tonight, it hopes that I’ll be ready to take fist by Folsom in September.

Foot fisting? Can you get athletes asshole from it?

That's how I got Hugh's wedding ring.

It fucking hurts like hell

No. But am very much into hole play with my guy right now and thinking it might be time to try a little more of a stretch for both.

Are you the stretcher or the stretchee, R22?

Why do you ask OP?

Never again, I had a guy clamp so hard down on my wrist that I sprained it, his ass was like a vice grip.

Disgusting.

R5 You're kind of a champ for going back for that second fisting sesh. I imagine it's something that you either really like or really don't. Nobody can ever say you didn't give it a good try.

I am really interested in the incidence of psychological/psychiatric disorders or disturbances, along with hard substance abuse, with predilection for fisting (v, other sexual fetishes or behaviors).

Had an ex girlfriend who wanted it in her vag though. Did it a few times. She seemed to get off on it but it was just weird.

R28 gramps is scandalized

Fisting went mainstream years ago

Now go back to your coma

Mainstream? Uh no, you methed up ugly twink.

The vast majority of fistees have unresolved mental problems and / or drug addictions.

Lol ^

Right gramps

Have you actually had conversations with men under the age of 65?

r33 women for that matter.

or rarchers over 65.

R33, I have no idea what circles you run in, but as a mid 30s millennial homo in nyc (that also gets worse plenty of ass on the regular), none that I am in consider fisting to be on any level “mainstream.” You’re a fucking freak, dear (and likely fugly with a meth problem) - consider help?

^ Gets plenty. Not worse 😏

The fucking gramps troll is so tiresome. Just block him already

Op = methed up ugly parTy Twink with blown out hole.

How much in diapers do you send in a week, op?!

R33 types like a monkey pox super spreader bossy bottom kaween

Let us guess R30, anyone who disagrees with you (or doesn’t want to fuck your purple-haired pre-op dainty body, for that matter) is a “sex negative gramps”?

I only fist my Uncle Sam.

Oh! Uhhhhh . . . fisTing . . . not fisHing . . . hmmmm . . .

Too rough. I like vanilla sex with affection.

R43 same here only more so. I dont like anything rough, but especially not my men

R28 actually that would make a really interesting research paper, I would like to see if someone has collected and correlated the data

R32 we dont know one way or another at this point

"The first guy who ever fisted me was a doctor..."

Is it covered by insurance?

R28 closest research paper I could find that matches your query was this one

Fisting disgusts me. I'm 69 years old and there have always been things about gay sexuality I've just never gotten the allure of. Fisting, scat & piss are the top 3. Personally I find oral/anal disgusting as well, but I can at least see how some can get turned on by it. But fisting (at least what I've seen in porn) looks more like some sort of surgical procedure. The bottoms may be getting off on it, but the tops always look completely bored. If both parties don't look turned on I lose interest fast.

I guess I'm just a boring vanilla gay at heart.

So one day, years ago, I was at a beer bust at my local faggot bar, and started chatting with a leather daddy who was open to conversation. we went on for hours. I'm not attracted to that lifestyle from what I see in real life, but I get it. If I could create what I wanted, I would be fully into it. Anyway, he eventually opened up about the intimacy of fisting and gaining trust. He and his sub had been together for 17 years, and he was there sort of licking his wound, and at a loss emotionally. It was actually a pretty interesting conversation.

I played around with a it little in my party-boy days. It's sort of an extreme sport, like climbing Half-Dome or whatever. But it takes a lot of preparation and makes sex into a big production that I don't want anymore. A good old plowing is all this kween occasionally needs to keep her head on right.

Even as a bottom, I prefer to fist. Still a virgin on getting fisted

[quote]Personally I find oral/anal disgusting

Come again, R47? Or is that also out of bounds?

I love assplay, fingering and stretching. The right technique can make me feel like heaven. Fisting, however, is too much

[quote]but as a mid 30s millennial homo in nyc

Oh my sides

Gramps is triggered

And, r25, you last saw your mid 30s 40 years ago and you’ve not left the county of your long ago birth in Flyoverstan in your life

R53 is so triggered upon realizing that few gays aren’t as mentally ill as she is

I've never been fisted but my last prostate exam hurt like hell, that was just a finger, I can't imagine a whole fist.

For a real rush. Instead of using a fist. Try holding and inserting a German chocolate cake.

[quote]she

The only worse thing that hick judgemental impotent senile geezers is effeminate hick judgemental impotent senile geezers

^ you’re ugly, poz, meth-addled, have a prolapsed hole and can’t get laid except from extreme fetish chasers like fisters. We get it and pity you dear.

Is this a parody gramps? ^

[quote]his ass was like a vice grip.

Unless he was a cop, I assume you meant VISE grip.

Str8 guys like it too (NSFW).

I'm not the type to judge someone for their sexual preferences, as long as it is legal and between consenting adults.

Miami "Vice." I was always suspicious of those guys.

R23. Both. I've never even fucked a guy, but have bottomed a lot. My guy has never taken a cock but lately has really been into me playing with his hole and slightly stretching him, until I get four fingers in. He says he wants to eventually let me fuck his virgin (to cock) hole, which I can't wait to. But in the meantime, I'm having a lot of fun hearing him moan and groan while I enter one, then two, then three and four fingers. I want him to do the same to me. But not sure I could take a whole fist.

"I'm not the type to judge someone for their sexual preferences, as long as it is legal and between consenting adults."

Bryan Singer at his last trial...

As with most kinks, the practicie is largely heterosexual, followed by women on women (performative or otherwise), and then male on male. Ine very group it's only a small subset but male homosexuality and practices have always been pushed into the spotlight to explain away their own gui.t and shame.

However, like testing, gay men are the most likely of any sexual demographic to seek medical help for sexual issues. . .

and the novelty/stigma of homosexuals leads to these stories being spread more..

As now many believe the entire 70s and gay men was all leather and fisting too, some might say that was "Cruising" (1980) effect or in some fringes of radical feminism, the continual, unchanging, whine from political lesbians. . . along with exploitations by the religious reich.

There was a thread a while go about two men outed by getting stuck together that people were asking if it was real. It was a production by anti-gay pastor that routinely does this to show the stupidity and evils of the homosexuals... which then of course, he later "saves"

“ As with most kinks, the practicie is largely heterosexual, followed by women on women (performative or otherwise), and then male on male.”

Yeah I don’t buy this. Definitely don’t as far as relative %s are concerned. Nonsense.

R66 Have you ever been to an actual old school gay leather/bdsm establishment? The type that is all male? There's nothing comparable in the het world. I'm not saying that to demonize anyone. I think it's hot. But to point out this does or at least did exist within the world of some gay men is not some conspiracy theory.

I would love to fist Tim Tebow

[quote] I've fisted and been fisted by men well into their 60s and 70s who have no issues with that.

Now THERE'S an image I could have happily spent my life without.

Ick.

“I've fisted and been fisted by men well into their 60s and 70s who have no issues with [holding their bowels]”.

As far as the other men are concerned, how would you uh actually know that? Are you observing their assholes literally 24/7 to truly know, or are you just going by what they tell you? You realize they could be very well full of shit (excuse the ironic pun), right?

I could never get a hand on fisting.

So what exactly is the thought process when deciding about fisting?

For the fister: "Hey, I would really like to shove my whole arm up some guy's shitty asshole and possibly cause irreparable damage to his gastrointestinal tract?"

Or for the fistee: "Hey, I'd really like some guy to shove his arm all the way up my asshole because of my deep psychological problems. I'm sure he won't cause permanent damage to my GI tract."

Will the monkeypox virus produce a surge of fisting?

The monkeypox virus will mutate into a 100% fatality rate through shitting into your mouth r74

“Look ma, no hand”

It's not my favourite thing to do but I've fisted guys that are really into it. It is incredible how much some guys enjoy it. Not for me but if someone really wants it (and is prepped etc) then sure.

Just never appealed to me - it doesn't disgust me, just doesn't interest me at all and I don't really have any inclination to try it as a result. As a fister, that would be - there's absolutely no way I would ever want to be fisted.

Vroom vroooooom!

I’ve been reading this thread for the past few days. I wasn’t going to comment, but here I am. I’m 61, single, and nearly celibate. I’ve pretty much lost interest in sex. I’ve never been fisted, but I was frequently a fister. My ex liked to be fisted and I loved the sensation of my hand and part of my arm being inside him. It wasn’t the kind of rough sex that’s often shown in videos and there was no punching. With my hand inside him, I’d lay my head on his chest and we’d exchange endearments. The sensation was of being one entity together. It was incredibly intimate and loving. After more than 11 years, my promiscuity ended our relationship. Now, I miss those days of loving intimacy.

When I became single I had a few years of extreme promiscuity in LA’s fisting community. It was almost like a brotherhood and we’d exchange contact information about fistees and have fisting orgies. This was nearly 15 years ago. I remember that bottoms in those days were always careful in their preparation and were very clean. Later, though, there was more carelessness and even an attitude that a bit of messiness was part of the game. I could be very understanding at someone’s inadvertently poor preparation, but not when it was deliberate.

Although my ex and I exchanged expressions of love when fisting, promiscuous fisting really lends itself to dirty talk. It’s really just a game, but most bottoms seemed to want it..

Here’s an excellent example of fun fisting with an ideal top and bottom. The fister, Roberto, is in LA and is a great guy.

R76 “Look, Ma, no hands” is more fun.

I'm R48 and R68. I was intoxicated, and did not express myself well. You're response, R80 expresses what I was sort of trying to convey. There's a very unusual level of intimacy that can't be replicated. I flubbed my retelling the conversation in r48,. He was the dom, and his sub had left him. They'd been together for 17 years. He was completely devastated. He went into the sexual aspects, but also the level of trust and overall sensation, and more than anything the intimacy.

I've been invited to a few after hours parties, but all have a policy of, if you're not going to play you are not going to stay. I have complete respect for that.

R82 Yes, truly affectionate fisting produces a high level of intimacy. It starts with an understanding of the limits of the bottom, doing only those things that please him (in the best fisting, everything should be tailored to the bottom’s pleasure), being alert to the bottom’s reactions, and expressing your pleasure in being allowed to enter him. It is an incredibly intense expression of love when done properly.

R83 pffffffft

[quote] Later, though, there was more carelessness and even an attitude that a bit of messiness was part of the game. I could be very understanding at someone’s inadvertently poor preparation, but not when it was deliberate.

I love the delicacy in your phrasing, Mary!

Thank you for telling your story DickieGreenleaf

You are treasure amongst all the rancid impotent fat sex negative fugs

Thank you R80 and R83 for giving us some deeper insight into this. I'm still not into it, but am re-evaluating my attitude a bit in the light of your very thoughtful and considered posts

You know you’ve taken it too far when the fister can clap his hands inside you.

R87 v8fairy!!! - I hadn’t realized you were part of the discussion on this thread. It’s nice you’re here. You may recall that I once joked about you fisting Nicolas.

R89 v8fairy - It may have been Awardwinner that I joked should fist Nicolas, but you’d do just as well.

In one of the Nicolas threads, you said he was your ideal body type. When I was more active, I found that twinks with more toned bodies were more likely to be into fisting, rather than those with Nicolas’ more pudgy physique. In my link at r80, that bottom’s physique is typical of twinks who like to be fisted. Incidentally, I know that kid. He’s now in Palm Springs.

Fisting isn’t complete without talk from both the top and the bottom. My style is to be dominant without being abusive. In general, bottoms really love this. Roberto is an expert at top-talk. You’d do well to listen to some of his sessions as a tutorial.

It really is the talking and intimacy that makes it special. It's not always the violent punch fucking you see in videos.

Yes. And he's still hasn't pulled out, even after the 2020 election.

It’s weird how some people get utterly obsessed with fisting. It’s all they will do

It's an extreme sport. We're proud to be corporate sponsors.

Where's the option for "I fisted myself"?

R95 there’s nothing more boring than self-fisting

R80, that’s not “intimacy” - that’s an unresolved mental issue lol

I really wonder what will be next on the menu for the freaks since they keep upping the ante in the bedroom. According to the non-binary Gen Z Prep troll, fisting is mainstream and basically a given now. Maybe next will be double fisting with occasional small intestine punching followed by piss-filled enemas?!

How very 2021, R98. The cool kids are all on bloodplay now.

[R80] and [R83] hit the nail on the head. It’s the sensual intimacy that connects fister and fistee that is such a turn on for me. When I fist, it’s the deep connection that you feel as you move deeper that is so appealing.

I haven't (yet), but I love watching fisting porn. Especially extreme prolapse play.

About 20 years ago, my bf at the time and I were pretty cocktailed and we went to bed…his ass was in the air begging for a couple of finges. Before I knew it, my fist was up there and he was loving it and came buckets.

He later told me he was on X at the time.

It only happened once, and his ass returned to the tight hole I’d always known.

[quote]Especially extreme prolapse play.

I would prefer not to.

R101, HungerFF is the most amazing fistee ever

[quote] It only happened once, and his ass returned to the tight hole I’d always known.

Presumably after surgery. Did you ever recover your lost signet ring?

That's the day they lost the toaster-oven.

R105. No surgery necessary…he was 24 at the time.

I t brought intimacy to my marriage with Doolittle , he preferred butter flavors althoug

There's just no greater intimacy between a married couple.

Fisting means never having to say I'm sorry.

I tried, but Maria had already shat all over me and Bernardo refused to buy more butter.

[Quote]Fisting means never having to say I'm sorry.

R110, Well, at least not in sign language.

r104 He really is. And ItalianXlff is addicted to munching on prolapses, so it's the perfect pairing.

^^^^

Disgusting

^ Ancient judgemental fag

I’m actually in my mid 30s, muscular, regularly told handsome, a top and get as much action as I want at really any given time.

Sorry you’re a diseased bottom with a butthole prolapsing to the bottom of the Atlantic Ocean. Yes, fisting is fckin nasty. 👊🏽 🕳

I hear BSC / Edveeeena and Dark Gemini make fisting vids together, is this true?

[quote] I’m actually in my mid 30s, muscular, regularly told handsome, a top and get as much action as I want at really any given time.

Why is it that this website attracts so many delusional and insane people?

^ Lol someone’s bitter

R114 - Bitches don't know how to swallow.

HungerFF rules L.A., but PunchB0y is the go-to fistee in NYC.

Shame he masks his face, but I saw it once in his collab with ItalianXlff, who forgot to mask both their faces towards the end of the video. Super cute. I wonder what he does for a living that he feels the need to hide his face. Probably a kindergarten teacher or something.

^ 🤢🤮

Ew.

FF

(that means Flames and Freaks)

It's what the bussy looks like from the inside. Lovett or leave it.