Why do so many slim gays feel embarrassed by their skinniness?

BAN OP....

stealth v8fairy thread

Not v8fairy

I'll bite. I was a skinny gay until I was about 24, I was always the smallest in my group of friends, EVERYONE would comment on my skinnyness at some point or another and even when it was a positive comment it just reminded me off how skinny I am, finally I felt weak. So I decided to change that, I began working out and adding muscle, I felt better, I looked better and other fit guys started showing interest.

Still a gay skinny guy. I'm very, very tall so it's always been difficult to gain. As if being the tallest person in any room from the age of about 15 on wasn't bad enough, I had and have not much meat on my bones. I would gladly change both.

I was a skinny gay until I was about 35. I was then a ripped and skinny Eldergay (really long limbs). It took a lot of work and money (i.e. trainer) to achieve just that.

I've just gone back to just being a skinny Eldergay.

I think the embarrassment came from "in order to have sex with someone who is ripped, I have to be ripped."

Don't complain, R5 and R6. It's easier to put on weight than to get rid of it, and some of us must exercise like crazy and count every single calorie in order to avoid looking like a gigantic blob of custard. I would much rather be skinny and tall than gain fat easily.

I’m not into Obese guys or muscular guys

ONLY slim guys.

Being a slim guy only really works until you're about 30, then you've got to make a choice; either be a muscle Mary or a big old bear. Nobody like's a twink past their peak.

R9- Just because someone is slim doesn’t mean they’re a twink

You sound limited- Bear 🐻

Twink

Muscle Mary .

Even if it shall not fit them? You're a moron op

They can't stay tweakers forever.

[quote]Nobody like's a twink past their peak.

Why the apostrophe?

I've been both and I like the way I look as a chonky bear more than a skinny twink. The only downside is I attract skinny twinks who want a daddy bear and I can't land another bear. They're all bear-married now. I curse the day the SC legalized bear marriage. I'm kidding of course, happy for all the married guys, but ALL the guys on apps that are my age and type are married but looking and I don't feel like being a home wrecking whore, so my pool is limited to skinny twinks. I can't even get a twunk, much less a lumbertwunk (which would be an acceptable sub for a single bear).

I was very skinny well into my 30s. I used to wear sweaters all the time to make me look chunkier, even in summer.

Now in my fifties I've thickened out (and look pretty butch because of it) and have to watch what I eat - I was very into candy and cake.

R15- Oooo , you’re so BUTCH.

Middle-aged spread hits everyone, thin guys do better because they just fill out nicely. Other guys just spread out ☹️

I had a friend in college who was very skinny, but worked out religiously. He ended up with some muscles attached right to his bones. It was not a good look.

I once saw a guy posted here on DL. He was a very slight handsome young man. All the gurls were saying how great he is. There were various videos and in one he walked away from the camera and he'd done so much work on his little body his thighs swung about as he walked. It was the most bizarre sight.

No pecs, no sex. That’s why.

[quote]even if it shan't suit them?

I think OP modeled his (her?) manner of speech after a lonely childhood watching Deanna Durbin movies.

^ Did you ever see Deanna Durbin in a turban?

^ Only once when I was drinking bourbon