Very Unattractive, Overweight Woman Freaks Out When Hot Bumble Dude Doesn't Want to Date Her

He was rude and there are pretty fat girls. She's not one.

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That’s can’t really be her chin, right? Like a bottle opener.

That's Jay Leno in drag.

I know this is like catnip for DL but she was totally right for saying what she did. All she did is compliment the guy / stroke his ego and he was a dick for literally no good reason. His responses were completely unnecessary.

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I am shocked by her face

R6, you sound like a very sad and miserable person.

It takes less time to write "Hey thanks for reaching out. After checking out your profile, I don't think we're a good match" than engage in that type of exchange.

Is it really that hard to be a decent human being? No wonder the world is the way it is.

He should've never responded. No response IS a response. Gays do that all the time on the apps.

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Dude was obviously white. A black guy would be all over her.

He’s a Catholic conservative with nice arms (seems to forget he has legs, too) and is alleged to be good looking.

Of course he’s going to be extremely dickish. He’s looking for a frau to grow old and cunt with, after littering the planet with their spawn.

She needs to grow thicker skin.

Thicker anything is the last thing she needs R13

R11, why are you so fired up about this woman? And what exactly was stated that implies manipulation on her part?

You type like a true incel — bitter, ugly and honestly, retarded. I would not be surprised in the least if you are thoroughly grotesque physically.

She overshot. She's just not a beauty. That's ok. But on an app based on pics she will have a hard time getting a more attractive fit guy. Sorry to break it to some of these women, but you are not all beautiful on the outside. Same with men. Not everyone gets to be hot or a 8-10. Deal with it. But don't go around whining because someone told you they want someone who has more in the looks department. Life ain't fair. Suck it up and move on. I'm not much to look at that's for damn sure.

R9 has it right.

DARKGEMINILORD types like the next school shooter.

I think I'm a little dyslexic, I always read it as Dark Minge Lord

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It says they were a bumble "match" how does that work?

Well, you and me both then, R19, because until you pointed out that it wasn't their name, I thought it was too!

This is so much easier in the gay world where everyone knows roughly where they place on the fuckability totem. I would never in a million years message a 10 or a 9 because why would I put myself through automatic rejection? But fraus like her get confused, they think that maybe the guy will fuck a fat chick or is desperate or something, resulting in awkward situations like this one.

R20, it’s ok, I’m sorry you have such a small pee pee. Therapy can help cope… hugs ❤️

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She has the Brooklyn Seacow look.

Of course most of you are defending the self-proclaimed conservative Catholic asshole who probably hates gay people because he has good arms.

Dark Gemini Lord you have serious small dick energy

Situations like these occur when parents act as insane hypemen for their children. No one said to call the heifer or changeling you birthed an uglet but you have to help them understand reality and accept it with grace.

Also, we’re losing out on the power of shame. If either of these two had been raised with shame, there’d be no article.

r27 None of that has got anything to do with the fact that she overreached and she got burned. It's as simple as that.

She is deluded and while his response was not tactful, the world is filling up with fat garden-spade-faced girls trolling for sympathy when they aim too high and get burned. I shouldn't feel much shame for getting 'exposed' by this woman who spends her days casting a very fucking optimistic net and wouldn't be at all hesitate to shame him into a fuck or a selfie or her rich fantasy about herself. She's not beautiful, she's not a catch, and she's not an innocent victim.

The guy wasn't trolling Bumble looking for ugly fat girls to insult. That would be rude. But coming on too fast and too strong to someone whom you've not the slightest fucking reason in the world to think will be receptive to your clumsy overtures is not asking for ''let me down gently' responses; it's going all in on the risk realizing how unlikely a jackpot would be and that the response might be rude in kind with her venturesomeness.

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Don’t both parties have to MATCH to begin chatting on bumble? Thereby totally obviating the ridiculous points above attacking the female (ie she was punching above her weight etc)?

[quote]self-proclaimed conservative Catholic asshole who probably hates gay people because he has good arms.

Maybe that's what she found attractive.

I see the rejection she received which is ugly but I see no evidence of a hot guy. He looks fit in his pics.

r24 & r28 What has his cock size have to do with the simple fact that he happens to hold a different opinion than you? Are you twelve or something?

R30, he chose to be an asshole when he didn't need to. Yeah, let's pretend all you hotties never tried to snag a guy above your looks. Grow up and stop defending people just because they have a dick.

The world of het'rosexuals is a sick and boring life.

He could have said, no, without the insults. That wasn't necessary. Asshole who is very full of himself. Kindness and courtesy no longer exists anymore. The shittier you are...the better.

[quote]After showing a screengrab of the conversation, the woman goes on to display a series of photos of the single bloke, including his social media pages such as LinkedIn and Facebook. In the caption she wrote: "Someone come get ur man :) linking his Facebook and LinkedIn in the comments if any of the girls wanna chance with this king he’s single!"

It's hilarious she's trying to act like she isn't bothered, and yet she actually looked him up on FB and LI and then posted the links to both so her fellow fatties could go after him, and no doubt try to get him fired, etc.

r37 I'm not hot and I think his rude reply was unnecessary. However, she made a rookie mistake and you want to pretend like she didn't.

Don’t you need to match on Bumble before one person can initiate a chat? Or has something changed recently?

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Sometimes fat ugly stalkers need to be reminded that they're fat ugly stalkers.

Is Dark Mini = Bk Seacow under a different alias?

Everyone here can tell that you're the type to waaaaay overestimate your own looks, so yes you certainly have. He was a rude fuck and I hope he gets doxxed and piled on and loses everthing. It's the only way for pricks like this to learn anything.

Getting total pre-fame Courtney Love vibes from her.

R46 = fat ugly stalker

Agree r46, it is both interesting and hilarious seeing him (or her) get so worked about this random woman and rabidly defending the blatant douche. Lol

I suspect this is BK Seacow’s newest alias

That chin..

Hey; retard at R6. Considering this was Bumble, that means the guy MATCHED WITH HER BEFORE SHE MESSAGED HIM.

I read the Sun article and he didn't have to attack her looks. Like someone mentioned earlier, if he wasn't interested all he had to do was not respond.

He could have been nicer for sure. But yes, she does need to lose weight. And yes, she is very unattractive. But she reminds me of this butt ass ugly "friend" who lost a shit ton of weight but it still ugly. But all her fat little girlfriends tell her how gorgeous she is all the time. She's not at all. She's a 2 and I'm being kind. She just needs to accept the reality of what she looks like and what she has to offer (nothing) and go from there...

[quote]Don’t both parties have to MATCH to begin chatting on bumble?

I believe so. Usually with a premium account, you can see who liked you and match if you fancy. I'm guessing this was the case, and that his ego was so bruised by being liked by someone like her, he matched with her just to let her know she could never. He's a cunt. And she's pathetic for the stalker-esque overreaction. Both are losers, and ironically are perfect for each other.

OMG she's descended from the Hohenzollerns.

If this was her 'attractive' pic for the Bumble profile, what does she look like in reality?!

Someone find her @ since The Sun decided not to share.

You all are hilarious. So, she's ridiculous to go for the hot guy but you're also mad all the time because you see all these hot guys with ugly fat women when they should obviously be dating your beautiful manholes instead. Delusional.

He is an obnoxious imbecile who doesn't know how to behave like a civilized human being, but she is delusional. No one has the obligation to find her desirable and there was no need to try and destroy him just because he has rejected her.

R54 is right: they are both insufferable narcissists. The only difference is that he is fit and she is fat. Moreover, I strongly doubt that if she were thin, she'd be nice about being approached by a fat guy. The algorithm works perfectly well and it correctly matched two people who are ugly on the inside: arrogant, self-centered, vindictive, petty and puerile.

Since the world began,hot people get pursued,ugly people have to work at it to get any attention. It aint nice but its just a fact of life. You bitches defending this unfortunate looking girl need to contact her and fuck her yourself. I was fortunate to be okay looking enough to get great looking guys,but even I knew to stay in my lane.

Did some of you miss the part where he wasn't looking for a fuckbuddy but a wedding date?

R60, you fail to account for the fact that he matched with her

Wow, r61, I missed that too.

[quote]Did some of you miss the part where he wasn't looking for a fuckbuddy but a wedding date?

He's essentially looking for an escort but doesn't want to pay. And she's deluded enough to think a guy like him would be happy to parade her around in front of his family and friends. I'm calling this one a draw.

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R46, now that I think about in my own personal life - the gay guys who usually (at least out loud) overestimate their looks are the first to diss and trash people like the woman featured in this article. Most of the truly, physically handsome guys I know don’t lash out like some in this thread.

R64, then why did he swipe right on her? Oh just to humiliate and insult her when she messaged? Got it.

You and the other small dicked BK Sea Cow aka Dark Gemini belong together

Actually he told her the truth and she couldnt handle it,a truth that should have been told to her by her parents. If she lost weight she would have alot better chances of majing a good match. She just wants to scream to the world how unwoke he is abd she thought it would shame him. Wake up little girlie.

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*** BK SEACOW ALERT 🚨 ***

You can't be a 2 and expect to get a serious response by messaging a 7.

You can blame Lizzo for all these fat slobs acting overconfident and entitled.

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She needs a permanent Covid mask.

[quote]"I'm so sorry some men are so terrible sis, you are gorgeous," said another.

These people responding to her on TikTok aren't helping by feeding her delusions.

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Small dicked Seacow d/b/a Dark Gemini, tell us how many bags of Cheetos have you gone through today?

Her chin would probably look even bigger if she lost weight. She's in Rumer Willis territory.

She looks like a man

^ prob more of a man than BK Seacow now dba as Dark Gemini. Maybe this is why they are so triggered so much?! Reminds them of their shortcomings as a man.

She should be d/b/a La Gordita Puta!

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He shouldn’t have responded and just blocked her. Bitch about her all you want (and I agree to an extent) but only a complete asshole would take the time to send something nasty to a stranger on bumble who sent an innocuous message.

Also his profile said conservative politically which usually translates to a MAGA fool.

I don’t understand why these girls post these stupid tik toks though. For the love of Christ.

I'm very tired of modern society. You hurt my feelings online, so I am going to post your info everywhere, including your LinkedIn, in hopes you will get fired.

Yes, that is a proportionate response.

He's an asshole, but so is she.

R83, it’s ok seacow. We know you are physically repulsive and therefore need to project onto others your repulsiveness.

You will be single forever and die alone. Trashing random fat women online won’t change that. Carry on.

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Ha! I too always thought it was 'Dark Minge Lord.'

Dark Minge Lord hasn't denied he is also Edvvina aka BSC.

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Lol the title of this thread is so harsh 😂 “very unattractive”

R90, aka dark edge lord wannabe aka Edvvvina aka unfuckable BK seacow that is obsessed with defending random muscled white guys that will never fuck his ugly fat chola ass.

Has your papi thrown a Corona bottle at your fat head today in your cramped basement studio apt in the bowels of BK?

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What did she think he was going to do? Ask her out on a date? She must be delusional if she thought a hot guy would want to jump her bones. She sounds like a vindictive bitch. The guy was right to firmly shut her down. And one of her supporters called her "gorgeous?! LOOK at her. That face is NOT "gorgeous."

^ You’re still ugly af and basically unfuckable though. You’re basically mad that you are the gay male equivalent of the woman featured in this article lmao

Oh dear.

Dog faced bitch got what she deserved.

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is that cow of the sea in drag?

i'm not reading all this.

R82, La Gordita Puta would actually be *the* perfect name for DGL aka BSC aka Edvv1na.

If she approached him at a bar and said, "Let's go fuck in your car" she would have at least gotten laid.

This is not really any different than when Edvvina messaged Aaron Schock about wanting to eat his ass.

People want to objectify pretty people but get all crazy if you do it to the ugly ones.

Wow that Schock chat is better than anything else in this thread!

he must have used harrison's pics.

R5 Women behave like this ALL the time to men. I wouldn’t be surprised if we looked at her others messages, she’s said the same shit to guys who are fat and ugly like her.

If she was a man she looks like what women refer to as a creep. But she’s a woman so she’s a victim for attempting to shoot a shot out with a guy of her league.

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It is so weird seeing a straight woman get this mad over rejection. That lashing out shit is really telling; it is a very entitled way to approach dating.

He was a little rude and childish, and she thinks it is a good idea to tell random strangers where he works. Scary bitch. He wouldv've been hounded/fired for doing that.

like that welsh cow on the plane.

it will come back and bite her fat ass.

R108 Uglies, fatties, and trannies have created a new form of rape culture in this modern age of liberalism.

It’s the “I’m gross and if you don’t like me, then you’re a bad person” liberalism.

R110, I'll never understand this attitude. I understand social media elevates the loud and obnoxious people though.

Learning to move on quickly and reject nostalgia/what-if scenarios are so important if you want to be a sane adult.

Every shitty rejection can't rattle you like this. Now I'm curious what this loser is like in real life. I'm getting a high school dropout, serial job quitter vibe.

R111 Well we’re living in a “everyone gets a trophy” and glorified for being fat and ugly in the media, or being a woman with a cock. We’re living in an emotional vs logical state right now too. Nothing makes sense, it’s all emotionally driven.

He needs to stop skipping leg day.

I think her fug face is worse than her fat. Fat, you can fix.

I think that DarkGeminiLord's portrayal of the woman as a wrongdoer in her own right probably comes from the fact that she's the one who's claiming to be a victim despite numerous missteps.

I don't think that takes away from the rudeness of the hot guy's response which is so open-and-shut as to be unworthy of further discussion.

When you’re single, you have to put yourself out there and try. Rejection is a part of life. He was mean, and I winced at his first response. However, she was wrong to put him on blast and publicly shame him. Deal with the rejection and move on. Also, her face is painful to look at.

The ugly sow can take only what crumbs fall from the table. With no chance of a choice morsel in the form of a pity fuck from someone out of her league, she turns to shaming others that she might receive another form of crumbs, hollow platitudes about how brave and gorgeous she is from strangers seduced by the dad story she engineered.

If she can't feel beautiful and desired, she can manipulate bystanders into pitying her and piling on false compliments.

She will not be ignored.

[quote]I think her fug face is worse than her fat. Fat, you can fix.

Exactly, all the working out in the world won't shave that chin down or reduce the size of that nose.

He set her off. But . . . Doxing him is a really low act. The whole dick in the ass thing was totally uncalled for and says everything we need to know about the VUOW.

I know nothing of Bumble but this article say it is up to women to make first contact with men.

She needs a lot of plastic surgery at the very least

It doesn’t cost anything to be kind.

She's still not as ugly as Khloe Kardashian used to be, so there's always hope.

She puts the rash in trash.

That guy has been doxxed and has a successful lawsuit against the woman who doxxed him and the publications that published his screenname, age and the name of the university he attends.

He isn't required to be kind anymore than she's required to look attractive.

[quote] The ugly sow can take only what crumbs fall from the table. With no chance of a choice morsel in the form of a pity fuck from someone out of her league, she turns to shaming others

[quote] She will not be ignored.

Are we still talking about the unfortunate looking fat girl?

She's a great big fat person

OP- That sounds like a LOT of queens here on the datalounge- Overweight, Unattractive FREAK OUT when the HOT guy doesn't want to date or fuck them.

R3- She must be related to Jay Leno he has the same type of MILE LONG chin.

R128 you forgot to add “straight”

Her face is hideous. That nose and chin!

[quote]She needs to grow thicker skin.

So does everyone on here, too. People in the comments are more emotionally upset about this than she obviously was, and she actually spoke with him.

[quote]That guy has been doxxed and has a successful lawsuit against the woman who doxxed him

A successful lawsuit already? Gosh, that seems so believable.

a potentially successful lawsuit, feeling better about yourself now?

[quote][R90], aka dark edge lord wannabe aka Edvvvina aka unfuckable BK seacow that is obsessed with defending random muscled white guys that will never fuck his ugly fat chola ass.

I liked it when someone thought his screen name was Dark MINGE Lord, it sounded like they genuinely misread it. Now that's all I see when he posts in a thread.

Got a link to the news about how he's already filed a lawsuit against her, or nah?

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[quote]It doesn’t cost anything to be kind.

That's what we thought.

So if I’m following this correctly:

- they both matched with each other (specifically, HE also swiped right to match with her) - after mutually matching, she messages him - he then insults her in return for her compliments - the various DL fuglies and incels including BK Seacow defend the guy insulting her because she should’ve “known better”… despite the fact that they literally matched with each other (putting aside the obvious that *even if they did not match and if she sent him an unsolicited compliment of that nature,* his insults in response were still unwarranted).

Did I miss anything?

Lol I see BK Seacow is still at it. Listen. The MAGAt White Boy who dissed her will never fuck your fat ugly Hispanic ass…. Sorry papi…

R6 you sound like a garbage human being

Her Reply (Get the DICK out of your ASS) was homophobic.....They are both lousy people.

R23- There are plenty of queens- including here on the datalounge that hope against hope that the Young, Good looking, Masculine, Muscular, White Guy will be interested in them despite the fact that they wear a XXXL Caftan and sit at home all day watching Golden Girls and The Nanny reruns while sitting in their LA-Z-Boy recliner wolfing down Haagen Dazs Vanilla Milk Almond Ice Creams -15 Pack they bought at Costco.

I NEVER heard of Bumble before tonight.

This is my preferred Bumble -

R112- That's because nowadays NOTHING MATTERS AND ANYTHING GOES

R137 Women always expose their homophobia when they get mad at straight men. Homosexuality is degrading to women, that’s why they use it as an insult against men. And they’re the same women who go to gay clubs and have gay “besties” and believe in marriage equality.

But a straight guy pisses off a straight woman and she’ll tell him she hopes he gets raped by another man.

But of course, rape culture is only anti-female! Patriarchy!

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R142 too bad so many gays don't have a sense of humor

DL, you’re slipping. You’re so distracted by his bicep size that you overlook his grammar?

“weigh less *than* me.”

His response about her weight is the typical young male response. In the Bower book about Meghan Markle, there’s the bit where Meghan Markle doesn’t like the conversation of Harry’s friends. That’s the way young guys talk. Some grow out of it, some don’t.

If we’re seeing the entire response, nothing said before it, her opening line is a bit clumsy. She’s trying to keep it light and funny, but it kind of comes across as being patronizing.

I wonder if the picture we’re seeing is the same picture she leads with in her profile? There has to be a reason they matched. I wonder if she uses a fake picture?

Finally, ask yourself why this guy has to use a dating app to find someone to go to a wedding with? Dude is gay, but not out to family and friends.

Lots of hateful comments from so many DL folks. No one is surprised.

The guy has an undergraduate degree, but doesn’t know the difference between “than” and “then”?

Beta fems and beta men should stop trying to reach for alpha men and women, just date and fuck eachother because you're going to end up alone otherwise.

At least skidmarks weren't involved

R146 Yup, str8 women use homophobia to humiliate men, especially str8 men.

I want whatever she was smoking to make her think that she could land that guy.

Lesbians would find her hot.

Even Gerard Depardieu in drag was more attractive.

He's missed his chance to go out with royalty. You can't tell me she isn't descended from the Habsburgs with that jaw.

I’m as ugly as her and gay. I understand the frustrations. No attractive man will give me the time of day.

R160- Useless without photos. Let's see a photo of you.

Would you date guys in your league?

I'm just checking in to say that I, too, thought his name was DARK MINGE LORD.

R161 I mean the only men who message me are 55+ and fat so no. That isn't even my league, I am in my 30s average build.

Yes, he was unnecessarily rude. But it can be disconcerting to be propositioned by a potato.

R163- I was at a bathhouse Saturday night and this guy with a HUGE stomach gave me an attitude. I was impressed that this FAT OLD guy thinks he's in a position to give me an attitude.

She is clueless for:

1. Thinking he would be interested in her; and

2. Then publicizing her humiliation.

The guy was rude but the woman is also hideous and presumptuous with her initial contact. I get she was trying to be cute and flirty, but when you are that unattractive, you are not able to be cute and flirty right off the bat until you know the person is receptive to it.

I am so tired of people taking things that are mildly exceptional things that disturb them and then blowing them up to get revenge via social media. She knew what she was doing and that she could very well get him fired or in other major trouble, all for the crime of being rude to her approaching him on a dating app.

She sounds like a coddled narcissist who thinks her shit doesn't stink and that her unattractiveness is somehow a virtue. And everyone who is trying to comfort her and tell her she's beautiful is just adding to that narcissism and lack of maturity. She had an unpleasant jolt of reality and now she can retreat safely back into her cocoon.

I actually think she is far more awful than the guy, - he was a jerk, but he wasn't trying to ruin her life.

R24 is basically her, in DL form. Note the childish response to logic.

And yes her remarks were also homophobic, in addition to everything else.

There's an episode of Bewitched when Samantha turns herself into a stereotypical WITCH with the long chin and all. This broad looks just like that .

First let me just say FUCK she's ugly. Like if Peter Griffin came to life in drag, ugly.

If she's that oblivious to that, then she needed to experience this rejection to bring her back down to the objective reality of her appearance. Didn't seem to work though given her attempts to blow this guy's life up which [Bold]is not a proportionate response[/Bold].

And what did he say that was so offensive to her in the first place? He didnt call her ugly (which she fucking is in spades), he was simply honest with her about not dating women who are heavier than him.

This sow's reaction to him makes her ugly on the inside too. He should sue the fuck out of her.

She could get to the gym all she likes but there's no saving that face!

Her only hope is distracting men with a hot body in the hopes they won't look up.

The guy was a jerk, but did his behaviour really warrant public shaming? He’s honestly not attracted to her because of her weight. I assume one of the reasons why she is attracted to him is the fact that he’s not overweight. The fact that he said it to her so bluntly is objectionable, but the sentiment itself is not something he needs to be shamed for. It’s not in any way equivalent to harassing somebody because if their race or using racial slurs. Has she never been rude to anyone in her life?

Even realistic Peter Griffin is more attractive!

She is PAINFULLY unattractive.

R171 without a doubt she has, given her penchant to go directly for the homophobia in attacking him and then trying to get him fired / cancelled.

She's an immature narcissist and I bet she terrorizes the people around her, besides from her appearance.

Is she a Habsburg?

Bumble's new controversy, besides hosting this Rubenesque potato, is not letting nonbinary people message women first. They have, of course, since relented.

[quote]Founded in 2014 by early Tinder co-founder Whitney Wolfe Herd, dating app Bumble's claim to fame was that women "make the first move" — meaning that for straight couples, only women can message their matches first.

[quote]Eight years later, discussions around gender and sexuality look a lot different. Now, the app is changing its gender options and nonbinary experience in a partnership with LGBTQ rights organization GLAAD. For matches with at least one nonbinary person, either person can message first. When talking to men, women still make the first move. Further, Bumble BFF users can now connect with people of any gender, whereas previously they could only match with users of the same gender.

So now it's just like every other dating app.

I think that every hot person should be required to fuck a certain percentage of ugly people.

Ugly Lives Matter!

R46 is bloodthirsty. Totally disproportionate response. Social media has created a generation of perpetual children.

so, gay men really do hate females due to jealousy? This thread makes it quite clear!

Dark Minge Lord is the only person in this thread brave enough to use his signature line and of course he's getting attacked by the toddler "hurt durr you have a small diq" and accused of all sorts of shit for it, like being the troll name du jour, Brooklyn Seacow.

Last time it used to be E_win, but the troll-accuser troll obsessively accused everyone of being him to the point that the name itself got stricken from the DL. Now it seems he has moved on to a new troll name he is going to overuse and get banned.

R180 where is the jealousy? Serious question.

I think they should all be canceled for calling each other "Fam" and "Bestie" and "King."

Fucking idiots.

"fam" is popular among straight guys who work out at the gym a lot. He is saying "I am a straight man".

With her use of "come get ur man", "dude", "king", etc. she is saying "I'm that woman who pretends to be just one of the guys, also I'm ghetto trash."

Odd The Sun has this story published in 2021 but The Mirror has it in 2022? What's the point of that unless it was rewritten by a bot or something.

Ginger Minge Lord is way too invested in policing who should fuck who. It reeks of incel self-loathing.

I find it so fascinating that "body positive" fat girls never drool over fat guys, but they get salty when fit guys don't drool over them.

It's the same dynamic with trans women who are always claiming "trans women are women" but they always want to have sex with cis women and whine about "the cotton ceiling."

Well, she's annihilated any small chance she could have hoped with a guy at this point. No guy wants to date a woman so evidently crazy she'll try ruin your life if you anger her and take any relationship drama out into the social media world.

Actually r186, you troll(s) using multiple accounts to trash him seem more like obsessives who are mad he made some good points but EXTRA mad he disagrees with you, and therefore you immediately go for the ad hominem attacks because you can't stand it.

You guy(s) come across as the immature tools here, not him. Seriously, you should rethink life. (I say trolls becausd I'm not convinced it isn't just one of you posting from multiple accounts).

You're also targing him because he uses his signature line, something you aren't brave enough to do.

[quote]"I'm so sorry some men are terrible sis u r gorgeous."

The comments she got back on TikTok are so fucking basic frau. I'm surprised she didn't get hashtagged as a #ladyboss #bossbabe.

R187 a very valid point. Why isn't she going after the large men? Does she find them gross?

Someone said she was gorgeous? If her personality weren't rather repugnant, I wouldn't say anything. I look at her and think "God is cruel"

[quote] You are boring and pathetic.

The lunacy and irony of the Seacow saying this.....the one who stalks men he finds attractive and follows them around to take pictures of them? The one who can't let 20 minutes go by without a post about some rando or another being a "king?"

Irony died and broke into a million fucking pieces.

R60- How were you able to get Great looking guys if you were only ok looking ?

r176, see r159 and click the link.

R178 I agree!

VERY UNATTRACTIVE!

Is that chin real? Serious question.

Was anyone able to find her dating profile pic? I'm guessing she catfishes men given he swiped right on her.

R172, a whole generation of grotesquely overweight and violently ugly women have been told that they are goddesses straight down from Mount Olympus.

The double standards are quite ridiculous . We would never have this story with the sexes reversed because

a) no-one tells fat men that they (or should that be we?!) are sexy, so no man would have the audacity to approach a woman where the attractiveness disparity was this great, and

b) if a man was treated this way, it would not get the positive coverage that this hog is getting. It's a vicious cycle because this story will encourage more young heifers to mistake themselves for beauties.

I ain't gonna go through 199 comments to see if anyone actually commented similar to mine but the guy could've been "nice" and just make up a non offensive reason why he didn't want to go out with her or simply ignore her. He didn't have to comment like that. Has a huge ego and that's a turn off. And no I'm not a fat woman, I'm an attractive guy, mid 30s and in shape.

R194 I was being modest. I was called good looking many times over my life ,but I also had a very outgoing personality plus I had the great gift of never giving a fuck what others thought,so confidence factored in as well.Alas,Im an old toad now ,but back in the day...!

I’m of two ways on this.... she must be really confident to to go after a guy like that (assuming those are his real pics) because she is unattractive. She shouldn’t have publicly shamed him either, so petty. Like move on and forget it. However, he could’ve have been a little nicer in the rejection or just ghosted her.

[quote]a) no-one tells fat men that they (or should that be we?!) are sexy, so no man would have the audacity to approach a woman where the attractiveness disparity was this great...

You have got to be kidding. It's so common, it's literally a cliche.

David Crosby made an ungracious response to fan art, the comments are hilarious.

Being rude always backfires

This thread is like a set of fun house mirrors - half the posters are either the Seacow or his sock puppets.

This is like Lizzo's "cute" obsession with Chris Evans. You're supposed to look past her blubber to see her inner beauty (or even see her blubber as beautiful!), when she herself is just as shallow as anyone and only wants men with chiseled jaws and big muscles and minimal bodyfat.

Lol R205, I was just going to say the same thing. It is obvious Seacow aka Dark Small Penis Lord is literally 3/4 of the posts here. Does Seacow have anything else to do on a Monday?

So many ugly fat incels on here so invested on trashing a random fat woman.

Anyone have any recent pics of Seacow?

Jaylyn Leno. At least I bet she has a nice antique car.

When this happens to me I just write it off as their loss not mine

It may be a cliché, R203, but is it actually all that common?

That some find it hard to believe that a dude intentionally swiped right on a woman just to humiliate her is some extreme naïveté. It might not happen nearly as much with men seeking men, but I’ve seen straight up psychopathic shit from my (fit and attractive) female friends’ dating app inboxes.

And no, I don’t think it is possible for her to catfish him because (unless I’m mistaken) the pics he saw before swiping right will be the same ones he sees after the match is confirmed (unless of course she managed to change them all within that timeframe….)

She's crazy for letting it get to her and looking up the guy on social media etc, but I do admit the guy was rude to her, even by gay app standards. And people are saying Bumble is one of those where both have to swipe right? That turns this into bullying, IMO. And I'm the last one that normally stands up for chicks like this. People have to be realistic, etc. But that's not cool.

R214 both need to match, but the woman is required to send the first message in order to start a conversation. For hetero matching on that app, this has always the case.

It’s also worth noting that her first message re: the wedding is obviously referring to what he had wrote in his profile re needing a wedding date.

Is there such a thing as CHIN reduction surgery?

If so it will help improve her looks immeasurably.

This thread EXHAUSTS me.

Some real assholes on here defending this douchebag. If you don't find someone attractive on a dating app, then you ignore it. It's one thing if she messaged him multiple times or approached him multiple times in person. One complimentary message does not indicate someone is being narcissistic.

And tbh, hot straight men do not necessarily get hot women. If they are losers with low social value they can only get ugly women a lot of the time. So it's not out of the realm of possibility that they are a match.

Actually the fact that he had to go on a dating app to score a date for a wedding despite his good looks would indicate he is in fact unattractive to women. Most likely related to his shitty personality.

His profile clearly indicates he’s a conservative douche bag, why reach out to him? How are they a match? Why would a smart liberal woman hit on someone who is a clearly conservative religious and wants babies?

That’s like hitting on Aaron Shock knowing what an asshole he is and then being shocked and devastated to find out he’s a douche even though you already know he is.

R218- If he were gay he would be a perfect candidate to be on DOUCHEBAGS OF GRINDR

This gentleman was no gentle man. He was very rude to this poor girl who only had nice things to say to him. And then, he has to go telling her the truth about what 'lipstick on a pig' really means. Poor dear!

Someone upthread hit the nail on the head: he’s looking for an escort without having to pay.

There’s something wrong with this guy: he’s either a buttaface, insecure about his penis size, speaks only in MAGA/GQP talking points or all three.

He doesn't get that his poor manners and impulse control are why he can't get a date yet if he had enough social intelligence to understand that women don't want to be seen in public with a man who is a social embarrassment, then he could easily get one. He's being done in by his own ignorance and his inability to understand his ignorance.

I love the mental image of an army of fatsies harassing him online while he continues to hook up with hot chicks. Knowing fraus, he'll get even more pussy now that this fiasco has given him an air of exclusivity. Much like with trains feeling entitled to gay cock, you simply cannot doxx and cancel people into changing their preferences so they'll (pity) fuck you.

"Know your place and don't overreach" is the first and the most important rule of all hookup/dating apps.

Oh, leave the HR Pufnstuf character alone.

I'm sure she is aware of what she looks like, body positivity only goes so far. I think she contacted him with the purpose of making a TikTok and gaining some 'clout.'

And yeah, that guy would never have invited her to a wedding, but he would have fucked her, why do you think they matched? Straight men will fuck anything as long as no one finds out about it.

Where does she get her confidence from? And why the fuck is this considered newsworthy?

The guy was right in insulting her.

Homophobic cunt. She deserves that nasty-ass mug.

She should attend the casting call for Shrek 5.

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[quote]He isn't required to be kind

He also isn't required to match with someone online in order to open a conversation with her just to insult her. That is really low behaviour.

[quote]It might not happen nearly as much with men seeking men

I think that while it probably does, we're all so used to the idea that there are weirdos out on these profiles that we brush it off a lot easier, perhaps?

Anyway, I can see why she was hurt. I can also see that she should never have continued escalating the matter, and yeah the homophobia sucks. So, they're both garbage people? Maybe they ARE suited to each other!

Cunts be cuntin.'

I can't imagine bringing her to a wedding. Even if every guest was blind the smells and sounds her body must produce would send people rushing for the exits.

She looks like a foot with a face.

R233 she approached him, not the other way around.

R235 she looks like she farts when she walks and thinks it's funny and endearing.

Not clear how Bumble works. Did he have to click "Like" or something to say he liked her profile for her to IM him?

How did she get his real name and LI profiles?

It does seem like this whole doxxing this is going overboard where people try to get others fired just because they don't like what they said. Imagine if we could've done that to anyone who yelled "fag"?

R225 he will get a lot of women who agree with him about this walking overstuffed sofa, and they also find the aggressive way he dealt with her attractive because it means he's probably a hot fuck in bed.

we need dick pics (how big? c or uc?)

Even in the movies when the "ugly" girl gets the hot, popular guy, the girl is just wearing glasses or frumpy clothing to make her "ugly."

This is just ridiculous on her part. Absolutely delusional woman.

If the genders were reversed and this were a beautiful girl dishing out the same bitchy responses to some thirsty, ugly, fat dude that couldn't take a hint, it would be on the front page of Reddit overflowing with awards and "you go, girrrrrrl" ass kissing.

You just shouldn't troll dating apps for hot cock if you have a face for the radio.

And she'll blame everyone but herself when no one wants to date her, after she's shown herself as vindictive and destructive.

A nice man (not the Bumble match guy, he's a douchebag) could have looked past her weight and chin. But trying to ruin someone's life like that? Good luck with that, lady. Only hot chicks can get away with being publicly bitchy and crazy and still have str8 guys fall all over themselves to get them.

FFS, people are crazy nowadays.

No, R242. I don't agree with that. If he were being nice and she was nasty towards him, people wouldn't defend it.

[quote] I love the mental image of an army of fatsies harassing him online while he continues to hook up with hot chicks. Knowing fraus, he'll get even more pussy now that this fiasco has given him an air of exclusivity.

R225 you truly don't understand women.

Nor do you R246. NEVER underestimate the power of the appeal a Bad Boy has to straight women.

Unattractive people have feelings too.

R247 you are an ignorant gay man who isn't even into women. Telling a woman she needs to lose weight does not make one a "bad boy" in the eyes of women nor does it give him an air of exclusivity. A man who has to go on an app to scare up a date is not scoring hot chicks either, that's for sure.

You know nothing and you sound foolish.

Someone like her is supposed to hook up with the mass shooter from Hyland Park

[quote] And then, he has to go telling her the truth about what 'lipstick on a pig' really means.

LOL

Something about the GIF really freaks me out.

If this woman went on the swan and their plastic surgeons somehow managed to transform her into something somewhat attractive and nothing but the male equivalents to her old self messaged her and sent her compliments she would be completely disgusted.

Oh stop it with the fake scenarios. I don't know why gay men are always so off the mark about women but no way in hell are women disgusted at physically unattractive men hitting on them. Especially if they are women who used to be fat or ugly.

It's completely a male thing to get offended at being approached by someone you consider physically unattractive.

R254 - I agree with you. But there are many unattractive women with attractive men. I have my own theory on why that happens but I give her credit for taking a shot. She shot and she did not score.

South Korean plastic surgery could make a beauty of her. But it's very painful, and not cheap, i imagine

He WAS being nice by saying her weight was the reason he wasn't interested. He could have also commented on her busted face, but didn't.

I want to hear your theory, R255! I find the phenomenon of attractive men with unattractive women to be quite baffling.

You’re terribly wrong, R254. No woman wants to be hit on by a he-beast, even if she was once the size of minivan with a face that could crack glass. The past is the past…straight men are usually extremely stupid and focus on the now.

They will crawl over up-turned knives to get pussy, especially if it’s attached to a hot woman; when they’re turned down because they’re ugly, fat or broke (if you have money, the first two will be ignored in many cases), you get an incel. The Chin is the female equivalent.

Honestly, there are tons of Black guys that will fuck her and her lantern jaw into next week but she must like frat boys; I know her type well. How embarrassing that some MAGA douchebro took delight in making her realize she’s delusional.

She stole my chin!

The phenomenon of hot men with ugly women is easy to explain. Those men have low social value. They're dumb or uneducated or poor or have bad manners. And on and on.

R259- Lisa Lampinelli said in her 2008 HBO special that she's goes out with black guys because she can't get good looking white guys anymore- ( though I doubt she ever could).

R254: ‘no way in hell are women disgusted at physically unattractive men hitting on them. Especially if they are women who used to be fat or ugly. It's completely a male thing to get offended at being approached by someone you consider physically unattractive.’

Are you serious? Most of the women moaning as part of the the ‘me too’ bollocks from a few years ago did so because they considered the man who hit on them not attractive enough to do so. They wouldn’t have cared if it was a hot guy hitting on them, touching their leg briefly, etc.

Not to mention just general day to day life. Women are way more offended by getting hit on than men are.

Many women didn’t seem to mind hooking up with Harvey Weinstein.

She can’t get good looking white guys because she fucks black men, R262.

I will never forget being in a mixed group in college and some of the hot white guys saying they wouldn’t fuck (talk less date/marry) a white girl that sleeps with black guys. The white girls that were “having fun” with black guys looked like they wanted to die. I will never understand the concept of “slumming”.

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1. She needs to be called out for her gross homophobia, but I'm not surprised that's being ignored by the woke idiots 'Yass Gurl!'-ing her.

2. Can people screeching the 'he matched herrrrrr' STFU for a second and consider the very realistic possibility that he matched her because she shared images on her profile that were filtered and photoshopped into making her actually look slimmer and attractive?

3. She looks like Shrek. NOT Fiona, but Shrek. To have the confidence of a mediocre, overweight Zoomer with more sass than sense...

r87, to be fair, Cleopatra was uglier than sin, so they have that in common.

R263 you are completely misremembering. Countless good looking men got outed during me too, Casey Affleck, Matt Lauer, James Franco, Louis CK, off the top of my head.

Tell me this doesn't look like her:

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^ how many beer bottles has your papi thrown at your fat head today Edvviiina?

There's a reason why the bumble dude is single....he's an asshole.

Yea women never marry or date assholes..

Sometimes I think you people only interact with others via the internet.

R273, and they certainly wouldn’t vote for Trump over Clinton…

Lol at those claiming women don’t like assholes.

Here is her tiktok if anyone is interested. Surprisingly she isn't even as fat and not in her mid30s (bio says born in 99) as I expected based on the picture in the article.

I notice you didn’t mention her not being as unattractive as you previously thought, R276.

[Quote]Surprisingly she isn't even as fat

R276 Maybe she films herself with the thinning camera.

La Gordita Puta doesn't cry tears when hot dudes shut her down....she just goes to Popeye's and eats her feelings!

Shes really not fat,and a nose job would help her tremendously ! That being said,shes still a sad ass cunt.

She is very vain and has no clue that she is unattractive.

I looked at her TikTok and she still looks like a monster.

She looks better than the pic in the article might have you believe. However, she's still a psycho for trying to ruin him, and he's still a cunt for the cruel words he used to turn her down. His double-down was worse than his initial "only chicks who weigh less than me," which was blunt and dismissive, but not quite as mean as his follow-up comments, though in this day and age, I've seen meaner. But that's the reality of dating. Sometimes you encounter assholes, and sometimes you encounter people who might try to ruin you for being an asshole. A cautionary tale for all. Just be kind, y'all.