Gay men in caftans: Have you ever spotted one in the flesh?
In all my years, I've only once spotted one in the wild, at a gay block yard sale in Philadelphia, of all places.
The cliché is firmly established. We've seen them in film and TV, but how many have you seen in the flesh? Are they unicorns of a sort?
What about your sightings?
by Anonymous | reply 19 | July 11, 2022 9:48 PM
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I'm sure I once saw a picture of a caftaned Merv Griffin that may have started it all, but it seems to have disappeared from the web.
by Anonymous | reply 1 | July 10, 2022 9:57 AM
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I have only heard of the caftan meme on this website, much less seen a gay man actually wearing one in real life.
by Anonymous | reply 2 | July 10, 2022 10:11 AM
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I own one. Does that count?
by Anonymous | reply 3 | July 10, 2022 10:54 AM
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Wasn't it more of a 60s/70s thing?
(Which would explain why it became a meme on DL)
by Anonymous | reply 4 | July 10, 2022 10:57 AM
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I've mentioned this before. One of my boyfriends was a pawnbroker and occasionally did house calls to the rich and famous. Usually it was during non-business hours when someone needed a lot of cash for some reason. There were a couple of times when we already had plans, so he ended up taking me me along with him. One of these times, we went to Merv Griffin's house in Trousdale Estates. Merv came out dressed in a caftan.
by Anonymous | reply 5 | July 10, 2022 11:37 AM
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No, but I wear them. FWIW, I'm a woman. I've seen Arabic men wearing gowns, in real life, but I don't think those were caftans or that the men were gay. I could be wrong.
by Anonymous | reply 7 | July 10, 2022 12:51 PM
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I'm 58yo sgwm, as I enter my eldergay golden years, seems like caftans might be a comfortable option at some point, something breathable, lite weight, Colorful, as long as it makes me feel pretty. :-)
by Anonymous | reply 8 | July 10, 2022 1:09 PM
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[quote]I'm 58yo sgwm, as I enter my eldergay golden years,
Enter them? Oh, honey, that was 30 years ago.
by Anonymous | reply 9 | July 10, 2022 1:11 PM
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[quote]Gay men in caftans: Have you ever spotted one in the flesh?
Yes.
In the mirror!
by Anonymous | reply 11 | July 10, 2022 1:39 PM
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How very dare you! The queen of caftans-
SISTERFACE!
Her designs rival Dior.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 12 | July 10, 2022 1:54 PM
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Bitches, sarongs are where it’s at!
by Anonymous | reply 13 | July 10, 2022 3:56 PM
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I had a friend with benefits way back when I was young, he was a gorgeous Jewish queen and wore a long flowing mauve and gold floral caftan with hoop earrings and jewellery, he had beautiful long dark blond hair so he carried it off really well. It was easy to get off when I made love to him too! This was back in the 80's so he was a holdover from the caftan wearers of the 60's and 70's R4 mentions
by Anonymous | reply 14 | July 11, 2022 9:00 PM
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[quote] I have only heard of the caftan meme on this website, much less seen a gay man actually wearing one in real life.
Well, then you have indeed lived a very sheltered life.
Here in all its glory: a contemporary commercial from Kaftko advertising their fabulous wares... perfect for frolicking in the woods!
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 15 | July 11, 2022 9:04 PM
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I'm 68 and have only ever seen one person wearing a caftan...he was the biggest queen I've ever known...and that was around the mid-seventies.
by Anonymous | reply 16 | July 11, 2022 9:29 PM
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I’d wear a caftan if they made it in my size.
by Anonymous | reply 17 | July 11, 2022 9:38 PM
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One particular queen in our little village always wears them and posts images of him doing so on FB and other social media.
by Anonymous | reply 18 | July 11, 2022 9:39 PM
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