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Anderson Cooper Reveals How Richard Gere Helped Him Realize He's Gay: 'I Couldn't Speak'

Anderson Cooper is opening up about his sexual awakening.

The Anderson Cooper 360° host, 55, recounted how meeting a shirtless Richard Gere at age 11 helped him realize he was gay as he appeared Friday on Radio Andy with pal Andy Cohen from the historic Stonewall Inn in New York City.

He recalled meeting his mom Gloria Vanderbilt's gay friends as a kid, such as Truman Capote, Gore Vidal and photographer Paul Jasmin, who along with his boyfriend, took a young Cooper to see a Broadway show.

"And they took me to see Richard Gere in Bent, which if anyone doesn't know about the play Bent, it's about two gay guys in the concentration camp," Cooper recounted. "I mean the opening scene… It is the gayest thing you can imagine.

"And this was Richard Gere in 1977, Looking for Mr. Goodbar. He was so beautiful. And I'm there. My mom didn't go. It was just me and my mom's two gay friends," he continued.

Cooper explained that the opening scene features a man getting out of bed completely naked and putting on an SS uniform after sleeping with another man the night before.

"And I just remember being like, 'Oh my God, I'm gay. ... I'm totally gay.' And afterward, Paul Jasmin was friends with Richard Gere," he said. "Cause Paul Jasmin took the pictures for American Gigolo and we go backstage and Richard Gere is shirtless in his dressing room.

"And I couldn't speak. And I had my Playbill and I wanted to get him to autograph it, but I was too — I just couldn't stop staring his chest. And so, fast forward to 10 years ago, I was interviewing Richard Gere and I took out the Playbill ... and I told him the whole story and I had him sign it. Yeah. He was very tickled with it," Cooper added.

Cooper, who co-parents sons Wyatt Morgan, 2, and 4-month-old Sebastian Luke with ex-partner Benjamin Maisani, opened up to PEOPLE about their arrangement

"I've always believed that if you've been with somebody and that ends, in terms of an intimate relationship, if you love somebody, there's no reason why that love shouldn't continue," Cooper said in September.

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by Anonymousreply 70January 12, 2024 11:36 PM

Was this before or after the gerbil incident?

by Anonymousreply 1June 25, 2022 11:26 AM

I love Anderson's NY high society Gayling stories...

"He recalled meeting his mom Gloria Vanderbilt's gay friends as a kid, such as Truman Capote, Gore Vidal and photographer Paul Jasmin, who along with his boyfriend, took a young Cooper to see a Broadway show. "

Makes me feel so middle class 🙄

by Anonymousreply 2June 25, 2022 11:31 AM

Nepotism and glasses do a lot for a soul.

by Anonymousreply 3June 25, 2022 11:36 AM

I love Anderson. I always have. I always will. No one else compares.

by Anonymousreply 4June 25, 2022 11:38 AM

"Was this before or after the gerbil incident? "

"Anderson Cooper Reveals How Richard Gere Helped Him With Training His First Pet Gerbil, "Buttplug"

by Anonymousreply 5June 25, 2022 11:39 AM

This is extremely relatable for gays of a certain generation except for the part where he got to *go backstage and meet him*.

by Anonymousreply 6June 25, 2022 11:40 AM

"This is extremely relatable for gays of a certain generation"

Yeah, there was always excitement at our house when Mother had Truman Capote over for cocktails 😏

by Anonymousreply 7June 25, 2022 11:43 AM

[quote]"And this was Richard Gere in 1977.

Except it was late 1979.

I saw the show in April of 1980 and in the opening scene, an actor appears nude and walks across the stage with an enormous erection. The audience gasped. Unlike Anderson, I got my Playbill signed that night by Gere, even though he was ill during the performance. He was stunningly beautiful up close.

by Anonymousreply 8June 25, 2022 11:44 AM

"No one else compares."

Oh Mary R6--you should get out more if this guy is your paragon.

by Anonymousreply 9June 25, 2022 11:44 AM

An erection, R8? That would be a first for a Broadway production. The only erection on stage I ever heard tell of was some crappy OOB play called "Pied Pipers of the Lower East Side."

by Anonymousreply 10June 25, 2022 11:47 AM

^ I think "Oh, Calcutta" sported some hard ons

by Anonymousreply 11June 25, 2022 11:48 AM

He was already grey at 11.

by Anonymousreply 12June 25, 2022 11:50 AM

Seems like there would have been some kind of obscenity ordinance against actual erections on stage at that time.

by Anonymousreply 13June 25, 2022 11:51 AM

They took an 11year-old to see Bent? Eleven? EMEVEN!!!???? That’s waaaaayyyy to heavy for one so young. We’re they crazy?

by Anonymousreply 14June 25, 2022 11:51 AM

They were about to 'out' Miss Gere in around 1987 so it was quickly arranged to 'marry' her to the biggest carpet muncher in Hollywood, Cindy Crawford.

by Anonymousreply 15June 25, 2022 11:51 AM

Anderson Cooper turned 10 in 1977, not 11.

by Anonymousreply 16June 25, 2022 11:52 AM

@r14, No, they were sophisticated 😉

by Anonymousreply 17June 25, 2022 11:53 AM

The play was on Broadway in 1979, not 1977.

by Anonymousreply 18June 25, 2022 11:54 AM

He has a four-month old from an ex?

by Anonymousreply 19June 25, 2022 11:55 AM

^ Live in ex... It's complicated 🙄

by Anonymousreply 20June 25, 2022 11:58 AM

So he was 12. Better.

I assume the hard-on was accidental. The show must go on!

by Anonymousreply 21June 25, 2022 12:00 PM

I think Coopers rambling conflated 1977 with Looking for Mr. Goodbar which he mentions, and trampled over the fact that Bent was 1979.

by Anonymousreply 22June 25, 2022 12:00 PM

R14 see R12

by Anonymousreply 23June 25, 2022 12:01 PM

More gerbil stories, please.

by Anonymousreply 24June 25, 2022 12:04 PM

The gerbil story was fabricated by a rival actor jealous of the success Gere was enjoying at the moment. Making shit up and smearing it all over always works in a backwards under-educated country like the US.

by Anonymousreply 25June 25, 2022 12:05 PM

[quote] "They took an 11year-old to see Bent? Eleven? EMEVEN!!!???? That’s waaaaayyyy to heavy for one so young. We’re they crazy?"

I'm all for introducing kids to live theatre (I'm sure it wasn't Cooper's first time seeing live theatre), but I agree. The nudity, and the subject matter are too much for an eleven year-old. Even if "things were different" then. But the story is cute, anyway.

by Anonymousreply 26June 25, 2022 12:08 PM

Wow--R25 seeks to make a crack at the US by using the Richard Gere gerbil story. Oh, Mary--you're trying too hard.

by Anonymousreply 27June 25, 2022 12:10 PM

Coincidentally, even though I now identify as gay, I discovered masturbation by imagining my pillow was Cindy Crawford (around the time she was married to Richard Gere).

by Anonymousreply 28June 25, 2022 12:12 PM

there must be some kind of way out of here

by Anonymousreply 29June 25, 2022 12:15 PM

^ Says the guy who sits his ass on a US based Gay forum to act above it all 😂

by Anonymousreply 30June 25, 2022 12:17 PM

^ For r25

by Anonymousreply 31June 25, 2022 12:17 PM

It's unbelievable that R5 is what passes for wit here now.

by Anonymousreply 32June 25, 2022 12:18 PM

Who says I was acting above it all, Mary R30? Project much? And I could argue your ass is parked on the same "US based Gay forum."

by Anonymousreply 33June 25, 2022 12:19 PM

^ Because I'm in the US, Jackass

by Anonymousreply 34June 25, 2022 12:20 PM

Uh-huh, and? Boy, are you stupid, R34.

by Anonymousreply 35June 25, 2022 12:21 PM

@r32, Maybe DL isn't right for you. You and your doublewide seem much too grand for us

by Anonymousreply 36June 25, 2022 12:21 PM

@r35, and you're an unfuckable little bitch

by Anonymousreply 37June 25, 2022 12:22 PM

What a comeback, R37! Now fuck off, you silly gash.

by Anonymousreply 38June 25, 2022 12:25 PM

^ The poors are up early this morning 🙄

by Anonymousreply 39June 25, 2022 12:26 PM

@r38, Better run along you'll be late for your shop-bottom shift at Macy's

by Anonymousreply 40June 25, 2022 12:27 PM

Not sure where you get your info, R39--oh, wait, I do--out your ample ass. You're also up early this morning, need I point out, gashie.

by Anonymousreply 41June 25, 2022 12:27 PM

^ Have a lovely day at the mall, loser 😂

by Anonymousreply 42June 25, 2022 12:29 PM

Okay, stupid, R42! 😂 Now run along, cunt, and let the adults post.

by Anonymousreply 43June 25, 2022 12:30 PM

My mum had a crush on Gere too. I don't get the appeal all that much.

by Anonymousreply 44June 25, 2022 12:30 PM

Hey, r43, fat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life, son, but I guess we're too late

by Anonymousreply 45June 25, 2022 12:32 PM

Oh, dear, R45 is talking to herself again.

by Anonymousreply 46June 25, 2022 12:33 PM

@r44, He was pretty hot young, but his total lack of body hair was always kind of weird to me

by Anonymousreply 47June 25, 2022 12:33 PM

TMI. Nobody wants to know that you fapped to Richard Gere’s image. And then to tell him about it is stupid because it forces him to react to that information.

by Anonymousreply 48June 25, 2022 12:48 PM

"TMI. Nobody wants to know that you fapped to Richard Gere’s image."

Oh, Mary R48--where exactly are you posting on?

by Anonymousreply 49June 25, 2022 12:51 PM

Richard Gere “helped” me, too.

by Anonymousreply 50June 25, 2022 3:20 PM

[quote] Paul Jasmin, who along with his boyfriend, took a young Cooper to see a Broadway show.

GROOMER!!!

by Anonymousreply 51June 25, 2022 3:28 PM

Stud

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by Anonymousreply 52June 25, 2022 3:53 PM

So, Anderson spent his formative teen years jerking of to memories of shirtless Richard Gere?

by Anonymousreply 53June 25, 2022 4:45 PM

Count on it, R53.

by Anonymousreply 54June 25, 2022 4:46 PM

^ Hi, Anderson 😉

by Anonymousreply 55June 25, 2022 4:47 PM

R14 they were probably grooming him

by Anonymousreply 56June 25, 2022 5:22 PM

^ His mother let him go 🙄

by Anonymousreply 57June 25, 2022 5:24 PM

R57 that selfish bitch didn’t know what to do with AC

by Anonymousreply 58June 25, 2022 5:25 PM

R26 you know how they say “girls mature faster than boys”? The same applies to gays.

by Anonymousreply 59June 25, 2022 5:39 PM

[quote] there must be some kind of way out of here

Said the Bishop to the actress.

by Anonymousreply 60June 26, 2022 5:11 AM

For me it was Rick Springfield, but yeah a young Richard Gere would have totally worked for me too

by Anonymousreply 61June 26, 2022 5:54 AM

Didn't Gere take out a large newspaper ad declaring I'M NOT GAY! back in the day? He sounds insufferable.

by Anonymousreply 62June 26, 2022 6:05 AM

Miss Anderson is ancient, rich, and nellie!

by Anonymousreply 63June 26, 2022 6:15 AM

And happy.

by Anonymousreply 64June 26, 2022 6:23 AM

He’s such a fucking loser. No one wants to know what some 12 year old journalist was jerking off to.

by Anonymousreply 65June 26, 2022 12:36 PM

I always read here that Sly Stallone started the gerbil rumor.

by Anonymousreply 66June 26, 2022 4:01 PM

R65 AC is a loser? Lmao! Wtf are you?

by Anonymousreply 67June 26, 2022 4:33 PM

Stallone or Burt Reynolds.

by Anonymousreply 68June 26, 2022 5:50 PM

I'm watching LFMG for the first time. I have lots of thoughts but let's start with: Why is Richard Gere's Tony wearing a jock strap? Is this a thing straight guys wore in the 70's?

by Anonymousreply 69January 12, 2024 11:21 PM

AWWWWWWW

by Anonymousreply 70January 12, 2024 11:36 PM
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