This next generation needs to stop putting giant things up their assholes

Agreed!

OP, what prompted you to post this?

just waiting for this thread to derail into a debate between the size queens and goldilocks.

Also remember that if the dick is too small or skinny it works like a knife and will injure you!

Be safe!

OP is posting from the ER

Ugh, another micropenised top telling everyone else how they should live their lives. Hun, nobody wants your obese, nasty body and tiny dick, no screaming at strangers on the internet is going to change that.

R6 wow you're really unkind.

OP is right and people are delusional if they think a prolapse with nerve damage is okay and healthy.

New Zealanders. Never to be outdone.

Though the Brits do come in a very close second.

Listen people. This is all over porn now like bigger is better but you don’t see the aftermath.

It ain’t pretty.

Something for DL's legion of pro-lapsed to look forward to.

Porn is radicalizing our sexual norms. Things like fisting are fully mainstream and normalized now. It's lunacy, and it won't end well.

If you like big cocks then go for it but use plenty of lube, you have to think about it like a sports medicine thing, you don’t want to destroy your hole. I’m telling you too many people don’t talk about this. Its a slow, declining quality of life and even the repair surgeries can cause other problems and lead to more surgeries.

Just take care of “back there” with great care and forethought. It’s a treasured space. Just because you can’t readily see it doesn’t mean you shouldn’t value and take pride in your anal health.

I'm sure pron wasn't responsible for this. My nomination for this month's DL "What in the living fuck were you thinking???" award.

These younger men are just shoving any old thing up there anymore and it’s become an epidemic.

We need to talk about it and doctors need to tell the truth and share important facts about the dangers.

We just have to take a step back from the extreme sex and see if it’s really serving us or is it serving the tech companies, big Pharma and the surgical industry.

Kirk has been working it heavy on the threads, lately.

Also what’s with the slamming and pounding to the point of brushing the tailbone and ripping the anus to complete smithereens? Who thought that should be a trend? It’s terrible. Leave it in the porn. You don’t have to be a copycat and re-enact everything you see on screen. You’re not a monkey, are you? Use your brain.

It can not possibly feel good and even if it did for 15 minutes it’s not worth a lifetime of diapers.

OP is right and she should say it.

Whenever I get too stressed or don't eat well, a healed sore from a perianal fistula I got years ago (that the Doctor left to heal, not wanting to operate) flares up and hurts. Also, I sometimes get rectal pains and cramps, and have haemorrhoids/skin-tags on my hole that seem permanent. And that's not even from sex or shoving anything massive back there, but merely from ED-NOS related digital/paper purging behaviours I had in my teens and in College. Tbh, I'm worried that as I get older, into my forties and fifties, I'll lose continence or something. I really hope not.

So yeah, don't abuse your arse.

"ED-NOS related digital/paper purging behaviours" means what, exactly?

Take care of your hole, kids.

Perhaps OP could offer us some guidelines. For example, what qualifies as "giant"? We need measurements, sir. Be specific, and show your work.

Don’t use that rough course toilet paper or stuff with ribbing either. Thank me later

The goal is to keep everything nice and smooth back there. Take it easy. It’s a very sensitive space and should be treated as such. The anal tissue is delicate and all that pounding, poking and prodding is toughening up that tissue and can lead to permanent darkening and tearing/stretching/scarring and eventually worse.

Most depressing thread ever.

There are two or three different type of doctors you can go to try to restore what you can but the one people forget is dermatologists. They can help a lot “back there”. Just get up the courage to set up an appointment because many are on months long waiting lists.

Yes you will have to spread em wide for the doc but after a while you will do so with pride.

There there are rectal surgeons, and GI docs but some stop at the butthole so make sure you get one that will go there but they can do a lot so don’t give up hope. Not sure about urologist.

But for the next generation, prevention is the best medicine. Just don’t be in such a hurry to blow your hole out because it won’t ever be the same.

There do seem to be a lot of bottoms with a "Hold my beer" attitude.

More like "hold my beercan".

I’m pretty sure I’ve passed Amazon’s return-by date on that giant dildo. I guess I can use it as a paperweight. I sort of wish I hadn’t read all this but I already knew that thing was never going to fit.

:sigh:

^Why not gild it and make an objet d'art out of it?

r26 any major city that still has a concentrated gay pocket has a wide assortment of anal related docs advertising everywhere. . . it's generally obvious the better metro cities per nation, state, etc. -- WeHo is quite more open on their advertising for this than anywhere else in the states with Miami pulling up hard in the rear, Montreal apparently attracts more powerbottoms to their events vs Toronto (despite having more doc options) & Vancouver (seems most would rather take the train to Seattle), Australia has a bit of an oddity where Perth wins out (finally a winner of something) for your cosmetic and reconstructive anal needs. But given the history of Berlin, traffic cone sitters might consider exploring their options there first.

These ancient fags are on high alert because their PTSD is triggered by the younger generations sexual practices even though they’re at no risk of a blown out hole because they too old and too fat to have sex

Trolls exploit these geezers irrational fear like clockwork

Both saddening and hilarious

OP's butt plug is bothering him.

There is a guy in the gay "community" in the city where I live who truly believes he's not doing his "job" as a top unless he makes his bottoms bleed.

I currently work in an anorectal surgery practice. Please take care of yourself and avoid hemorrhoids and prolapse like the plague. They are not pretty and the recovery after surgery is not fun.

The mainstreaming of meth also normalized a lot of these behaviors.

r32 It's not the eldergays... most of them wouldn't say they're now into fisting as if it's the latest trend.

R35 any hot guys come through there?

Surely avoiding prolapse isn't THAT hard?

What prompted this, OP? Context is everything.

I'm pretty sure prolapse has become a gay porn category R39.

The OP, as always, is a incel troll r40

Some of you don’t believe large objects damage the rectum or you don’t care because you think it’s worth it?

[quote]with Miami pulling up hard in the rear

Pics, please!