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Are tops more likely to cheat in relationships than bottoms?

I just keep thinking about an amateur cheating video that was on Pornhub where a friend was riding the top and the fem bottom boyfriend came home and they panicked. It was a completely real video (does anyone have it?).

With all the bottoms in the world throwing themselves at tops, seems like it’s harder for them to keep it in their pants.

by Anonymousreply 42June 22, 2022 8:44 PM

No, OP.

Where's the video - sounds hot

by Anonymousreply 1June 20, 2022 2:11 PM

Hawt hung tops will always be in demand, thus having more opportunities to cheat, OP. Hungry bottoms are a dime a dozen.

Actually, tops don't even have to be hawt to cheat. Just hung.

by Anonymousreply 2June 20, 2022 2:13 PM

OP- This thread is useless without videos.

by Anonymousreply 3June 20, 2022 2:13 PM


It’s this video. Ignore the “wife” part, I don’t know why it says that.

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by Anonymousreply 4June 20, 2022 2:16 PM

R4 That's hot

by Anonymousreply 5June 20, 2022 2:22 PM

Actually, tops don't even have to be hung to cheat. Just tops.

by Anonymousreply 6June 20, 2022 2:27 PM

Lol at r4. It’s never good when you walk in the door and the first thing your partner says is ‘wait one second’.

by Anonymousreply 7June 20, 2022 2:32 PM

"So the one who's the man cheats more than the one who's the woman? Figures."

by Anonymousreply 8June 20, 2022 2:32 PM

Latest Gallup poll shows that bottoms are almost 80 times more likely to cheat than tops. The same study showed that the average number of sex partners for the average bottoms across all demographics is 132. For tops that number goes down to 94. The average age of the typical American bottom is 29. The average top age is 38.

by Anonymousreply 9June 20, 2022 2:37 PM

R9 Thank you - finally, some factual, research-based information

by Anonymousreply 10June 20, 2022 2:41 PM

This is a whole other thread, but how common is the phenomenon of bottoms "aging out" and becoming tops?

by Anonymousreply 11June 20, 2022 2:48 PM

That's cute, but Gallup doesn't have a poll about tops and bottoms.

by Anonymousreply 12June 20, 2022 3:16 PM

Go to Gallup, log into your account and search for the study. It's right there.

by Anonymousreply 13June 20, 2022 3:19 PM

R12 No way, really?

by Anonymousreply 14June 20, 2022 3:21 PM

r11 No idea, but I do know the other way around is pretty common, i.e. exclusive tops mellowing out as they age and becoming more vers. Especially when they get settled with a long-term partner they trust completely.

by Anonymousreply 15June 20, 2022 3:23 PM

Oh, please, there is no such Gallop pill because men are rarely exclusively top or bottom

by Anonymousreply 16June 20, 2022 3:48 PM

Bottoms just have to drop trou and present, so they are way more likely to cheat, at everything.

by Anonymousreply 17June 20, 2022 5:06 PM

Some of you guys are missing the sarcasm gene.

by Anonymousreply 18June 20, 2022 5:19 PM

"The same study showed that the average number of sex partners for the average bottoms across all demographics is 132. For tops that number goes down to 94. "

And you all dare calling Melania a whore.

by Anonymousreply 19June 20, 2022 7:13 PM

[QUOTE] Oh, please, there is no such Gallop pill

It’s been discontinued due to severe side effects.

by Anonymousreply 20June 20, 2022 8:52 PM

bottom does not automatically equal frau. . .

In my observations, among those that have an extended monogamous relationship... it's often more the top that is the reason for the decline in the couple's sex life.. this can be due to many factors but most commonly just the realities of aging. So, they go from a very active sex life to something more comparable to heterosexual couples but for many gay men moving from virtually daily to one to three times a week is the equivalent of lesbian bed death.

of course, there are circumstances in which the bottom may no longer to be able to comfortably, easily, bottom anally and in those circumstances, you're likely to see a top drift.

But this plays out more among those that are strictly or predominately bottom/tops than those that are more versatile (vers men are more likely to consider a third or otherwise having an open relationship at this stage). . . it's like while not every gay man is into anal, there's enough anecdotal and circumstantial evidence to suggest the majority are. . . and that this is important in their relationships. . . so, the loss of can create a serious impact to a relationship

younger gays are more likely to cheat in general but there are other factors to this, which is usually not knowing what they want or how to communicate it within their relationships. Same sex male couples tend to have the highest sexual compatibility compared to other couples but they still share in the same troubles of the communication problems and social pressures which separate or devalue sex in favor of greater idealistic aspects of the relationship in question. And this leads to inevitably seeking outside fulfillment.

Though we're also more likely to see it where one partner has a kink that the other partner firmly rejects, too.

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by Anonymousreply 21June 20, 2022 9:26 PM

I’m a Top and I won’t cheat on my bottom. Us Tops are good that way.

by Anonymousreply 22June 20, 2022 9:29 PM

I'm a side.

by Anonymousreply 23June 20, 2022 9:30 PM

Which famous guys are tops?

Which are bottoms?

by Anonymousreply 24June 20, 2022 9:41 PM

Bottoms are sluts.

by Anonymousreply 25June 20, 2022 10:30 PM

dl is filled with nasty shrill women and nasty gay fem bottoms.

by Anonymousreply 26June 20, 2022 11:41 PM

[QUOTE] Which famous guys are tops?

Luke Evans

by Anonymousreply 27June 20, 2022 11:49 PM

He said he'd never dirty his dick in me.

But he did.

by Anonymousreply 28June 20, 2022 11:52 PM

Inexperienced bottoms cheat more because the dick will get boring after a while

by Anonymousreply 29June 21, 2022 12:34 AM

My hole is so good, that I've able to put a lot of tops on lock. If you know how to take dick, your top won't cheat.

by Anonymousreply 30June 21, 2022 12:51 AM


They also have to clean out, which can take hours. Unless the top doesn’t mind shit on his dick.

by Anonymousreply 31June 21, 2022 1:03 AM

Not going to lie I love watching real videos of people getting caught cheating . I myself have never cheated

by Anonymousreply 32June 21, 2022 4:40 AM

[quote]R21 it's often more the top that is the reason for the decline in the couple's sex life..

Well, because of the constant [italic]shrieking[/italic] they’re exposed to as soon as they walk in the door.

It’s not romantic.

by Anonymousreply 33June 21, 2022 5:40 AM

Hours R31?

by Anonymousreply 34June 21, 2022 11:06 AM


by Anonymousreply 35June 21, 2022 11:53 AM

Bottoms are tops!

by Anonymousreply 36June 21, 2022 2:47 PM

If they take hours then how do they have time for sex with anyone?

by Anonymousreply 37June 22, 2022 3:53 PM

R37 hours could be 2 hours of douching until it’s clean. Only Erna likes a poopy hole.

by Anonymousreply 38June 22, 2022 5:40 PM

r9 [quote] The same study showed that the average number of sex partners for the average bottoms across all demographics is 132. For tops that number goes down to 94.

Is that per week or per month?

by Anonymousreply 39June 22, 2022 7:21 PM

Bottoms could theoretically take multiple cocks after one cleanout though.

by Anonymousreply 40June 22, 2022 8:39 PM

If I'm cleaning myself out thoroughly, I'm going for multiples, R40, with in-out-return privileges.

I mean, time management, after all.

by Anonymousreply 41June 22, 2022 8:42 PM

I don't stick my dick in anyone without first putting on a condom just for that reason.

by Anonymousreply 42June 22, 2022 8:44 PM
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