Are tops more likely to cheat in relationships than bottoms?
I just keep thinking about an amateur cheating video that was on Pornhub where a friend was riding the top and the fem bottom boyfriend came home and they panicked. It was a completely real video (does anyone have it?).
With all the bottoms in the world throwing themselves at tops, seems like it’s harder for them to keep it in their pants.
|by Anonymous||reply 42||June 22, 2022 8:44 PM
Where's the video - sounds hot
|by Anonymous||reply 1||June 20, 2022 2:11 PM
Hawt hung tops will always be in demand, thus having more opportunities to cheat, OP. Hungry bottoms are a dime a dozen.
Actually, tops don't even have to be hawt to cheat. Just hung.
|by Anonymous||reply 2||June 20, 2022 2:13 PM
OP- This thread is useless without videos.
|by Anonymous||reply 3||June 20, 2022 2:13 PM
It’s this video. Ignore the “wife” part, I don’t know why it says that.
|by Anonymous||reply 4||June 20, 2022 2:16 PM
Actually, tops don't even have to be hung to cheat. Just tops.
|by Anonymous||reply 6||June 20, 2022 2:27 PM
Lol at r4. It’s never good when you walk in the door and the first thing your partner says is ‘wait one second’.
|by Anonymous||reply 7||June 20, 2022 2:32 PM
"So the one who's the man cheats more than the one who's the woman? Figures."
|by Anonymous||reply 8||June 20, 2022 2:32 PM
Latest Gallup poll shows that bottoms are almost 80 times more likely to cheat than tops. The same study showed that the average number of sex partners for the average bottoms across all demographics is 132. For tops that number goes down to 94. The average age of the typical American bottom is 29. The average top age is 38.
|by Anonymous||reply 9||June 20, 2022 2:37 PM
R9 Thank you - finally, some factual, research-based information
|by Anonymous||reply 10||June 20, 2022 2:41 PM
This is a whole other thread, but how common is the phenomenon of bottoms "aging out" and becoming tops?
|by Anonymous||reply 11||June 20, 2022 2:48 PM
That's cute, but Gallup doesn't have a poll about tops and bottoms.
|by Anonymous||reply 12||June 20, 2022 3:16 PM
Go to Gallup, log into your account and search for the study. It's right there.
|by Anonymous||reply 13||June 20, 2022 3:19 PM
r11 No idea, but I do know the other way around is pretty common, i.e. exclusive tops mellowing out as they age and becoming more vers. Especially when they get settled with a long-term partner they trust completely.
|by Anonymous||reply 15||June 20, 2022 3:23 PM
Oh, please, there is no such Gallop pill because men are rarely exclusively top or bottom
|by Anonymous||reply 16||June 20, 2022 3:48 PM
Bottoms just have to drop trou and present, so they are way more likely to cheat, at everything.
|by Anonymous||reply 17||June 20, 2022 5:06 PM
Some of you guys are missing the sarcasm gene.
|by Anonymous||reply 18||June 20, 2022 5:19 PM
"The same study showed that the average number of sex partners for the average bottoms across all demographics is 132. For tops that number goes down to 94. "
And you all dare calling Melania a whore.
|by Anonymous||reply 19||June 20, 2022 7:13 PM
[QUOTE] Oh, please, there is no such Gallop pill
It’s been discontinued due to severe side effects.
|by Anonymous||reply 20||June 20, 2022 8:52 PM
bottom does not automatically equal frau. . .
In my observations, among those that have an extended monogamous relationship... it's often more the top that is the reason for the decline in the couple's sex life.. this can be due to many factors but most commonly just the realities of aging. So, they go from a very active sex life to something more comparable to heterosexual couples but for many gay men moving from virtually daily to one to three times a week is the equivalent of lesbian bed death.
of course, there are circumstances in which the bottom may no longer to be able to comfortably, easily, bottom anally and in those circumstances, you're likely to see a top drift.
But this plays out more among those that are strictly or predominately bottom/tops than those that are more versatile (vers men are more likely to consider a third or otherwise having an open relationship at this stage). . . it's like while not every gay man is into anal, there's enough anecdotal and circumstantial evidence to suggest the majority are. . . and that this is important in their relationships. . . so, the loss of can create a serious impact to a relationship
younger gays are more likely to cheat in general but there are other factors to this, which is usually not knowing what they want or how to communicate it within their relationships. Same sex male couples tend to have the highest sexual compatibility compared to other couples but they still share in the same troubles of the communication problems and social pressures which separate or devalue sex in favor of greater idealistic aspects of the relationship in question. And this leads to inevitably seeking outside fulfillment.
Though we're also more likely to see it where one partner has a kink that the other partner firmly rejects, too.
|by Anonymous||reply 21||June 20, 2022 9:26 PM
I’m a Top and I won’t cheat on my bottom. Us Tops are good that way.
|by Anonymous||reply 22||June 20, 2022 9:29 PM
Which famous guys are tops?
Which are bottoms?
|by Anonymous||reply 24||June 20, 2022 9:41 PM
dl is filled with nasty shrill women and nasty gay fem bottoms.
|by Anonymous||reply 26||June 20, 2022 11:41 PM
[QUOTE] Which famous guys are tops?
|by Anonymous||reply 27||June 20, 2022 11:49 PM
He said he'd never dirty his dick in me.
But he did.
|by Anonymous||reply 28||June 20, 2022 11:52 PM
Inexperienced bottoms cheat more because the dick will get boring after a while
|by Anonymous||reply 29||June 21, 2022 12:34 AM
My hole is so good, that I've able to put a lot of tops on lock. If you know how to take dick, your top won't cheat.
|by Anonymous||reply 30||June 21, 2022 12:51 AM
They also have to clean out, which can take hours. Unless the top doesn’t mind shit on his dick.
|by Anonymous||reply 31||June 21, 2022 1:03 AM
Not going to lie I love watching real videos of people getting caught cheating . I myself have never cheated
|by Anonymous||reply 32||June 21, 2022 4:40 AM
[quote]R21 it's often more the top that is the reason for the decline in the couple's sex life..
Well, because of the constant [italic]shrieking[/italic] they’re exposed to as soon as they walk in the door.
It’s not romantic.
|by Anonymous||reply 33||June 21, 2022 5:40 AM
If they take hours then how do they have time for sex with anyone?
|by Anonymous||reply 37||June 22, 2022 3:53 PM
R37 hours could be 2 hours of douching until it’s clean. Only Erna likes a poopy hole.
|by Anonymous||reply 38||June 22, 2022 5:40 PM
r9 [quote] The same study showed that the average number of sex partners for the average bottoms across all demographics is 132. For tops that number goes down to 94.
Is that per week or per month?
|by Anonymous||reply 39||June 22, 2022 7:21 PM
Bottoms could theoretically take multiple cocks after one cleanout though.
|by Anonymous||reply 40||June 22, 2022 8:39 PM
If I'm cleaning myself out thoroughly, I'm going for multiples, R40, with in-out-return privileges.
I mean, time management, after all.
|by Anonymous||reply 41||June 22, 2022 8:42 PM
I don't stick my dick in anyone without first putting on a condom just for that reason.
|by Anonymous||reply 42||June 22, 2022 8:44 PM