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Woman finds out her man has been hooking up with men on Grindr behind her back

Poor thing.

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by Anonymousreply 94June 23, 2022 4:52 AM

Team no one. She should keep her drama to herself. He's a spineless cheat.

by Anonymousreply 1June 19, 2022 7:39 PM

If I were a straight woman, even torture at Gitmo could not get this out of me.

by Anonymousreply 2June 19, 2022 7:39 PM

I will never understand why people feel compelled to post their personal dramas online for the world to see.

by Anonymousreply 3June 19, 2022 7:45 PM

OMG, way to drag it out Becky. Put your finger down already and SHUT UP.

by Anonymousreply 4June 19, 2022 7:50 PM

[quote] Put your finger down

And up his hole; maybe he’ll leave Grindr alone.

by Anonymousreply 5June 19, 2022 7:57 PM

..and referring to herself in the second person.

by Anonymousreply 6June 19, 2022 8:01 PM

That's a horrible situation but this tiktok overshare culture is truly not for me.

by Anonymousreply 7June 19, 2022 8:01 PM

She's the type who uses a hundred words when ten would do.

by Anonymousreply 8June 19, 2022 8:05 PM

Why is she smiling when describing an alleged case of infidelity and domestic abuse?

by Anonymousreply 9June 19, 2022 8:06 PM

I prefer to call it tisk - tisk tok

by Anonymousreply 10June 19, 2022 8:07 PM

R9 some people smile during hard times or when dealing with trauma etc.

by Anonymousreply 11June 19, 2022 8:08 PM

The filters and the makeup and the blinding teeth, which it's surprising they're not veneered, still can't hide the personality.

It's wrong for him to cheat if that wasn't the agreement they had. And yet getting a whiff of her, I don't blame him.

It was also wrong, though clearly she had her reasons, to go through his phone. But if you're all Trixie Belden like that don't be surprised when you find something.

Do we think he's the father of the baby or nah?

by Anonymousreply 12June 19, 2022 8:12 PM

They’ve been together 3 years. The baby is 1.

I’d say yes.

by Anonymousreply 13June 19, 2022 8:14 PM

Not the father of the baby. And he's nice to the baby.

by Anonymousreply 14June 19, 2022 8:17 PM

R14 time for math class

by Anonymousreply 15June 19, 2022 8:19 PM

So what does he look like?

by Anonymousreply 16June 19, 2022 8:23 PM

Shut the fuck up bitch. So sorry.... it happened to me too, oh boo hoo You’re an overwhelming cuntress to overshare .... if u have an alleged child , he/she thanks you in advance for this. Is it any surprise to cunts like you that many men are closeted .???? especially dealing with minus one iqs like you and your ilk

by Anonymousreply 17June 19, 2022 8:27 PM

She deserves every bit of it along with a viscous face slapping.

by Anonymousreply 18June 19, 2022 8:31 PM

The hand doing the slapping will probably be very viscous R18 because it'll be covered in her boyfriend's trick's cum!

by Anonymousreply 19June 19, 2022 8:33 PM

Looking on the bright side, she'll now have more time to post her Bath & Body Works haul videos instead of trolling through her boyfriend's phone.

by Anonymousreply 20June 19, 2022 8:36 PM

Ummmm she had every right to check his phone. And she was clearly right about feeling something was happening.

by Anonymousreply 21June 19, 2022 8:38 PM

UMMMM NO, You never have a RIGHT to check someone's phone unless you are their parent.

by Anonymousreply 22June 19, 2022 8:41 PM

False r22. Especially when your partner IS IN FACT cheating.

by Anonymousreply 23June 19, 2022 8:42 PM

Don't blame gay men, he's obviously Bi. Especially since he just had sex with you.

by Anonymousreply 24June 19, 2022 8:42 PM

R22 has something to hide.

by Anonymousreply 25June 19, 2022 8:42 PM

[quote ]False R22. Especially when your partner IS IN FACT cheating.

This is sort of murky because you obviously can't know in advance of checking the phone whether your partner is cheating or not, unless you have some other evidence. Reminds me of the judge in the Amber-Depp trial who decided a couple of times that she'd retroactively sustain or overrule the lawyer's objection to the question based on how Amber responded. Which is counter-intuitive, but I guess it was needed in those particular instances.

I'd say if you have strong suspicions, go for it.

by Anonymousreply 26June 19, 2022 8:52 PM

R22, It's still wrong even if the guy is cheating. What if she was wrong? Would that be OK just because you have a feeling? That's the point, violating someone's privacy is just as wrong as violating his marriage agreement. It does not matter what the results are, it's the act that matters. She broke his trust, he broke her trust. They deserve each other.

You sound as immature as the Frau in the video posting her dirty laundry all over the internet. Who does that? Only someone with a screw lose that's who.

by Anonymousreply 27June 19, 2022 9:05 PM

Ummm her checking his phone is the same as him fucking men behind her back?

by Anonymousreply 28June 19, 2022 9:06 PM

LOL, who is r17 talking to?

by Anonymousreply 29June 19, 2022 9:10 PM

Ugh. This guy is such a amateur! Sweetie, you get a burner phone to use for your clandestine hookups! So you have your gay phone and your straight phone! Um, duh?

And this woman is so annoying.

The good news? This dude doesn't have to deal with his crotch fruit anymore! He can now get drunk every night, get plowed by his fuck buddies, and sleep in on the weekends!!!!

by Anonymousreply 30June 19, 2022 9:10 PM

Why do I have the feeling that this annoying Frau probably knew he had a thing for guys "in the past" and still managed to push him into a marriage?

by Anonymousreply 31June 19, 2022 9:14 PM

Based on his reaction he was very clearly closeted.

by Anonymousreply 32June 19, 2022 9:16 PM

I find it funny that guys ask "Are You Clean". As if some other person is going to tell the truth and say, "actually I have a bad case of Syphilis right now, come on over"

by Anonymousreply 33June 19, 2022 9:16 PM

She looks like Christian Walker.

by Anonymousreply 34June 19, 2022 9:16 PM

Seacow Ed.win why do you use streamable all the time?

by Anonymousreply 35June 19, 2022 9:18 PM

Seacow EDWlN is the one in this thread defending the ranting cunt, of course.

by Anonymousreply 36June 19, 2022 9:20 PM

Why would you post your dirty laundry like this? Just dump him and move on.

by Anonymousreply 37June 19, 2022 9:21 PM

[quote]Based on his reaction he was very clearly closeted.

OR she chose not to see it. She seems like the pushy type. Why would she confront him like that if he's a bigger strong type? Most woman would be snapping a pic of that conversation, keeping it quite, building a case and spring a divorce case on him with child support. She doesn't really seem that upset about the bruises on her arm. She's more interested in showing them off like her tatts. Did she call the cops or just go straight to social media?

by Anonymousreply 38June 19, 2022 9:22 PM

I don't think there's any marriage here. She says boyfriend. This is a baby mama thing, apparently. I bet nobody's even thought of marriage. Just fucking and breeding, which does leave you more vulnerable, although she can of course still move for child support.

by Anonymousreply 39June 19, 2022 9:49 PM

R36 Of course it’s DL pariah Brooklyn Seacow posting TikTok inanity and defending the insufferable frau. Eww,dwin wants desperately to be, in order, 1. 13 year old white girl 2. Disney Princess 3. Pageant Queen 4. 95 lb. blonde twink 5. 14 year old white girl. Instead, it’s an ugly, obese, middle aged gay incel, stalking young men online. Help is needed.

by Anonymousreply 40June 19, 2022 9:52 PM

R39 still sucks when the person you love is cheating

by Anonymousreply 41June 19, 2022 9:59 PM

While math would seem to indicate he is the baby's father, it was unclear because she kept calling the kid "my son" not "our son" or "his son" and I was not sure if this was her way of indicating she wanted this guy to have nothing to do with the kid anymore, of if she'd had him as a result of an affair with someone else.

He was getting it up on the regular for her though it seems.

by Anonymousreply 42June 19, 2022 10:01 PM

Because she’s disgusted and upset with him. That’s why right now it’s “MY son”.

by Anonymousreply 43June 19, 2022 10:02 PM

Peek not through a keyhole, lest ye be vexed

by Anonymousreply 44June 19, 2022 10:13 PM

She'll take him back in a few years when she realizes that she's not the hot snatch-catch she thinks she is.

by Anonymousreply 45June 19, 2022 10:27 PM

Spent all that money on veneers for nothing.

by Anonymousreply 46June 19, 2022 10:40 PM

There are consequences for going through someone else's phone.

by Anonymousreply 47June 19, 2022 11:02 PM

R9, R11 She's getting attention and revenge at the same time.

by Anonymousreply 48June 19, 2022 11:30 PM

Start with the tie-dye and work your way backwards.

by Anonymousreply 49June 19, 2022 11:32 PM

This thread is useless without photos.

by Anonymousreply 50June 19, 2022 11:34 PM

She's making the best of a bad situation.

He, OTOH, is a cowardly, in the closet prick. Not to mention a child abuser (fighting in front of his son and not letting the mom get to him), a terrible parent and a wife abuser.

Why are you all so down on her? Oh, I forgot, this is DL where every man is a hero and every woman a loser.

Glad he's spending some time in jail. Only supervised visits to his son.

by Anonymousreply 51June 19, 2022 11:38 PM

Her ex is latinx. We know they're notorious cheaters.

by Anonymousreply 52June 19, 2022 11:42 PM

R52- I thought he was CHICANO

by Anonymousreply 53June 19, 2022 11:43 PM

Yes. Because white men never cheat.

by Anonymousreply 54June 19, 2022 11:44 PM

R53 Either way we know none of them are faithful.

by Anonymousreply 55June 19, 2022 11:45 PM


They don't like bein called LatinX.

by Anonymousreply 56June 19, 2022 11:46 PM

LatinX isn’t a thing.

by Anonymousreply 57June 19, 2022 11:48 PM

10 seconds into that annoying condescending voice, I became homicidal.

by Anonymousreply 58June 19, 2022 11:51 PM

Too bad Jerry Springer's old show isn't making new episodes. Perfect fit.

by Anonymousreply 59June 19, 2022 11:58 PM

Making this video is "getting revenge" on him? LOL. If he was getting it on the side and was ok with roughing her up, I doubt his fees will be hurt by her little whinefest video. If she was a smart lady she would have retained a great lawyer instead, taken all of the assets, secured the largest child support payment from him for when he finally got out of jail, and made sure visits with the kid remained court supervised only.

But sure. TikTok videos instead. She's 💪💪💪

by Anonymousreply 60June 20, 2022 12:02 AM

She looks like an asshole teacher I worked with.

by Anonymousreply 61June 20, 2022 12:06 AM

Will the fucking Ummmm Troll give it a rest already?

by Anonymousreply 62June 20, 2022 12:13 AM

R62 No, 13. I’m a 13 year old white girl.

by Anonymousreply 63June 20, 2022 12:23 AM

Thread useless without pings pics.

by Anonymousreply 64June 20, 2022 12:28 AM

The situation is an utter and complete mess, but she isn't improving it by dropping all of her dirty laundry right in the middle of the global town square. She will get sympathy from women who fear that the same could happen to them and others who have been through similar situations, but ultimately this won't solve her problems. Her relationship was clearly dysfunctional and is has eventually collapsed in the most spectacular way imaginable and, while embarrassing both him and herself in this way might provide her with some measure of immediate satisfaction, it will ultimately be a testament to her own stupidity and her ex-boyfriend's sleaziness.

Still, we shouldn't blame her for being angry and coming across as a harsh, bitchy and know-it-all harridan - who wouldn't feel angry and be catty if you discovered that you boyfriend has been unfaithful and, after you confronted him about it, he tried to beat you up and humiliate you in order to get you to be quiet about it? As I've previously said, this is an all around shitty situation and I'm not entirely sure that she is to blame for it, even if she appears to be an extremely unpleasant person in this particular video.

by Anonymousreply 65June 20, 2022 12:42 AM

The real culprit is our homophobic and sex-negative society that prevented this man from opening up to his wife and telling her that he needed some bussy on the side occasionally as well.

by Anonymousreply 66June 20, 2022 12:48 AM

[quote] I will never understand why people feel compelled to post their personal dramas online for the world to see.

It's her right to tell her truth.

by Anonymousreply 67June 20, 2022 1:08 AM

You are all being way too hard on this woman and blaming her for her man being a closet case of a cheating whore.

by Anonymousreply 68June 20, 2022 1:23 AM

We just want that papi cock and are frustrated with the fact that this Karen had it available to her on a daily basis for three years. Try to understand where we're coming from here.

by Anonymousreply 69June 20, 2022 1:33 AM

My best grinder fuck buddies are all married to women like that. They all trust me enough to give me their cell phone numbers to text them with and I never text anything explicit more or less something along the lines of" hey man what's up". It's a matter of understanding boundaries and respecting privacy. These guys have a lot to lose financially if they get divorced. And we talked and I hear stories and I understand the difficulties living with a Karen. No heterosexual man wants to feel dominated or pussy whipped by his wife. All these guys come to me for some uncomplicated sexual release and not feeling demeaned so they're respected for being a man. I'm not sure how feminism Translated into disrespect for your husband but it seems to be epidemic. All I can say is I'm glad I'm gay.

by Anonymousreply 70June 20, 2022 1:35 AM

Hm, I can't open my phone without a 4-digit pass code. He probably subconsciously wanted her to find it.

by Anonymousreply 71June 20, 2022 1:41 AM

R 29: I talkin to everybody . Who you talkin to?

by Anonymousreply 72June 20, 2022 1:41 AM

She has much to learn, and I'm the one to teach her.

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by Anonymousreply 73June 20, 2022 1:56 AM

How many nuts can she stuff in her cheeks?

by Anonymousreply 74June 20, 2022 2:04 AM

Never go through someone's phone.

by Anonymousreply 75June 20, 2022 2:04 AM

Or do so you know what your partner is up to…

by Anonymousreply 76June 20, 2022 2:06 AM

Personally, I am puzzled that a man would not have his phone locked as a matter of routine when it was lying unattended, whether cheating whore or no...

by Anonymousreply 77June 20, 2022 2:09 AM

She said he was on it making plans to go fuck the dude but took the baby and forgot his phone, which was probably unlocked because he was talking to the dude.

by Anonymousreply 78June 20, 2022 2:10 AM

R78 Very sloppy, tsk tsk

by Anonymousreply 79June 20, 2022 2:12 AM

She looks like one of these guys.

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by Anonymousreply 80June 20, 2022 2:22 AM

My goddaughter is just learning about downlow men.

More than half the guys who hit her up on Instagram are obviously bi or looking for a beard.

It’s pretty obvious, too, but she’s young and had no clue until I pointed shit out to her.

Some of these DL men are just grifters who are looking for naive young women to support them financially.

It could happen to anyone. It’s highly prevalent in the south.

by Anonymousreply 81June 20, 2022 3:46 AM

Maybe she'll fall down a staircase!

by Anonymousreply 82June 20, 2022 3:58 AM

Maybe her and the baby will capsize in a boat!

by Anonymousreply 83June 20, 2022 4:32 AM

Maybe she'll drown in a tub!

by Anonymousreply 84June 20, 2022 4:32 AM

Maybe she’ll get choked out during rough sex?

by Anonymousreply 85June 20, 2022 6:13 AM


We're here for you!!!

My hard cock is waiting for your hungry mouth!!!

by Anonymousreply 86June 20, 2022 6:20 AM

Twice she says “whenever” when she means “when.” It’s a pet peeve of mine.

by Anonymousreply 87June 20, 2022 6:51 AM

This fucking bitch is all types of exhausting. No wonder her man finds fun elsewhere.

by Anonymousreply 88June 20, 2022 6:56 AM

[quote]She's making the best of a bad situation.

Airing your dirty laundry in public instead of going to the authorities for physical abuse is "making the best of a bad situation"? You have some twisted logic or maybe it's that you are blinded by pussy sisterhood?

Oh I forgot, lesbians love hating men but cant resist coming to a gay male bitch site to bitch at them.

by Anonymousreply 89June 20, 2022 7:11 AM

I've never been so Team No One in my life. If he physically abuses his female partners, he'll physically abuse his male ones, too.

by Anonymousreply 90June 20, 2022 5:58 PM

Beat her.

by Anonymousreply 91June 20, 2022 7:44 PM

He's a chippy and she's a chipmunk.

by Anonymousreply 92June 23, 2022 4:05 AM

Her man got off lucky, If I were her, I would've hit myself in the face hard enough to leave a bruise, then stabbed him to death and claimed self-defense.

by Anonymousreply 93June 23, 2022 4:24 AM

Why did OP cut off the @ that appears at the end?

by Anonymousreply 94June 23, 2022 4:52 AM
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