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The Battle Over Gender Therapy

In NYTimes Mag. It treats social transition as an unquestioned positive and has quotes from many people on various sides of the issue, but it's being pilloried on Twitter by the usual crowd because it points out there may be some issues that need dealing with. Many of the responses have clearly not read the article.

One of the things I've noticed is when something like this comes out, there are a series of activists who will cherry-pick and try to pull apart the article, and often recommend people do not actually read the article, just look at their critique of it. Many just do this, and swarm the comments.

The comments on the NYTMag are actually open, which I saw someone on Twitter complaining about too, because it apparently "gives a platform to bigots". No commentary allowed unless it's the right commentary.

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by Anonymousreply 46July 11, 2022 8:05 PM

The article link should be free, they've opened it to non-subscribers:

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by Anonymousreply 1June 18, 2022 1:37 AM

Emily's Twitter thread summarizing some of the article:

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by Anonymousreply 2June 18, 2022 1:39 AM

I’m so sick of these posts. Every other post is about trans. It’s so fucking ridiculous.

IDGAF what anyone wants to do with their own bodies, and I don’t understand why anyone else here does, either.

Get over it!

by Anonymousreply 3June 18, 2022 2:20 AM

It is an excellent article dealing with trans people in a serious way. There, were no issues with trans adults but children getting puberty blockers does have negative side effects.

Teen girls especially seem very stressed out and dealing with many gender issues. Much more than boys.

by Anonymousreply 4June 18, 2022 3:10 AM

R3, this is genuinely harmful to little gay kids.

You can't trans the gay away. Many parents would like to.

by Anonymousreply 5June 18, 2022 3:13 AM

IDGAF what anyone wants to do with their own children, and I don’t understand why anyone else here does, either.

by Anonymousreply 6June 18, 2022 8:28 AM

R6 did you read the article?

by Anonymousreply 7June 18, 2022 1:38 PM

R3 this is a long form article in the NY Times Magazine, it's being discussed all over the place, and it has special relevance here given its material. Give it a read!

by Anonymousreply 8June 18, 2022 1:40 PM

[quote] IDGAF what anyone wants to do with their own bodies, and I don’t understand why anyone else here does, either.

R3 R6 It's led to the exploitation/abuse of children by their parents and medical professionals. Because kids are far too easily influenced. You don't give a fuck. Others do.

by Anonymousreply 9June 18, 2022 1:47 PM

"IDGAF what anyone wants to do with their own bodies"

IDGAF what well-informed adults do to their bodies, but I DO GAF what happens to gay and non-gender-conforming kids, and I DO GAF about medical malpractice.

And right now, gay and non-gender-conforming kids are being made the victims of medical malpractice, they are definitely not being told that the medical transition process will never do what they hope it will do, it will never really change their sex, how they're perceived by others, or make all their troubles go away. That's why there needs to be pre-transition counseling and lots of it, so that absolutely everyone who transitions is aware of just how little change is possible.

by Anonymousreply 10June 18, 2022 1:55 PM

[quote] That's why there needs to be psychological counseling and lots of it. So that absolutely everyone who believes humans can "transition" are aware that humans remain as they were born and that no biological change is possible..

by Anonymousreply 11June 18, 2022 2:01 PM

R11 " psychological counseling" is seen as trans conversion therapy, that is trying to talk possible trans people, usually young teens, out of their transness. Here in Ireland the Irish government is going to ban such conversion therapy. Affirmation all the way.

by Anonymousreply 12June 18, 2022 2:46 PM

R12 "Affirmation" of what? That humans can "transition", become something other than what they were born? That's the Irish "solution"? Banning reason and common sense?

by Anonymousreply 13June 18, 2022 2:52 PM

R12, a failure to explain the risks and benefits of any possible medical procedure, and to explain exactly what it can and cannot do for a person, is considered medical malpractice.

In any field except transitioning.

by Anonymousreply 14June 18, 2022 2:58 PM

R13 Certainly not just the Irish solution. It's in Scotland and I think England too. Some European countries have begin to question it (finally)

R14 I agree. But the Trans/Gender Ideology lobby says otherwise. And for now they seem to have the ear of mainstream media and the government. ANY questions, any discussion is now posited as an attack on a trans persons very existence.

So, affirmation it is. There is a ever growing mountain of byers remorse on the horizon....

by Anonymousreply 15June 18, 2022 3:07 PM

Yes, I know I spelt buyers wrong...

by Anonymousreply 16June 18, 2022 3:10 PM

Once again it's the British and now Irish who are letting this happen. is it any wonder?

by Anonymousreply 17June 18, 2022 3:32 PM

Uh, this is mostly all coming from the US, r17. The English are now actually pushing back against it, after going along with it for years. Canada and Scotland and Ireland are pushing it to the extremes. World wide standards bodies are fully captured - it's unacceptable to publish anything but glowing praise. Scientific research can't be conducted in a situation like this. Scientists and organizations are not doing research because they are afraid of what it might find, and they fear it being used against gender believers. This is what they've actually said!

This article, for example, is pretty evenly done, even leaning in favor of "affirming care" more than many would like. But because it isn't 100% agreeing with the current stance of the gender lobby, it's being pilloried as "causing harm and literally killing people" on Twitter and reddit.

The usual suspects have already posted Twitter threads about it, trying to nitpick about parts of the article, obfuscating and when they can't do that, just ignoring it or lying about it. They tell their followers "don't read the article!!" which most wouldn't anyway because it's a long form piece, and thus the members of the gender movement are insulated from anything from "outside" that might cause them to pause.

by Anonymousreply 18June 18, 2022 3:55 PM

R12, no one has to be talked out of being transgender or at a particular moment in time wanting to try different ways of dressing and socially interacting. The issue in question is the medical treatment and whether saying it prevents suicide tells the whole story. Some people were suicidal and depressed long before identifying as transgender and just want to change themselves, even though the depression doesn’t have a hormone based origin and won’t be helped by hormones. If you looked up symptoms of cancer and decided to take chemotherapy because you thought you might have cancer, and you didn’t, well chemotherapy has harmful side effects. Why not let the doctor screen for cancer first? Or let whoever wants to get their hormones checked and have a physical to diagnose any physical problems? Multiple detransitioners have expressed that there is no specialized medical support for people who detransition even though they have specific medical needs. It is also a fairly common problem that people cannot pass, so they end up being just as “othered” as they were before they transitioned. Conversation therapy would be telling the girl who plays with trucks to play with dolls. That is wrong. Therapy for depression is appropriate for girls who hear adults in their lives make misogynistic comments on a regular basis and are afraid of growing up in female bodies. That’s not conversation therapy, that’s having a conversation about how to deal with misogyny. Surgery in that case would be like a black person having surgery to look white as a means of dealing with racism. It dismisses the underlying issue from the conversation and leaves the eventual life burden for everyone who has the surgery.

by Anonymousreply 19June 18, 2022 4:16 PM

r3 fuck you. We are trying to raise awareness to save the next generation from butchering themselves and realizing this is a mental illness.

by Anonymousreply 20June 18, 2022 4:18 PM

I meant -conversion therapy. -R19

by Anonymousreply 21June 18, 2022 4:22 PM

Raise awareness?

LMAO.

Bullshit. No one here is raising awareness about this as a mental health issue on this forum.

All people do here is bash trans and use them as punching bags in order to duke it out politically with the opposing party of the decade.

You fuck off.

If you truly want to raise awareness as this being a mental health issue, WHICH IT MOST DEFINITELY IS, (so at least we agree on this), then start treating these poor people with some compassion and respect.

People here come to this forum to shit on these people. They need HELP, not opposition. The opposition only fuels their mental health issues further.

by Anonymousreply 22June 18, 2022 4:25 PM

R22 Have you read the article in the OP? If not, why should we be interested in what you are saying? You contribute nothing to the discussion but insults and untruths.

Take your own advice and "be kind"!!

by Anonymousreply 23June 18, 2022 4:27 PM

TRAAANS!

by Anonymousreply 24June 18, 2022 4:47 PM

[quote]They need HELP

No disagreements there!

by Anonymousreply 25June 18, 2022 4:53 PM

Sweden and Finland are now restricting access to puberty blockers, and France is moving in the same direction. Apparently they can cause issues with bone density.

Plus there's the fact that drug companies like to push drugs so they can make money. I keep wondering when we'll see ads on Nickelodeon. "Talk to your doctor about puberty blockers."

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by Anonymousreply 26June 18, 2022 5:11 PM

R19 You may have seen this Swedish doc, it has English subs. It's about the huge rise in young people, mostly girls who say they are trans. It also discusses the unquestioning affirmation model. This model has frankly led to catastrophe for many young people. But it's what the likes of Stonewall UK and in Ireland, Teni demand.

Anyway, it's a very good, informative film.

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by Anonymousreply 27June 18, 2022 5:52 PM

R6, Parents don’t have the right to abuse their kids simply because they are their kids. So why are they able to medically castrate them?

by Anonymousreply 28June 18, 2022 6:02 PM

R22, You are completely insane.

by Anonymousreply 29June 18, 2022 6:04 PM

The distaste is akin tot he crowd that posts these articles.

They don't necessarily agree with the articles because they, themselves, take a more aradical stance but they'll do anything to draw others in their obsessive hate and moral crusade... that much is transparent and tends to leave a foul taste.

Even when people would otherwise agree with aspects of their position... but said people are not reasonable, ethical, they're fundamentalists to the worst degree. It's an obsession that fills their life 24/7 with the threat of trannies lurking in every shadow, suspecting them everywhere... and yet way too often can never understand when their rhetoric comes back to haunt them as so many find others questioning their gender in public restrooms.

by Anonymousreply 30June 18, 2022 6:50 PM

R30 you sound like you're having an episode. Did you read the OP article? Nothing you're talking about is relevant.

by Anonymousreply 31June 18, 2022 7:03 PM

WTF are you going on about, R30?

by Anonymousreply 32June 18, 2022 9:02 PM

OP is a far right wingnut who pillories people while accusing others of doing the same

by Anonymousreply 33June 18, 2022 9:04 PM

That's cute r33; I see I taught you a new word.

Go read the article. It is a fairly even view of the situation. You may learn more new words!

by Anonymousreply 34June 19, 2022 5:29 AM

R17 There's a reason that Great Britain is known as Terf Island and it's because women are fighting back.

by Anonymousreply 35June 19, 2022 10:23 AM

Trans Regret

A Dutch tv doc. It's interesting or really dispiriting that shows like this won't make on to tv in Ireland and the UK. If they did they would be immediately be attacked as" triggering, abusive, hates speech..."

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by Anonymousreply 36June 19, 2022 3:20 PM

Gimme a break, it's all coming from the UK, they have gone way over the line and have elected trannies to public office. It's completely normal to have trannies running the show. You nasty Brits need to STFU, you started all the tranny shit.

by Anonymousreply 37June 19, 2022 4:27 PM

[quote]There, were no issues with trans adults

No, there are serious issues with trans adults, who are violating women's spaces and and identity. A man in a frock and slap is not a woman and poses a serious threat to our safety. They are just as much, and likely more, of a threat to womanhood even when compared with the horror that is mutilated young lesbians.

by Anonymousreply 38June 19, 2022 4:32 PM

Trans activists are the worst. They are against trans adults forced to being sterilized and consider it against human rights but it’s totally fine to do it to CHILDREN

by Anonymousreply 39June 19, 2022 4:46 PM

bump

by Anonymousreply 40July 10, 2022 2:13 PM

Puberty blockers also lower IQ by 8+ points and can cause internal organ growth and development to be stunted.

by Anonymousreply 41July 10, 2022 4:07 PM

Ads on Nickelodeon are sure to come, and in the meantime, it is being taught in schools from very early ages.

by Anonymousreply 42July 10, 2022 4:10 PM

Bump

by Anonymousreply 43July 10, 2022 11:12 PM

Where is it taught in schools?

by Anonymousreply 44July 11, 2022 5:42 AM

R44, Everywhere. White women are obsessed with gender ideology.

by Anonymousreply 45July 11, 2022 11:39 AM

R42, there are already pro-child-transition ads here in my red state. The narration is something like "my trans child is a normal child". Yes ma'am, your little girl is normal. Even if she likes sports and climbing trees and playing with trucks. You've given her a haircut and a lifelong psychological trauma because YOU have decided she isn't "really" a girl.

There is a LOT of money behind the trans shit.

by Anonymousreply 46July 11, 2022 8:05 PM
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