Virgin gay finding another virgin gay to date?

Oh, why bother?

Try a monastery? Some of those monks may swoon for you. If you wanted to lose it with another virgin you should've done that a decade ago. Or maybe you can date a guy 10 years younger. Idk make sure he's out of high school at least.

In your dreams, OP.

Good luck!

Coincidentally I lost my virginity at 28, but trust me, you'll be hard pressed finding someone in a similar situation.

I lost my virginity to a newly-out 33-year-old, he didn't have much experience, but certainly more than I'd had.

He died very young, at about 40, from a neurological condition. Sad.

I’m 28 years old, gay, and a virgin. You’re not alone, OP!

This seems like a German Gay Guy stealth post.

Clearly has DL reached India.

How are you coping with the heat, bitches?

Just turned 30 and still virgin, myself. Not sure how or whether I want to go for it, or where to start.

But I'm female, and I think it's another ball of wax for us women--still difficult, lonely and stigmatized, but for different reasons. Also, I have been made aware by circumstance that I have unresolved codependency and intimacy problems, which I feel uncomfortable about subjecting others to.

How come you want to have your first sexual encounter with another virgin, though, OP? That seems like it would be a bad deal, and in no way enjoyable or helpful. To feel good and to learn to make others feel good, weneed someone to show us the ropes and lead us through the experience, surely...

It's hard enough finding someone to care for. Finding a virgin after age 19 is near impossible.

OP, what are the issues that are making you afraid of sexual intimacy?

OP, try Iran. Of course, the government will want to kill you afterwards, but hey, you’ll have had your wish. Goofball.

I’m like a virgin I’m 29

Oh, honey...

nothing wrong with being a virgin. Its ok to wait for the right person. A specification like you're looking for isn't likely to bring a satisfying result. You're excluding 98% of the population to find someone who doesn't know how to fuck.

I avoided virgins from the start and ever since.

Idk OP maybe ask Kevin Jonas how he did it back in the day?

[quote] . A specification like you're looking for isn't likely to bring a satisfying result. You're excluding 98% of the population to find someone who doesn't know how to fuck.

Yeah, this was my thought also. While there’s nothing worse than armchair diagnosis, from personal experience I can say that OP’s stipulation gives me Avoidant Personality vibes (I have it, I know of what I speak). Fixations on near-impossible ends is one major characteristic—after all, what better get-out clause than, “it probably can’t ever happen in exactly the unfeaaible way I’ve decided I want it to”?

By virgin does that include oral or just giving up the ass?

Find someone with some experience, OP

Easier said than done, R19. Most experienced people don't want virgins, and the ones who do are creeps or fetishists with control issues.

OP will have to lie or obfuscate, or at the very least downplay and make an excuse for his fumbling, like "I've been out of the game awhile/been celibate a few years [insert plausible reason]/I came out really late/I come from a religious family/my body count is kind of on the low side [imply single digits]".

I was a virgin until my mid-20's and got my cherry popped by a guy in his 50's. It made it a lot less awkward, so I highly recommend finding an older guy to help out. They're more experienced and know what they're doing. Two virgins together isn't going to be very fun.

OP? A Catholic seminary might be a good place to look.