Guilt after you cum

Not even when I'm wiping myself clean with the hotel sheets. Twice as not bad when it's a Marriott property!

We didn't grow up in the 1950s.

I’ve felt disgust after I sobered up regarding the person I was with, but not guilt.

Fuck NO!

Maybe shame is the other word

Only if they report me.

No, just revulsion that you're still here, OP.

I used to get that, yeah.

Sometimes, when I look down and see he’s got a face like a plasterer’s radio.

Not guilt but disgust.

When you do it with a priest, it’s nice because you can pray together about it afterward.

[quote]he’s got a face like a plasterer’s radio.

R9 ???

All horniness leaves me, and then I'm like:

What was I so worked up into a frenzy about? Back to calm.

Father Balosa: Do you commit impure acts? Do you touch yourself? Do you know Saint Louis weeps when you touch yourself?

Titta:Let him weep.

No, just sweet, sweet relaxation.

No guilt, no shame, no bad feelings. Why?

I crack my neck when I cum. It's amazing. It's almost more about the neck crack than the ejaculation these days. I love it. It'll probably kill me

R1 = Disgruntled Bonvoy member, sick of points devaluations

I used to feel all kinds of weird about orgasming when I was younger. I think now that it had something to do with being touched in appropriately when I was a kid. Once I healed that, I stopped feeling weird about anything sexual, including masturbating, cumming, intimacy, love...all of it.

It was something some weird vibes that someone else had put in me. Their problem; their shame. Not mine. Sexuality is normal, natural, and it's really fucking a joy. But--if you got some weird messages as a kid, or were sexualized prematurely, you WILL need to address that before masturbation of sexual intimacy will feel comfotable and healthy for you. i hope you seek support. It's so worth it!

I’ll let you know shortly….

R20 here. No guilt, just sleepy. Going back to sleep for a while now. ☺️

OP must be a good Catholic boy they're the ones who usually feel this way after sex, the guilt must be huge.

Well, how exactly did you address that, R19?

[quote]OP must be a good Catholic boy they're the ones who usually feel this way after sex, the guilt must be huge.

If his cock is as huge as his guilt, I'll forgive him

Guilt?? Guilt that I should do it more.

R12, this may help.

that just the self-loathing. get used to it hon.

I think it's common. The second I cum, I immediately feel disgusted by whatever pron I was watching and quickly close the window.

In the first century, Gaius Petronius Arbiter recognized the phenomenon when he wrote:

Doing, a filthy pleasure is, and short

And done, we straight repent us of the sport.

sex is ridiculous in every aspect, comically funny - it's at least 2 people using each other's body parts to masturbate it can't get much more crazy and embarrassing. just let go and get into it.

Yes, I can always see my late mother hovering by the door shaking her head in disapproval.

(I'm Jewish, of course).

R18, more like anti-Mormon. But I am a bit disenchanted by Bonvoy these days too. Spot on!

Yes so I’ve stopped masturbating. I feel better. A sense of freedom.

Really r32?

R32 is heading for epidydimitis-ville. Trust me.

No but I see this question a lot on Reddit from younger gay men in homophobic countries. Very connected to shame.

Never guilt. Maybe a little bit of shyness after you've just begged to be fucked and bred like a prize cow at the county fair. I also like namecalling, so it takes a beat to readjust after you've been called every kind of faggot whore cum slut. But never guilt, why would I feel guilt.

More like gay guilt

After I Jack off to porn I’m glad I didn’t waste all day looking for a hookup to get off.

Absolutely! I feel disgust and shame. I wish I could feel healthy after ejaculating! It's very strange. I think it's related to a religious upbringing.

I’ve felt embarrassed about not cumming while being vigorously and enviably fucked. After a while I have to tell the guy that it’s not happening. I have trouble doing it when I’m being plowed and have to finish up afterward.

Depends on who it is. One night stands are pure fantasy and lust. When it's done, time for everyone to go home. However, If emotions are involved it can be complicated, bringing all sorts of unending drama.

Got over that by about age 13. Ever since it’s been a very good feeling, relaxed, content- unless of course I made a goof and hooked up with someone I want to get away from- and then it’s the signal to do so. But that too is a thing of the past. At my age it’s all gravy and I don’t make that mistake anymore-also most of my sex now is between me and me with an occasional second person, lol.

Uh, sure, when I was a teenager.

How old are you, OP?

Nope, but it worked when I told that to the other person as I ran away leaving them high and dry!

I have crazy fetish desires until I cum many hours later, and then I feel relief that I don't feel the need to go through with the fetishes.

Do you like the tops to keep pumping away after you cum ?

[quote] Do you like the tops to keep pumping away after you cum ?

When I’m done, we’re done.

Yes. What? Why yes, I was raised Roman Catholic in the 1960s...

[quote] All horniness leaves me

I sometimes get so worked up when jacking off that I want to eat my own cum…but then after i climax, that desire is completely gone. Not because of guilt though.

Not guilt.

But definitely “get out”.

If by myself, I immediately think about food. If with another, I think about washing laundry as soon as he leaves.

Guilt and shame that I didn't cum more.

The only thing I am thinking after I cum is either I need to leave or he does. I don't sleep with men. They take up too much space in the bed and their gross. I like to sleep alone.

^^^^ "they're" gross!

If it's jacking off, I don't feel guilt but there is a tremendous sense of relief.

Sometimes my horniness and hunger for sex is just like radio noise in my head, so getting a load out is so calming in so many ways.

Guilt...the gift that keeps on giving.

Can you still feel guilt if an atheist ?

la petite mort

Guilt is dead to me. Seriously, I haven’t seen guilt since the Nixon administration.

Only if it gets on the good shams.

a tes souhaits, R58!

One time I was being fingered by, you know, Goldfinger and I did feel gilt after I came.

After I have an ORGASM I get a craving for sweets 🍭

Take my load!

WHORES!