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Kink that confuse you

I am still baffled by cuckold and the appeal of it.

I also don't understand why it is a turn on to wear leather dog mask and bark like a dog. It is just stupid and the entire head must stink from the sweat trapped inside the mask.

by Anonymousreply 137May 20, 2022 11:57 AM

My experience with the few foot fetishists I met left me feeling lucky that I'm still alive and that I actually survived an encounter with a serial killer.

by Anonymousreply 1May 14, 2022 2:45 PM

I’m a gay male, and find the whole humiliation of the straight man hot in cuckold porn. I like it when the woman forces her husband to suck off the other dude she is fucking. I imagine that the straight men who are into it are actually gay/bi and only find it acceptable to act on it with a woman present. They act disgusted, but wouldn’t be doing it if they were.

by Anonymousreply 2May 14, 2022 2:49 PM

The wun whair yow down't ave sex or coom evah, or for a longh toime. Wotevah its corled. Selly--selbub--sellarbissoy...?

Oi down't knaow whoy ennywun wud turn a fook down. Oi get itchay and dizzay and sad, if oi down't get a cock in moy arse wunce a dai.

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by Anonymousreply 3May 14, 2022 2:53 PM

Necrophilia

Hardcore/extreme BDSM

Scat

by Anonymousreply 4May 14, 2022 3:01 PM

I'm with you on the dog thing, OP, and I think most of those people probably have bestiality fantasies too, which is just fucking gross beyond measure.

I sort of get the cuckold thing. I dated an older guy in my late 20s who was into something similar - I guess it was the same but with all three of us gay. He loved watching me get fucked by a guy who was bigger hung, and would make fun of my BF's dick while fucking me (my then BF was by no means tiny, but he was a good 2 inches shorter and his dick was a bit on the skinny side). We did it a few times with a friend of his and it was very hot.

I have a few fetishes that some don't understand. I do enjoy feet (but not in a I have to do this or I can't get off way) and I've always been a "sniffer" when it comes to guy's underwear/socks etc. In some rare occasions I enjoy water sports (but not drinking anything - just being drenched). I also like being watched when I am going down on a guy or being fucked.

Related to the cuckold thing I also enjoy "sph" - small penis humiliation. I am, like my ex bf, not tiny, but I enjoy when a bigger guy with a bigger cock talks about the differences in the size of our bodies and cocks. I like being teased about that but most guys take it way too far and get really ugly about it ('you're a piece of shit' etc). I find that most guys who claim they are "dom" really aren't skilled about nuance and just take any of those ideas to an extreme, ugly place. Alpha/dom guys to me are about confidence and an earned cockiness.

by Anonymousreply 5May 14, 2022 3:02 PM

I once met a dude who like to fuck or get sucked while calling his mother or employees. It still confuses me.

by Anonymousreply 6May 14, 2022 3:21 PM

Cuckold can be hot. I feel like it is the gateway to bi-porn. A lot of the cuckold I've watched will have a hot husband supply a hot guy to bank his "wife" while he watched. As the fucking gets going, the cuckold guy usually ends up jerking off and joining in.

by Anonymousreply 7May 14, 2022 3:39 PM

[quote] I also don't understand why it is a turn on to wear leather dog mask and bark like a dog.

Disassociation. Some people are so repressed they can't allow themselves to have fun, so they disassociate themselves by pretending to be someone, or something, else.

by Anonymousreply 8May 14, 2022 3:56 PM

Licking someone's shoes? Ewww.

by Anonymousreply 9May 14, 2022 3:57 PM

Just for you, r9

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by Anonymousreply 10May 14, 2022 3:59 PM

[quote] I am still baffled by cuckold and the appeal of it.

It depends on the couple. For some, the appeal is watching the other putting on a show for the other one (the one who watches) with a third person. Like a husband who likes it when his wife makes out with another woman (or man) while he watches. Or a wife watching her husband making out with a guy (or another woman).

For others, it's the appeal is to "humiliate" the viewer having to watch and not being allowed to join the fun.

by Anonymousreply 11May 14, 2022 4:05 PM

Fisting. I think you have to be mentally ill to try that. It seems so common now according to the apps. Scary. You could do so real damage to your insides.

Scat and Zoophilia are also extreme to the point where I'd consider it a mental illness and not a fetish.

Agree with OP about the dog masks. Jesus Christ, what a dick wilter.

by Anonymousreply 12May 14, 2022 4:10 PM

Feet.

I don't get it. They are really useful but I don't even want to look at them much less touch them.

by Anonymousreply 13May 14, 2022 4:33 PM

Crossdressing. Why don’t they identify as transwomen? Same with the men who are attracted to them, why specifically men in dresses instead of, ya know, women. It goes so much deeper than clothing fetish because once the clothes comes off they’re both just men. He knows it, they both do- so why?

Add humiliation on top and it also brings up misogyny. Like, they deserve to be punished for presenting as woman despite not being one.

by Anonymousreply 14May 14, 2022 7:57 PM

OP the dog stuff, I agree. But, I don't know why, I do find the cuckold stuff hot.

by Anonymousreply 15May 14, 2022 7:58 PM

pup play/training was more standard d/s before the furries/otherkin/therians took it over.. they did not emulate animals but rather accepted the submission of being treated as sub-human -- and earn their path over time to be granted privileges. For some that's it started and ended with pup play alone and usually crossed over into interrogation play. For many others, it was it was good avenue for training and bonding with your would be slave, especially the houseboy or otherwise live-in vairety.. to break from a single fantasy encounter into becoming a full time (or even just a part time) lifestyle. -- breakdown, build up.

by Anonymousreply 16May 14, 2022 8:07 PM

cuckolding falls in the category of orgasm denial. . . it's in the same category of edging.

It became more popular with those suffering from disability or other changes as way to form intimacy and connection through again, d/s... though it's really more of a power exchange. Often it's the cuckold that has the power because it's his/her desire to see it happen and often are dealing with issues that impede on their ability to act this out with their partner. Of course, there are others that merely want to be dominated and would probably find it silly if their partner did it directly, so this way is something that is more realistic for them... a way of confronting feelings of jealous and inadequacy while also feeling as if they're giving their partner more than they're able to.

this typically remains more play than lifestyle as a route for those that consider an open relationship or a threesome, but have an issue of engaging. Yes, there are some that find it hot in and of itself.. and that usually gets into psychological roleplay of varying scenes. It often combats anxieties and sometimes, past traumas. . . turning a negative into a more positive fetish.

it mirrors with other scenes like clothed partner(s) and nude sub. . . where the acts are often irrelevant, soemtimes benign and silly, like a truth or dare game, and the ds element is focused on humiliation play.

by Anonymousreply 17May 14, 2022 8:17 PM

^ for example, many people have nightmares of having to give a speech in class where they dream they're naked in front of everyone... it's clothed partner/nude partner often taps into that. They might be secure in every part of their life but feel physically inadequate, or sometimes, it's the jarring sociocultural elements of society where being having more than vanilla interests are taboo, shameful vs presenting oneself as professionally chaste and virtuous; imposter syndrome.

cuckolding can also tap into something similar, like the fear of being powerless to help their partner from assault or simply losing them to another man/woman. . . so, often inadequacy but more focused on the external consequences. -- while we recognize it more with men as the cuckold, it's perhaps more socially explored by women in various stages of life where.. in both cases, it's often the cockold that is choosing the partner(s). Albeit, in porn, that usually takes more the form of revenge and introducing a same sex or more dominating partner instead.. aand becomes more voyeuristic d/s.

It gets complicated and quite tangled when you get into the intentions and reasons behind it, which are merely speculatory because most people don't delve too deeply in the why of what gets them off -- as they're usually only as interested when their horny than when they're not.

by Anonymousreply 18May 14, 2022 8:31 PM

I can't help but feel that in those cases were various right wingers have been exposed as cucks, it's partly about controlling your wife/treating her life property. Especially in cases like Mannafort where the wife did not want to do it.

by Anonymousreply 19May 14, 2022 8:57 PM

Needle play.

As someone who atm has to self-inject at least a few times weekly to maintain baseline health, I really don't see how or why anyone would get off on it. It can feel pleasant when a daily SI goes well (no stabs in the vessels/nerves feels like a win), and nice to get dosed up (in my case, cobalamin calms me down and makes my physical functions run smooth), plus the ritual of cleaning and sterilising the paraphenalia/surfaces/skin and putting the rig together is oddly soothing (especially during and post-pandem!c). Still, to me it's not ever arousing or sexual in any way. It's just a simple and safe if annoying little daily routine, a matter of self-care and health optimisation. Then, I don't have any intense feelings toward needles one way or the other, so maybe that's the reason why I could never get hot over it.

by Anonymousreply 20May 14, 2022 9:13 PM

Well, this is a frau perspective so tale it for what you will. Honestly the whole "you love it don't you you little slut" talk never did anything for me. Or curses/insults. I like to be ordered around and roughed up, maybe be a little patronized, during sex. But the slut shaming does nothing for me. The idea that I am NOT a slut but I am finding my innards massaged by a hard, steady cock and I reluctantly LOVE IT is much sexier to me.

Also, being tied up. I prefer the idea that no one is restraining me but I can't make myself leave than forcibly tied.

by Anonymousreply 21May 14, 2022 9:24 PM

R17 You are taking a lot of medication

by Anonymousreply 22May 14, 2022 9:34 PM

R21 "I prefer the idea that no one is restraining me but I can't make myself leave than forcibly tied. "

Again in English?

by Anonymousreply 23May 14, 2022 9:35 PM

Foot fetishes explained:

[quote]The different parts of our bodies are mapped out on this cortex in such a way that the part of the brain that feels your feet and toes is bumped right up against the part of your brain that feels your genitals.

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by Anonymousreply 24May 14, 2022 9:36 PM

R23 replace "than" with "over than being"

by Anonymousreply 25May 14, 2022 9:37 PM

Oh shit, another that is pretty prevalent: Armpit fetishes. Wtf is that. How is that sexual in any way?

by Anonymousreply 26May 14, 2022 9:38 PM

The wearing women's panties thing.

by Anonymousreply 27May 14, 2022 9:40 PM

Pheromones, R26.

by Anonymousreply 28May 14, 2022 9:40 PM

R27 That's actually the worst of the list

by Anonymousreply 29May 14, 2022 9:41 PM

A true fetish of any description confuses me when it gets in the way of good sex, which is to say the fetishist needs it to be part of sex every time. I could get my head around some of them and be a good sport but your kink can't be the basis of my sex life every time. I went out with a guy who always had to bring it back to feet. I just gave up. I didn't share it, I didn't enjoy it, and the fixation on it just said if you loathe something, set it free.

by Anonymousreply 30May 14, 2022 9:42 PM

My point is that most of human sexuality is explained through biology. Let go of your Republican brainwashing and try to understand: we are just biological creatures subject to the laws of nature. Yes, we are at the top of the food chain, but we are still part of it.

by Anonymousreply 31May 14, 2022 9:43 PM

I love feet and armpits!

by Anonymousreply 32May 14, 2022 9:43 PM

r22 Roophies might be your fetish, dear, but I'm not interested.

by Anonymousreply 33May 14, 2022 10:06 PM

ASMR is just stupid. Someone gets their jollies from whispers and wrinkling up Saran Wrap?

by Anonymousreply 34May 14, 2022 10:09 PM

R22 guessing you meant that reply to me? (R20)

Let me reassure you--cobalamin is nothing more than the technical term for vitamin B12. The most effective way to take it is via injection, deposited into muscle rather than ingested, in controlled small doses (I take an ampoule of liquid B12, 1mg--half the RDA). B12 in any form doesn't bioaccumulate much, and the majority of it is excreted from the human body a day or two after injecting. Building up reserves of B12 in the body takes months, and if you stop taking supplements and struggle to retain levels (say, you lack parietal enzymes to extract it from meat/dairy), then your reserves will deplete again in short order. So, it's probably one of the least dangerous things with which one could possibly inject with a frequency.

The silicon injectors are far more worrying, and they're only doing it for kink.

by Anonymousreply 35May 14, 2022 10:09 PM

Wow this thread is like an ice cold shower. Agree on much of the things mentioned here.

The cuck thing I kind of get. I got turned on seeing my ex fucked and vice versa, but it was more threesomes or groups than the regular cuck thing—none of the insults or humiliation. It was just hot watching. Or having him watch.

Feet, armpits do nothing for me. Scat is an absolute HELLNO DON’T EVER TALK TO ME AGAIN.

My ex started getting into sounding. I had no idea what it was. He basically put metal rods down his urethra. How he found that hot I have no idea. He sent me videos and it just made me wince. Who thinks up this shit?

by Anonymousreply 36May 14, 2022 10:09 PM

I came across a video today of a middle aged naked man sitting in a wooden chair with his cock pushed down on to the seat of the chair, he had one of those heavy logger boots he was holding in his other hand, he started just hammering the hell out of his cock with the heal of the boot and not the least bit lightly. One hit would have had me doubled over but he just kept hammering away. I couldn't close that video fast enough, no I have no idea what happened beyond what I have already told you.

by Anonymousreply 37May 14, 2022 10:20 PM

Heterosexuality. Sick and perverted.

by Anonymousreply 38May 14, 2022 10:25 PM

Straight/confused guys have a thing for men with gynecomastia. My roommate has a girlfriend and I hear them fucking like rabbits a lot but we were drinking one night and he asked me if I had ever been a guy like that. I told him no, since I like guys pretty fit and he told me I don't know what I'm missing. He was going on and on about their soft bodies, boobs and how tender they are. To be honest, I think he might be full on gay because even though he's always having sex with his girlfriend, I've never seen him so passionate about her like he was when talking about this one guy in particular.

by Anonymousreply 39May 14, 2022 10:32 PM

A foot fetish is about a hot man's feet.....I do not have a shoe fetish, so I am not sure where "licking shoes" came into the discussion.

by Anonymousreply 40May 14, 2022 10:36 PM

NON-SEXUALLY and when practised independently, I can somewhat understand ageplay (a coping roleplay mechanism for trauma, usually separately termed as 'agere'), but when it's part of a relationship dynamic and/or turns in any degree sexual, even innuendo or mostly innocently, I nope out instantly and think everyone should. And young teens getting involved with this subcult is asking for trouble imo. Idk why popular media platforms allow kids & teens to post about it, it's gross.

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by Anonymousreply 41May 14, 2022 10:36 PM

R21 I like a little of that dirty talk but as I said at R5, guys never know how to, shall we say, "lightly pepper" their conversations during sex.

It's either "silent as a church mouse lest Mother hear us" or "Overdose of filthy talk and calling my partner a bitch/f*g/cunt/slut etc." Nuance is lost on so many of them.

I *do* like when a man is at least somewhat verbally expressive during sex, but I find most men under 35 have been trained to be completely quiet when they cum. It's a letdown.

by Anonymousreply 42May 14, 2022 10:39 PM

R1, interesting. I've been with a few foot fetishists and I found them to be gentle, even shy sometimes.

by Anonymousreply 43May 14, 2022 10:47 PM

r36 sounding has uses in some tribal communities and the modern equivalent expanded during the modern primitive era to extreme body modification -- that incorporated a little bdsm and sexuality in the mix. Though most would develop it into a fetish during the aids/hiv era and wider STI testing, when people were getting tested more frequently. .. basically some getting turned on by getting their dicks swabbed. Some find their way there after having to use a cather.

Also furthered as more guys started getting dick piercings and for some, it was the first step to considering splitting.

I find those into sounding tend to be more those that either lack external sensitivity or are too sensitive. in both cases, it can help with their issues. . . though there are other methods they can employ.

kind of like the small percentage of women that gained fetishes involving things related to a visit to a gynecologist.. in the era when women were seeing them more than once a year (and now hardly that). For many a haus frau, it was the first explosure to the thought of toys, bondage, using a sling or just trying different positions. You'll find many accounts of that even if they found the experience itself cold, steril and clinical, it still opened up a door to possibilities they hadn't considered before.

by Anonymousreply 44May 14, 2022 10:58 PM

not quite the same but might as well be:

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by Anonymousreply 45May 14, 2022 11:00 PM

R44 interesting. Sounding was totally new to me. It still makes me grimace. I lived a sheltered life I guess.

by Anonymousreply 46May 14, 2022 11:07 PM

[quote] the small percentage of women that gained fetishes involving things related to a visit to a gynecologist.. in the era when women were seeing them more than once a year (and now hardly that). For many a haus frau, it was the first explosure to the thought of toys, bondage, using a sling or just trying different positions. You'll find many accounts of that even if they found the experience itself cold, steril and clinical, it still opened up a door to possibilities they hadn't considered before.

Sad, but true.

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by Anonymousreply 47May 14, 2022 11:11 PM

Sounding. I was seriously traumatized from seeing it, & can't unsee it! I was looking on Xtube & found a model I liked, so I saw he had a video titled this, thinking it meant he made sounds, or was very verbal while jacking off. Um, far from it...

I guess the fact that he was holding a metal chopstick in the thumbnail should've been a clue that something was amiss...

by Anonymousreply 48May 14, 2022 11:51 PM

I would think sounding could be pretty dangerous if you don't know what you're doing. You could puncture your bladder, get an infection, or worse.

by Anonymousreply 49May 14, 2022 11:53 PM

If you're watching your partner with someone else and it's not humiliating, is that really cuckolding, or is it just a threesome?

by Anonymousreply 50May 15, 2022 12:20 AM

Cuck is the incel version of "voyeur"

by Anonymousreply 51May 15, 2022 12:42 AM

I fucked a guy that I met on Craigslist 15ish years ago that kept asking me to hit him in the face. I slapped him and he asked for it harder, then asked me to punch him. I was creeped out. What if it left a mark? What if I broke a tooth in his mouth? What if he sues me and accuses me of raping him or something? No thanks.

by Anonymousreply 52May 15, 2022 12:42 AM

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by Anonymousreply 53May 15, 2022 1:39 AM

I don't think I've seen a single reply mention pee. Guess it's well understood.

by Anonymousreply 54May 15, 2022 2:07 AM

I did, R5. But I don't call it pee, because I'm nice a five year old. It's PISS.

by Anonymousreply 55May 15, 2022 2:09 AM

R55 Sorry. PISS sounds so much more sophisticated. You're right. Only slightly different from the sound a snake makes. Harvard here we come.

by Anonymousreply 56May 15, 2022 2:12 AM

Fisting, scat, cock and ball torture, those stupid looking "cages" guys wear over their cocks, feminization (I thought being gay meant you liked men. If a guy said "my clitty" referring to his dick, I don't think I could go through with it).

by Anonymousreply 57May 15, 2022 2:26 AM

no remember fakir & cleo?

once part of the radical faeries' black wings?

by Anonymousreply 58May 15, 2022 2:29 AM

Blood play. Just no.

by Anonymousreply 59May 15, 2022 2:31 AM

Have you talked to your mom about this, OP? Because I have it on good authority she *understands* both those kinds.

by Anonymousreply 60May 15, 2022 2:31 AM

Choking

Degradation. Build me up motherfucker.

by Anonymousreply 61May 15, 2022 2:42 AM

Raceplay.

I don't see how any self respecting person of color could enjoy being called the N-word, a dirty Muslim, or being treated as though it were the days of slavery and segregation. To me, that says they hate themselves and have severe identity issues that need to be addressed with their family and a therapist.

by Anonymousreply 62May 15, 2022 2:57 AM

Spanking.

It doesn't disgust me — I just don't enjoy doing it or having it done to me. And watching it is boring.

So that's a kink that confuses me. Kinks I find gross are another thread.

by Anonymousreply 63May 15, 2022 3:04 AM

Crushing.

No.

by Anonymousreply 64May 15, 2022 3:05 AM

I had a hot Japanese girlfriend years back who would fuck other guys, come home and tell me about it so I would get worked up and fuck her hard. The first time it happened was with a 16-year-old boy when we were living in Sydney. Later it was an Englishman when we were back living in Japan. There were others after him. I loved those sloppy seconds.

by Anonymousreply 65May 15, 2022 3:16 AM

R65 fucking Hell, you two sound like you deserved each other.

We hope the poor teen lad you bloodsuckers used was at least of legal age of consent according to the state/territory of Oz you were in at the time (AOC is 17 not 16 in at least a few areas afaik)

by Anonymousreply 66May 15, 2022 11:53 AM

^^^ so laf. You are overthinking this

by Anonymousreply 67May 15, 2022 12:03 PM

R65 did you eventually have sex with males?

by Anonymousreply 68May 15, 2022 1:30 PM

Scat and fart fetish Extreme CBT Fisting and rosebud Bug chasing

by Anonymousreply 69May 15, 2022 2:24 PM

[quote]Fisting. I think you have to be mentally ill to try that.

Fetishes in general are not a sign of a well integrated personality.

by Anonymousreply 70May 15, 2022 2:32 PM

Coffee enemas. Why?

Someone mentioned it on another thread tonight, and it just shorted my brain out. Yeah, it's tame, but what's hot about it?

by Anonymousreply 71May 15, 2022 10:06 PM

All if it . I don’t like bad smells.

by Anonymousreply 72May 15, 2022 10:08 PM

The NELLIE PRISSPOT BRIGADE HAS ARRIVED!!!!

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by Anonymousreply 73May 15, 2022 10:08 PM

[quote] Straight/confused guys have a thing for men with gynecomastia.

Boobing breastily!

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by Anonymousreply 74May 15, 2022 10:09 PM

People don't seem to know what a cuckold is. A cuckold is a man who's wife is cheating on him and everyone in town knows about it EXCEPT him. He is clueless to his wife's cheating while everyone in town is talking about it. So if a guy is watching his partner have sex he is not a "Cuckold", he's just a guy that likes to watch - and be humiliated while watching.

by Anonymousreply 75May 15, 2022 11:46 PM

Cut cocks

by Anonymousreply 76May 15, 2022 11:48 PM

Everyone needs to see Pleasure. It just came out in the US yesterday and it was amazing.

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by Anonymousreply 77May 16, 2022 1:04 AM

R77 eh. Mental illness is not sexy

by Anonymousreply 78May 16, 2022 1:10 AM

Feeder fetish. The weird skinny guys who like to feed fatties and get sit on.

by Anonymousreply 79May 16, 2022 1:15 AM

Animal dick shaped dildos. Surely it's just a few steps away from bestiality

by Anonymousreply 80May 16, 2022 1:28 AM

R62 Ive been with several black men and it always astonished me when they would ask me to call them the N word. More than a few did too. Always during fucking I must add. Also more than one liked for me to say shit like "Fuck me with that big black dick" etc. Its funny but until your post I never thought of it in racial terms ! I also noticed no ones mentioned guys who like to get their dicks chewed on. 3 times in life Ive ran across men who loved to get their dicks gnawed on like a dog bone. I was scared to do it but it was their kink so I chewed away.One kept saying "harder! Harder!" to the point I just knew I was going to bite his dick off.

by Anonymousreply 81May 16, 2022 1:42 AM

Humiliation

Why would you want someone to say cruel, demeaning remarks about you and your body? I want my partner to see me as someone they desire and are attracted to. I'd be hurt if they started insulting me. And I couldn't do it to someone else either. If I thought of you as a "dumb, useless faggot with a small cock," I wouldn't be here.

by Anonymousreply 82May 16, 2022 3:24 AM

R75 you're citing the traditional understanding of the word "cuckold."

As a fetish, it's a bit different. The "cuck" knows about it, and the "bull," the man fucking his wife, is usually much bigger hung. The cuck does things like eating the load of the bull from his wife's pussy.

by Anonymousreply 83May 16, 2022 4:15 AM

Uncut cocks. Aesthetically they are uglier about 90% of the time, and taste nastier almost 100% of the time.

by Anonymousreply 84May 16, 2022 4:36 AM

Maybe just don’t DO what you don’t find appealing, and refrain from calling things stupid that YOU don’t find appealing just because YOU don’t understand the appeal.

That sounds rather like what heterosexual bigots like to say, doesn’t it, when they present assurances that have nothing against homosexuality but just can’t see why all those homosexualists have to go around making public displays of holding hands where children might see them?

by Anonymousreply 85May 16, 2022 4:46 AM

R84, yeah, you're wrong. So wrong.

by Anonymousreply 86May 16, 2022 5:08 AM

Cut cocks

by Anonymousreply 87May 16, 2022 5:31 AM

Mutilated cut cocks

by Anonymousreply 88May 16, 2022 5:31 AM

Desensitized, mutilated cut cocks

by Anonymousreply 89May 16, 2022 5:32 AM

Men who liked to get kicked in the balls and there are men who like that. Anything extreme like smacking, fisting or pain.

by Anonymousreply 90May 16, 2022 5:34 AM

I want to be secretly watched, either with someone or masturbating. I don't want to know I'm being watched, though.

by Anonymousreply 91May 16, 2022 5:36 AM

My kink is want a hung, total top, which a massive dick and a heart just as big. He only wants to fuck me, which is constant and he loves to cuddle while still inside my hole after be cums. He's an amazing kisser.

by Anonymousreply 92May 16, 2022 5:45 AM

In the Amber Turd thread, someone posted a twitter account of a woman who shits then eats her own feces. She smears it all over herself and acts like it is heaven on earth. What the motherfucking hell.

by Anonymousreply 93May 16, 2022 7:49 AM

What about the cuckoos who make urine their whole world? Like, I know it's for health, but it transgresses into crazy kinky territory. They drink it, bathe in it, smear it all over their bodies, put it in food... And not any fresh piss... old, fermented one.

by Anonymousreply 94May 16, 2022 8:23 AM

I have a foot fetish, well more for socks, but it does not dominate my sex life. As long as there’s kissing and fucking I’m happy – anything else is a bonus.

And also, at least for me, just because I have a fetish it doesn’t mean it’s something I want to do with everyone, or even everyone I find sexually attractive. I feel a bit sorry for people who are all about the fetish and that they apparently can’t get off without involving it.

I’m very much live and let live, but some things I can’t get my head around at all. Adult babies, those awful pup masks (already well covered in this thread), and people who say they’re into “taboo” stuff.

Kink is not a sign of 'mental illness' - it's having consensual fun.

by Anonymousreply 95May 16, 2022 12:05 PM

I don't get a straight man's fetish for MtF trannys. Chicks with dicks? I can't wrap my brain around it.

by Anonymousreply 96May 16, 2022 1:22 PM

[quote] Uncut cocks. Aesthetically they are uglier about 90% of the time, and taste nastier almost 100% of the time.

I'm cut, proud of it, but I disagree. Many uncut cuts can be aesthetically pleasing and I've never noticed a difference in taste (perhaps all the uncut guys I've been with keep it pristine down there). However...there have been too many times I've encountered an uncut cock where the foreskin doesn't fully retract, thus reducing my pleasure and increasing the work load -- one of the plusses of a cut cock is you don't have to use your hands at all, whereas with an uncut cock, you're constantly using your hands to retract the foreskin to get at that head.

Just my opinion.

by Anonymousreply 97May 16, 2022 2:00 PM

You can't have had many uncut cocks then, once I'm aroused my foreskin stays down. And it's self lubricating. What more do you need?

by Anonymousreply 98May 16, 2022 2:34 PM

If an uncut cock is something someone considers a kink, that person must be a seriously nellie prisspot. That's just dong in its natural state.

Some of these things are truly off the wall, though.

by Anonymousreply 99May 16, 2022 2:36 PM

R92 go jerk off already. GROSS!

by Anonymousreply 100May 16, 2022 3:51 PM

R92 - that sounds like me...I'm the top of your dreams

by Anonymousreply 101May 16, 2022 4:34 PM

Guys that get turned on by feet. I had one guy ask me during sex if he could suck on my toes

by Anonymousreply 102May 16, 2022 4:36 PM

OMG your TOES? How COULD he?

When you clutched your pearls, did they turn into diamonds?

by Anonymousreply 103May 16, 2022 8:16 PM

CBT. And I don’t mean cognitive behavioural therapy.

by Anonymousreply 104May 16, 2022 8:30 PM

Then what do you mean?

by Anonymousreply 105May 16, 2022 8:33 PM

Cock and ball torture.

by Anonymousreply 106May 16, 2022 8:40 PM

Size queens. Personally I prefer a hygienic, regular sized dick, an anaconda would freak me out. The actual dick has never been my favorite part of a guy though, I'm more into ass/body.

by Anonymousreply 107May 16, 2022 8:45 PM

Anti-size queens for sure. No mini gherkins welcome here.

by Anonymousreply 108May 16, 2022 8:50 PM

I've had a few guys reveal weird kinks to me.

One wanted me to wear a white shirt with food stains on it, which I politely declined. He was hot and hung like a bull, so we played once. The thing that killed a 2nd time (or any other time) was when he told me he got off on fresh skidmarks in tighty whities.

The weirdest by far was the guy who complimented me on my broad shoulders and biceps....and then wanted me to let him ride my shoulders as if I was a horse. In his full horse riding gear and everything. Ran the fuck away from that dude.

by Anonymousreply 109May 16, 2022 8:51 PM

Among the best tops I've ever experienced had a fetish for his bottoms dressing up in women's lingerie. So I did. I pretended it felt amazing, which turned his on even more.

It was weird, but he was amazing so it was worth feeling silly for a night.

by Anonymousreply 110May 16, 2022 8:53 PM

I had a FB whose fetish was slathering 501s with Vaseline Intensive Care (1970s version). I wouldn't let him do it to mine, so he bought me a couple of pairs of new ones, which he washed a lot. It was harmless fun, but the smell reminded me of an old boyfriend. When New Vaseline Boy (finally) took my jeans off and fucked me, I would sometimes imagine I was with Old Vaseline Boy, whom I missed terribly.

by Anonymousreply 111May 16, 2022 8:58 PM

FinDom (which is somehow related to foot fetishists )

Financial Domination where a Dom Male on social media berates you and demands you deposit money in his account.

by Anonymousreply 112May 16, 2022 9:04 PM

This is my favorite Kinks song. My confusion lies in the fact that I have no one I think of when I listen to it.

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by Anonymousreply 113May 16, 2022 9:23 PM

There's a version of financial BDSM which struck me as insane. The client gets off on having the dom/dominatrix bleed their account dry on luxury items like a fancy guitar, a PS5, a car, etc. Sweet deal for the sugar babies lol but I cannot imagine wanting this done to you.

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by Anonymousreply 114May 16, 2022 9:35 PM

The My Little Pony show has a pervy grown man following called the bronies. They draw cartoon pony porn and have a gathering called Bronycon. I assume there's overlap there with furries, grosses me out how they do that with a children's show.

by Anonymousreply 115May 16, 2022 10:47 PM

R112 I actually posted a thread here a while back asking about it. I couldn't believe such a thing existed. I though it was some weird method of escorting but I didn't realize that some of the willing participants basically give their life savings to the "dom" guys.

by Anonymousreply 116May 16, 2022 10:56 PM

I'm a cuckold (and gay) so I get that one, but I cringe at findom, fisting and puppy play.

by Anonymousreply 117May 16, 2022 11:23 PM

[quote] I don't get a straight man's fetish for MtF trannys.

Perfectly reasonable. They're not straight, no matter what they say or delusionally believe.

by Anonymousreply 118May 16, 2022 11:33 PM

[quote] Kink that confuse you

Dave Davies. I mean, his brother is way more famous.

by Anonymousreply 119May 17, 2022 1:36 AM

I'm not done quite what R110 did - though if the right guy asked I'd consider it - but I've played around with some married men and guys who I knew were bi, liked women or were just in it for a BJ.

I knew at those times to sort of present a softer side of myself.

by Anonymousreply 120May 17, 2022 1:44 AM

I had one of those R110 ! He had a black lace peignoir he asked me to wear . At first I was like "Im a queen but not a drag queen" but he had a big fat cock and was very cute so I thought "WTF,why not?" I saw him several times,and I donned that thing every time! In fact,he stopped calling me because the last time I went to his house I had cut my shoulder length brown hair into a crewcut ! he said it turned him off! LOL!

by Anonymousreply 121May 17, 2022 1:44 AM

What about this one, the cop on a domestic violence call in San Jose, CA, who starts jacking off in the complainant's house in front of the family? Kinky!!

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by Anonymousreply 122May 17, 2022 1:48 AM

R99, I’m not sure to whom you’re directing your comment, but uncut cock is definitely a fetish among a lot of men who fuck other men. If it weren’t, then why do you see so many Grindr headlines or profiles (at least in the US) literally saying things like “SEEKING UNCUT” or “uncut preferred”. or some variation of that? I see at least one on a daily basis . On the contrary, I don’t think I’ve ever seen someone specify they are seeking or prefer cut / circumcised cock…

by Anonymousreply 123May 17, 2022 5:44 AM

And yes, sorry to burst the triggered anti-circ troll who felt the need to post literally 3 times in a row, but circumcised cock is almost always better looking and better tasting. 3/4 of my experiences with uncut cock have left a bad taste in my mouth, no pun intended 🤢 (esp the Greek and Latin ones, which is very sad…)

by Anonymousreply 124May 17, 2022 5:46 AM

In terms of porn limits, did you know that interracial is considered the most hardcore kink to perform, even beyond double anal.

by Anonymousreply 125May 17, 2022 5:48 AM

I think this is mainly a straight thing but man it’s fucking weird. It was based on the girl in Charlie and the Chocolate Factory who got turned into a blueberry. Apparently that’s “hot”.

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by Anonymousreply 126May 17, 2022 8:30 AM

R124 sorry but cut cock is invariably pretty unattractive: the scarring and discolouration can be nasty or the fact it gets kinda dried out like old jerky (no pun intended). Plus, the cock head is probably the ugliest part of a penis. Nope, natural all the way.

by Anonymousreply 127May 17, 2022 8:41 AM

You should be cautious if you want kink. It’s never good to share it, after your first hook up. (Unless your trick knows it advance.)

by Anonymousreply 128May 17, 2022 11:58 AM

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by Anonymousreply 129May 17, 2022 12:02 PM

I prefer gay leather bars to be honest and I'm not really into the leather scene to be honest. There are actual men in them, not chicks with dicks. Every night doesn't need to be a drag pageant.

by Anonymousreply 130May 17, 2022 12:22 PM

[quote] Uncut cock is definitely a fetish among a lot of men who fuck other men

You seem to be confusing a PREFERENCE with a FETISH.

by Anonymousreply 131May 17, 2022 10:21 PM

R126 wins the thread. What in the actual fuck.

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by Anonymousreply 132May 17, 2022 11:11 PM

Zoophilia and Mr. Hands! I watched the documentary "Zoo" which is on youtube and it was a surprisingly well done film, with high remarks from critics, about men who like to get fucked and bred by actual horses.

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by Anonymousreply 133May 18, 2022 3:59 AM

That's just so vile. So, so gross.

by Anonymousreply 134May 18, 2022 4:21 AM

I find cuckolding SO hot. I don't know why. I'd never want to be a part of it at all. Just one of those of things?

Don't get feet, furries, piss play.

But I have things I like I'm sure others don't get.

Live and let live and all that jazz.

by Anonymousreply 135May 18, 2022 5:06 AM

Virginity kink. And I *am* a virgin, saying that.

Obviously, for most straight men it’s mostly about creating an excuse/pretext for liking barely-legal teens. But the ones who want adult virgins are odd, and creepy. Is it all about possession and control, conquering uncharted territory? Or is there more to it that I’m overlooking?

by Anonymousreply 136May 20, 2022 10:19 AM

I'd forgotten this one. There's some loon who cuts and pastes the same message on Grindr and other sites and sends it round regularly, it goes something like this;

"Hey! What would you do if I was only a few inches high and you found me inside your sock? You can reply with a voice message if you want!"

How the fuck do you discover that THAT is the thing that really gets your rocks off? Moreover, isn't it a bit tragic when your kink / fetish is something that can never, ever happen in reality?

by Anonymousreply 137May 20, 2022 11:57 AM
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