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Why are gay men obsessed with high strung women?

One would think that such women are natural enemies of gay men. Lesbians definitely do NOT like high strung str8 men

by Anonymousreply 40May 9, 2022 3:32 AM

Because they can relate to them as their mom figures?

by Anonymousreply 1May 7, 2022 12:42 AM

Becuse they remind them of themselves?

by Anonymousreply 2May 7, 2022 12:42 AM

Reinforces their feelings of superiority over womankind.

by Anonymousreply 3May 7, 2022 12:44 AM

how R3?

by Anonymousreply 4May 7, 2022 12:45 AM

It’s all about the DRAMA.

by Anonymousreply 5May 7, 2022 12:46 AM

They can always talk about those flighty bitches with disdain.

Same reason some people only have dumb friends (or fat, or unattractive, or poor.....etcetc).

by Anonymousreply 6May 7, 2022 12:56 AM

We're not?

by Anonymousreply 7May 7, 2022 1:12 AM

Generational Trauma response from loving Helen Lawson.

by Anonymousreply 8May 7, 2022 1:16 AM

high strung or high maintenance?

It's more the latter, I'm assuming.

Generally, women that are high maintenance take the big things as less important than the more superficial... while lesbians (in groups) are a miserable drag to be around as they get high strung and overly defensive to every perceived microaggression... plus the likelihood of a dyke brawl increases with every lesbian added to a group. Yes, there are high maintenance lesbians, but most of the crowd are wearing whatever looked clean and didn't smell too much off the floor. If they use deodorant then it's likely axe body spray... and walking down the street with that, you're either accused of trying to groom a teen or hooking up with Justin Bieber.

Also, high maintenance women tend to carry a better class of drugs.

lesbians are great for pot, though.

by Anonymousreply 9May 7, 2022 1:26 AM

Flamboyant gay men take on and exaggerate what they think female behavior is. It’s another slap in the face by men to women.

by Anonymousreply 10May 7, 2022 1:35 AM

Why not just admit you hate men

Seriously, the sheer ego and vanity that everything about gay men is somehow related and defined to wanting to be women, envious of women or otherwise, somehow, someway proverbially raping women. Where else have we heard these screams day after day after day...

then again, they're don't seem to like women very much either... and I swear nearly every single one of them claims their mother was a narcissist and then proceeded to discover narcissists in every part of their lives... millions, billions of narcissists all out to get them, all the time, everywhere.

by Anonymousreply 11May 7, 2022 1:54 AM

R11, this thread doesn't appear to be about you.

by Anonymousreply 12May 7, 2022 1:57 AM

I said flamboyant gay men, not everything about gay men. And I am right.

by Anonymousreply 13May 7, 2022 1:57 AM

Many gay men absolutely hate women and yet envy them. Old as time.

by Anonymousreply 14May 7, 2022 1:59 AM

You asking me?

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by Anonymousreply 15May 7, 2022 2:04 AM

Really?

You all can't figure this out?

Effeminate gay men have been put down by straight men and women their whole lives and diminished as "less than men" which is why they even refer to each other by female pronouns.

They love "cunts" (high strung women) because the cunts stand up to the sort of straight men who diminish the femme gays and actually put them in their place.

SEE ALSO: BLACK WOMEN, SASSY

by Anonymousreply 16May 7, 2022 2:13 AM

If you hate gay men so much, OP, why don't you go somewhere else?

by Anonymousreply 17May 7, 2022 2:31 AM

Borderlines are loads of fun.

by Anonymousreply 18May 7, 2022 2:54 AM

R18 No, a million times no. There is a certain type of narcissistic female that can occasionally be fun and amusing as a casual friend ( think Jenna Maroney from 30 rock) but borderlines are vindictive nightmares.

by Anonymousreply 19May 7, 2022 3:02 AM

First explain what high strung truly means.

by Anonymousreply 20May 7, 2022 3:04 AM

High strung is another term like hysteria that the male dominated psychiatric complex created to undermine females natural reactions and make them pathological.

by Anonymousreply 21May 7, 2022 3:08 AM

They aren’t- you’re making something up

by Anonymousreply 22May 7, 2022 3:10 AM

literally every single divas are high strung and gay men worship them.

by Anonymousreply 23May 7, 2022 3:12 AM

I'm a gay man and I couldn't care less about women. I like men. My idols are men and I only have two friends who are women. My mom and my aunts are accomplished career women but I have nothing in common with them. I actually like some fem guys but I can't date them because we have nothing in common. My experience as a gay man is that fems are the ones that worship divas, make threads on who was prettier Hepburn or Marilyn. Straight/Bi men and most gay men don't care about it. I grew up around straight and bi men and most of my exes were bi or gay men like me that blended in with any other men.

I feel sorry for my straight males friends. because men and women are so different and have nothing in common. If women knew what their male partners think of them, they would freak out. Most men only stay with them out of duty or sex, if they could never have to deal with women out of the bedroom they would. Thats why so many have DL affairs with men.

by Anonymousreply 24May 8, 2022 8:12 PM

Also that's why men want to spend all their time with other men and not their wives. I think bi couples where women allow the men to explore his sexuality are healthier and can work longterm.

by Anonymousreply 25May 8, 2022 8:17 PM

Does that happen?

by Anonymousreply 26May 8, 2022 8:25 PM

I'm a gay man but I hate men with a passion. I hate how dull they are in general, how they get fixated on really stupid things and their lack of emotional maturity. Women have given me all of these things, the only problem is I am wired to sexually attracted to men. I wish that I wasn't because I think the planet isn't better off without them.

by Anonymousreply 27May 8, 2022 8:29 PM

*is better off without them. Sorry for the typo.

by Anonymousreply 28May 8, 2022 8:30 PM

R9 writing from 1993

by Anonymousreply 29May 8, 2022 8:32 PM

R27 I agree. Women are just a lot more interesting human beings. I bet being a woman would be a lot more interesting too. Men are dull and basic.

by Anonymousreply 30May 8, 2022 8:33 PM

Women are more interesting the same way that Satan was the best part of Paradise Lost.

by Anonymousreply 31May 8, 2022 8:36 PM

[quote][bold]females natural reactions[/bold] and make them pathological.

To be fair, the vast majority of these natural reactions border on the neurotic and are absolutely headache-inducing.

Calm down. Men get on my nerves with their "natural behaviors," also. I seem to only be able to tolerate animals for extended periods of time.

by Anonymousreply 32May 8, 2022 8:40 PM

Gays from the 70s really were raised by their female allies, which produced pathetic people such as R30. Most women say the same thing about men which is way they cheat on them with other men they hang out every time.

DLers usually never spend time with other men so of course they worship women. There are as many mature men as women, but fems and DLers like R30 don't understand them, because I truly believe that fem gays feel like women and equally don't understand men because their ID was formed around women and their misconceptions about men.

My personal idea of hell would be a place with women around. Like Sex and the City. I don't understand why men, any man could find 30 minutes of annoying women talking about men is something amusing. Unlike what DLers think, only a small group of men talk about women all the time. After high school most men spend more time talking about the common interest they have with their friends. their jobs and they measure success more around their careers than how many women they sleep with.

Fem gays have a real hard time maintaining masculine boyfriends, or the bi ones too, because their bond is purely physical just like with women. I've been told countless times that they wish to have a wife that they could do everything with as they do with other guys. Some of my exes friends were jealous of my ex and I together because we did everything together with them and I had asked my ex who was bi to never leave me with the women, which he did anyway twice till I simply left them and joined the men who were talking about things I actually cared about.

by Anonymousreply 33May 8, 2022 8:46 PM

[quote]I bet being a woman would be a lot more interesting too.

Sure. You wouldn't believe how "interesting" it gets for 5-7 days each month, too. Could do a whole monologue show about it.

by Anonymousreply 34May 8, 2022 8:50 PM

Speak for yourself. Stop generalizing. All gay men aren't the same.

by Anonymousreply 35May 8, 2022 9:13 PM

Love R16.

by Anonymousreply 36May 8, 2022 9:16 PM

I have no idea what you're talking about.

by Anonymousreply 37May 8, 2022 10:41 PM

R24 WTF?

by Anonymousreply 38May 9, 2022 2:50 AM

The frauen are drunk posting on here again...

No, we are not obsessed with you. No, we're not sexually attracted to you.

by Anonymousreply 39May 9, 2022 3:22 AM

Ask Jonathan Groff.

by Anonymousreply 40May 9, 2022 3:32 AM
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