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Hot Straight Men with Grotesquely Fat Women

So common yet I’ve never once seen the reverse.

by Anonymousreply 58May 1, 2022 7:05 PM

It's the opposite. There are tons of fat/ugly guys with hot women, look at Alec Baldwin and his bimbo wife or Harvey and Georgina

I never see ugly women with hot men

DLers who fetishize straight men are just jealous of straight women

by Anonymousreply 1April 30, 2022 9:26 PM

I’ve never seen that, R1.

by Anonymousreply 2April 30, 2022 9:29 PM

Podunk, Idaho: hot straight guy with fat fugly woman.

Hollywood, California: hot straight woman with fat fugly man.

by Anonymousreply 3April 30, 2022 9:42 PM

R2, you need to get out more. You just want a chance to lash out at straight women. Men are just as likely to be fat as women. If all the fat women are with thin men (according to you) who are the thin women and fat men dating?

by Anonymousreply 4April 30, 2022 9:44 PM

It's like... exactly the opposite, OP

by Anonymousreply 5April 30, 2022 9:47 PM

Are men and women overweight at the same rates? That seems unlikely.

by Anonymousreply 6April 30, 2022 9:51 PM

Mummy complex.

by Anonymousreply 7April 30, 2022 9:54 PM

It certainly exists in normcore America.

by Anonymousreply 8April 30, 2022 9:55 PM

Have you never watched TV before, OP? 99% of sitcoms feature a fat ass with an attractive wife.

by Anonymousreply 9April 30, 2022 11:49 PM

I never see hot men with fat women - only the opposite. Where are you, OP?

by Anonymousreply 10April 30, 2022 11:51 PM

Never change, Datalounge. Never change.

by Anonymousreply 11April 30, 2022 11:52 PM

Most military wives are huge fat fraus dating hot men

by Anonymousreply 12April 30, 2022 11:52 PM

R12, in spite of your fantasies most military men are not very hot

by Anonymousreply 13May 1, 2022 12:24 AM

At least you don't disagree that military wives are huge fat fraus R13!

by Anonymousreply 14May 1, 2022 1:15 AM

R14, they are married to ugly fat military men

by Anonymousreply 15May 1, 2022 1:18 AM

I haven't seen any hot men with a fat woman. It doesn't make any sense whatsoever that a hot guy would be with a nauseating obese woman. However, normal size guys who are average or below will use a fat woman because they want someone who they are confident that no other man would want. It's a way to get a woman who can't ever leave for another man.

by Anonymousreply 16May 1, 2022 1:23 AM

Some very fit straight men have a fat fetish. They're sexually turned on by all that blubber. Go figure. And many other straight men marry nice looking gals, but lust after big sows because they like to go hoggin' every once in a while.

by Anonymousreply 17May 1, 2022 1:24 AM

There are some insecure fat fraus on this thread

by Anonymousreply 18May 1, 2022 1:25 AM

R17 Riiiight

by Anonymousreply 19May 1, 2022 1:27 AM

We had a hot music teacher in my middle school. Fabulous blonde big 1980s hair (it was the 80s), raspy voice...think Kim Carnes, and a smoking body. When I was in high school, I noticed she was attending my family's church (which wasn't in my school district, but a nearby large city.) Her husband was as wide as he was tall, shorter than her, with a mullet, and so fat he could only wear sweatpants. I never understood the attraction she had to him They adopted a baby years later...at least she brought a baby to church and she never appeared pregnant. Now I must see if they're still together.

by Anonymousreply 20May 1, 2022 1:35 AM

[quote] So common yet I’ve never once seen the reverse.

And now you have OP

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by Anonymousreply 21May 1, 2022 1:38 AM

What's more common is your mental illness, OP.

by Anonymousreply 22May 1, 2022 1:39 AM

I see hot latin men looking forlorn at Home Depot all the time. With the overweight un attractive wife and 3 kids in tow

by Anonymousreply 23May 1, 2022 1:47 AM

Everyone sees what they want to see. Confirmation bias. Yes, there are a more than a few fat military wives. There are also fat guys with money who have thin wives. I see fat women with a lot of gay friends. [bold]But maybe that's my bias.[/bold] In any event, they are rarely "grotesquely obese," unless you use the DL Karen-Carpenter-looks-just-fine standard. There's no quantitative data supporting OP's claim.

by Anonymousreply 24May 1, 2022 2:17 AM

A lot more women then men are fat. Many women go fat after first kid. There is always a shortage of thin attractive women. Also, those hot guys are probably dumb and the fat woman is probably smart. Opposites attract.

by Anonymousreply 25May 1, 2022 2:26 AM

I grew up in a lower class redneck area and I saw plenty of hot sexy white trash boys with big fat bitches. The bitches used to be hot and sexy too,till they spit out a few kids .Then they balloon up and he's still got six pack abs cause he works laying roofs or doing construction. Many I knew personally also cheated on said bitches left right and sideways. Always drama with white trash. You'd think they were lesbians !

by Anonymousreply 26May 1, 2022 2:30 AM

Here in Australia it's definitely the opposite. It's incredibly fat, slobby, bogan men who maybe used to play rugby or work in construction so they had a bit more weight but were more toned in the past. And they now are addicted to meat pies, beer, and their Sportsbet accounts, and live sedentary lives. The wives are usually thin, hot, and very devoted (if a little dumb as well). And they still get cheated on left right and centre...

by Anonymousreply 27May 1, 2022 2:38 AM

[quote]Grotesquely Fat Women

Wow! A triple redundancy, OP!

by Anonymousreply 28May 1, 2022 2:43 AM

[quote]The wives are usually thin, hot, and very devoted....

They may be thin but not especially hot. My observation (and my partner's) when we spent a few weeks in Sydney was the young men were very hot and the women were remarkably homely. I don't disagree the men are addicted to meat pies, beer, and their Sportsbet accounts, and live sedentary lives," but women don't get prettier as they age.

by Anonymousreply 29May 1, 2022 2:44 AM

I know a sexy rural guy who married a fattie. She was a fat kid too, so not after the kids. He's cute but dull as a box of rocks. He cheats a lot.

by Anonymousreply 30May 1, 2022 2:49 AM

How much does the avg military wife weigh?

by Anonymousreply 31May 1, 2022 2:50 AM

R29 I live in Sydney and haven't found the same thing. Although maybe I should clarify that it's more that the women (who are thin) are usually very well groomed and look after their appearance. Hair did, lots of Instagram Baddie style makeup, maybe a bit of lip filler and fake tan.

Not to my taste, but still a far cry from their slovenly, obese boyfriends and husbands. There's a lot of 'settling' going on. And I think our culture also holds up these ideals (many of these footy bogans are national heroes and beloved by both men and women)

by Anonymousreply 32May 1, 2022 2:55 AM

I think a certain type of fat woman is kinda alpha. They find hot guys and are very aggressive. With the right hot / simp guy combo they end up with fat chick. Have kids with fat chick. Game over

by Anonymousreply 33May 1, 2022 2:57 AM

[quote]Although maybe I should clarify that it's more that the women (who are thin) are usually very well groomed and look after their appearance.

I'm not disagreeing. But I didn't think they were pretty. By and large, the women were homely but also very well groomed and look after their appearance. The young men we saw them with were hot to death, especially on the beach. But not just there, just walking around town. I don't doubt the men don't age well, but until say, 32....damn!

by Anonymousreply 34May 1, 2022 3:00 AM

Most women are fat now, so straight men have to settle or be alone.

by Anonymousreply 35May 1, 2022 3:23 AM

R26 I lived in Minnesota and Florida and you hit the nail right on the head!

by Anonymousreply 36May 1, 2022 3:53 AM

Fat women are just not alpha. They may think they are, but they're not seeing themselves as others view them. From what I've seen, the hotter guys with the fatties usually have issues that other women pass on, i.e. lazy, unemployed, unfaithful, abusive, swingers, etc.

by Anonymousreply 37May 1, 2022 4:02 AM

Some straight guys just like big boobs and butts, they don't care if the bellies and thighs are going to be big, too.

by Anonymousreply 38May 1, 2022 4:07 AM

[quote] Have you never watched TV before, OP? 99% of sitcoms feature a fat ass with an attractive wife.

I’m talking about real life.

by Anonymousreply 39May 1, 2022 6:06 AM

Another "Hoggin'" thread.

by Anonymousreply 40May 1, 2022 6:18 AM

Outside of fetish porn I don’t think this is really a thing. I’m sure there are some “love is blind” cases, but c’mon.

by Anonymousreply 41May 1, 2022 7:18 AM

OP is a repressed tranny. Live your truth tranny whore!

by Anonymousreply 42May 1, 2022 7:20 AM

I think it’s less love is blind than it is you take the the only thing on offer.

And can’t so anything if they get fat after marriage

by Anonymousreply 43May 1, 2022 7:23 AM

Many of the men are not hot but rather pleasant lookin but most military men have fat fuck wives.

On the other side any short RICH troll can purchase a wife/prostitute.

by Anonymousreply 44May 1, 2022 7:29 AM

Move to Netherlands or Northern Germany. Tall and thin, both sexes. Not gorgeous, rather sturdily handsome, both sexes. And the men have huge cocks.

by Anonymousreply 45May 1, 2022 7:31 AM

“Settlin’ & Hoggin’”

by Anonymousreply 46May 1, 2022 7:36 AM

There are lots of good sturdy manly types in Germany and Netherlands.

But that look only looks good on men.

All the women look butch.

by Anonymousreply 47May 1, 2022 7:40 AM

I live in Germany R45 NOT all the men have huge cocks.

by Anonymousreply 48May 1, 2022 7:44 AM

I don’t know why anyone would cite Hollywood sitcoms as being representative at reality.

Body positivity has only come for women, of course.

by Anonymousreply 49May 1, 2022 8:22 AM

There was this big fat blonde loud mouth girl Rachael I knew in high school over 20 years ago who somehow always had a really cute boyfriend, I'm talking the smokin hot jock,, the sexy rock star bf, the cute nerd bf, etc. throughout hs. All of them were head turning young men, I always wondered what was the attraction for them? Recently, I ran into Rachael at Walmart, still a big fat woman, has 3 kids by 3 different men (no judgement), first two born out of wedlock,, but currently married to the father of child #3. She's nearing 40, and as we were briefly chatting, the current husband appears, BAM, 40ish with dark good looks and fine! I'm guessing some guys like the big fat bossy type and being told what to do, it must transfer into the bedroom, etc. lol.

by Anonymousreply 50May 1, 2022 9:03 AM

I think I read somewhere (probably very disreputable) that all that fat surrounding the fish hole makes it feel tighter around the dick.

by Anonymousreply 51May 1, 2022 9:26 AM

I don't like LA and it's a common sight around where I live.

by Anonymousreply 52May 1, 2022 10:39 AM

I mean LIVE in LA.

by Anonymousreply 53May 1, 2022 10:52 AM

Skinny rat like men are often with fat chicks.

The fat chicks control the skinny rat men.

by Anonymousreply 54May 1, 2022 11:39 AM

[quote]DLers who fetishize straight men are just jealous of straight women

Homophobic.

by Anonymousreply 55May 1, 2022 11:46 AM

Pierce Brosnan owns this thread.

by Anonymousreply 56May 1, 2022 11:52 AM

Fish hole ! 🐟 🕳. Oh my 😳

by Anonymousreply 57May 1, 2022 6:52 PM

Military guys tend to meet their wives while stationed somewhere and wind up in Fort Anywhere America where they likely only see women on occasion and tend to pair up with whatever they can find in the area.

by Anonymousreply 58May 1, 2022 7:05 PM
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