I'm 59, he's 62 and we have three adopted sons. We're not as young as we used to be and the idea of a houseboy sounds tempting. He could help with the household chores, help out with the kids and generally take over most of the household duties. My only worry is that he will cause my husband to lose sexual interest in me. I'm a housebottom and though I still regularly get more than my fair share of dick (all takers, status irrelevant), I'd be lying if I said that my sex life hadn't seen better days. So I'm approaching this suggestion with a frisson of trepidation. My husband noticed that I'm tiptoeing around the subject, but I try to keep things civil.
We already interviewed a couple of candidates. I specified the houseboy should be strictly SASA, preferably Latino. A top would be less temptation for my husband. My husband, however, has insisted on interviewing all applicants. I insisted on specifying SASA in the ad. This is critical. I justified that position by making clear that since all three of our boys are bottoms too, having a SASA, masc, built houseboy would benefit the majority of the household. My eldest son agreed with me - we adopted him from El Salvador and he would love to have a good POC role model in his life. Having a masc, SASA, jacked houseboy would be just fabulous for both of us! Our two younger adopted sons were also adopted from Latin America, so it's pretty certain we'd be employing a Latino gentleman.
The interviews didn't go too well though. We had a fabulous Chicano boy come in: mid-20s, masc, square jaw, jacked, dark hair, blue eyes, caramel skin, colossal pinga. My hole literally became wet when I saw him. Even my husbear was visibly erect in his tight Levi's (he's masc, straight-passing, bald, bearded, tattooed, heavyset, super-jacked and veiny). The sexual tension was palpable. The boy was hard in his shorts, too. I could smell his sweat and cock funk. I volunteered to suck his cock halfway through the interview and he just turned his nose up at me and said, "As if!" He left with an indignant swirl. My husband loudly berated me for being 'desperate' and ruining the interview. It was going so well. Anyway, now we're at loggerheads over candidates, and worrying if a houseboy will make our sex life even harder.
Anyone on DL have any experiences with employing houseboys. Basically, I understand they're expected to top on demand, but can my husbear ask them to douche every day? What's the policy on adopted sons? Is it like something we set out in the contract, or do we like just wait for shit to happen?