Anyone here attracted to “ugly” guys?

Have never gone for guys with 'looks'. Imagine having to share the mirror...hell no.

[quote]But god damn is it easy to get laid.

You answered your own question. You're attracted to people with few options. Probably a security thing. This isn't complicated.

You shouldn’t be proud of your low standards. You are also probably deluded on your looks.

Oh yeah. Sexiness doesn’t have anything to do with a man’s face in my book.

The best lovers are usually the average guys, because they're more interested in you then their own looks 😍

Can you give us an example in image of what you typically consider "average" or "ugly cute" men?

Do you mean genuinely ugly, or ugly-hot? There is a difference! Ugly-hot - not conventionally attractive but something sexy about them. I like guys like this!

I consider actor Josh O'Connor to be truly objectively ugly. Big ears, big face, pasty skin, only ok body. But somehow hawt. It's very odd.

Partly it's that he's clearly intelligent as well as talented. But there is something else there.

R7 I mean ugly-hot. Definitely NOT ugly ugly. I’m not desperate. I just have unconventional tastes.

You're attracted to people with few optio

In other words, these people are desperate for sex, so they'll do anything.

Josh O’Connor is helped by his cheery disposition and massive dong r8

Adam Driver

I'm mostly into "unconventionally attractive" (don't look like a 1950s pinup) men. Pretty boys have never done anything for me sexually. My first serious boyfriend in college looked a lot like young Steve Buscemi.

My all time celeb crushes would be Jean-Paul Belmondo circa the 1960s-1970s and Willem Dafoe...any time.

We’re such a visually oriented culture that we’re constantly rediscovering to our wonder what a multi sensory experience sex can be. Yes, sometimes you can have a better time with (or fall in love harder with) someone who doesn’t tick all the conventional boxes.

OP, this post has more layers than an onion but I'll try to cover them all.

You seem to be judging yourself and others through some very stylized version of what is pretty and/or handsome. My tastes don't line up at all with the "pretty boys" of the moment or most of the guys I see shared here that are on OnlyFans or TikTok.

There is an aesthetic we've discussed here before - what I remember people calling "bruto bella" or "ugly pretty" - someone whose differences or imperfections actually made them sexier in some ways. R13 touches on this concept nicely. I grew up around many men like this - in a town where it was Italians, Polish and other Eastern Europeans - none of those guys were traditionally handsome but they could be "bruto bella" (and hung like you wouldn't believe).

If you're fucking around with guys because they make your dick hard, throw an arrow real high in the air and hooray for you, that's all anyone can ask for, right? But if you're doing it because you think they're somehow like a bargain basement variety of guy and you can't do any better, then I'd say there's something weird there and you should maybe look into that, or talk to someone about it. That could be a self esteem or insecurity issue.

R13 Steve Buscemi? There's a difference between "unconventionally attractive" and "conventionally unattractive".

Steve Buscemi was adorable in Parting Glances.

R17 He looked a lot like Steve in that movie specifically, down to the leather jacket. I dated said bf because he was smart, sweet and fun in bed, not really for his looks either way.

I’ve gone on Grindr DL hookups sight unseen and pleasantly surprised how much I enjoyed the sex even if they’re not necessarily my type.

Beautiful men are usually narcissistic and unpleasant. Average guys at least you can carry a conversation with and they tend to be more loyal. You can find attractive men everywhere though but they aren't going to be model gorgeous of course. Charm and intelligence is sexy and also voice.

The TikTok and IG hoes that people thirst over here would never talk to us unless we give them money and even then it would be a tiny nod. They are greedy attention seeking sociopaths.

I was just thinking this about this random guy I saw on Twitter. Not good-looking, not a hot bod, but I find him totally sexy.

Ive shared this story before. My very 1st "true" love asked me out for 6 months before I said yes. He was 6,2 wide shoulders,nice hairy body ,but his face on his best day was a 5. He was well aware of it . He had big brown eyes,thick wavy dark hair ,but his nose had been broken ,his teeth were crooked (but not nasty) and he had a scar on his lip that pulled it slightly askew. One day he asked me out again and I said "yes" ,as I had just broken up with a guy and was feeling peevish. Mind you,Im not proud of the fact I was so superficial,but I was a 70s-80s queen . Anyhoo,we went to eat and as I was sitting across from him I noticed those shoulders,those brown eyes (with lashes to envy) those big hands and thought to myself "Hmm why not?"

Long story short,we end up at my place and fucked from fri night till mon morning. The sex was amazing,Also during that time he said many things that just floored me. I wasnt bad looking,and I had heard my share of compliments but he swept me off my feet. We pretty much were together from that point forward,and had 12 wonderful years together. I thanked god many times that i was for once able to look past the surface and see the person .(dont judge me,I was young and stupid) . After him,Ive never dismissed someone because of looks again.

People have told me I have weird taste in guys. Isn’t beauty in the eye of the beholder?

Ugly guys, no. Average guys, yes. I have always been attracted to guys who are more average looking. I always liked dad bods or bearish builds, too, not toned and muscular, and that goes all the way back to my childhood. I think some of us are just wired to be attracted to certain types. I remember back in the day some of my gay male friends were appalled that I didn't like toned, muscular guys. My attitude was always I'm the one who is sleeping with them, so what do you care?

I've dated my share of conventionally attractive guys, too. At least in my experience, they fell into two categories: arrogant or boring. One guy I dated for a couple months was very good looking. But man, was he a crashing bore. By the end of our dating time, I found myself making excuses to avoid having to talk to him or go out with him, which was a chore. When I broke it off, he even asked if was because he was boring. I just said it didn't seem we had a lot in common, which can make conversation difficult. He said other guys had straight up told him he was boring. Poor guy.

The next guy I dated was average looking with a bear build. Super fun to be with and we'd have the best conversations. I never found myself wishing I could avoid him.

The arrogant ones were for me almost immediate turn-offs. They'd be nice at first, then the arrogance would come through. They'd criticize everyone for not being perfect. I mean, these guys were nice looking but not God's gift, but they thought they were. One guy talked so much about his looks I asked him if he was familiar with the Greek myth of Narcissus. Of course he didn't know what I was talking about. Usually I'd only go out with these guys on maybe two or three dates. Each time when I said it wasn't working for me, they'd get really angry. One guy even said did I know how lucky I was to be dating someone like him? I replied that his statement right there should tell him why I didn't want to go out with him again.

Every man that is not a total asshole can have something attractive about them.

The best looking man that is a pure asshole instantly has his appeal demoted to zero once he reveals his anti-social or unethical personality.

What do you guys think of this guy?

too hairy

No, r26.

R26, Toooooo much hair.

Anyone who complains about too much hair should never, ever, ever be with a man again. Ever.

The first guy I ever really fell in love with (alas, straight) had had a broken nose & had horrible, misshapen, buck teeth. Nevertheless, I thought he was so hot & handsome & we became best friends (platonic) right off the bat.

5 or so years after we fell out, we both attended the same junior college (unbeknownst to me). I needed glasses very badly & couldn't see distance, & I saw what I thought was the handsomest guy like 50 feet away from me--and it turned out to be him. The heart wants what it wants!

Apparently I am!

R30, I'm tooo delicate a flower to face all that beard. My skin is soft and tender.

r30: or for that matter, with Selena Gomez!

He has handsome features, R26.

R26 should photograph his "friend" from a more conventional angle.

I wouldn't say ugly, but I don't fawn over "gay standard" hot.

Coming of gay age in LA, they were a dime a dozen there. At some point, the novelty wore off quickly.

I've landed my shares of hotties and they're the same as non-hotties in general in terms of physical/mental stimulation. Hit or miss.

This old soldier - I'm assuming he's Russian. It looks like he had dark hair and light blue eyes. He's quite striking, if kind of ugly, too.