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OMFG!!! Why are Elder Dykes SOOO fucking combative?

Every single elder dyke I’ve ever worked with is a combative person. It never fails. No matter where I work or who I work with, if there’s an elder butch in the mix, there’s gonna be an undercurrent of control issues and power grabs, along with condescension and plain nastinesses.

The younger dykes are great and easy to get along with, but once they reach menopause, they become a fucking nightmare.

by Anonymousreply 33July 27, 2022 5:45 AM

Stupid, mincing queens are just as bad, OP. Get help.

by Anonymousreply 1April 2, 2022 9:15 PM

It happens to the boys when they reach a certain age too, OP.

by Anonymousreply 2April 2, 2022 9:25 PM

You need to expand your world, OP. This is probably an across-the-board age issue not due to a sexual preference. Older people are often combative (sometimes referred to as 'feisty').

by Anonymousreply 3April 2, 2022 10:03 PM

Of course we're combative. We've had to deal with penised persons and daily haterape for decades.

by Anonymousreply 4April 2, 2022 10:18 PM

OP, what business are you in that attracts Elder Dykes?

by Anonymousreply 5April 2, 2022 10:19 PM

^ He works at a U-Haul rental franchise

by Anonymousreply 6April 2, 2022 10:22 PM

Have you ever worked with a power-hungry asshole black woman? You know the ‘coming in hot’ type.

by Anonymousreply 7April 2, 2022 10:25 PM

No.

by Anonymousreply 8April 2, 2022 10:47 PM

Not just elder lol

by Anonymousreply 9April 2, 2022 10:53 PM

Actually, I have found the opposite to be true. Some of my favorite bosses have been older lesbians. I feel like they understand me better than a straight male or woman.

by Anonymousreply 10April 2, 2022 11:21 PM

viral video-West Hollywood: Misgendered angry bouncer @ Den Bar on Sunset puts confused Karens in their place: "I'm a fucking dyke, I have a vagina, I wear men's clothes"

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by Anonymousreply 11July 25, 2022 10:15 PM

Never a problem for me, OP. They have always been kind, fair, and very helpful to work with. Also a wonderful sense of humor.

by Anonymousreply 12July 25, 2022 10:17 PM

I assume macho bull dykes with chips on their shoulders and catty mincing queens throwing constant shade are two sides of the same coin. That coin is called "subscribing to exaggerated gender stereotypes." Some people never outgrow it.

by Anonymousreply 13July 25, 2022 10:20 PM

As a young lesbian, I find older straight conservative married women to be the worst. They automatically hate on any younger woman because they resent that you're tighter and prettier and have more opportunities & freedom & male attention, and even when they find out you're a dyke (and therefore don't want male attention and won't compete for it) they treat you as if you're radioactive and start acting skittish as if guarding their mature pussy from your lecherous lezbo hands & eyes. It's so fucking narcissistic and homophobic.

Open-minded hippy-dippy type bisexual or straight crones are often totally fine and cool, though. Especially the ones without a man or dependents.

by Anonymousreply 14July 26, 2022 12:25 AM

R13 gets it.

by Anonymousreply 15July 26, 2022 12:59 AM

They are sick to death of you, OP. Grow the fuck up.

by Anonymousreply 16July 26, 2022 1:01 AM

I am a straight white women and I have always felt more comfortable around gay people, male and female. Idk why but we seem to share the same sense of humor about things. Straight white women are straight up bitches and they are always so competitive about everything. I was thin and pretty and have a very outgoing personality and they fucking despised me. Backstabbing bitches, all of them. That has been my experience and maybe it isn't fair to judge them all this way. They are also damn exhausting.

by Anonymousreply 17July 26, 2022 1:10 AM

Watch out OP, or they’ll cane your pansy ass!

by Anonymousreply 18July 26, 2022 1:12 AM

R11, I don’t know what is more appalling. Their behaviour or that they did it with Ryan Gosling watching over them.

by Anonymousreply 19July 26, 2022 1:44 AM

[quote] but once they reach menopause, they become a fucking nightmare.

You just answered your own question.

by Anonymousreply 20July 26, 2022 2:25 AM

r20

by Anonymousreply 21July 26, 2022 12:11 PM

R21

by Anonymousreply 22July 26, 2022 12:19 PM

Some of my best memories as a 20 something year old gay man finding his way in the gay community were the friendships I made with the older lesbians, butch yet nurturing and very funny. We would always have little comic catch phrases (usually lines from obscure old movies), and spent more time laughing than bitching about people with different pee holes. My favorite older lesbian always claimed to be Doris Day's butcher older sister, Doohdah.

by Anonymousreply 23July 26, 2022 12:24 PM

Lesbians mature like fine wine OP! Gtfo with this phobic nonsense.

by Anonymousreply 24July 26, 2022 12:52 PM

The same thing often applies to some effeminate gay men.

by Anonymousreply 25July 26, 2022 12:54 PM

Dykes are a living parody of men like gays are a living parody of women.

by Anonymousreply 26July 27, 2022 3:12 AM

I'd rather work with gay women and straight men than straight women and gay men any day

by Anonymousreply 27July 27, 2022 3:18 AM

I feel so idiotic and ashamed for having written this.

I apologize. It’s not cool and I was a total cunt for writing this shit.

My sincere apologies, y’all.

Please forgive MY nastiness and combativeness. I need to be better than this, and I recognize that I was really wrong.

by Anonymousreply 28July 27, 2022 3:31 AM

I'd rather work with gay women and straight men than straight women and gay men any day

the feminized brain is petty and evil

by Anonymousreply 29July 27, 2022 3:56 AM

Truly, OP, does this keep you up at night?

by Anonymousreply 30July 27, 2022 4:02 AM

R28 is not the OP.

by Anonymousreply 31July 27, 2022 4:04 AM

R28 That's what I always say.

by Anonymousreply 32July 27, 2022 5:44 AM

^ That should be for R29 not R28!

by Anonymousreply 33July 27, 2022 5:45 AM
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