Have you ever had sex with someone genuinely fat?

Longtime (30 plus years) FWB. No, he sure isn't built like he was at 22 but our shared history still makes him sexy as fuck to me.

Not obese, but an ex of mine was REALLY chubby.

I mean, it’s not HORRIBLE if it’s an extra 20- 40 lbs., but 75 and over?

Nope.

I love that about you, R1.

Keep your spelunking gear nearby!

I worked with a heterosexual couple who were both completely obese. We used to try and imagine what positions they could possible get in to have sex.

WW Chrissy Metz do? Does one climb aboard and hope for the best?

Just your mom, OP. I had to dip her in flour to find the wet spot.

Yeah one guy. It was fine he throat fucked me

FF r7 for being a FATTY!

FF r7 for being a FATTY!

The bigger the cushion, the deeper the pushin’.

Sorry but no thank you!

A friend who works in obstetrics has encountered several morbidly obese couples who can't have sex without assistance from a volunteer or two. Friends or relatives would hold the fat out of the way using a board, stick or some other device. Typically it was done as a favor because the couple hoped to conceive.

If we're including masturbation then yeah, multiple times per week.

R13 It seems like two morbidly obese people shouldn't make a baby for the sake of their own health and the baby's.

Really, REALLY wishing I had not read that R13

R13 eeeewwwewwww

I have. I like thick guys but this one was kind of a hippo. I admit it, it was a pity fuck but I came twice with him so couldn't have been that bad. He's chased me since but I never went back.

Following r14's logic, yes. A few times.

No way! Like Lizzo fat? No.

No, not fat, but certainly many somewhat out of shape.

First guy who fucked me. I loved it.

No, never.

Yes. He had a very handsome face…full lips, nice beard, big blue eyes, nice head of hair. But he was a big boy.

Surprisingly he had a lot of stamina though. I even asked him “you aren’t ready to come yet?” and he said “no, sorry, are you getting tired?” He said afterward thst he can give for a long time. Finally he did come and my hole was thankful and thoroughly worn out.

R24 gross

I was friends with a guy who used to escort and he said he had a tough time getting it up for fats.

Why would you want to imagine, OP? Seriously. If you're not a fat-shaming asshole troll, why would you want to imagine?

yes. Unfortunately his penis was small because most was hidden under his folds, also he smelled very fishy between his legs.

R13 is kidding right? RIGHT?

Brad and Kathy, thanks for coming to dinner. But I must confess, we wanted to ask you a favor…

R25 he wasn’t gross, just a bigger guy. And trust me, he’s be a 9 if he got in shape. It’s probably for the best that he’s fat. That face mixed with a toned physique and porn star stamina. He’d have a line of hungry bttms to choose from.

I remember once a few years ago, I was doing a hookup from craigslist. The guy was very handsome in numerous pictures. When he showed up to my hotel, I looked through the peephole - he was humongous - morbidly obese. I politely opened the door, and said no. He just flat out said, "Yeh, I know those pictures are from about 10 years ago, I've gained a pretty decent amount of weight." I just said, ok, well I'm sorry you wasted your time, but I'm not able to do this, since you don't look like your photo. He was probably 200 pounds more than the photos, and a good 15 years older.

R29 He makes up a lot of goofy stuff, not the least bit true.

Tall Russian with HUGE belly and thick legs. Not sure if morbidly obese. FAT!! HUGE cock! HUUUUUUGE!

I gave up my cherry to a guy who probably qualified as obese. I was realllly into him -- he was quite handsome and charming. For various reasons, I didn't see him again for a couple of years, and by then he had gained even more weight, which tipped the scales, so to speak. The flame I had felt for him was gone.

I'm R13 (and not a guy). The doctor who told me of that method wasn't joking and my boring post history would show I'm not a yarn-spinner. The people involved weren't very smart (any resulting pregnancies would've been high risk) and lacked resources.

Just the suggestion in the thread title made me throw up, a lot, in my mouth.

No, I have never had sex of any kind with a fatty. It is never going to happen.

r27 Good luck with your diet. I’m sure you have a very pretty face though

Not like 300 pounds, but I did do a big guy. He was very sweet. I ate his ass and everything. He was very clean.

Yes I have. I have a predilection for cubs and fitfats. But so far i haven't had sex with anyone who has rolls of fat hanging off him.

R39, is this you?

A friend lost 60-70 lbs. on keto and looked great.

A handsome guy he always was afraid to approach in his local bar came up to him one day and said, "Why did you do that? You were so hot when you were bigger."

In other words, he was too nervous to approach the handsome guy, and vice versa.

Write a song about THAT, Alanis.

There was a guy on some dating site I was on who had lost a ton of weight. He had big folds of skin sagging all over him and he was showing it off with photos in just short shorts. It was absolutely disgusting - I think even worse than someone obese.

R41 It's fun to make up stuff, isn't it?

A few slight chubbies but nobody obese ever. I've always been curious what that would be like.

Same width/height. Obese to the point that if he sat in one of those plastic garden chairs, the chair stuck to him when he stood. Sex was challenging/exhausting.

Yes, gentlemen, I was going through a period of REAL low self-esteem.

A female friend (44) is a BBW and gets A LOT of dick.

When you realize that’s not his hand pushing your head down while you’re sucking his cock.

DL fat or fat fat? DL queens think 5 pounds over the recommended weight is fat. I'm thin and I like my men pudgy!!!

I connected with fat dudes on three different occasions via Grindr . They were handsome and seemed nice so I thought I’d give them a try.

Each time, I got to their apartments to find that they lived in squalor. Each time, I said “no thanks” and walked out. Each time, they though I left because they were fat. Bitch, I KNEW you were fat before coming over.

When a fit guy is a slob, it means some dirty clothes strewn about.

When a fat guy is a slob, it means pizza boxes, fast food trash, piles and piles of clothes and junk. Like a hoarder.

I agree .... I couldn't fuck someone if their apartment smelled or was filthy. Next!

R31 A simple no! would have sufficed. Not a bunch of wishy washy patter that makes you a cunt.

R51 You're an adult, right?

R52 You're like, a cunt, right!

Not proud of it, but when I was younger and single, a friend and I used to find fat guys on the apps and have them come over and blow us.

They give amazing head--all that oral fixation--and were quite happy to remain clothed and suck us as we watched pron.

Wow everyone on data lounge better have Impeccable six pack abs. The amount of fat shaming and name calling is crazy.

Get over yourself. Most Americunts are huge tubbos. Like Chrissy Metz. At 5'10 you should be about 150 to 155 lbs max. Most Americunts are between 200 and 300 lbs at that height. 5'10 and 300 lbs to them is "average". LOL. Like an average hippo!

Fatties should be shamed. It is one of America's (and increasingly Europe's) major health problems. Normalizing bad/addictive habits serves no positive social purpose.

r54 fat girls in college also become adept at giving head because it’s all guy will do with them.

That's a very funny lie, r13. Having friends hold their fat rolls so they can fuck? Even a 1000 lb person has more dignity than that. Never happened.

Outaged fatty ^

Find a fold and fuck it.

I used to love fat guys, but now less so. When they age, gravity usually wins and things start to sag a lot.

So young fat yes.

Old fat, not so much.

R53 You're a child. Please stop wondering why you're single. It's pretty clear to us all.

The problem is not only fatties, it’s also former fatties. Even without sagging skin, they make me queasy knowing they used to be fat. I would need a guy to erase all evidence that he used to be fat.

R64 someone who lost all that weight has probably worked harder at the task than you ever did in your life. Commend them for making the change.

r65, I can commend them, but I’m not having sex with them, which is the subject of this thread.

Are we talking fit-fat?

I'd rather hope not. The stench of those hippos are so much unbearable when they're simply talking. Can't imagine when they are gyrating in bed.

R66 YOU Must have sex with them or BE CANCELED! This is Cancel Culture Society. If you do not comply you will be CANCELED!!! I cannot STAND your fit priviledge!

Fatties don’t gyrate in bed r68

At the most, the quiver and moan, and afterward, they demand post coital cheesecake

R70 You are mean and VILE!

Yecch

I like guys with stomachs when they have nice round butts. As soon as the butt becomes shapeless, then I'm out of there.

I like big muscles and chest and a gut overhanging the waist of their pants with their shirt tightly tucked in. Kind of like Chris Hayes.