Sites other than Rentmen for male escorts…

Most male masseurs who take male clients will jerk you off or more (depends on the guy). So your options for that are RentMen’s sister site RentMasseur or separate site MasseurFinder. I’ve had sex with a few guys from those sites.

Model Mayhem

ChristianMingle.com

OnlyFans. All you have to do is ask for a meet & greet in person.

Men4rentnow was the best. They went away before Covid. there were a couple other smaller sites that I used before Covid but they seem gone now too. Thanks for the suggestions. Keep them coming.

I’m a little confused about this. How can escorting be legal when prostitution is a crime, when the whole point of both of selling sex? I find it very hard to believe that the authorities would make it this easy to get away with selling sex just by calling it “escorting.”

You’re joking, right, R4? I feel like most rando OF whores would ask for $10k to meet up these days. Popular IG boys have quoted me $40k before. It’s economically a horrible time to like twink hole.

Do you really think they get 40k?

10k I could believe. For a weekend with a famous porn star maybe.

Honey, you can hire all the hot pinga from the men in the Home Depot parking lot you want...

and most of them work cheap too!

Yes, but who wants dirty, uncut cock?

^ Honey, you can shower them off first if you don't like that spicy pinga flavor

Ugh - rentmen are mediocre charging $250+. I miss the Craigslist $100 whores who were hot, hung and non professional.

But my whore had COVID protocols and everything, R12. Even flushable wipes on the toilet lid!

R6 Prostitution is strictly a purchase of sex. Escort is purchasing someone's time and company. Like taking a guest to an event, party, date, etc. Sex may happen but it's not the sole purpose of escorting. Their state of legality is because Law is very particular with words and definitions.

R14 So all these porn whores on Rentmen.com are showing naked pictures of themselves and their hourly rates because they are selling dinner dates and conversations about the stock market?

I hear Brodie Sinclair is available but you have to bail him out first.

Yes, r15.

After all, if I’m entertaining a gentleman caller at the theatre, it’s of interest to me that he’s good looking, in shape, and hung. If not, the tuxedo I have for him will not fit.

R15 It doesn't matter if the escort is in jock-strap or a suit. If they're selling their business as an escort, then legally, you're purchasing their time and company. That's why I said law is particular in its ways. Just a thin line is enough to make the difference. Think marijuana and medical marijuana. They are one and the same thing. Their usage is the same and both make you high. But one's illegal while the other is not. Tax evasion is a crime but Tax avoidance is being smart. Etc. Etc.

Rentmen sort of last man standing in USA at least after feds busted and shut down Exotics.com. They did same to Rentboys.com, so how RentMen manages to survive I don't know.

Yes, in 49 states prostitution is against law, at least that is what is on books. However in many liberal, progressive, socialist democratic lead state or local areas district attorneys are not prosecuting prostitution .

Only one DA (Staten Island) ,IIRC does so; other four (Bronx, Brooklyn, Queens and now Manhattan) won't.

Did you forget how to use the word the?

WTF?

This guy can be rented.

R19. writes like William. Shatner. acts.

Try this op

PEE-YOU, R24, you can smell the STDs on that link.

Dataloung.com has been known to have a bevvy of CHEAP WHORES, who are always available!

I've raised my prices, because of high demand, but I charge TWO chicken tacos, uberx there and back, and I refuse to take off my shoes, so don't even ask!

R24- I'm impressed. I saw an overweight guy who's 64 years old at that site advertising himself for sale.

[quote]How can escorting be legal when prostitution is a crime, when the whole point of both of selling sex? I find it very hard to believe that the authorities would make it this easy to get away with selling sex just by calling it “escorting.”

I'm not sure if you're a troll, hausfrau, or clueless newly out babygay, but to answer the question: the police have WAY better things to do than spending time arresting people for victimless "crimes" like paying for sex work – assuming, of course, the sex worker in question is doing so fully willingly and isn't a human trafficking victim or something (and while that's sadly common among young women/girls brought into the US as undocumented immigrants, it's extremely uncommon for male escorts, at least in the US). It's for similar reasons that few cities actively target people possessing small amounts of pot.

They "get away with" calling it escorting because it's not illegal to pay someone to merely spend time with you. That's how relationships ranging from psychiatry to hooking up with older sugar daddies (both gay & straight) works, even if the latter case usually involves sex as well. It only becomes illegal if you actively attempt to solicit cash in exchange for sex from an undercover police officer, which btw is how it still often works for drug dealers as well (meaning hard drugs, not just weed).

In any event, this is all pearl-clutching bullshit. Americans are quite puritanical about what is a wholly legal occupation in more progressive areas like the Netherlands, where sex workers receive the same healthcare benefits and whatnot as any other person with a full-time job. Nobody is "hurt" with consensual sex, so why the fuck bother targeting it?

Rentmen.com, shrewdly, moved their offices / operation to Europe immediately after the Rentboy bust.

VERY SMART

What "rentboy bust"? Come on, tell us. Details!

R30

Miss Thing you are all sorts of late. Raiding and subsequent shutdown of Rentboys.com happened back in 2015 or so.

More....

Owner Jeffrey Hurant got six months in prison, and had to fork over nearly $8k in fines.

All for a witch hunt that did basically nothing that changed status quo. Rentmen.com picked up where Rentboy left off, and there are others as well. Then there is the large (and growing) number of freelancers that simply have their own site, app or other ways of connecting with customers.

It was a witch hunt launched by conservatives, fraus, and others that got Backpage and others in their crosshairs as well.

Push back from Rentboy raid and other LE action is largely behind local district attorneys in NYC and elsewhere not prosecuting prossie arrests. Some have gone far as vacating cases going back decades on same.

[quote] Nobody is "hurt" with consensual sex,

Well, if it’s done right, you may be.

[quote] the police have WAY better things to do than spending time arresting people for victimless "crimes" like paying for sex work

And creating a profile on a website, paying to post said profile and then, what? Sit around and hope that someone sends you a message. Then engage back and forth to get all your necessary evidence for a conviction? Then arrange a meet and hope the guy shows up just so you can bust him for a misdemeanor?

As a funny lady once said, “Ain’t nobody got time for that!”

R33- He look a bit TRANS in that photo

I'd rather just jerkoff to watch porn than ever pay for sex.

R38- Why not meet someone at Grindr, Scruff etc or at a bar.

I live in the middle of nowhere R39, and the few guys around are old guys looking to hook up with guys way younger and way hotter than they are.

Retirees have to take out a second mortgage to keep middle-class twink sluts satisfied these days. You need to make sure you’re looking for the damaged goods if you want to save any money.

RentMasseur.com

R41- Like the dented cans at the supermarket.

most interesting thing about rentmen is that they allow clients to have profiles. you can click on names and see the list of guys a client has reviewed/hired and sometimes they even post their face and body/nude photos. I guess it probably helps the escorts decide if they can be enthusiastic enough about servicing the clients.

If you have a client profile on an escort site, you're profound levels of sad.

If I remember correctly, Rent Boy started to get involved with payment processing which is what caused the greatest legal exposure. Yes prostitution is illegal, but laundering the proceeds of prostitution is even worse.

I knew Jeffrey Hurrant a bit socially. I think it’s pretty awful what happened to him. But he deff was a bit of a predator. He exploited a lot of young guys who were new to the city, supplied them with plentiful drugs and accelerated them down a dark path.

" Why not meet someone at Grindr, Scruff etc or at a bar."

For same reasons straight men long have hired whores; you're paying for a definite contractual obligation, thus know (hopefully) what you're going to get. Meeting a person socially or whatever even on sites like Grinder with expectation deal is closed doesn't always work.

On other end of things paying for sex often allows someone access to men, women, trans or whatever they ordinarily wouldn't have a snowball's chance in Hell of ever getting.

All those Instahoes that escort world over aren't just "dating" men of same caliber as themselves. Just as with female whores bulk of their client base are average men of all sorts.

As discussed previously on DL, one reason quality of male "escorts" is dropping worldwide are things like Tik Tok and similar platforms. People can create content and make fucking tons of money per month all without leaving their homes. More to point it is legal, and they don't have to be pawed over by people they otherwise wouldn't give time of day.

I’ve hired lots of hot guys from Rentmen. Not all of them are famous and or expensive. The best, in my experience, are some of the guys that keep a lower profile. They charge around 200 or under. I like to do it when I travel because they can also be a helpful guide.

I saw a really hot guy in Vegas and he was expensive (300) but worth every penny. He wasn’t on RM long. I’m guessing he got scooped up by someone and went exclusive.

It depends on the guy really. But surprisingly almost all have been good experiences.

I’d be weary of using Grindr for escorts. but never tried it so not speaking from experience.

One thing common to all digital platforms is use of fake or not exactly wholly correct images.

Be it for catfishing or other scams, Grinder, Tinder, escort adverts, etc... there is always a good bit of risk person who shows up isn't anything like photograph sent or seen online.

Years ago now when internet prossing was taking off trannies (at least in NYC) were using pictures of females taken from Victoria's Secret adverts or other false ads (not showing head of course...).

Clients got bit of their own back by starting to post reviews of escorts which among other rankings included whether or not image matched who showed up in person.

" escorting be legal when prostitution is a crime..."

For decades Yellow Pages were full of adverts for "Escort Agencies". These places supposedly supplied young women to men for "social situations only", yeah right.

It was that or various "modeling agencies" which often were a cover for same. Probably most famous instance of this film wise would be Gloria Wandrous who worked for "BUtterfield 8" modeling agency.

Owners of said business may or may not have explicitly known what women like Gloria were up to, but fact that many men around town knew all about Gloria Wandrous, and she pretty much confesses as much to her mother speaks volumes.

Know a few elder gays and older women who worked for or ran answering services back in day. Tons of prostitutes and call boys/men used such services.

Just how common place "escort agencies" were back in day, and what they often got up to was made apparent in Monty Python sketch about "Ethel the Frog/Piranha Brothers".

Original purpose of escort agencies in theory was to supply businessmen and others with attractive, cultivated and charming young women they could "escort" to various functions while in town.

Trying to pay for hole on Grindr is a unique issue. On one hand, you’ll never find hole as fresh on RentMen as you’ll find on Grindr. But it’s going to be much much harder to convince some rando twink to let you munch his fuck socket. Poor college guys are best. If it takes hours to convince a guy, it’s no longer worth it to me. Plus they always want pictures. Gross lol.

" Plus they always want pictures. Gross lol."

Some random older gay who by his own admission was/is "good looking and in shape", tried to hit up Dr. Andrew Neighbors on Grinder (or was it Tinder?). Guy felt since he lived in same area as AN there was a good shot, wrong. AN wouldn't have anything to do to with guy, so tried to catfish AN by sending a picture of a younger and hot friend, now that AN responded to.... Elder gay was totally pissed off that AN not only was ticked off by catfishing attempt, but wouldn't give him time of day otherwise.

You type like an idiot.

Indeed R54. If your whore needs to be attracted to you, he’s probably not a very good whore.

[quote] But it’s going to be much much harder to convince some rando twink to let you munch his fuck socket.

Ooooh, I love Robert Frost!

R46- I'm accelerating down a dark path and it's called BEN& JERRY'S

Has anyone used rentmasseur? How erotic are we talking. Set the scene

R59, it’s often a pretty professional setting, even if it’s a hotel room. Often it’s just his house. They’ll have towels and you can (should) use the rest room before starting. Get naked if you want.

If you’ve arranged an actual massage, that’ll typically start and they’ll have some music playing. They start to massage and typically start grazing your erogenous zones after 5 mins or so. After that, it’s about how you respond. If you start jerking back or avoiding their touch, they won’t go further. But if you respond well, they’ll keep going. Same for the masseur. If you’re being too handsy, they’ll politely let you know. Then the basic case is that they actually finish massaging you and then jerk you off. They should at least do that.

Many others will suck you or even fuck, if they/you want. It’s all pretty chill because it’s a job for them. They’ve seen it all before. Then you clean up, leave the money and GTFO. Never give up money first; it’s probably a scam if they demand that. Especially if it was a fuck appt.

More stories!!!

[quote]Honey, you can hire all the hot pinga from the men in the Home Depot parking lot you want...

I don't know about that. I'd be afraid that they'd steal my figurines.

R62- CRUNCH CRUNCH CRUNCH CRUNCH CRUNCH!

The Townhouse Bar - 236 East 58th Street , NY,NY

Thanks R60. Good info.

I go here when I want to find a skanky guy to fuck

More stories. Rentmen has too many uncut people. Gross 🤢

R67- and too many AVERAGE looking guys

So many of the same 40+ year old guys on RM and the current massage sites these days. I remember so many gorgeous young twinks selling their wares on Backpâge and Rentboy back in the day. Ive even been massaged by some jock-looking straight guy off of CL. So many great memories and ejaculations onto pretty faces.

Bump

[quote]I saw a really hot guy in Vegas and he was expensive (300) but worth every penny. He wasn’t on RM long. I’m guessing he got scooped up by someone and went exclusive.

That NEVER happens, R48.

[quote]the police have WAY better things to do than spending time arresting people for victimless "crimes"[quote]

Let me introduce you to Pee Wee Herman

I’ve hired masseurs on online sites and the guy I met was not the guy in the ad. At least a red flag for sex trafficking. I just leave. One guy tried to stop me, claiming I owed him for the appointment.

Is there a statute of limitations for prostitution?

There’s a statute of limitation for all crimes except murder and tax fraud.

How does it work on Model Mayhem? Is there some kind of code if they escort, or is it cool to just ask?

Hey, I'm headed to London and Barcelona does anyone know what the "general" (not pornstar) rates the scorts are asking for In those 2 cities

Certain bathhouse in Barcelona is known for having Brazilian escorts.

There's this site that used to be called Planet Jockboys. The web design looks pretty amateurish

[quote]There’s a statute of limitation for all crimes except murder and tax fraud.

There’s no statute of limitations for tax fraud? Really?

Uh oh.

R78 Would that be the one I saw on Fuckermate.com?

R77 Are you that ugly that you can’t just find guys on Grindr?

Just get on Grindr....It's all hookers and drug dealers

Grindr back in the day was probably even more zipless than hiring a ho, especially if you were out of town and in a hotel. And you probably exchanged fewer words.

As a top, it was a great deal. Get on the app, and within the hour I'd have some reasonably hot guy blowing me and possibly more.

Married now, but I hear (from friends and from DLers) that it is not what it used to be and often useless.

There's this guy

Myntboys.com

R78, there isn’t a bathhouse in the world that doesn’t have Brazilian escorts. Brazilian, Venezuelan and Columbian escorts are like lice…they’re everywhere and multiplying.

Who would want a Brazilian or Columbian escort? They have all smelly uncut foreskin. GROSS!!!

wait, are people really hiring day laborers from Home depot? or are you being snark?

[quote]Columbian escorts are like lice

Even after going to an Ivy League school?

[quote]Who would want a Brazilian or Columbian escort?

I would. At least the Colombian one would be educated.

Is Alam worth it, seriously? I also didn't realize he was undetectable, but good on him for being honest with clients.

Columbia, Colombia, shitty places, same thing. Meh.

If the guy asks for money up front do not do it. Leave the appointment. They're either up to no good or they are part of a sting operation. And if you're ever concerned if it's a sting operation - always approach the guy and either give him a kiss, or start rubbing his penis through is pants. NO undercover cop is going to allow you to do either, and they will move away - and ask for money again and ask what you want for the money 'before you get started'. AGAIN - leave the appointment. Make an excuse and leave.

I found my psycho ex on there. Trust me no one is paying for that shit.

Anyone knows the going rate for NYC escorts in rentmen?

R77

The Hunqz app is popular for escorts in Europe.

In person, London - Villa Gianni. Barcelona - Sauna Thermas. Plenty of Latin American and Eastern European trade in both.

I don't participate in transactional hookups but these locations are easily found and verified via Google. Sauna Thermas sounds like a blast - or multiple blasts.

Some of you need to grow up like the sticky uncut troll. Have you ever had an uncut cock even? Some of the best!

Male escort sites are mostly straight guys now, only looking for women, they’re not “straight” either. They’re mostly black dudes. I think they’re looking for f2m.

And they’re quite a few f2m on those escort sites, by the way. I see a correlation between the two — straight guys and f2ms on gay escort sites.

Only-fans and Chaturbate have ruined things in terms of casual escorts.

Gosh, if there were only some kind of devices that were connected to a web of some sort that covered the wide world where a person could look the information up themselves R95.

[quote]Yes, in 49 states prostitution is against law,

Prostitution is illegal in ALL of the US except for some rural counties in Nevada (NOT Las Vegas or Reno) and then only in BROTHELS, which only feature FEMALE prostitutes.