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Do you have Niblings?

Nibling is a gender-neutral term used to refer to a child of one's sibling as a replacement for "niece" or "nephew". The word is thought to have been coined in the early 1950s, but was relatively obscure for several decades before being revived in recent years.

If nibling has for most of its history merely puttered along, it is now moving with new purpose. While initially considered useful for its efficiency, it is now increasingly called upon as a means to gender accuracy:

My "nibling," the gender-neutral term for nephew or niece, is neither male nor female, but both.

— "Proud Aunt," "Ask Amy" in The Chicago Tribune, 9 Jan. 2014

There was that benevolent look for his genderqueer "nibling" (read: gender-neutral niece or nephew). It was big-eyed and full of wonder with a smile that gave you warmth.

— Joey Hood, The Nashville (Tennessee) Scene, 23 June 2016

Another [fan] suggested the term "nibling" to the singer, which is widely considered a gender-neutral term for a sibling's child.

— Chantal Da Silva, The Independent (UK), 24 July 2017

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by Anonymousreply 32March 20, 2022 12:47 AM

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by Anonymousreply 1March 18, 2022 2:32 PM

But Merriam-Webster is so excited about it, r1!

[quote]Poke around a bit on the Internet and you will find that it is popping up all over, and being embraced with pleasure. The future of nibling at this point looks pretty bright.

by Anonymousreply 2March 18, 2022 2:33 PM

If you find "nibling" confusing or inadequate, there's a whole slew of other words and phrases you can use! Here's a few options:

"When it comes to referring to a mixed group of aunts and uncles (like we can do with parents or siblings when referring to those relatives), the language is far from settled. That said, one term that has become increasingly popular is pibling. Pibling can refer to either an aunt or an uncle and is modeled on sibling, blended with the P from parent. For example:

My piblings Alex, Jo, and Alice took me to the baseball game last week.

Pibling can also be used as a gender-neutral or nonbinary term to refer to the sibling of a parent regardless of their gender identity. There are also other gender-neutral or nonbinary terms for aunt and uncle that some people use or have proposed, including:

titi: modeled on terms for aunt and uncle in Spanish (tía and tío)

zizi: modeled on terms for aunt and uncle in Italian (zia and zio)

bibi: modeled on titi and zizi, with the B from nonbinary (which is often abbreviated as nb)

nini: similarly modeled on titi and zizi, with the N from nonbinary

Other proposed nonbinary or gender-inclusive terms for niece and nephew include:

niephling: a combination of niece, nephew, and sibling

neiph/nephiece/niephew: combinations of niece and nephew

chibling: a combination of child and sibling

sibkid: a shortening of sibling’s kid

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by Anonymousreply 3March 18, 2022 2:36 PM

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by Anonymousreply 4March 18, 2022 2:36 PM

For the labels-obsessed generation Zers, there's this massive list with even MORE words you can use. Personalize everything to make it reflect your unique, totally original self! If people don't understand what you mean, remember it's not YOUR job to educate THEM.

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by Anonymousreply 5March 18, 2022 2:42 PM

I like it. I like saying it. Its cute, like playfully nibbling your niece or nephew ear. I'm sold. But I'll only use it on the niblings i like. The others will remain spawn.

by Anonymousreply 6March 18, 2022 2:42 PM

Niblings sounds like some vile, dime store, Twinkie esque concoction that Data Loungers are outraged they can no longer find in supermarkets.

by Anonymousreply 7March 18, 2022 2:43 PM

I'm rather fond of Fucklings, as an alternate word to describe those who can't grasp the concept that there are only two genders.

by Anonymousreply 8March 18, 2022 2:44 PM

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by Anonymousreply 9March 18, 2022 2:46 PM

R7 mm, when you put it that way, it sounds delicious!

by Anonymousreply 10March 18, 2022 2:48 PM

To me it sounds like corn 🌽

by Anonymousreply 11March 18, 2022 2:50 PM

I agree with R4...it's still fucking bullshit!! Seriously, u Gen Zer's people are going to be the ruin of Western Civilization When the war starts, I'm shooting at "you people first"

by Anonymousreply 12March 18, 2022 2:50 PM

I can’t stand the word “nibling,” which was kicking around the Internet long before the current battles over trans people (and unlike what seems like most DL poster, I support trans people, so it’s not about that). The word just has a very geeky sound to my ear.

by Anonymousreply 13March 18, 2022 2:54 PM

Deadlings has a nice ring to it!

by Anonymousreply 14March 18, 2022 2:57 PM

Niblings?! When did I eat niblings??

by Anonymousreply 15March 18, 2022 2:58 PM

[quote] Do you have Niblings?

No, I have 2 nieces and 2 nephews. Beauties all. I spoil them and send them home. Works perfectly.

by Anonymousreply 16March 18, 2022 3:08 PM

R16 are any of them gender fluid? 🤔

by Anonymousreply 17March 18, 2022 4:27 PM

No, but I have Nibelungen!

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by Anonymousreply 18March 18, 2022 5:32 PM

"Niblings" sounds like something that Gimili and Legolas would fight before they flip-fuck in a porn parody of Lord of the Rings.

by Anonymousreply 19March 18, 2022 5:54 PM

Not surfe about "nibling," but we definitely need a general term so we don't have to keep saying "niece and/or nephew."

by Anonymousreply 20March 18, 2022 5:56 PM

Don't feed the niblings after midnight!

by Anonymousreply 21March 18, 2022 5:58 PM

Shall we ask Nephew Joel what he thinks?

Nah, let him be surprised.

by Anonymousreply 22March 18, 2022 6:08 PM

I say "my sister's kids" if I don't want to break them down by gender. It works regardless of how they identify, although I suppose one could become the type of smartass who announces at 7-years-old that they don't identify as a child.

by Anonymousreply 23March 18, 2022 6:09 PM

R8 = Paul Lynde

by Anonymousreply 24March 18, 2022 6:09 PM

I just say, "My sister's kid."

by Anonymousreply 25March 18, 2022 6:17 PM

I have a niece, and I would rather see her torn apart by wild dingos than call her my "nibling."

Way too cutesy-schmoopie-woo-woo.

I feel like the whole world needs a punch in the throat.

by Anonymousreply 26March 18, 2022 6:23 PM

I have more than one sibling thus it takes longer for me to say "my brothers' and sister's kids." We need a genderless term like "siblings" and "parents" and "cousins."

by Anonymousreply 27March 18, 2022 6:26 PM

When another of my siblings reproduces I'll change it to "my siblings' kids." It only has to be as complicated as we make it.

by Anonymousreply 28March 18, 2022 6:32 PM

I disavow them all and shall call them nothing ever.

by Anonymousreply 29March 18, 2022 6:34 PM

Nibling sounds like corn. And I know corn.

by Anonymousreply 30March 18, 2022 6:36 PM

Nibble, nibble, nibbling!

by Anonymousreply 31March 19, 2022 1:39 PM

"Not sure about 'nibling,' but we definitely need a general term so we don't have to keep saying 'niece and/or nephew'."

I know, right? So EXHAUSTING!

by Anonymousreply 32March 20, 2022 12:47 AM
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