Question for gay men: Have you ever got an erection over a woman?

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Sure but by the time I noticed it was gone.

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Yes. But it's tepid in comparison to being turned on by other guys.

Oh yeah sure. No gold star gay here. I'm 'mo for the emotional attraction to men, sex is secondary.

I got two words for this..... Oh, please.

ew

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"If a "gay" man has then I would think they would have to be bisexual and not gay."

Ya THINK?

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Bruh. You've been starting some sus threads on this site for a "gay man," OP. Just saying.

You shallow thing you R8 nah I'm gay, not bi. I can only bond romantically and pyschologically with men. That's what makes me gay not what hole i can fuck.

@r11, I think op is one of those unfuckable Fraus who come here to find any male attention

Does it count if I was fucking her boyfriend at the time?

[quote] [bold]unfuckable[/bold] Fraus

No such animal. Straight men have zero standards for that particular activity.

But yes, I suspect you are correct. OP is actually a straight female obsessed with her gay BFF whom she's probably been trying to "turn" since high school.

My spidey senses tingling on this one.

^ Was that you?... Been a long time ;-)

^ For r14

@r15, Very insightful

Yes, watching porn. But major homo here

^ I watch straight porn just to see hot guys fucking something, you know, different

OP don’t you start threads like this every week now?

Why do you care r21 Stop picking on OP and answer his question or get out.

^ Are you the thread police?

- Not r21

I agree, R22 - why are there so many posters like, R21? They do not mean well for this site. They're destructive.

^ Hold me, David, destructive Gay men infiltrating this thread

R12, do you have sex with men or women or both or neither? Just wondering

R22/24 are confused because they rim unwashed holes.

^ Well, that explains everything

I don't believe that the men saying on here that have got hard over women are gay.

No , pussy is nasty.

@r29, Have you ever met an 18 year old guy?

R29 They're not, there was a thread claimg how better pussy was than ass and it was just 2 trolls going back to back.

R31, yes and why?

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@r33, They can get hard at their grandmother's funeral

The 100% gays seem to get very freaked out over this subject.

This is why I never discuss bi when there are gays around. They get so activated.

[quote]If a "gay" man has then I would think they would have to be bisexual and not gay.

You're an idiot. And don't bother responding, "everyone is bi and not gay" troll, because I've already blocked you.

Here's a story that really upsets the Fraus. A young man marries his best college girlfriend, a few years and maybe a baby or two later he realizes he made a mistake and runs off with the guy who cuts their grass. It happens, get over it

[quote] I've already blocked you.

^^ tuff talk!

Many gays have confided in me that they are sexually attracted to men, but *emotionally* they prefer and connect better with women. Hence F to M trans are so sought after by gay males. It's hard not to want everything in the same package.

[quote]Hence F to M trans are so sought after by gay males.

I didn't know this. Thanks.

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@r40, Wow, do Gay guys always tell you their deepest darkest secrets? Are you Oprah?

I've made love to married men who had wives and children. We're they bi? I'm not sure. They could have gotten married for social and professional reasons.. Very very important for careers and communities to have a woman on their arm. But obviously they could get it up for her. Perhaps if they didn't have those social pressures they just would have wanted to be in relationships solely with men.

I could get it up for a woman I found attractive but the passion and emotional power could never be there in a meaningful way as it would be with a man.

Yes, sometimes.

@r42, tell us where the bi-guy hurt you

[quote]Hence F to M trans are so sought after by gay males.

On what planet are you posting from?

Good Gawd no. One whiff of Cheryl turned me…and that was with Cheryl being clothed.

R42, I completely agree with all of your comments. If a guy is bi, they should just say that and be honest.

[QUOTE] I've made love to married men who had wives and children.

And I've been to Georgia, and California. That doesn't make me bi-coastal. So what is your point R44.

@r49, Are you holding a cup with both hands as we speak?

Human sexuality is weird and almost everyone has gotten merely "turned on" by something totally out of norm for them at some random time for usually inexplicable reasons.

Like watching animals fuck, for instance. Does one who gets turned on watching animals fuck want to fuck animals? Not generally.

Shit, my totally preppie hetero neighbors would occasionally do spanking sessions with their windows wide open, and just the sound of them drove me crazy. Did I want to sleep with my neighbors? No, but I might've watched if they'd asked.

Bottoms don't know how dicks work.

@r52, " Human sexuality is weird and almost everyone has gotten merely "turned on" by something totally out of norm for them at some random time for usually inexplicable reasons. "

Because everybody likes a little strange now and then

"Hence F to M trans are so sought after by gay males. "

Sorry but this is untrue. Some gay men like FTMs. That's totally valid. Most don't.

"Bottoms don't know how dicks work. "

I've met a few who could grab it and get it all the way in before I could even buy them a drink

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Why are you so angry over bisexual men, r57? It's really not that deep. I swear you're obsessed with that specific group for some reason.

Were you cheated on by a bi guy or something? Seriously. It's excessive, man.

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Calm down. Some FTMs apparently have enough convincing secondary male characteristics to trigger a sexual response in SOME men who identify themselves as gay. Not me. And not most gay men. Just some. I'm not going to get into a debate about whether those men who identify as gay but sleep with FTMs are actually bi. It's not interesting and it's all subjective.

The answer to OP's question is categorically yes, and I'm 100% gay. I have been with a few women, they don't arouse me near as much as men (I'm a lot pickier with women than I am with guys) and emotionally, I only like to be with men. But I like to be a transgressor and having been gay most of my adult life, I feel that going for a woman is a bit transgressive. When my friends go "ew" it makes me feel good that I can taste something they can't. So you see, it's not about desiring women really but about crossing boundaries, and it stops there (no animals and no minors - I know my limits).

FTM have small dicks... Pass

R59 = hilarious.

I can recognize and appreciate a hot woman but she won't get my blood flowing down there.

^ maybe she could supply you with a little friction

Nope.

Only when she has a dick.

Like most men I am visual especially when it comes to sex, therefore, she wouldn't have any parts I'd be attracted to. R65

[quote] One whiff of [bold]Cheryl[/bold] turned me…and that was with Cheryl being clothed.

Can someone that's been here longer explain this DL reference, please? I see this woman's name dropped constantly and am tired of being confused.

r34 the topic is have you ever got an erection over a woman not whether or not you fucked her.

So, any drag kings?

for the anti trans crowd that would be, have you ever got an erection from looking at a trans guy you didn't know was trans?

Has your dick ever confused a butch woman for a man?

Have you masturbated or had sex while listening to a female music artist?

Did you ever jack off to str8 or lesbian porn with your equally horny 'str8' friends?

Did your mother ever spank you over her knee and the stimulation to your rear gave you oedipus rex complex and a spanking fetish?

Would you have sex with a guy knowing he was a drag queen and while he was in drag?

and inane shit like that

I am not "anti trans".

It's just a reality of biology and my homosexuality that female bodies don't arouse me at all. I've never seen transman porn and been sexually aroused. I have watched it with an open mind, and nothing happened down there.

This does not mean I hate anyone or am "anti trans". It means I'm a homosexual.

I wish transmen and people who are sexually aroused by them, all the joy in the world. Have fun!

I'd date a MTF as they're men. I:ve fucked one. I'm a top and i don't need a dick. No to FTM though as I'm not attracted to women in any form.

[Quote] [R12], do you have sex with men or women or both or neither? Just wondering

Only men. I'm gay.

[Quote] there was a thread claimg how better pussy was than ass

I'd agree. Ive fucked both. But I'd rather fuck men and that's not about the ass. Ive fucked women in the ass too.

Of course you get erection if you are rubbed etc by female. Lesbians screw/flirt men to be validated as female. Gay men still want to be macho/masculine so try very hard to have sex with women but it's very difficult and not fun. Tom cruise for example has to focus very hard to have sex with Mimi Rogers.

Lesbian here - let me just say this: I avoid "bi" women like the freaking plague, as I'm not into the female equivalent of the following, as described by R44:

[quote] They could have gotten married for social and professional reasons.. Very very important for careers and communities to have a woman on their arm. But obviously they could get it up for her. Perhaps if they didn't have those social pressures they just would have wanted to be in relationships solely with men.

If a bi woman is yielding to that kind of social pressure and getting into relationships with men, then this woman is not for me - she is weak, lazy, undependable, and, 100% of the time, not very bright, as it turns out.

Bottom line, I may fuck a bisexual woman, but I do not get involved, as I have no interest or time for any of that shit.

If a woman is cool with a bi husband who openly keeps a male lover on the side, a marriage for kids and respectability (roll eyes) is fine by me.

Many times, yes

I don't think I could ever actually fuck a woman, but I'd get a blowjob from a woman, no problem. I have zero interest in them, sexually or romantically speaking, but I'm always open to random blowjobs if someone is nice looking.

Never used a glory hole?

"Hence F to M trans are so sought after by gay males"

Those guys are not gay, they are straight men with kink.

🥱🤮🥱🤮🥱🤮🥱🤮🥱🤮🥱🤮🥱

You need a library card, OP.

^ Doesn't even need a library card, google has 2, 743, 549 answers

Never. It’s not in my DNA. I like cock. The real thing, not a FTM approximation.

Yes. I've also experimented with women. But I consider myself gay nonetheless.

"Yes. I've also experimented with women."

Me too... when you sprinkle salt on them they shrivel up into a ball. Such fun

R72, you have to be bi or at least bi curious. I have never heard of a gay man that would be interested in a MTF. Not even one...

R74, very well put

I have a female friend, still a top working model and back in the day, seriously a top model. For the last 30yrs, I have considered and still do consider her one of the most astonishingly beautiful women I have ever looked at. She still makes me catch my breath when I meet up with her. She knows how beautiful I think she is and I’m sure she thinks if it wasn’t for my partner she could ‘turn’ me. She couldn’t. Footballers legs, (Soccer, am English) make my cock rock hard. I’m Gay. Men make my cock stiff. Women don’t. I love her as a person, appreciate/admire her stunning physical beauty. But sex? Nope. Not even with her.

So this is the thread where we put people into little tiny boxes. You can be straight and still be attracted to men, or gay and attracted to women. Any questions?

sexually and physically attracted to both sexes, but feel more connected and would want to be a in a relationship with a woman? then again, women annoy me more than men...

I'M A VIRGIN BY THE WAY!! i don't think anyone else here can claim that! (world's oldest virgin am I due to massive insecurity as well as constant rejection over the years)...I can masturbate to both, but more to men? never had sex with a woman, but Would. Funny in that i enjoy watching gay porn, but when i see men in real life being affectionate, making out let's say in public, it kind of freaks me out and grosses me out a bit?

so am i bisexual? asexual? closeted gay but won't admit it? confused messed up or what?...

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R90 Are you a woman?

Define "woman".

A thread for kinsey 5 bi men. LOL

@r89, "Any questions? "

Yeah, want to go have a drink later? ;-)

I watch guys shove 2 cocks in womens assholes while I FAP.

[bold] The One Where Gold Star Gays Brag About Their Status And Call Everyone Else Bisexual. Chaos Ensues.

R61 No, you are not 100% gay if you occasionally like to have sex with women and even appreciate that. It's not called "being trasgressive" what you do, you are just a bi

Stop labelling people, cunt @ R99.

R88 Exactly, apreciating someone beauty doesn't mean to want to have sex with them, many women appreciate other female beauty but they obviusly don't want to have sex with them, it's common sense.

Many years ago I met Jane Fonda, she's really a knockout, made me a bit weak in the knees, but she was standing next to billionaire Ted Turner who made me even weaker ;-)

I did when I was a teenager and twentysomething. The older I got, the less I was turned on by women. When you’re a teenager, you’re basically a walking hormone. That’s why some folks have same sex experiences as teenagers…it’s all about touch and curiosity.

^ Exactly, teenage boys will fuck anything and never give a second thought to "what it all means"

[quote]^ Exactly, teenage boys will fuck anything

I never experienced that and most of them seemed freaked out by the gay.

Bi means that you have found away to fake relationships,/attraction to opposite sex. There is obviously huge pressure to be straight. Gays I know have fag hags and kids.

@r105, well, I guess I was lucky :)

I've only known one truly bi-guy. This guy was amazing, he could walk into a straight bar and pick-up the hottest woman and turn right around and pick-up the hottest man in a Gay bar. His background story was that he was groomed by an older married couple and just developed an equal attraction to both men and women

R103 R104 Still a bisexual

^ Ok, but I still don't think young guys give it as much thought as we are here

This thread has certainly gone right down the crapper, as it was destined to do.

^ Dumb questions = Dumb threads

I’m not OP, but no men are WAY better in bed than straight men.

Just my opinion, obvs.

*Bi men are better in bed…

Men who are turned on are best in bed

R115, true, but straight dudes think they’re filming porn. Porn is hot to watch, but not necessarily hot to reenact.

Generally, if a man cannot kiss well, he won’t fuck well either.

And yeah. It matters. Everyone deserves to cum as much and as intensely as possible, and most straight dudes DGAF if their partner cums, or they delude themselves into thinking they’re fantastic in bed because no one ever spoke up and asked for what they wanted.

Plenty of men are running around believing they’re the GOAT in the sack, when they just suck, and not in a good way.

[quote]I’m not OP, but no men are WAY better in bed than straight men. Just my opinion, obvs.

Your EXPERIENCE, gurl.

R117, yes. Which is why I qualified what I wrote as “just my opinion”.

[quote][R117], yes. Which is why I qualified what I wrote as “just my opinion”—Duh???

Which I further qualified it by clarifying, in a dignified way, that you're clearly a man with a broad sexual experience. Probably very sexually attractive and to both sexes, including male bisexuals which, yes, painting a very positive light, you were keen to share with the board.

R93.. R90 here.. i'm a man in answer to your question...

r114 Is it the struggling and soft cries when they bottom?

salvador dali is a favorite debate for many

because of the letters from his ex-boyfriend

that he couldn't get an erection without something in his ass.

But much of this thread denies the notion that males and females can be strictly attracted to one sex and yet experience an orgasm with another.

it's not unlike the claims if a man ever engaged in sexual activities with another dude, he's gay, he's gay for life or worst yet a future child predator.

if a woman ever engaged in sexual activities with another chica, she was probably molested and avoids males for her safety. lesbian culture? it's about the patriarchy. Lesbian sex toys? patriarchy! femme lesbians! patriarchy! butch lesbians? patriarchy! desire to have sex instead of holding each other and crying? Patriarchy!

No, never

R55 Those aren't even gay males that like bearded women. GAY men don't fuck women, that's the whole point of being gay, homophobic gaslighting comments about sexuality not existing and being gay is not defined by being attracted by dick (lol) will never work because that is bullshit.

Being gay seems to be a zero sum game for some of these posters. Call it a race to the bottom....

Huh.... Do we count Matt Damon as a

If not then I haven't, if we do...

* Huh.... Do we count Matt Damon as a woman/frau?

If not then I haven't, if we do...

[quite] * Huh.... Do we count Matt Damon as a woman/frau? If not then I haven't, if we do...I

R126/R127, why would Matt Damon count as a woman and/or frau?

[quote] * Huh.... Do we count Matt Damon as a woman/frau? If not then I haven't, if we do...I

R126/R127, why would Matt Damon count as a woman and/or frau?

OP is probably a FTM tranny. There are quite a few FTM trolls here. Fortunately, they are less likely to try to actually threaten or commit violence when they are rejected by gay men who don't want pussy, than MTFs are to lesbians who don't want dick.

They're all annoying as fuck. You can't change sex and no one wants to fuck your "identity".

I got an erection over a woman once, yes.

But only because she way lying on the ground under a hot twink.

R129 you must be new here.

[quote] R129 you must be new here.

Explain please.

[quote]why would Matt Damon count as a woman and/or frau?

It's just typical fag talk.

Well done R134!

No, OP. Never.

"Do we count Matt Damon as a woman/frau? "

Just his fat Frau butt

[quote] But much of this thread denies the notion that males and females can be strictly attracted to one sex and yet experience an orgasm with another.

Lesbian here again - the only time I had an orgasm with a man (back when I was experimenting) he was fingerbanging me while I fantasized about his ex-girlfriend, with my eyes wide shut. It might as well have been a sex machine fucking me: I only came because, in my head, I was being ravaged by a woman I had the hots for, while completely (and I mean COMPLETELY) forgetting dude was even there.

So, if that's what you had in mind, R122, which I doubt, then yeah, it's possible. But it's an exception, and at least in my case it took a moment of dissociation in order for it to happen. That's obviously neither good nor normal; anyhow, not the point of this thread at all.

[quote] Lesbian sex toys? patriarchy! femme lesbians! patriarchy! butch lesbians? patriarchy! desire to have sex instead of holding each other and crying? Patriarchy!

That's the dykearchy, when the woman goes up inside the woman.

R130 You remind me of a friend's father who was trying to set up a friend with one of his female cousins and was convincing him that, although she was plain, she was "good in soul", and the friend rejected saying: I won't fuck her in the soul.

This all opens up up the question, "is sex racist"? The dick wants what the dick wants. If it doesn't want women are you a misogynist? If you aren't attracted to any specific body type or color or ethnicity are you Racist?

Not sure we can answer this, but it is an interesting question

[quote] The dick wants what the dick wants. If it doesn't want women are you a misogynist?

Of course not. You're only a misogynist if you're an ass who discriminates against women / is violent or abusive to them in any way... Nothing to do with dick that only desires dick.

Only when there was a hot man fucking her.

@r141, I've been accused of being a misogynist for simply being a Gay man. That's why I mentioned it. Perhaps some women over use the word

R143 Jesus Christ... Stupid fucking frauen.

R142, put down the bong and explain.

^ Why so salty?

[quote] [R142], put down the bong and explain.

Hon, if you need an explanation, you don't belong here. LChat is the place for you.

{quote] NO YOU CAN'T DELUDED CUNT, UNLESS YOU ARE BI. GET OFF THR DRUGS.

A very 1970's Gay Liberation way of thinking, the third sex and all that. We now know that sexuality if a lot more fluid than that.

"We" might be a little ambitious, R147. "We" doesn't even cover DL, much less the troglodytic general public.

In my teens, I had sex with a couple of women but I got hard thinking about them fucking men, not me fucking them if that makes any sense. I think teenage hormones and confusion had a lot to do with it. No way it would happen now and i definitely wouldn't consider myself bi. Just a confused teen who wanted to fuck something.

R146, take your meds.

Why are people discussing Matt Damon in this thread?

^ Because, Matt Damon is a Frau that some men still get an erection over

How is Matt Damon a frau?

^ How come you ask silly questions, are you a Frau?

Matt Damon doesn't belong on this thread. It's a mystery.

^ Maybe you should talk to the manager, Karen

When I mistook her for her hot (twin) brother. Should have realized by her butchness.

Damon,Affleck,Kimmel are gay. Think about all the lying going on to stay in closet. I miss the days when we had straight actors like John Wayne who screamed butch.

But what about Tomothee R158?

R159 yes, tom cruise is a great straight actor who brings lots of butch to Hollywood

r158 r159 r160

it's funny how many people in this thread claim you must be "bi" are the same ones that claim bi men don't exist.

personally think it's mostly fraus and fauxbians masquerading as gay men that claim that shit... -- sure, actual lesbians are obsessed with gold star lesbians but most gay men don't care as much about purity or supremacy. . . they expect most tops to have bottomed, most bottoms will be willing to top, that even the most faggy fag dabbled with a pity fuck to his chunky faghag in order to escape the closet she codependently locked him in.

most lesbians would reject a threesome with straight couple, however, most gay men would consider it. . .

Lesbians hate us discussing their community but just look at any lesbian organization, venue, event... there are sexy clubs and events but so much drama and finger waggling from the larger community, which is split between the much more populace of asexual fauxbian rad fems and the uhaul monogamous sluts (they might have more than twelve "relationships" in a year but will claim, each and every one was a longterm... and then joke about gay men calling a two week fling a relationship. go figure.)

Hence you find a lot more of the slutty dykes (at 40, when community invisibility sinks in.) bartering for space at sleazy gay men events and fetish clubs; you find a lot of them at bear events and in gay leather scenes. Most guys confuse them with faghags. Those that go to bear events tend to be more chill than those in the leather scene that decry misogyny because most gay men still prefer single sex spaces to mixed spaces, even if the cootie patrol keeps to themselves.

Older dykes have an easier time because older uptight crowd disappears into isolated groups or lesbian bed death relationships, the most finger waggling they get is for becoming active in the lesbian party scene and the long line of babydykes lining up for an experienced elderlez.

we could argue that most gay men are visual - so, all they need to maintain an erection with a female is an image in their head. They don't need an elaborate story nor visuals for masturbation, as like all men, they've learned to get hard and get off.. hence, there's a lot of str8 guys - str8 as in not sexually attracted to men that have had more legitimate gay experiences than women.

fraus rarely have below the waist explorations with other women, the majority, however, do develop crushes on other girls, some will have make out sessions but only a scant few ever go as far as fingerbanging.

Chances are if any of these lads ever had a blow n go with a bottom that never undressed, there's a possibility they may have been trans or even just a butch woman -- which doesn't make them str8 or even bi because for all purposes they saw themselves as being with another male. Things get more complicated when we get to genitals, but if for all intensive purposes, the person "passes" for the same sex... just as with str8s, if the person in question passes enough for the opposite sex.. for most people that's a go; male or female... because most people aren't meeting other people with their pants down. . . made worse by all the cockshy young millennials and gen z that are much fatter than previous gens, so the lines all blur a bit more regardless.

having sex with a woman - consider the cultures that consider cunnalingus to be gay. Why is that? Stimulation to the clit is not unlike sucking dick. Is cunnalingus inherently gay, does that make lesbians str8? str8 men gay? of course, not. . . but that perception remains among some groups and many individuals.

do we delve into political fauxbians policing of lesbian sexuality... where they believe all forms of penetration and more so, lesbians being physically attracted to other females is actually representative of straight cis males, therefore str8 and not lesbian.

but whatever... since they hate porn, their policing of other people's sexuality, attractions and practices, social control, is the only way they can get off. so, keep fapping girls.

^ of course, though, we gotta remember that both political lesbians and lesbians that are political believe that society's anti-sodomy laws was more to do with the misogyny and lesbian erasure than it had anything to do with homophobia... so, they're considered bigger experts on gay men's sexuality than any gay man can ever be.

As a gay man I get a hard on watching two lesbians wrestling. The humping each other does the trick.