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Gay Asian Men Who Date Really Old White Men

This has been something of a fascination of mine for years. Over the years I have met many gay Asian men, and seen many in public, with much older white boyfriends/partners. At least old enough to be their father.

I’m a white guy and my partner is Asian, though we are about the same age - he’s a year older than me. I asked him about why this is so common, and he just said “I don’t know, they want money I guess.”

Can anyone explain this phenomenon and why it’s so common? Perhaps some cultural thing with older “father figure” partners?

by Anonymousreply 10March 6, 2022 5:08 AM

Your partner gave you the answer.

by Anonymousreply 1March 6, 2022 4:40 AM

Your partner gave you the answer.

by Anonymousreply 2March 6, 2022 4:40 AM

They want money+self loathers.. there’s your answer rice queen.

by Anonymousreply 3March 6, 2022 4:43 AM

Who wants to work if they don't have to?

They smart. You? Not so smart.

by Anonymousreply 4March 6, 2022 4:45 AM

Maybe it’s just harder to differentiate the old and younger white couples, because you automatically think they are biological father and son. So the interracial couples stand out. I would think money grubbers are spread across the races and ethnicities fairly evenly.

by Anonymousreply 5March 6, 2022 4:46 AM

More like they money and a Top

by Anonymousreply 6March 6, 2022 4:48 AM

I'm a white guy who dated guys older enough to be my father for most of my 20s.

It wasn't money that I was after. Just good ol' fashioned daddy issues. But that's just me.

Older/younger relationships have always been a thing and always will be, I presume. I wouldn't overthink it.

by Anonymousreply 7March 6, 2022 4:55 AM

Older guy wants control and younger guy wants security.

by Anonymousreply 8March 6, 2022 4:57 AM

This comes up every few months, with the same degrading answers. Wonder why. Maybe it's DL's anti-Asian troll.

by Anonymousreply 9March 6, 2022 5:05 AM

It is known as the 'rice and crotches' syndrome.

by Anonymousreply 10March 6, 2022 5:08 AM
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