[quote] "They were inevitably cooked to a state of near mush without any flavoring,
That's a funny story, R3/R7. Years ago, a coworker said that she grew up hating peas because her mother not only used canned peas, but proceeded to boil them to death before serving. I'm not a fan of canned, but they certainly taste a hell of a lot better when they haven't had all the flavor and texture boiled out of them.
I think the cultural shift in your mother's cooking is also interesting, considering (and I don't know her culture and country of origin) that the frozen and canned foods industries exploded after WWII. So they had been around for a while by that time, though they may have not reached a lot of places for some time after.
[quote] "She claimed her horrific cooking was for his health, though he hated it and couldn't scarcely down her tough, overcooked meat)."
The road to Hell is paved with good intentions, AND under-seasoned, overcooked meals, apparently. Do you think this was all something she began doing on her own, or did her mother and father treat food similarly?
Perhaps it was the reverse of the story I mentioned in this post, above (though I imagine that to be very unlikely)? Certainly, there are usually simple, logical explanations for these things, but I find it all very interesting.
[quote] "Fast forward to the late '80s/early '90s -- she exclusively bought canned, and even smothered the overcooked meat in Campbell's Golden Cream of Mushroom (superior to plain mushroom, she said). Even more unpalatable."
Bless her heart. This is funny as hell.
[quote] "My mother once bought frozen Green Giant peas in butter in a vacuum package that just had to be dropped in boiling water. I think her friend suggested them. My father and I loved them all and we never saw them again."
I never had the boil-in-bag peas, but I DID love the boil-in-bag turkey & gravy (and I say this as the son of a mother who was an excellent home cook). We typically had them with mashed potatoes (usually fresh, but sometimes out of a box, when the budget was thin). I miss that, actually.
[quote] "Actually, if they still make them, I'm going to get a box this week and have them over steamed rice."
I don't know if they do, either. But seek them out! And if by chance this thread is still around, I'd love to hear about it after the fact.