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Wealthy Mom Pleads Guilty To Secretly Filming Adults, Child To Satisfy 'Sexual Desire’

A wealthy Connecticut mother of four has pleaded guilty to secretly filming three people — including a child — for “sexual pleasure” at her $10 million mansion, court records show.

Hadley Palmer, 53, pleaded guilty in the state Superior Court in Stamford on Jan. 19 to three counts of voyeurism and one count of risk of injury to a minor for the incidents, the Associated Press reports. She faces up to five years in prison and is required to now register as a sex offender.

As part of her plea deal, two more serious charges — employing a minor in an obscene performance and possession of child pornography — were dropped.

The recordings and photos were captured between 2017 and 2018, “and at least one photograph taken by the defendant depicted a person who was a minor," Blawie wrote in the ruling to seal the case, according to the Stamford Advocate.

She apparently secretly recorded the three victims, who were either naked or in their underwear, at her mansion in Greenwich with the "intent to arouse or satisfy the sexual desire of such person or any other person," according to court documents obtained by the Associated Press.

Palmer was arrested in 2021. It’s not clear how the mother of four targeted her victims.

The wealthy defendant is the daughter of Jerrold Fine, who founded the hedge fund Charter Oak Partners Management in 1976, People notes.

In an unusual decision, John F. Blawie, a judge for the Fairfield District Superior Court in Connecticut, sealed the case against her, the Associated Press reported on Monday.

Dave Collins, a veteran Associated Press reporter who covers Connecticut cases, argued at a Feb. 1 hearing that Palmer's case should remain unsealed, noting that wealthy people often seal cases for their own benefit, according to the New York Times. He made clear that the case file, if public, could still have all information about the victims redacted.

"The public needs to know how these cases are handled and adjudicated," Collins said. "Everybody else's case is online. Why isn't Mrs. Palmer's case?"

Blawie responded by claiming "there is no two-tiered justice," according to the New York Times.

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by Anonymousreply 82February 9, 2023 11:27 PM

Does this old lady still get horny?

I don't see how filming people in their underwear is a turn-on.

What a weird story.

by Anonymousreply 1February 18, 2022 1:41 PM

Oh c'mon, somebody here must know SOMETHING!

by Anonymousreply 2February 21, 2022 11:03 AM

[quote] Dave Collins, a veteran Associated Press reporter who covers Connecticut cases, argued at a Feb. 1 hearing that Palmer's case should remain unsealed, noting that wealthy people often seal cases for their own benefit, according to the New York Times. He made clear that the case file, if public, could still have all information about the victims redacted.

She's going through a divorce. What an interesting element- I wonder if the husband paid this reporter for this.

by Anonymousreply 3February 21, 2022 11:07 AM

[Quote]Oh c'mon, somebody here must know SOMETHING!

Why yes, yes I do.

by Anonymousreply 4February 21, 2022 11:11 AM

Love her outfit.

by Anonymousreply 5February 21, 2022 11:56 AM

That is a weathered 53 years. Like an old flag, tattered and worn, flapping desperately in a stiff New England wind, trying to regain some of it's youthful glory, to no avail.

by Anonymousreply 6February 21, 2022 12:22 PM

Surely this is not how the typical sturdy, salt of the earth, laconic Yankee ages.

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by Anonymousreply 7February 21, 2022 12:29 PM

[quote]Hadley Palmer

She sounds like the heroine of a William Inge play.

by Anonymousreply 8February 21, 2022 12:38 PM

Were there semen-laced cupcakes?

by Anonymousreply 9February 21, 2022 12:47 PM

[quote] As part of her plea deal, two more serious charges — employing a minor in an obscene performance and possession of child pornography — were dropped.

WTF? They dropped the child pornography charges?

[quote] Blawie responded by claiming "there is no two-tiered justice," according to the New York Times.

Sure, Jan.

by Anonymousreply 10February 21, 2022 12:58 PM

[quote] Were there semen-laced cupcakes?

I had three!

by Anonymousreply 11February 21, 2022 1:03 PM

My guess is she took the fall for her teenage son, who was involved in a vandalism incident on martha's vineyard a few years ago. Either that or, as her marriage ended, the husband looked through the house's security camera footage and found images of their kids' friends. Not only was she not charged with possession but she wasn't charged with dissemination, either. How else would somebody know she possessed recordings that were made 5 years ago and never sent to anybody?

by Anonymousreply 12February 21, 2022 1:05 PM

It's also extremely weird how she was not repped by a criminal defense attorney but someone from family law.

by Anonymousreply 13February 21, 2022 1:06 PM

I think you are right, R12.

by Anonymousreply 14February 21, 2022 1:19 PM

I agree R12. Another article on the charges notes that a child psychologist was also accused of not reporting information in connection with the incident. It sounds like something related to taping the son and friends occurred and the family hushed it up, but the father is now using it against the mother in their divorce.

by Anonymousreply 15February 21, 2022 1:24 PM

Her uncoiffed, unadorned visage says "New England," but she lives in Greenwich and is essentially a New Yorker whose money comes from Wall Street.

by Anonymousreply 16February 21, 2022 1:26 PM

She's rich and didn't get some decent plastic surgery?

by Anonymousreply 17February 21, 2022 3:21 PM

Update. Very shady.

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by Anonymousreply 18May 7, 2022 11:15 PM

I wonder if it was something like she recorded her sons to see if they were gay. And they all want it sealed b/c then both the son and the other boys who engaged in activities with him would be outed. But I am not sure how to work that she compensated a minor for doing the video into the explanation. UNLESS she paid OFF a minor, and said it was in exchange for engaging in the activity?

by Anonymousreply 19May 7, 2022 11:51 PM

As far as content or purpose of video, I don’t know.

The timeline is odd.

The original arrest was in 2021 for an act from 2017.

“Palmer was arrested in 2021 on charges including employing a minor in an obscene performance, conspiracy to employ a minor in an obscene performance and second-degree child pornography in 2017. On Jan. 19, she pleaded guilty to three counts of voyeurism and risk of injury to a minor, all felonies.”

There’s the nasty divorce:

“Palmer has also been involved in a contentious divorce since 2020, court records show. Hadley and Bradley Palmer were wed in New York City in 1992 and had four children together, three of whom are now young adults.”

And the child psychiatrist, who was probably treating her child (the minor in the video) through 2017 and beyond and knew about the incident.

I think it all got drudged up via the husbands divorce strategy.

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by Anonymousreply 20May 8, 2022 12:10 AM

Sentencing happened Friday. Scant details.

“According to The Associated Press, Paul Ferencek, the Stamford-Norwalk state’s attorney, revealed new details about the crimes, saying that the victims were recorded unclothed on video without their knowledge or consent and the images were used for the sexual pleasure of Ms. Palmer.”

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by Anonymousreply 21December 4, 2022 1:51 PM

What a strange story

by Anonymousreply 22December 4, 2022 2:00 PM

Can’t she just stick dildoes in her old cooter like everyone else?

by Anonymousreply 23December 4, 2022 2:10 PM

R12 makes sense.

Setting up hidden cameras for masturbation purposes just doesn’t seem like something a…middle-aged…mother of four would do. She probably doesn’t even know how to set her TV’s remote control.

It does, however, seem like something a young man would do.

Looking at their life from the outside, I might have been jealous. But nobody’s life is perfect, I guess.

by Anonymousreply 24December 4, 2022 2:23 PM

[quote]She sounds like the heroine of a William Inge play.

R8 I'm not trying to argumentative, I'm just curious: Which William Inge play, or plays? I'm thinking of Picnic, Come Back, Little Sheba, Bus Stop, and The Dark At The Top Of The Stairs, and I can't think of any character with a name like Hadley Palmer.

by Anonymousreply 25December 4, 2022 2:25 PM

R25, yes you are.

by Anonymousreply 26December 4, 2022 2:27 PM

Pictures of the mansion and the son or it didn't happen.

by Anonymousreply 27December 4, 2022 2:29 PM

[quote]In an unusual decision, John F. Blawie, a judge for the Fairfield District Superior Court in Connecticut, sealed the case against her, the Associated Press reported on Monday.

I guess her wealthy family doesn't want the details in the press.

"Unusual decision" - well, it's not so unusual when you think about the favors that were probably called in. I hope this judge is investigated for making an "unusual decision." It should automatically trigger some form of review when a judge does something out of the ordinary that seems to favor a one side in this manner vs. a trial error for appeal.

by Anonymousreply 28December 4, 2022 2:31 PM

R26 No, I'm not. You are, actually.

I'm more interested in 1950s theater than in this subject. I haven't read or seen every Inge play so I was just curious what character that name suggested. That's why I said I'm NOT being argumentative...so that my question would NOT be construed as argumentative.

by Anonymousreply 29December 4, 2022 2:37 PM

Is it possible she employed a female (or male) minor in hopes of entrapping her then-husband in some sort of statutory rape scenario? Although that does seem sort of far-fetched and Ryan Murphy-ish.

by Anonymousreply 30December 4, 2022 2:39 PM

[quote]Is it possible she employed a female (or male) minor in hopes of entrapping her then-husband in some sort of statutory rape scenario?

Geez, in many ways, that would almost be worse, wouldn't it? That scenarion reeks of entitlement and psycho manipulation.

by Anonymousreply 31December 4, 2022 2:41 PM

Lovely house (you're welcome R27)

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by Anonymousreply 32December 4, 2022 2:42 PM

Her PornHub channel was amazing.

by Anonymousreply 33December 4, 2022 2:44 PM

Hang this bitch by her waddle. Wtf, people are sick.

by Anonymousreply 34December 4, 2022 2:47 PM

Hadley in makeup and better days.

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by Anonymousreply 35December 4, 2022 2:50 PM

Doesn’t the husband come from money, too? This seems like a scorched earth divorce strategy. This will have repercussions for the kids.

I was thinking that maybe she had a boyfriend and made the videos for him. Then they watched them together, making the assertion that she watched them for sexual pleasure pretty believable - she wanted to get her boyfriend worked up.

by Anonymousreply 36December 4, 2022 2:51 PM

Yeah R36, divorces really do turn people into fucking vile pricks. His kids will suffer from this for years.

by Anonymousreply 37December 4, 2022 2:53 PM

She is the daughter of Jerrold Fine. She’s a member of the chosen people, not a WASPY New Englander.

by Anonymousreply 38December 4, 2022 3:05 PM

At R35, it doesn't look like she's wearing makeup there and it doesn't look like "better days." Husband's smile looks fake.

by Anonymousreply 39December 4, 2022 3:08 PM

Amazing house.

by Anonymousreply 40December 4, 2022 3:37 PM

I hope the cast Patricia Arquette in the inevitable Lifetime mini series.

by Anonymousreply 41December 4, 2022 3:47 PM

Hadley Palmer (R)

by Anonymousreply 42December 4, 2022 4:46 PM

R32 That outdoor sculpture, lower right. I can’t. My ex mother-in-law had a sculpture of feet under her glass coffee table, but this is a whole other level of horror.

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by Anonymousreply 43December 4, 2022 5:11 PM

I wonder who the unidentified person is? "Each of the victims, he said, were filmed in various states of undress, some fully nude, without their knowledge or consent. The videos, the prosecutor said, were made “to arouse her [Palmer’s] sexual desire” – and that of another, unidentified, person"

by Anonymousreply 44December 4, 2022 5:26 PM

R32 Thank you, dear!!! New build, and very nice. Great location.

by Anonymousreply 45December 4, 2022 5:30 PM

"This lady's ex-husband, Brad Palmer, was recently galavanting in Antarctica with his 30 something year old girlfriend, Daniella Plattner, at some summit (Day Breakers) attended by a bunch of trust fund babies trying to find purpose in their lives. All of these people are disgusting."

by Anonymousreply 46December 4, 2022 6:19 PM

That's a rough 54

by Anonymousreply 47December 4, 2022 6:41 PM

R47 She’s 27, she had a hard life!

by Anonymousreply 48December 4, 2022 7:53 PM

Weird story. Who's the third person? A boyfriend of hers? It would be unusual for a woman to do this of her own accord - it's more likely that a man would have got her to do it. I think the secretly filmed people were friends of her daughter.

There was another article where the journalist said that the case would conveniently only appear on the website on court dates - it would be taken down on other dates. There is definitely someone trying to hide this case away from public view which reeks of corruption.

by Anonymousreply 49December 4, 2022 9:02 PM

"Legal experts told the Associated Press - whose reporters opposed the seal - at the time that it was a highly unusual move for her file to be sealed immediately and many say she did not even qualify for accelerated rehabilitation.

They demanded to know why she was able to hide from public view, when other defendants have not.

Many have wondered if Bradley exposed his wife's doing to police, after divorce documents revealed he sought to look at her social media for evidence she been romantically or sexually involved with someone.

The divorce records indicated that wealthy financier had grown suspicious of Palmer.

Bradley had filed a motion back in July to get her social media accounts, along with any videos or photographs she may have sent to anyone she had been romantically or sexually involved with, according to a February report by The New York Times.

According to the Stamford Advocate, it was revealed at the socialite's sentencing on Tuesday that the victims in the case had requested Palmer serve no further jail time, and that she shared the illicit recordings with an 'unnamed third party.'

A mysterious man, who was not identified, was seen hugging and kissing Palmer in the conference room prior to the sentence. He was seen folding his coat's hood toward his face to hide his identity. "

by Anonymousreply 50December 4, 2022 9:15 PM

Wait, R50, the husband's name is Bradley? Bradley and Hadley? jfc.

by Anonymousreply 51December 5, 2022 2:42 AM

Is that a lap pool? Water feature? Fountain?

by Anonymousreply 52December 5, 2022 2:43 AM

Therapeutic bath for the dogs?

by Anonymousreply 53December 5, 2022 6:20 AM

R43, that looks like a real person.

by Anonymousreply 54December 5, 2022 6:25 AM

This lady was FREAKY.

by Anonymousreply 55December 5, 2022 6:31 AM

[quote] It would be unusual for a woman to do this of her own accord

Not true. There have been many female pedophiles. People just didn’t discuss it.

by Anonymousreply 56December 5, 2022 6:31 AM

Hadley Palmer sounds like she had a life of pastels, free of work and lots of travel.

by Anonymousreply 57December 5, 2022 6:39 AM

What right does the ex have to her social media accounts?

by Anonymousreply 58December 5, 2022 6:40 AM

"There have been many female pedophiles."

R56? MANY links or it didn't happen. And in my many years of reading, the vast majority of "female pedophiles" are doing it to please a pedophilic man.

by Anonymousreply 59December 5, 2022 6:50 AM

I was thinking this was Mom watching the security cams in the pool house while the teens changed and experimented sexually and she got off on the tape, especially the strapping second string LAX player who’s best friends with her son getting head from his girlfriend. And then the husband caught her finding it on the house cloud computing system and has been using it as leverage in the divorce case. But I don’t really see a pool house in those photos.

by Anonymousreply 60December 5, 2022 7:13 AM

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by Anonymousreply 61December 5, 2022 8:05 AM

re: the picture linked to above - that's the guy the media seem to be hinting is her boyfriend and that he's the one she shared the footage with though. I hope he's been investigated.

by Anonymousreply 62December 5, 2022 8:06 AM

Details on 8 female pedophiles.

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by Anonymousreply 63December 5, 2022 8:14 AM

Number of female paedophiles nearly DOUBLES in four years: Warning over 2,297 cases of abused children as 'lack of understanding' means women are less likely to be reported for crimes

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by Anonymousreply 64December 5, 2022 8:15 AM

Anne Sexton molested her daughter.

by Anonymousreply 65December 5, 2022 8:15 AM

Ghislaine Maxwell is another pedophile.

by Anonymousreply 66December 5, 2022 8:16 AM

Female sex offenders are more common than you think, reveals study

Researchers say the data gives an insight into the one-dimensional stereotype of women

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by Anonymousreply 67December 5, 2022 8:17 AM

It's still the case that majority are men or women doing it for a man. Ghislaine Maxwell is an example of someone who was doing it for a man.

by Anonymousreply 68December 5, 2022 8:17 AM

Voyeurism is very much a male thing, though. Women typically do not go round installing hidden cameras in bathrooms.

by Anonymousreply 69December 5, 2022 9:12 AM

It's well established that female crimes involving sex abuse usually involve being in cahoots with a male. It's usually for a boyfriend. That doesn't mean there's never females that act on their own, just that less than 10% of these crimes are committed by females, with an even smaller portion acting on their own -- and many of those lone cases involve adult female, teen boys (teacher and student scenerios). ​

Idk why that's even up for debate when we've known forever that a majority of sex related crimes (rape, voyeurism, etc) and sex related industries (prostitution, porn, etc), are perpetrated by males. The market for sex in general wouldn't thrive if it relied on female demand alone. This story wouldn't even raise eyebrows if it weren't unusual. There's cases daily with guys looking at child images, molestation, etc., But this case sticks out in the news because it's not typical.

Not sure why some people want to believe otherwise, or try to argue it's comparable, unless it bothers them that they are male too -- but it shouldn't if you're not a male committing these crimes. Doesn't bother me, I'm not doing these doing things. It's no different than mass shooters being mostly male, that doesn't mean every male could be a mass shooter. It's important to research and society to acknowledge differences in crimes when it comes to certain demographics. That's the only way to tackle it.

by Anonymousreply 70December 5, 2022 11:27 AM

Why are child molesters always heterosexuals?!

by Anonymousreply 71December 5, 2022 11:28 AM

They aren't. Tons of men molest boys.

by Anonymousreply 72December 5, 2022 11:30 AM

[quote]I don't see how filming people in their underwear is a turn-on.

Really?

by Anonymousreply 73December 5, 2022 2:04 PM

It's basically like creating porn only with an extra transgressive layer of the forbidden.

by Anonymousreply 74December 5, 2022 2:07 PM

This case in the UK was horrifying. The women involved were acting at the behest of a male pedo. The worst of the female offenders was released from prison in 2019.

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by Anonymousreply 75December 5, 2022 2:09 PM

She's out now:

Hadley Palmer, 54, has entered a transitional supervision program and was granted early release from prison. She will now serve the rest of her sentence in a halfway house or with a sponsor.

by Anonymousreply 76February 9, 2023 12:53 AM

R1 she is only 53! Of course she gets horny

by Anonymousreply 77February 9, 2023 1:04 AM

Off with her head!

by Anonymousreply 78February 9, 2023 1:19 AM

Hadley Palmer sure doesn't appear to be a Wasp. She also doesn't look like a wealthy person. Is she nouveau riche?

by Anonymousreply 79February 9, 2023 1:46 AM

She was born into money and married money as well. (She's the daughter of prominent hedge-fund founder Jerrold Fine. Her ex-husband is venture capitalist Brad Palmer.)

by Anonymousreply 80February 9, 2023 1:51 AM

"Women are so pure and virtous! All female pedos are trans women! And if they aren't, they're just working for a man! Down with the patriarchy!"

by Anonymousreply 81February 9, 2023 10:52 PM

She looks like a lezzie

by Anonymousreply 82February 9, 2023 11:27 PM
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