Are bears EVER attractive?

Post of photo of your "friend" and we'll see, OP.

Short answer, no.

Dirty attractive

Actually, second from left isn't bad looking.

bearly attractive

You fuckers are crazy. They’re all attractive.

Yes.

Some have very handsome faces but I don't do well with back hair and musty testicles.

Short answer: Yes!

Long answer: Hell, Yes!!

Much more so than you are, cuntress.

[quote] Actually, second from left isn't bad looking.

If I could see him after he has weight loss, some muscle development in the gym, hair transplant/toupee, and aggressive plastic surgery, I might come around to your view.

Non smelly non sloppy bears are.

Many otters morph into bears as they age. Slim and trim hairy ---> big gut and bald hairy.

It's sad.

If you’re the alternative, OP, hell yeah. Not into drag queens.

R10 = angry bear

All of those in pic are hot!

To some people yes, to others, no. Its a case of where beauty really is in the eye of the beholder

Straight looking cows, but are the prissiest queens as soon as they open their mouth.

Yes!

Polar bears and panda bears are very attractive.

The four in that photo sure are

I think it’s great when straight people have affection for people of the same gender and perhaps want to engage in sexual activity with them or others, but they shouldn’t mislabel themselves as bisexual or gay.

3 out of 4 are quite fuckable. The 2nd from the right has a dorky face,wich annoys me.

My reply at r22 was intended for a different thread.

Not everyone is into squinty little prisspots with sneers and standard issue checkered shirts.

Not everyone likes the same thing.

Yes.

Can’t they jus be called men?

R25 is talking about you, R15.

Some of them are sweet and normal. My experience (it's vast) is that most of them are stuck prissy mean gurls with absolutely nothing to recommend how in the fuck they arrived at that behaviour. Because they're not all that and a LaCroix clutch. Brittle is the best way to describe it. "LOOK, just LOOK at me!" And the tossing of the curls and turning the nose up. A little of that goes a long way. 'Kiss me arse' worked when you were 19, baby. When you're on the wrong side of 40 flip the 45 and try playing the B-side already.

This is just my opinion. I've been called lots of things. Unfriendly and a social cunt has never been one of them (OK, maaybe a few times, but I always consider the source).

Rlly? R29 are you sure you have bit been called worse r29?

If this is your type, then yes. If you are obsessed with barely legal twinks or the typical insta-bro-ho type, then no.

I prefer horses.

I cook so I love bears.

Very very rarely

fat lazy dirty hairy pigs...ugh

The guys in that photo are not typical of what you'd see at bear gatherings. That's really cherry picking.

Most are overweight with major insecurities all the while reconciling their poor eating habits and lack of workout routine on - oh, I"m a BEAR - GRRRR - we're not down with that!

Trying their best to look all butch - which is just another form of drag because many of them are the biggest girls you'll ever meet.

It's a ridiculous subculture and everyone tries to look EXACTLY the same.

About 1% of "bears" look like those in OP's pic. I know some very sexy "bears' but I also know about 90% of the guys who claim "bear" just don't want to admit that they are morbidly obese. They give normal bears a bad name.

I know two of them.

I’d gladly hook up with any of the bears from the photo than a local dainty prisspot who doesn’t want me to mess up her hair, or cum on her limited edition duvet cover. I am gay because I am attracted to MEN, not some cunty, poor imitation of a female. Ugh.

R39 Let me guess, you're morbidly obese

R40, Let me guess, you’re a drag queen. Not guilty, Miss Thing. Just love MEN.

R41 Riiiiight ok

Good luck at the pageant, guurrl! Now DIAGF.

I honestly have never seen a hot bear before.

Smokey was kinda cute

Straight bears tend to have more testosterone. Gay bears are 'man in the streets/lady in the sheets'.

Same here, r38. Surreal to see DL randomly pick them out to call them ugly.

Give me a nice, big hairy bear any day over some twink.

HA! I know all of them. One has his doctorate and likes to let you know it. Another one is ridiculously rich. They're nice enough but part of a bigger clique that's always at The Eagle. Too funny to see them here on DL.

R49 HA TOO FUNNY

I don't mind bears up to about the weight limit of OP's example (or what we can see if them); the bigger sorts, absolutely not.

And bald Isa turn-off for me. Stages of balding scan be fine, but bald ABD a great big pumpkin head, no way.

[quote]fat lazy dirty hairy pigs...ugh

American bears are dirty? This I doubt.

[quote]I know two of them.

Are you a bear?

Bear pron gives me a woody, but if they're too blubbery it has the opposite effect. Then they are Chubs (who can be bears but are usually just obese).

OP R52 / R53 / R54

Something tells me you fit into your own category of creepy

[quuote]Something tells me you fit into your own category of creepy

Something tells me you're a fugly bear.

YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Bear is a term developed to make some overweight gay men feel better about themselves. Not even a gym teacher could get as many people to dress alike.

No no no

[quote][quuote]

Oh dear!

Men that smell like baloney

What's wrong with smelling like baloney?

I like men who look male. Chest hair. Facial hair. Stocky. And with enough self-esteem to not care what other people think.

And that’s who I am, too.

Are prissy bitches EVER fuckable???

R64 You seem hurt. Just because someone isn't fat, doesn't mean they're prissy.

R65, you seem obtuse. Just because someone isn’t effeminate doesn’t mean mean that they’re fat.

I think people get pissed off about beads when they realize that bears are a white thing.

You have to be white to pull off the right oursthetic.

Wirey hair is disgusting and greasy/dirty looking. No hair is gross and JUVENILE / pedophilic. Yup.

R67 Perhaps take an English class

^ Perhaps troll another thread. NO ONE will miss you.

Yes, Op, but only to each other.

These look to be having fun.

Ive never liked a Theme Queen. Thats all that silliness is to me,along with the leather crowd ,Furries,blah,blah,blah. Theme Queens.

No, OP. Dataloungers only find bland looking, fey weathermen in Omaha hot.

I'd do any of the men in that pic.

It's really easy for a balding, fat, hairy middle aged gay man to be a bear and market himself as attractive to people that are into that. They are the most marketable of gay men because it requires very little effort to be them.

right-on R74

Yes, and those guys are hot.

[quote] I like men who look male. Chest hair. Facial hair. Stocky. And with enough self-esteem to not care what other people think. And that’s who I am, too.

Me too!

The best part about bears? Their hairy balls. I love them.

It's best that bald, unattractive men do not reproduce. This is a good phenomenon where such people select themselves out of the gene pool

R49 , could you please tell us a bit about the guy who is second from the left in the photo? The hot one with the nice eyes and smile?

I sometimes wonder about the self worth of someone like OP. Surely he knows there are lots and lots of men across the age spectrum who would love to jump into bed with those guys. It's almost like he's asking "why do most guys find these men more attractive than me?"

Face it, basically they are just fats with a made up identity.

Looks like a sneaker, feels like a pump

Gross. Most of them are into in ugly hairy women with double mastectomy. They really love tranny pussy, *vomit*.

Bears are generally average looking guys with average bodies.

Gays are generally average looking guys with slightly better than average bodies.

Morbid obesity is hawwwwwt, y;all! Get on board!

Fat tranny @R86.

Yes, many bears are very attractive. They are more accepting and more comfortable in their own skin. They accept themselves for who they are. If you don’t like them, they don’t care.

That tribal shit is best left in High School where it belongs.

Bears don't seem comfortable with themselves at all. In fact, they are quite whiny, insecure, and judgemental usually, with the added bonus of not having the discipline to diet and workout.

But the guys in the photo don't look fat to me, for the record

I know the one on the left. Very nice guy and smart too. Tall, so not my type, but has always been very nice to me.

R8- I'm hairy but I'm muscular and not overweight. I'm not a muscle bear . Maybe I should not feel the need to categorize myself.

R29- The most attitude I EVER got from anyone EVER was from a Muscle Bear at a bathhouse. He came into my room and was inexpertly sucking me then he insisted on videoing the encounter. I refused over and over, then he said - ( the music was blasting at the bathhouse so I'm not sure) you're lucky I'm even in your room.

The next thing he said I heard clearly- I wouldn't even look at you on the street!

BITCH. Fortunately he was not my type at all. I'm not into Bears or Muscle Bears. I like slim, good looking guys with natural bodies. He would considered hot by plenty of guys and even hotter than the guys in OP's photo but not my type. If he had been my type that would have hurt.

More pics of bears, please!

R95 gross. Truly.

It's so weird how many people on the DL have "types." They have a favorite body type like they have a favorite kind of shoes. Like human beings are fashion accessories. It's weird.

R96. Mentally ill. Truly. Axis II, Cluster “B.”

R97 thats normal, most people have a type, or several types,not just on DL. It's actually unusual to find someone that doesnt have any preferences

Bears Never Give Up

Bears can be vicious, just like any other gay clique.

What are the Instagram accounts for 2 and 4 in OP’s pic?

"A bear? Bears are sweet. Besides, you ever see a bear with forty-foot feet?"

R79 has not been out of his mother's basement since forever.

I'm assuming Suds MacKenzie is the rich one, and gray T shirt has the doctorate. Red Sox seems like a nice guy, while stache-right is tough to figure out.

They're all handsome enough, but #1 and #3 look a bit Barbie Bear-ish. #2's eyes would get me in trouble.

I'll take "stache-right", hook me up OP!

That's what they look like in bed.

This thread EXHAUSTS me.

Plenty of dudes find my fat hairy self attractive.

Brian Sims. End of Story.

My little teddy suits me just fine.

R110, I bet I would. What do you like?

I'll take one of these, please.

Yeah mate, they are.....

If they are wealthy.

If they’re power washed 2wice/ Day and AS NEEDED

Gross no way.

I can be attracted to guys that are hairy but they must be SLIM not fat or muscular.

Porny birthday bear

[quote]I can be attracted to guys that are hairy but they must be SLIM not fat or muscular.

No one cares.

Nope. Big fat nope. Hairy men are a big turn off to me.

Some are.

Not enough to pay for their bad homemade porn.

[quote]Hairy men are a big turn off to me.

Again, no one cares.

Aren't most DLers considered "bears"?

All those food threads....

We used to call them trolls.

R126- No. They are just

FAT WHORES

Sometimes but they can also be some of the meanest clicky assholes you've ever had the misfortune of meeting.

What part of the old saying "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" do you not understand? Just because YOU don't find one type of men attractive does not mean other gay men feel the same way.

The Bears have done a phenomenal job of rebranding fat, older guys to seem a desirable, and attractive.

R131- It did NOT work on me.

[quote]What part of the old saying "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" do you not understand? Just because YOU don't find one type of men attractive does not mean other gay men feel the same way.

Good luck getting some of the drooling fucking tards to understand this concept R130! Bears arent my thing personally, but I recognise that some guys do find them attractive, just as I find skinny fems attractive i know they arent to everybody else's taste. Each to their own, it'd be bad news if we all liked the same thing

R119 has stated her boundaries!!!

R18, Same as some muscle guys ... Looks Like Tarzan, Sound Like Jane.

Bald, bearded, and fat. Go for it if that's what you want. Not interested in the big majority of them.

[quote]Not interested in the big majority of them.

People who say shit like this maybe don't realize that they beg the obvious question - who the fuck is interested in YOU?

R137 my husband, you idiot. Tall, slim, married to a handsome engineer.

Not everyone is Senatrix.

R138 - do you want a fucking cookie for marrying a skinny person?

If the apps are to be believed, 90% of gay couples have stopped having sex and are hunting for guest stars to keep the spark alive.

But congrats on your 'no fat chicks' rule.

The super femme ones are a cognitive disconnect.

The phrase "elephant in a tutu" comes to mind.

Though as someone noted upthread, props on branding. Up there with "pre-owned vehicle"

Fat chicks take note...

Yes, there are times they are attractive. Usually after one has had a few drinks and one has no chance with the really hot guys, a bear becomes more attractive because they are better than nothing.

Sure, R142. "Nothing" = you.

Yes

++++

Muscle bears that are closer to bulls, yes.

Omg r145, that's not a bear, that's a whole clan.

Ew, no.

Ask my viewers on CB.

My twink husband can't get a nickle most days I hop on and it rains.

I thought bears were old and fat R144

That guy is neither.

In short, when they have a sweet caring heart and ready many books, the answer is yes, whatever the hair quotient or girth.

R142- That's what they say when someone can't get good looking white guys anymore they'll settle for/start considering Asians and black guys.

People they would ignore in their heyday . that would have been invisible to them are now visible only because these over the hill queens are now invisible to the so called HOT white guys.

"A bear? Bears are sweet! Besides, you ever see a bear with 40-foot feet?"

Otters are usually cute and highly desirable amongst the bears.

I would hit all 4!!!! They are well-groomed bears that likely have tasteful home decor and acceptable bed linens!