Fraternity Experiences

Do Fraternity Dream Girls have to fuck the entire frat or just the executive board?

Love that they have a shout out to absolutely not homosexual, now Democrat Charlie Crist.

Also the ATM for late night cocaine buys is a nice amenity.

At my Big 10 university fraternity in the mid-80s, I never hooked up with any of the brothers, but I did enjoy the communal showers and casual nudity. And two of my various roommates, Boyd B. and Greg T. , had huge schlongs, which I would have gone for if I didn't think it would get me kicked out.

Pikes at my southern liberal arts college turned out to have all the closet cases as members. I wasn't one, and I have no idea if there was even a vague consciousness among their members at the time. This was 1970s.

When I think of wood, it's not about how someone speaks on-camera.

I went with a friend as his plus one to his fraternity brother's wedding. My friend was out in college but accepted into the frat. They were clearly not the A-list house on campus, but seemed like nice guys with a few hotties in the mix (6 years after college). I had to ask my friend who he hooked up with since so many brothers were at the wedding. He played coy but once liquored up told me about the 6'3 Polish hottie he used to suck off fairly regularly. The guy was still damn hot, so I was naturally jealous.

He said a few other brothers came out after college but didn't do much out of fear. Apparently, they regret the missed opportunities.

So unironically douchey...so of course they're the "most winning-est" frat ever. Makes me glad I'm old now.

To answer the question, yes, yes, I fooled around with one of my fraternity brothers, who was a former state champion wrestler. I was a junior, and he and his pledge class "kidnapped" me and some other brothers to go on a "pledge skip" at a big university several hours away.

As soon as it got dark on the bus, this dude piles into my lap (everybody was a bit drunk and crazy then), and starts grabbing my dick. When we finally arrived at our "host frat," we made sure our sleeping bags were next to each other.

It was hard to do much with a few dozen brothers in very close proximity, but we tried. And we found a few other times back at the ranch where we could hook up.

Alas, he is straight and/or closeted; married to a woman now; and living on the other side of the country from me. Good times, though.

There's a lot of friendship, casual nudity, and good natured frolicking at the best of times

There's also a lot of binge drinking, childish acting-out, and wanton destructiveness at the worst of times

Some of these guys have serious mental issues, but most of the guys with the serious issues got pushed out or marginalized

Except for one entitled guy we called "the devil" - he killed another brother in a drunken car accident...

He was remorseful for a semester or two (he got so much sympathy & special treatment), then he went back to his usual sociopathic behavior...

He could be incredibly charming and he never seemed to suffer any serious consequences

I was in one. Some of the best years of my life. I was also fucking girls at the time, so maybe it wasn't so great.

Mine was a big fraternity at a big Southern University. It was closer to them than any group of 150 or so guys I'd ever known and it was a good experience overall.

But I was too closeted to know I had gay feelings. And even if I had understood, I never would've done anything thing with my brothers.

There were some brothers at other fraternities that I suspected were gay and who were "friendly" to me, but I was too paranoid to do anything with them either.

I was closest to the guys from my high school and the guys from my pledge class. But they're are a lot of opportunities for bonding and getting to know the others - the good, the bad, and the in-between.

Stealth craving for straight guys thread.

I think you might want to work on honing your definition of stealth R11.

There's always been a lot of subtle semi-gay behavior in frats. Lining up in front of your bros to fxck the same prostitute without her cleaning up in between was the norm in one UCLA fraternity.

Another had members jointly making wooden paddles for the senior members to use on the new pledges.

They'd deny it but I saw a LOT of non-straight behavior in all fraternity parties especially the semi-group sex and supposed macho competitions.

Actual gay frat men have always chosen ultra-Conservative and/or Christian sorority girls as their dates/pseudo girlfriends. Saw many instances of this happening just like among church members.

Gayest men at UCLA ran the Campus Crusade for Christ or similar organizations. Same with the religious Jewish organizations.

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Let’s say you join a frat but then realize you’re a much better fit at another frat.

Can you switch? Is it looked down upon? Considered disloyal?

R16, if you quit during the 'pledge period' (before you are initiated as a brother), it's not a huge deal. The guys at the fraternity where you de-pledge might not like you, but that's about it. But once you are 'sworn in' as a brother, it's pretty rare to 'de-activate', and another fraternity is likely going to look poorly on someone who makes a commitment to 'brotherhood for life' somewhere, backs out then wants to do it again elsewhere. (Or at least that's how it was in the Stone Age when I was in college.)

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I've told my fraternity story before on here, but I'll do so again. I was in a frat in the South in the early 90s. It was in some ways a toxic atmosphere and I regret a lot of my behavior. Nothing scandalous, just obnoxious. I had a core group of friends in the frat, who I eventually started coming out to as I felt comfortable. One of them, very drunk, took my anal virginity and even told me he was gay, too. He kinda avoided me after that and we never really hung out together after, but it was a great first time and felt incredible in the moment. Another guy, who knew I was gay, used to show up at my door drunk and come in for late-night blow jobs (me blowing him, no recip.). Eventually he fucked me. It only happened once and, like the first guy, he avoided me after that. Eventually people found out I was gay, and I was kicked out. They said it was because I got a DUI and was a liability, but that was an excuse, because other guys had dui arrests and were not sanctioned. I am Facebook friends with a few of the guys I was close with, but not close. I wouldn't characterize it as a bad experience overall. There was no hazing in my fraternity and most of the guys were genuinely nice. But I don't know if I'd do it again.

I was in a fraternity in the Midwest in the second half of the 1980s. My dad, who would have killed to be able to join a fraternity when he was in college in the 1950s, but couldn't afford it, couldn't get over how diverse we were. We were on the small side, but among the 40-50 brothers we had a mix of Jews, Muslims, Christians; jocks and nerds; and a few fairly obvious gay men. We had a conversation about one of the gay guys bringing a date to formal, but overwhelmingly voted to allow it...which was pretty big at the time. (He actually showed up at formal with a diver from my high school I had a secret crush on!) Unfortunately I don't have any sexy stories. The sexiest it got round the house was when our really muscled (but really short) brother moved the lawn without his shirt. The girls across the street acted like the ladies in the Diet Coke commercial.

I have never before or since been around guys who were comfortable with casual nudity, or having a "brother" throw his arm around him in greeting. Even though I was closeted, I loved those times.

Still waiting for a good old fashioned okie cookie story.

I was not in a fraternity but I lived with a lot of guys who had been.

I always found that the coolest, hottest guys were the ones who had pledged, joined, and then quit. You meet all the people, figure who the cool ones are, and then quit. Still bros, no dues. Only girls and fags served four years bro!

We had to get naked, covered in Crisco, and were packed into a closet together. Last one to cum was punished.

From my experiences, friends I "experimented" with either never spoke to me again or acted like it never happened. I didn't know what to do with that at 16.

R20 Ugh, mowing the lawn and yard work, reason enough for me to stay in a dorm or apartment.

I was in a Fraternity but I was actually "out" when I rushed. Even though I was gay, I had a big ego, was athletic and a "funny" asshole, so that somehow made me less "gay" to them or something. With that said, I was very polarizing. At least half the house hated me and the other half adored me (this half was usually the half that was in control). The half that did like me was great with me, and they were my first straight friends as a gay guy (I had straight friends before but only when I was closeted). I'm still friends with most of them too. After I joined I eventually found the "minutes" of when the brothers were discussing which new members should be accepted, and when they got to me, it became a long discussion. Some guys there really hated me even more than I had realized, but it was great seeing how others defended me. And yes, their main problem was with me being gay. I was also the very first openly gay guy but we had alumni (the alumni were still involved up until around they started families) and there was another closeted guy who also avoided me for the most part. He came out after college.

I never hooked up with a Brother, and honestly, I stopped finding any of them attractive once I got to know them better.

With that said, I openly lusted after guys in different Fraternities and hooked up with lots of closeted guys. I'd even make bets.

We often went to other schools to meet others from our chapter and I'd seek out hook ups there too.

Also, I loved hazing the new members but maybe I shouldn't go into that. :)

I unfortunately was not there to witness this personally, but there was one fraternity party where this one flaming gay who was THE gay on campus showed up and apparently gave half the fraternity blow jobs. I have no doubt this was true because everyone at our school was talking and gossiping about it for like the next two weeks. And this was back in the late 90’s, so this was very shocking. I was always so jealous of that guy.

R28 makes me realize how little I’ve done with my life 🙁

R19 sounds like Heaven.

R29 Don’t feel bad. I’m still jealous of that flamer to this day all these years later.

Because R28 in a fantasy. You're young and dumb

R32 If I was going to make that up, I would made the story much more interesting and I would have been the lead.🙄

R27, step away from the quotation marks.

I stayed away from fraternities in the mid seventies. I thought they were mostly disgusting and in my last couple years in college they vandalized the cars of black students and sexually assaulted “coeds” all well know to the Dean of student affairs. My family is wealthy and one of their charitable priorities was education. I told them to never give a penny to Colgate University and I have done the same since. They did create a trust for Wellesley and MIT worth millions when they passed away. Frat houses are in general the incubators of of despicable white male behavior then and now. There were no sororities so I cannot comment on them. Oh, and they were homophobic too although there was definitely sexual activity among the brothers confirmed to me years after I graduated.

17 of my frat bros ran a train on me. They all fucked me raw and came in my hole. Good times.

Geez, the Pikes in that video are such douchenozzles.

How can they possibly think that video paints them in a good light?