Gay crush or just a bro crush?

How the fuck should we know, honey? Enjoy the show! I like watching my college students' interacting.

Sounds like two closeted guys who really like each other but are either afraid or don't know how to take it to the next level

Being a Gay man I've never had a "Bro Crush" without wanting to fuck the guy. I can't imagine what that's like

R1 The guy being crushed on has a girlfriend and a reputation for chasing after any new girl who starts working here. Not sure if the guy with the crush is single or not.

R3 it does seem odd. He's completely enamored with him.

I guess the one guy could be a closet case and the other just loves the attention

I think R5 might be on to something…

How old are they?

The guy crushing might be gay. But I've seen tons of straight bro crushes. It happens.

^ Maybe, I just don't get crushing on someone without wanting to fuck them

It’s like how gay guys feel about some socialite or Diva.

Alot of straight guys crush on sports stars. It always cracks me up when I see them wearing their favorite players number shirt. Like they're dating or something. Whatever.

I don't know, if a guy makes me "light up" when he enters a room it's because I've already had sex with him or I'm going to try really hard to have sex with him really soon

[quote]"Sorta?"

OP, if you're twice as old as the love birds, does that make you 20?

Careful, dude?

Oh, I get it, it's like Miss Lindsey and Donald Trump...

Well, that's just sick

What’s holding you back from asking one or both of them “what gives?” and that you know their generation lacks hang ups when it comes to issues like candid photography.

Cisgender dude crushes can be so perplexing. Whatever their behavior, it probably doesn't occur to them that it looks "gay."

OP is 50s using phrases like “bro crush”.

Of course, WE see two guys together and have sexual thoughts, but it doesn't mean they do.

Bromance.

Hetero dudes totally crush on each other. And in some cultures you eldergays would blow a gasket how besties are all over each other and radiate love and warmth to each other. It took me a while to get used to it when I went to work in North Africa and its true throughout most of the Middle East as well.

The one crushing is in LOVE!

Do not ask them (separately or together) "What gives?" It's rude and will make them self-conscious and could ruin the charming intimacy they have developed. And you will come off as "that pervy guy at work."

@r20, what a bunch of crap, in this culture when two guys " are all over each other and radiate love and warmth to each other" they go and fuck their brains out. It's only natural

It's not a bunch a crap. Sheesh. But you do you in flyoverstan USA.

You R23 have never been around straight guys and are only viewing the world through your stupid keyhole view.

^ You're in North Africa or some god forsaken place, we don't even fly over it

@r25, I mentioned that above, but your too stupid to read it and no, I've never met a straight guy in my life you fucking twat

What about bromances where there’s almost a 30-year age difference?

r25, is an incel trying to force it's world view on everyone else

When I was in college most of the guys had best friends and were always very handsy with them in a casual dude bro way. Younger guys don't have the quite the same hang ups as older guys do about showing affection in a non-sexual way.

^ You haven't even had sex with a human yet. Get back to us if you ever lose your virginity

Fuck off, R31, R29, R27, R23 hysterical cunt.

^ Unfuckable fatty ^

What a weird, demented creature you R33 are. So terrified that straight guys can have actual affection for each other. Did your father beat or assault you?

I had one on my frat brother roommate. We were inseparable for a year. Then he became distant after that. My theory was that some of the bros told him that hanging with me all the time did not look good.

The other just ended. I loved this guy so much. A few people here would know him. He just completely went off the rails and kicked me to the curb. Brutal.

[quote]A few people here would know him.

Go on!

I’ve seen a few bromances that turned sour. I know four sets of “straight” guys that were inseparable from middle to high school and maybe to college then suddenly weren’t speaking anymore. They went from BFFs to enemies or just stopped talking without much explanation. I found out that two of those relationships were sexual (from a sister of one because she’d walked in on them and via a phone snoop of another who was a roommate) and I suspect the third & fourth relationship was the same. They’re all married now with kids - except two of the guys, not from the same bromance, who both live a sort of an Ennis Del Mar existence. I think straight guys mess around way more than we know especially when they’re younger and partying together, then the hormones die down and they start entering the real world where societal norms are heavily enforced to make money by selling yourself as a family man. Men keep secrets about homosexuality like their life depended on it, as many here know.

It's a shame that there is still so much homophobia. It's so cute to see two straight guys hanging out and having fun. I remember a few years ago going to the movies and these two besties sat a few rows ahead of me. They were both around 16 or so and they sat together. Some other kids started heckling them and they moved to have one seat empty between them. It was a little sad as they seemed to be just good friends and they felt suddenly uncomfortable to be so close in public.

R38 that shit comes from women. Women could end homophobia if they wanted to, because men do what they do to attract women. The power of women over men’s behavior, especially now, is very underrated for accountability purposes.

^ No, these were other boys teasing them. They were not influenced by women.

R40 think macro

If women collectively decided to stop pursuing homophobic men every straight man would run out and get a gay best friend

^WTF? Whatever, bro.

Bros before hos

R36, Here ya go. I used to care. Now I don't.

Women could certainly help reduce homophobia, but men also do things for the approval of other men, who don't call each other out on homophobic behavior. They excuse each other's shitty behavior.

Have you asked them if they know that the man can go up into the man?

I knew two guys like this. One was in the closet gay and had a huge crush in this hunk of a guy who had joined the company later. I think the first thought it was just a friendship but it was really a massive crush. The hunk was loving the attention from a long-time employee ad I guess thought it was a bro-mance..

Until, people started commenting that they seemed like a gay couple. The hunk, who reeked of toxic masculinity, completely cut it off.

The gay guy only came out to me a few years later when he had left the company. He refuses to talk about his time being hunk's friend.

They are a couple of game playing whores.

I love brocrushes. Homiesexuals are hot

This will end in a double murder suicide.

The crusher has already blown the crushee a few times. Thus the closeness. The younguns don't even consider a BJ to be sex.

He wants his crush inside him quite deeply.

"This will end in a double murder suicide. "

Nah, just tears

Dies the crush-er have a moist, inviting anus?

They are both cat people. One of them keeps catnip in his trouser pants. At night, they turn into cat people, but during the day, it's all on the down low.

Stop drinking!!

You can tell the crushee has a thick, fat cock.

Who is that in the photo at R45?