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Pretty AND Ugly?

My first thread on this bombed, so I'll try one more time! The French have a term," jolie laide," which means a woman is attractive despite not being conventionally beautiful. The same idea for men is "beau merde." Pretty/ugly. I always applied this to Barbra Streisand. Who do YOU think is jolie laide/beau merde?

by Anonymousreply 143March 25, 2022 7:53 PM

Rossy De Palma. What a face. High end model...or side show attraction?

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by Anonymousreply 1January 20, 2022 12:55 PM

Laide Repoussante comes to mind as an alternative, in a very few extreme cases.

by Anonymousreply 2January 20, 2022 1:17 PM

Michael Phelps, Josh O'Connor. For the men. Maybe just "ugly sexy".

by Anonymousreply 3January 20, 2022 1:23 PM

For men, the term is "ruggedly handsome". In the early 90s, when NYPD Blue was huge, the media sometimes called Dennis Franz a sex symbol. Straight women have very different standards from straight men.

by Anonymousreply 4January 20, 2022 1:25 PM

It's called "fulsnygg" in Swedish...

And that would be exactly Michael Nyqvist

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by Anonymousreply 5January 20, 2022 1:35 PM

Young Anjelica Huston

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by Anonymousreply 6January 20, 2022 1:45 PM

I'm thinking Liev Schreiber. At times he can be more than jolie laide; he can be damn cute. Sweet, funny man.

by Anonymousreply 7January 20, 2022 2:36 PM

Vincent Cassel (I'm a frau btw)

by Anonymousreply 8January 20, 2022 2:39 PM

Bette Davis is an old example but a good one.

by Anonymousreply 9January 20, 2022 2:39 PM

Jackie Kennedy

by Anonymousreply 10January 20, 2022 2:49 PM

I think it comes down to style and how you carry yourself. You can be ugly, but be admired.

by Anonymousreply 11January 20, 2022 3:03 PM

Diana Vreeland, darlings.

by Anonymousreply 12January 20, 2022 3:05 PM

Adam Driver. He has big dick face and is so fucking tall. What a mug on that bloke though!

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by Anonymousreply 13January 20, 2022 3:37 PM

"Ruggedly handsome" is not the male equivalent of "Jolie-laide" (or, my preference, "belle-laide."

Such men are beau-laid. Jesus.

For example, as a young man Jean Paul Belmondo was not ruggedly handsome, not even when he was older. But he WAS a beau-laid man, if only because of his nose. Benedict Cumberbatch is in the category, as it's not just broken noses that take a man there.

The DL has had a thread about this, OP, dear.

by Anonymousreply 14January 20, 2022 3:50 PM

For some reason, the late French actress Valérie Quennessen comes to mind.

She was the "other" girl in the dumb1982 movie "Summer Lovers". She had her own unique beauty, but next to Peter Gallagher and Daryl Hannah, she just looked plain.

But I thought there was something gorgeous about her...she had these huge, luminous green eyes.

She left Hollywood right after "Summer Lovers", left the film business altogether not long after that, and died in a car crash in her early 30's.

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by Anonymousreply 15January 20, 2022 3:50 PM

Arthur Dupont.

Cute/Ugly.

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by Anonymousreply 16January 20, 2022 3:56 PM

I love Arthur Dupont- a great example. R14 you must be a real hit at parties. FUCKSSAKE.

by Anonymousreply 17January 20, 2022 3:58 PM

Michael J. Pollard...had that quirky cool, but looked like a troll doll.

by Anonymousreply 18January 20, 2022 4:00 PM

Liam Neeson?

by Anonymousreply 19January 20, 2022 4:20 PM

R19 YES! He has that big dick energy too, but a face that might stop a train.

by Anonymousreply 20January 20, 2022 4:23 PM

I think what they are saying is attractive but not beautiful . 70% of people fall into that category.

by Anonymousreply 21January 20, 2022 4:28 PM

It seems to me that many French leading men fall into this category.

Daniel Auteuil (in his younger years), for example

by Anonymousreply 22January 20, 2022 4:31 PM

Max Mauff

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by Anonymousreply 23January 20, 2022 4:32 PM

Ludovico Girardello

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by Anonymousreply 24January 20, 2022 4:34 PM

Gisele Zelauy, a late 1980s/ early 1990s top model from Brazil.

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by Anonymousreply 25January 20, 2022 4:36 PM

Moises Arias

by Anonymousreply 26January 20, 2022 4:36 PM

Fixed the link

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by Anonymousreply 27January 20, 2022 4:37 PM

Young Denis Lavant

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by Anonymousreply 28January 20, 2022 4:41 PM

Adrien Brody

by Anonymousreply 29January 20, 2022 4:41 PM

Jon Bernthal.

To me Jean Paul Belmondo is/was full-on hot. Nothing merde about him.

by Anonymousreply 30January 20, 2022 4:50 PM

Joaquin

by Anonymousreply 31January 20, 2022 4:53 PM

Javier and Penelope

by Anonymousreply 32January 20, 2022 4:54 PM

Olympic speed skater KC Boutiette

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by Anonymousreply 33January 20, 2022 5:23 PM

Would Kirsten Mcnemany qualify? I’d also vote for Karen Black, Sofia Coppola and SJP.

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by Anonymousreply 34January 20, 2022 5:23 PM

Sarah Jessica Parker, Camille Cottin

by Anonymousreply 35January 20, 2022 5:26 PM

I’d also add Michael Phelps

by Anonymousreply 36January 20, 2022 5:29 PM

Ansel Elgort..the new Tony in 2021 West Side Story..

by Anonymousreply 37January 20, 2022 5:32 PM

Daniel Craig, Sophia Loren

by Anonymousreply 38January 20, 2022 5:32 PM

Bea Arthur.

by Anonymousreply 39January 20, 2022 5:36 PM

Sarah Jessica Parker Sophia Loren Julia Roberts

It is usually the women and men who have over exaggerated features that would fall in this category

by Anonymousreply 40January 20, 2022 5:38 PM

Eh, R35 -- you beat me to it!

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by Anonymousreply 41January 20, 2022 5:40 PM

I LOVE me some Camille!

Not so much her profile though.

by Anonymousreply 42January 20, 2022 5:42 PM

Meryl Streep

by Anonymousreply 43January 20, 2022 5:47 PM

But R43, don't forget -- they also have to be pretty!

by Anonymousreply 44January 20, 2022 5:50 PM

Juliette Lewis

by Anonymousreply 45January 20, 2022 6:32 PM

R44...Meryl Streep was quite pretty in movie, Manhattan...

by Anonymousreply 46January 20, 2022 6:35 PM

Agree that Jean-Paul Belmondo was just hot. His face looks it was carved from stone, made for the movies. Nothing "ugly" about him, he just didn't look like Tab Hunter or Troy Donahue.

by Anonymousreply 47January 20, 2022 6:36 PM

Meryl was pretty in the patrician way, nothing sexy about her. She actually looks better as an older woman.

by Anonymousreply 48January 20, 2022 6:37 PM

Robert Mitchum.. rough character roles, but sexy.

by Anonymousreply 49January 20, 2022 6:38 PM

Camille Cottin looks a lot like Marlee Matlin.

by Anonymousreply 50January 20, 2022 6:39 PM

I just remember Meryl...in Manhattan...first showing her, with that long, flowing golden hair, walking down the street. She even flipped it. It was impressive.

by Anonymousreply 51January 20, 2022 6:41 PM

Too many commas...oops^^

by Anonymousreply 52January 20, 2022 6:42 PM

Rob Gronkowski

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by Anonymousreply 53January 20, 2022 6:47 PM

The late Amy Winehouse.

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by Anonymousreply 54January 20, 2022 6:53 PM

Janis Joplin.

by Anonymousreply 55January 20, 2022 6:56 PM

R43- Meryl Streep was LITERALLY( so dl people I had to use that word) beautiful ca. 1979.

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by Anonymousreply 56January 20, 2022 7:01 PM

What about ME?

( cool HALF Jew)

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by Anonymousreply 57January 20, 2022 7:03 PM

Agnes Moorehead....(watching Bewitched..lol).

by Anonymousreply 58January 20, 2022 7:03 PM

R21, I say this with the utmost respect and admiration: you're a whore, darling.

by Anonymousreply 59January 20, 2022 7:05 PM

Alex Kapranos lead singer of Franz Ferdinand. And yet I would push my grandmother out in heavy traffic to get to him.

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by Anonymousreply 60January 20, 2022 7:07 PM

Stop posting people who are just conventionally attractive. So stupid.

by Anonymousreply 61January 20, 2022 7:09 PM

Roger Waters...an Adam Driver type...though tbf in hhis old age he became outright good looking.

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by Anonymousreply 62January 20, 2022 7:14 PM

Lady Gaga

Lena Dunham

Seann William Scott

Timothee Chardonnay

by Anonymousreply 63January 20, 2022 7:18 PM

Roger Waters looks great now...wow. Great example of getting better when getting older.

by Anonymousreply 64January 20, 2022 7:22 PM

Ron Perlman is my go-to ugly/hot.

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by Anonymousreply 65January 20, 2022 7:27 PM

Chloë Sevigny, although she might be too pretty. I think most celebrities are going to be too attractive for this label. I suspect this quality comes across better in person.

Sophia Loren is conventionally beautiful.

by Anonymousreply 66January 20, 2022 7:36 PM

Mick Jagger and Keith Richards...in fact, all of the Rolling Stones..

by Anonymousreply 67January 20, 2022 7:38 PM

I'd say Chloe Sevigny is conventionally beautiful.

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by Anonymousreply 68January 20, 2022 7:40 PM

R67- In 1966 they were The Rolling Stones now they're the Rolling SKANKS

by Anonymousreply 69January 20, 2022 7:43 PM

R68 I don’t think people see Chloe as conventionally beautiful at all. She has a bit of an “always tired” look but that’s just her face and it’s a bit severe-looking. I’d say she definitely fits this thread because her style and movie choices are what people appreciate about her, not so much her looks.

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by Anonymousreply 70January 20, 2022 7:45 PM

Babs Streisand isn't even joile laide, she's laide laide.

by Anonymousreply 71January 20, 2022 7:45 PM

R61 I think that the actual candidates here are ones you really have to stare and ask "are they truly ugly or so ugly that they're beautiful?" I can't stop staring at their faces. For conventional folks I'm just "meh."

by Anonymousreply 72January 20, 2022 7:52 PM

I think of the actress who played Georgette in the movie Amélie as jolie-laide

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by Anonymousreply 73January 20, 2022 7:58 PM

Fanny Ardant is truly beautiful in real life, but the way they styled her in Elizabeth as Marie de Guise was jolie-laide.

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by Anonymousreply 74January 20, 2022 8:02 PM

Charlotte Gainsbourg

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by Anonymousreply 75January 20, 2022 8:07 PM

R65, YES to Ron Perlman! I thought I was the only one who wants that man to fuck my brains out every time I see him in something. I should have known there would be others though, especially on the DL.

by Anonymousreply 76January 20, 2022 8:10 PM

In my neck of the woods, it's called MONEY/POWER/FAME BEAUTY.

by Anonymousreply 77January 20, 2022 8:11 PM

Here's an old one. Paloma Picasso.

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by Anonymousreply 78January 20, 2022 8:34 PM

You missed the joke, R69.

by Anonymousreply 79January 20, 2022 8:36 PM

Sandy Bullock and most of those Culkin boys come to mind.

by Anonymousreply 80January 20, 2022 8:47 PM

Charles Bronson

Humphrey Bogart

Ahhhhrnold Schwarzenegger & ex Maria Shriver (funny, huh?)

Benicio del Toro

Javier Bardem & Penelope Cruz (she can look like an ugly duckling or a doormouse, or strangely hot - it's like who is going to show up today?)

Sandra Bernhard

Parker Posey

Mick & Bianca Jagger and also another ex of Jagger's: Jerry Hall (depends on the light/shot- she can be quite beautiful or ugly)

Gia

Roger Daltrey

Robert Plant

Cyndi Lauper

Grace Jones (terrifying and alien but beautiful)

Walter Matthau and Jack Klugman (Quincy ME)

Later in life Crawford, after she ruined her face with the harsh plastic surgery and styling of the 50s- her Grand Guignol phase (and I love her dearly)

Def agree with Babs, Adam Driver, Bette, Daniel Craig, Amy W, Ron Perlman, Jon B, Chloe S.

Timothee is just beautiful and so is Meryl

Janis Joplin was just plain ugly. Sorry

by Anonymousreply 81January 20, 2022 9:01 PM

Seriously, some of you are really not getting the concept of jolie-laide.

by Anonymousreply 82January 20, 2022 9:02 PM

R81- about Grace Jones- TERRIFYING yes but NOT beautiful

by Anonymousreply 83January 20, 2022 9:04 PM

R81- Charles Bronson always looked kind of Latino/Mexican to me but he was actually Hungarian- either way there was something HOT about him in the 1970's and into the 1980's.

I bet between the legs he had a COBRA. I bet he was HOT in the sack too.

God, I'm HORNY today.

by Anonymousreply 84January 20, 2022 9:06 PM

Check out this weird/sexy Japanese commercial with Charles Bronson from the mid 1970's.

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by Anonymousreply 85January 20, 2022 9:08 PM

Yes, r74, Fanny is jolie-jolie.

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by Anonymousreply 86January 20, 2022 9:17 PM

Some of the people you're listing are insane. I've already commented on Belmondo. World class beauty Sophia Loren? Fanny Ardant? Jon Berthanal, Javier Bardem and Penélope Cruz are also just plain hot.

R81 Has a mostly good list. Sandra Bernhard is just plain ugly though.

by Anonymousreply 87January 20, 2022 9:41 PM

Gia was hot, too.

I feel like for women, they need to wear clothes well and that usually means being thin and/or angular. So I don’t agree about Cyndi Lauper, but this is all obviously a matter of opinion.

by Anonymousreply 88January 20, 2022 9:52 PM

Maggie Gyllenhaal

by Anonymousreply 89January 20, 2022 10:12 PM

The blonde Brit on Girls.

by Anonymousreply 90January 20, 2022 10:27 PM

Maybe I’m cynical but a lot of these people are just ugly.

On what planet is Gronk ugly? He’s the stereotypical dumb hot jock football player.

by Anonymousreply 91January 20, 2022 10:42 PM

Jesse Plemons. I have the hots for him.

by Anonymousreply 92January 20, 2022 10:46 PM

80% of the time it just means "hot with a large nose".

by Anonymousreply 93January 20, 2022 11:08 PM

Jesse Plemons aka Meth Damon?

by Anonymousreply 94January 20, 2022 11:18 PM

Adam Driver

Benicio Del Toro

Willem Dafoe

by Anonymousreply 95January 21, 2022 12:38 AM

R63? In what world is Lens beautiful enough to be on the "pretty" side of UGLY?

That girl is just plain fug.

by Anonymousreply 96January 21, 2022 12:56 AM

Parker Posey!!?? She's fucking gorgeous, cute as hell. She does not belong on this list.

by Anonymousreply 97January 21, 2022 1:12 AM

Dave Grohl

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by Anonymousreply 98January 21, 2022 1:18 AM

Definitely Javier Bardem (I consider Penelope as conventionally pretty)

by Anonymousreply 99January 21, 2022 2:08 AM

Yeah, young Meryl was a real uggo.

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by Anonymousreply 100January 21, 2022 2:16 AM

Defoe and possibly a young Eric Roberts. Definitely Barbra. I just rewatched What’s up Doc and she was striking and homely at times, but riveting. I love that movie.

by Anonymousreply 101January 21, 2022 2:25 AM

Leotardo DiCaprio

Lucas Haas

Andrew Garfield

Brad Pitt

Adam Driver

Ross Gellar

Jack Quaid

Chris Pine

Those inbred-looking werewolf Twins, Max or something.

by Anonymousreply 102January 21, 2022 2:45 AM

Willem Dafoe has bad teeth. Just saw him in The Last Temptation of Christ and thought stop smiling Jesus! Bette Midler is ugly. She may have a sexy body but I cant stand looking at her face.

by Anonymousreply 103January 21, 2022 3:52 AM

Brad Pitt doesn't fit this category. He's conventionally good looking.

by Anonymousreply 104January 21, 2022 4:00 AM

Tilda Swinton

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by Anonymousreply 105January 21, 2022 4:03 AM

I think she's beautiful...in an unusual way.

by Anonymousreply 106January 21, 2022 4:05 AM

Steve Buscemi

by Anonymousreply 107January 21, 2022 4:13 AM

Yes r94 meth Damon! So rude 😡!

by Anonymousreply 108January 21, 2022 4:39 AM

Donald Sutherland Sandra Bernhard

by Anonymousreply 109January 21, 2022 5:11 AM

Peter Sarsgaard. My favorite.

by Anonymousreply 110January 22, 2022 6:20 PM

Ringo Starr

by Anonymousreply 111January 22, 2022 6:23 PM

She's a full on money - she looks ok from afar but up front she's a big, old mess.

by Anonymousreply 112January 22, 2022 6:24 PM

Oops - monet!

by Anonymousreply 113January 22, 2022 6:24 PM

Just ugly R111

by Anonymousreply 114January 22, 2022 6:24 PM

Rose McGowan - present day

by Anonymousreply 115January 22, 2022 6:26 PM

Don’t call me ugly R114!

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by Anonymousreply 116January 22, 2022 6:29 PM

Pretty ugly and pretty apt to stay that way!

by Anonymousreply 117January 22, 2022 6:31 PM

Chis Pine still is/was too conventionally good looking to be on this list.

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by Anonymousreply 118January 22, 2022 6:35 PM

If the face fits! R116

by Anonymousreply 119January 22, 2022 6:35 PM

Gisele Bundchen, Kristen McEnemey, Kate Moss

by Anonymousreply 120January 22, 2022 6:35 PM

John is too, now that I think of it. But Ringo is more ugly/cute and John is more ugly/sexy.

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by Anonymousreply 121January 22, 2022 6:36 PM

There’s no way Kate Moss could ever be described as ugly.

by Anonymousreply 122January 22, 2022 6:37 PM

Barbara Streisand Sophia Loren Meryl Streep Giselle’ Javier Bardem Daniel Craig

Brad Pitt mad Chris Pine are handsome men. They do not belong on this list.

by Anonymousreply 123January 22, 2022 6:45 PM

Okay, attention gays- watch this live concert performance. You’ll be so glad you did. IT’S FUCKING FANTASTIC! -OP

by Anonymousreply 124January 22, 2022 7:14 PM

Oh shit, wrong thread! FUCK.

by Anonymousreply 125January 22, 2022 7:15 PM

Daniel Craig

by Anonymousreply 126January 22, 2022 7:21 PM

Who would want to have sex with Daniel Craig? What a horror show!

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by Anonymousreply 127January 22, 2022 7:24 PM

Anya Taylor Joy. I have heard many people call Kate Moss ugly R122

by Anonymousreply 128January 22, 2022 8:38 PM

Used to think I was a cute-ish and pleasant if slightly weird and homely-looking 4.5, but lately after looking at some photos of myself (both naked and clothed) I’ve realised I’m just straight clapped actually. Probably a 3 at best, with humour and charisma I’ve developed over the years.

While I still grant that I can look cute-adjacent facially with good light and angles, generally speaking there’s a lot of ugg going on. No jawline, small features on a large head, sloping narrow shoulders but fat/big arms, dumpy belly, pancake ass, short vertical line & limbs despite average-tall height, average-big and unshapely feet, veiny skin, cellulite, droopy tits that sit sideways and so create no cleavage....

My mother and her family are 90% dawgs, and my father while ok-looking himself (a 4-5) comes from a Deliverance hillbilly background, so I guess I should have seen the light sooner. Think I just desperately conned myself into believing my Mom who told me too often growing up that I was pretty and cute and gorgeous (of course I look that way to you, woman, you birthed me) and the other kids were just mean.

Still, I feel lucky all the same to be somewhat healthy (there are a few issues, but we move), mobile, youthful (a young looking 30), and a passably smart and funny and likeable person. I think I’m probably one of the more interesting, thoughtful, tasteful, and decent people I know, so I guess...there’s that.

by Anonymousreply 129March 25, 2022 12:17 PM

Lili Taylor, although she didn't play the provocative/eccentric roles associated with a French jolie-laid icon because those roles are rarely green-lighted in film, and when they are, they go to conventionally attractive actresses who "pretend" to be Jolie-laid.

Fairuza Balk is/was maybe closer in that direction.

by Anonymousreply 130March 25, 2022 12:27 PM

I have never felt comfortable calling anyone ugly, unless I was referring to their personality. Not only is it unkind and reductive, it shows that the person using the term about someone's face doesn't have the intellectual curiosity to relate to another human being in a positive way.

by Anonymousreply 131March 25, 2022 12:30 PM

R81- Putting a HUNDRED names at once =

Less Is More And More Is TOO much

by Anonymousreply 132March 25, 2022 12:31 PM

Eliot Spitzer

I met him about a year after he resigned (before the divorce) and he was goofy and self deprecating and shorter than I expected with a fit body for a man of his age.

Everything about him exuded "fun fuck".

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by Anonymousreply 133March 25, 2022 12:34 PM

OP's mother was a black tranny whore with the aids on the inside. She was superlatively ugly.

by Anonymousreply 134March 25, 2022 12:36 PM

Martina Navratilova.

by Anonymousreply 135March 25, 2022 12:55 PM

Most of the current England senior football squads (mens’ and womens’).

There’s three or four genuinely pretty/handsome ones on both teams, but the rest just stand for a spectrum of degrees on uggo scale from plain albeit cute enough (Patrick Bamford) to charmingly homely (Declan Rice) to alarmingly grotesque (Harry ‘Slabhead’ Maguire).

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by Anonymousreply 136March 25, 2022 3:10 PM

Vinnie Jones

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by Anonymousreply 137March 25, 2022 3:14 PM

The term was invented for Jean-Paul Belmondo.

by Anonymousreply 138March 25, 2022 3:19 PM

Vincent Cassell (Eastern Block, Black Swan)

by Anonymousreply 139March 25, 2022 3:28 PM

In British society, if a girl is described as 'spirited' it's code for ugly as fucking sin.

by Anonymousreply 140March 25, 2022 6:01 PM

[quote] The same idea for men is "beau merde."

No, the same idea for men is "joli-laid."

"Beau merde" means "good shit."

by Anonymousreply 141March 25, 2022 6:12 PM

The ultimate joli-laid male actor is the Frenchman Dominique Pinon, who you may remember from Jeunet et Caro's "Delicatessen" in the early 90s.

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by Anonymousreply 142March 25, 2022 7:44 PM

R15 she looks like princess Diana

by Anonymousreply 143March 25, 2022 7:53 PM
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