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“My cock is just too big”

…said no one ever?

I had an ex whose dick was really really big and thick and he was mostly self-conscious about it, rather than happy, most of the time. If you’re truly very large, are you ambivalent about it?

by Anonymousreply 108January 16, 2022 2:47 AM

Didn't John Holmes have problems with sensation when trying to stay erect? I may be mistaken, but it seems I read that somewhere. He was never totally hard because of a blood flow problem? Agh! I wish I could remember!!

by Anonymousreply 1January 11, 2022 11:53 PM

I noped out of a couple monster cocks in my life.

by Anonymousreply 2January 11, 2022 11:54 PM

I remember not really believing everything I was feeling in his jeans when we first hooked up. Sweet guy and we dated for months but there wasn’t much we could do in the sex department. But it was a beautiful amazing cock. He didn’t like having it.

by Anonymousreply 3January 11, 2022 11:56 PM

I keep telling my FB that his dick is too big for me, but he won't believe me.

He keeps insisting that "I'm small."

It's the strangest thing.

The guy is hung like a beer can.

by Anonymousreply 4January 11, 2022 11:59 PM

I was at a bar in the 90s, and some guy turns to me in the line for drinks and says, "do you want to go back to my place, and I'll fuck you?"

I said, "Thanks, but no."

He said, "Are you sure? I have a 13 inch cock"

I replied, "Definitely not, then!"

by Anonymousreply 5January 11, 2022 11:59 PM

"What am I supposed to do with THAT? Throw it over my shoulder and burp it?"

by Anonymousreply 6January 12, 2022 12:02 AM

Oh hell I've seen some true monsters, even tried a few. Me I'm hung on the average but very thick side.

by Anonymousreply 7January 12, 2022 12:13 AM

In Jr. High I showered after gym with this hillbilly boy who had flunked a couple grades. He had one of those one-in a - hundred proverbial flaccid thigh slappers. Everyone tried not to look. But I could tell he was embarrassed because he was painfully shy to begin with, and he'd have these mottled red splotches on his face.

by Anonymousreply 8January 12, 2022 12:17 AM

Can I have his address, R8?

Or was that like 100 years ago?

by Anonymousreply 9January 12, 2022 12:18 AM

I remember a kid in middle school in the showers after gym. Good looking with a nice fat dick. After showering he'd stay naked as long as possible to let everyone look at and admire him. When someone asked him why he didn't get dressed like everyone else, he said he liked how it felt on his skin to dry without using a towel.

by Anonymousreply 10January 12, 2022 12:24 AM

My first boyfriend had a really great dick. Not overly porn star huge, but very big and thick. He was awfully shy and had a lot of self esteem issues, and often felt that guys only liked him for his dick. I loved him for a lot of other reasons, but that nice dick didn’t hurt! We kept in touch for many years after we broke up…I think he finally learned he had more to offer than just that.

by Anonymousreply 11January 12, 2022 12:28 AM

I met a really sweet guy that I hooked up with. His cock was enormous - I am talking an extra limb large. There was not a thing I could do with it and felt really badly. I know this has happened to him many times in the past.

by Anonymousreply 12January 12, 2022 12:32 AM

I had one fuck buddy with that mentality.

probably str8 more than bi.

dated women, fucked men for a sexual outlet, being afraid he'd unintentionally injure a woman, which he already had some breakups because of it.

He would have readily had his dick cut in half if there was a surgery without downsides.

But in the reconstructive world, it's easier to dig a hole than build a pole. hence, why most ftms avoid bottom surgery.

My assumptions, like othes here, it was more low self esteem and despite his experiences with women, he was using it as an excuse to shield away from his other trouble spots. He was a kind of a big dumb lovable puppy. the whole gentle giant motif. just too passive and insecure.

by Anonymousreply 13January 12, 2022 12:34 AM

I've always considered my cock to be just average. But I've been told by more than one person I've got what's termed good dick. Ok so that chufs my ego.

by Anonymousreply 14January 12, 2022 12:34 AM

This thread is really turning me on.

I've always wondered what it would be like to be penetrated by a HUGE dick.

I still haven't had one yet, though.

by Anonymousreply 15January 12, 2022 12:40 AM

Too beaucoup, too beaucoup!

by Anonymousreply 16January 12, 2022 12:47 AM

R11, he sounded great. Why'd you break up with him?

by Anonymousreply 17January 12, 2022 12:47 AM

r15 well, practice your lamaze breathing, if trust is involved consider an oil based lube or a good topical anesthetic mixed with a water based, polyurethane condoms, and a good dirty jock soaked in poppers to wear like a mask, especially if they're thick. having some neosporin might be a good idea too, if you haven't been practicing with toys. getting a strap to keep a butt plug in all day before your encounter is pretty helpful. got a greater chance for tears, so consider your limits on sti risks.

by Anonymousreply 18January 12, 2022 12:56 AM

We fetishize big cocks but I have yet to encounter a guy with one who appreciates the fetish.

by Anonymousreply 19January 12, 2022 1:07 AM

R18 is wearing a Scarlet A, but doesn't realize it yet.

by Anonymousreply 20January 12, 2022 1:13 AM

I was in a bar, and I saw some friends of a former boyfriend talking to a guy and kind of looking my way, and nodding towards me. Later the guy they were talking to walked up to me and said, “I hear you’ve got the biggest cock in town.” I started laughing and said “That’s what those jealous cunts were telling you? You’re going to have do a lot better than that,” and I walked away. Size queens never impressed me.

by Anonymousreply 21January 12, 2022 1:22 AM

r21, are you really hung? How do you feel about?

by Anonymousreply 22January 12, 2022 1:33 AM

I am, and I never think about it. I’m also left handed, and I never think about it.

by Anonymousreply 23January 12, 2022 1:34 AM

It's amazing how many people are telling stories about really nice or very shy guys who were well hung. I met this Puerto Rican guy several years ago, afraid of possibly hurting me because he was huge. We decided to just go with oral, and he asked me to be gentle because he had a very tight foreskin that didn't retract and he said that sometimes people hurt him in trying to give him pleasure while sucking his dick. Obviously he wasn't going to try to fuck my face so I told him I would go very slowly and do my best to avoid biting him. Much to my surprise, I was able to deep throat him, and he was very turned on and said it felt even better then when he had been able to penetrate someone. He was very sweet and passive in a non-macho way. I've hoped we'd run into each other but that didn't happen. I've been with other guys who were well hung who were either not very nice or just boring, and while I think this guy had a few mental issues, he did turn me on more than most other tricks because of how he was to be with, not just that big middle leg. He liked being touched a lot there, probably because I wasn't hard on the foreskin and I made sure not to hurt him.

by Anonymousreply 24January 12, 2022 2:41 AM

I knew a guy (a bug man) whose entire persona was constructed around his massive cock. My partner is a photographer and Chuck answered an ad and made it clear that he could do the art stuff but he also had a routine he had to do.

He's do a striptease leading up to his unveiling. He'd wear a fedora. He was turned on by the studio lights and setting. He'd pull a large condom on and it would tear to pieces. He'd start to jerk off and I can still hear the sound of the globs of his satisfaction landing on the paper background pulled out to stand on (as one does - my partner knew not to use cloth for these preliminary antics. And Chuck insisted on an audience, so my partner would try to find people to watch. Then after Chuck was done my partner would do the photos he wanted, which didn't have anything to do with cock - he liked male portraiture and the bug man look was a great image. I think he did three sessions.

I demurred for the third session's start (It was too ridiculous.) and Chuck wanted to know where I was. He was straight but loved it when anyone provided some cock worship, and we had a manwhore neighbor who begged to touch it. Chuck permitted a small lick as well.

by Anonymousreply 25January 12, 2022 2:48 AM

A close friend (straight) told me he had a 12/13 incher and he had nothing but problems. All girls to include his new wife couldn’t take him deep. I’ll take an average dick anytime.

by Anonymousreply 26January 12, 2022 2:55 AM

"mostly self-conscious about it, rather than happy, most of the time. If you’re truly very large, are you ambivalent"

OP what is your native language?

by Anonymousreply 27January 12, 2022 2:55 AM

R26 I'm sure he was being truthful, too!

by Anonymousreply 28January 12, 2022 2:56 AM

DL people I'm 7x6- is that a decent size?

by Anonymousreply 29January 12, 2022 3:01 AM

r29 I would say in the gay meat market, most would consider it within average length or better than average but not quite considered large. It would be considered thick to most. Those labelled as size queens usually mention their starting preference at 8+

by Anonymousreply 30January 12, 2022 3:40 AM

R30-The average length of a fully erect penis is about 5.8 inches so 7 inches is definitely bigger than average.

by Anonymousreply 31January 12, 2022 4:05 AM

But by no account the sort of appendage that might cause self-consciousness

by Anonymousreply 32January 12, 2022 4:13 AM

R25, wtf is a "bug man?"

by Anonymousreply 33January 12, 2022 4:18 AM

I used to worry that my ass was too big. This was back a couple years ago before I got really sick and emaciated. I was 19, went to spin class 3 times a week, and I'm also half middle eastern. So I had a pretty large dumper. Anyways, the first time I tried having sex, the guy's dick wasn't big enough to reach my asshole. We probably could have changed positions to make it easier, but both of us were inexperienced. He panicked and said he actually didn't want to fuck me, so I sucked him off. Since then I avoided bottoming, and then my health went. Sooo I sympathize with the guys with big cocks.

by Anonymousreply 34January 12, 2022 4:19 AM

I KNOW I'm bigger than average because every time I've put a condom on to fuck a guy it's SO TIGHT.

by Anonymousreply 35January 12, 2022 4:27 AM

Mines is very thick and large. It is a bit over 8 inches and wrist thick. I had no idea it was above average until after years of reactions from partners. People noticed in the gym apparently but I didn’t know I was being scoped out until told. I’ve actually lost possible boyfriends because of it so it’s not all that great. I get attention from size queens who are way more sexually adventurous and promiscuous than I am.

by Anonymousreply 36January 12, 2022 4:34 AM

My experience is most guys look like this down there. But you probably won't find them on Grindr (NSFW).

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by Anonymousreply 37January 12, 2022 4:38 AM

Like R29 I have a slightly longer than average but very girthy 7x6 cock, it is perfectly straight with a large mushroom head. While that doesn’t qualify as a monster, I’ve only been with a handful of guys as big or bigger. I never mention it beforehand, and usually get a very pleasantly surprised reaction - I’ve been told many times that’s it’s a beautiful cock. Condoms can be a problem - Magnum XLs are the only ones that fit properly, but they are so thick that they block almost all sensation. Now that so many guys are on Prep that’s become much less of an issue.

It has definitely been too much of a good thing on some occasions. I always tell the guy that I have no ego involved - if he doesn’t want to attempt taking it, or doesn’t enjoy it, there are plenty of other ways for us to have fun. Most guys really enjoy sucking and just handling it. I’m grateful for the happy accident of being born nicely hung, but it’s not a crucial part of my self-image.

by Anonymousreply 38January 12, 2022 5:37 AM

R33, I have to assume that R25 meant that Chuck was an entomologist, who liked to escape the tedium of his career by showing off.

by Anonymousreply 39January 12, 2022 5:54 AM

Had a friend in grade school, middle school- always knew he was "large". He came over one afternoon freshman year of high school & all of a sudden said- "lets skinny dip"- OK- granted I had never seen it, just noticed it here & there. Yeah- it was a great afternoon playing with him on the beach/pool, but I wasn't experienced enough to have "hopped" on it- so we had a JO session & it was our only go round at that time.... Walking him to the bus stop later in the day with my ten speed I noticed he was as long as my ten speed handlebars were wide..... We were 15 at the time. Forward 15 years later when I went home for a visit & a friend got us all together, he reminded me of that afternoon & asked if I was still into guys- I said yeah, but knew he was a bit of a whore- so we met up later & had yet another JO & that was that- he wanted to fuck, but I said- yeah- still no...... He said he gets that a lot..... I wish I could have photographed, he & body/cock are still beautiful. I follow him in social media & we are friends. He lives in Vegas & always says to look him up if I ever swing through..... So tempted @ times......

by Anonymousreply 40January 12, 2022 6:05 AM

Last summer in NYC I met this Dutch guy who lives in the city....He is like 7 feet tall and had a legit 9 plus inches....Rock hard and super straight...So thick that I couldn't grasp it with my hand....Could barely suck it and I'm a cocksucking whore...

by Anonymousreply 41January 12, 2022 6:14 AM

Nobody says anything about my dick. People are sometimes kind.

by Anonymousreply 42January 12, 2022 6:18 AM

r31 yes but gays have higher standards than str8 women when it comes to cock.

by Anonymousreply 43January 12, 2022 8:40 AM

R36 "Mines is..."

Mines is?

Let's use English here, dear.

by Anonymousreply 44January 12, 2022 11:20 AM

It seems that anatomically women would be more able to accommodate a really large man, because vaginas. The butt just doesn't seem as...flexible. Meanwhile I bet gay men are [italic] way [/italic] more into giant dick and want it.

by Anonymousreply 45January 12, 2022 1:25 PM

Women pass babies through their vaginas. You've got a really ignorant view of the human body if you think an anus can handle a cock better than a vagina.

by Anonymousreply 46January 12, 2022 1:30 PM

that's what I said r45

by Anonymousreply 47January 12, 2022 1:49 PM

Vaginal depth is between 3.5-7 inches. You don’t want him poking too much on the cervix—it hurts.

by Anonymousreply 48January 12, 2022 3:04 PM

V is way more welcoming to girth though

by Anonymousreply 49January 12, 2022 3:27 PM

R13 That is such a gay-porn scenario!

by Anonymousreply 50January 12, 2022 7:43 PM

R18 This sound like a surgery.

by Anonymousreply 51January 12, 2022 8:13 PM

R41- No.

You're JUST a whore, darlin.

by Anonymousreply 52January 12, 2022 8:22 PM

I have encountered a handful of monster dicks in my day and I agree that most guys who have them do wish they were smaller. Only once did I encounter one that even I couldnt handle. It wasnt so much the length,though that was above average too,it was the thickness. Like the bitch upthread Im an old and experienced cock gobbler,and I could barely get the head of that thing in. He wanted to fuck me and I was like "Hell No!" . So I ended up licking it and jacking him off,wich is what he said was all he ever got. Sorry Charlie,that thing was a guaranteed trip to the ER .

by Anonymousreply 53January 12, 2022 9:01 PM

Too big means too big for fun. But I've taken a few big ones, nine inchers as thick as ones wrist. They made my eyes roll back and hit my prostate to make me cum handsfree. Not so fun for sucking though.

by Anonymousreply 54January 13, 2022 7:45 AM

A bug man is an exterminator; out here we call him the spray man. When someone asks me what a spray man is, I know they have bugs in their house! Y’all dirty!

by Anonymousreply 55January 13, 2022 7:58 AM

r50 but it's quite common especially with younger guys. Horny dudes with either huge cocks or little pricksare more apt to explore the lust that dares not speak its name. But they're usually lousy lazy lays compared to porn.

r51 surgery might be easier, especially if they're thick. Taking a huge thick cock is on par with fisting. And If we say fisting there's not too many guys out there willing to try it as they can more easily imagine the potential damage and pain but dick is another matter especially if they've already taken a few or they're only judging their hookup by pic without a side by side reference. Most dudes can't eyeball the size from a pic, they tend to think many cocks are smaller than they are... which sets some up for taking more than they can handle.

by Anonymousreply 56January 13, 2022 8:18 AM

We've talked a lot from the bottoms' point of view on DL, this thread is about the tops'

by Anonymousreply 57January 13, 2022 1:32 PM

...or bottoms with monsters

by Anonymousreply 58January 13, 2022 1:33 PM

R33, an exterminator who sprays for cockroaches and other pests.

Your "wtf" is obnoxious. Spritz, spritz.

by Anonymousreply 59January 13, 2022 1:45 PM

R21 and the art of the humble brag…

by Anonymousreply 60January 13, 2022 1:50 PM

I don't believe r21's reply about being hung either

[quote] I am, and I never think about it. I’m also left handed, and I never think about it.

by Anonymousreply 61January 13, 2022 2:31 PM

I'm pretty hung and there have been a lot of pain issues when i try and top someone. It takes forever for him to get open and relaxed and greased up enough and by then i've lost interest.

by Anonymousreply 62January 13, 2022 2:49 PM

R62- Don't you find condoms to be generally TOO TIGHT.

by Anonymousreply 63January 13, 2022 2:50 PM

I had a fuck buddy who for all the world looked like Nicolas Cage's younger brother. He had a massive cock. A true double digit horsedick.

I handled it a little better than some of the twinks he'd fooled around with, but still, it was a lot. I basically had to give the base of his cock the death grip of all death grips and then go down on the rest to get him off. It was a lot of work, but....it was beautiful to have that man get off in my mouth. I'll remember his deep voice, moaning, telling me he was cumming.....and the feeling like a garden hose was spraying in my mouth.

But yeah, he said when he came out he had a lot of attention from guys, but it always dissolved into guys begging him to JO for them. No one would touch him, even. He said he felt almost like a show pony after a while. I really liked him and might have tried to make something out of it (and let him try to fuck me) but I am pretty sure he might have been involved with organized crime.

In Chicago I had a lot of close friends who were into "bears" or liked big men. I went to a few bar nights or events with them, because I knew I wasn't going to be in the midst of any drama and could just go have a good time and chat. Talked to a few guys and learned guys were treating them the same as if str8 guys were chasing blondes with big boobs - guys reducing them to one physical attribute. Sounds fun but isn't.

by Anonymousreply 64January 13, 2022 2:52 PM

R64- John Holmes was HUGE. I watched a gay porn movie with him from what looks like around 1980 and the bottom he's fucking manages to get fucked by him nicely.

by Anonymousreply 65January 13, 2022 2:55 PM

r62 That was me and my husband. Legit 11 inches huge and scary. It took a month of training but I love him and he wanted to fuck so we worked on it. I think he cried when he finally got in and I was not trying to run away. It can be done but you either need to be an experienced bottom or want to be and no my ass is not a sloppy hole now, just as tight as it was before, just need to relax and trust the other person. I won't go into details about how we got there but it was damn fun getting there. It also helped I could unhinge my jaw and deep throat him

by Anonymousreply 66January 13, 2022 2:55 PM

When you have a big cock you realize how many guys can't control their teeth when they give head. Open wide for chunky!

by Anonymousreply 67January 13, 2022 2:55 PM

All of these SOB stories about guys with HUGE cocks- should we feel sorry for them or should we feel sorry for the guys who are only THREE inches fully erect.

by Anonymousreply 68January 13, 2022 2:57 PM

I think this is a scene from the last Tales And The City- this guy is far TOO small to have such an attitude.

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by Anonymousreply 69January 13, 2022 3:18 PM

Nothing that is exaggerated looks good. Not to mention it is of no use. Only as a fetish for some.

by Anonymousreply 70January 13, 2022 5:20 PM

Oh, I wouldn't say NO use. There are some fun things that can be done.

My fuck bud and I went to a group JO party and I loved just smacking it around in front of them. He smacked it on my face a few times. And he made a few guys shoot the second he sat down and started to self suck.

But yeah, regular sucking and fucking can be a ridiculously complicated thing.

by Anonymousreply 71January 13, 2022 6:35 PM

r71 oh but sooo worth it when it goes in right.

by Anonymousreply 72January 13, 2022 9:46 PM

reminded of Buck 65 - Centaur

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by Anonymousreply 73January 13, 2022 9:50 PM

[quote] It also helped I could unhinge my jaw and deep throat him

I've heard of unhinging one's jaw before. How does someone [italic] do [/italic] that??

by Anonymousreply 74January 13, 2022 10:03 PM

I think it's very exciting to get a man's hole ready for fucking. Rimming, lubing, fingering... it's all foreplay. Have him sit on your face while he sucks your dick.

by Anonymousreply 75January 13, 2022 10:59 PM

[quote] dated women, fucked men for a sexual outlet

No dear, he fucked men for one and only one reason. Because fucking men turned him on. He was probably one of those homos who dated broads as a way to fool himself into believing he wasn't a full fledge feygele.

by Anonymousreply 76January 13, 2022 11:27 PM

You boys who couldn't accommodate the monsters are just amateurs. I was always oral only, at least bottom wise. I never had any problem getting even the most massive members balls deep down my gullet. There's still some things us old timers can teach you young'uns.

by Anonymousreply 77January 13, 2022 11:31 PM

R77/grandpa, I imagine that the ability to remove your teeth gives you quite an advantage in deep throating the oversized.

by Anonymousreply 78January 14, 2022 12:21 AM

All my teeth are the ones I grew myself lad.

by Anonymousreply 79January 14, 2022 12:36 AM

R77, I support you fully, but you do make oral sex sound like something involving Popeye's Bluto and a scrotum that resembles a cactus.

by Anonymousreply 80January 14, 2022 12:47 AM

r76 You'll find these types among many -- frequently, the horny with no other resources available or the lonely with poor self esteem or social difficulties, both often young and the majority will outgrow it.

more frequently among adults despite sitcoms suggesting are chub men. so, too for a while were str8 hiv positive men as well as the disabled, particularly among the deaf, especially if isolated.

but, of course, there is the greater stigma against gay/bi men in general. And more so, the invalidation of heterosexuality when a guy does anything gay vs str8 girls making out for free drinks or pop career. and the othering, third sex or neutered state, of the homosexuals. We don't see this as much for a gay that had a hetero encounter. go figure.

But young lads would fuck a hole in the ground if they thought it might get them off just as young lasses might imagine a package of hot dogs to be one of the sports teams. Everyone knows a hotdog Holly but we also carry that stigma against women of having any sexual desire without adding corruption into the mix. hence, the popularities of vampire stories or many a females' obsession with gay porn and fiction despite often being homophobic themselves..

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by Anonymousreply 81January 14, 2022 12:54 AM

what the fuck just happened

by Anonymousreply 82January 14, 2022 1:12 AM

r74 not sure I do anyhting it just sort of clicks past a point of opening and suddenly I can get my fist in there. I also have little gag reflex. When I first started dating my hubsand he told me the second date (when it seemed to be headed to the bedroom) that he was unsually big. I laughed thinking yeah right and he said, it is the size of a can of pringles.

by Anonymousreply 83January 14, 2022 1:21 AM

I hear it all the time but honestly I think it's more about the size of the buttholes.

by Anonymousreply 84January 14, 2022 1:32 AM

John Holmes couldn't get fully erect because his body had conditioned itself to not allow it as a fully erect penis would have drained his brain and heart of too much blood and he would have dropped dead.

by Anonymousreply 85January 14, 2022 1:50 AM

Sure, R85. But Milton Berle lived into his 80s.

by Anonymousreply 86January 14, 2022 1:56 AM

Sometimes there can be too much of a good thing. I ran into two guys who were very big. (Met them on separate occasions.) They were really cute. Both from the Middle East who said they had "girlfriends who couldn't swallow" their large cocks. I wasn't really interested in either of them at the times that I met them. (I really have to be into a guy before I get into sex. I know. I should be a lesbian.) Anyway, oddly enough, the scenario unfolded pretty much the same with both of them. Just to add, they both lived in my building in New York, so I saw them somewhat frequently.) I said no to them both. I was too tired, had to get up early, etc.... At this point, they each (on separate occasions, mind you) assured me they had big cocks. Anyway, after a little back and forth, I agreed to go back their apartments with them. They both did have pretty large dicks. But they were thick and spongy and never got really hard. I gave them each head for what seemed like forever, but it didn't go anywhere. They were too big for anal, but they weren't hard anyway, so there was no point in suggesting that. I finally just gave them hand jobs until they came.

by Anonymousreply 87January 14, 2022 2:15 AM

So, just to summarize, big cocks aren't always the best cocks.

by Anonymousreply 88January 14, 2022 5:44 AM

OP, that was actually something we heard said almost every morning on the set of "The Golden Girls."

by Anonymousreply 89January 14, 2022 5:49 AM

It would depend on your sex life and your ego.

If your sex life is good - you have sex partners who can handle the dick and the dick performs and is sensitive, then why would any man have a problem? You have a monster cock you can stuff in your pants and you "win."

But what if you're really big and sex is often disappointing because most people can't do much with it no matter their giant cock fantasies. Then I think you'd see some men wishing they had a more manageable cock. Some others wouldn't - they'd still want to be the biggest due to their ego.

by Anonymousreply 90January 14, 2022 7:26 AM

R90 = a veritable Voltaire

by Anonymousreply 91January 14, 2022 8:33 AM

[quote]Vaginal depth is between 3.5-7 inches. [bold]You don’t want him poking too much on the cervix—it hurts.[/bold]

Mother of God, I just got a war flashback. I ended up having to seek medical attention because of a badly bruised cervix.

Apparently (I didn't know this at the time), when women are aroused, the vagina will actually expand in length to accommodate a penis so that the cervix is further back and "out of reach." When not aroused, it's lower and more likely to get injured. That's a major reason why I quit trying date men. I'm not sexually attracted to them. Thus, trying to "fake it 'til you make it" and be "normal" is quite literally bad for my physical well-being. Fuck that shit. -_-

by Anonymousreply 92January 14, 2022 10:58 AM

I'm also curious about guys who are really big soft, and if the package they present is something they're more proud of or wish they could minimise. Or if they have the choice to 'present' more when they're feeling like it.

by Anonymousreply 93January 14, 2022 1:18 PM

Did John Holmes really "train" his dick not to get fully erect or was that just the result of his drug problems and health issues?

by Anonymousreply 94January 14, 2022 1:54 PM

Ron Jeremy is supposed to have the same issue--very big dick that feels "spongy" or "squishy" even when "erect," according to women in the industry.

by Anonymousreply 95January 14, 2022 1:55 PM

Perhaps it's age related that men with huge dicks can't get enough blood flow to get fully erect even in their late twenties or thirties. Maybe only very young men who are huge can get fully erect as blood flow decreases with age. The bigger the dick, the more blood flow needed.

by Anonymousreply 96January 14, 2022 1:57 PM

[quote] big cocks aren't always the best cocks.

Oh hon, you couldn't be more wrong.

by Anonymousreply 97January 14, 2022 2:13 PM

I've been with about 3 men with big dicks - like 9 inches plus - and they never get hard. And they have so many hangups. In my experience, 7 - 8" is best.

by Anonymousreply 98January 15, 2022 8:47 PM

R98- Then you would like me- I'm 7 inches long and 6 inches around.

by Anonymousreply 99January 15, 2022 8:51 PM

Same here. Happy with my size. Wish I were beignet soft. Grower.

by Anonymousreply 100January 15, 2022 9:38 PM

Oh shit. BIGGER soft. Seriously iPhone you prefer “beignets” to “bigger”??

by Anonymousreply 101January 15, 2022 9:38 PM

In a sauna, i saw a young man with an uncut dick that looked like an overstuffed burrito. It was small on both ends but huge in the middle.

Poor guy said he couldn't find anyone, man or woman, who wanted to be fucked with it.

by Anonymousreply 102January 15, 2022 9:52 PM

r102 you just struck up a conversation with a young man in a sauna [italic] about his cock[/italic]?

by Anonymousreply 103January 15, 2022 11:20 PM

r103 Well, I guess we were cruising each other at the time.

by Anonymousreply 104January 15, 2022 11:29 PM

R104, And…..?

by Anonymousreply 105January 16, 2022 12:37 AM

r105 And I had a sympathetic conversation with him. I tried to give him fatherly advice and told him to "hang in there."

by Anonymousreply 106January 16, 2022 12:59 AM

But you didn’t offer him your hole?

by Anonymousreply 107January 16, 2022 1:11 AM

R105 I hope you are not gullible enough to actually believe any of this

by Anonymousreply 108January 16, 2022 2:47 AM
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