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What is the appeal of cock cages?

And forced chastity

It seems everywhere in porn now

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by Anonymousreply 101January 20, 2022 7:00 PM

Cock of cages, cleft for me, let me hide myself in thee.

by Anonymousreply 1January 10, 2022 2:21 AM

Sometimes a red foam nose won't cut it?

by Anonymousreply 2January 10, 2022 2:21 AM

Heavy porn users on social media are just jaded and bored. This is the latest source of novelty. Most of them probably don't even like it.

by Anonymousreply 3January 10, 2022 2:22 AM

There is no appeal to cock cages.

by Anonymousreply 4January 10, 2022 2:32 AM

My boyfriend likes to lock me in one when he goes out of town for work. He is as jealous as fire.

by Anonymousreply 5January 10, 2022 2:35 AM

Had an ex into them. It was not hygenic and I always hid the key somewhere in his apartment just in case he needed to free his member.

by Anonymousreply 6January 10, 2022 2:41 AM

R5 He's going to cook and eat your penis one day

by Anonymousreply 7January 10, 2022 2:42 AM

For the same reason everyone is into fisting now, it's the go-to kink for the people who live their lives on social media. Just be glad it's not more of those ridiculous dog masks, though to be fair those probably won't give you a UTI like wearing a cock cage all the time.

by Anonymousreply 8January 10, 2022 2:43 AM

"It seems everywhere in porn now"

Do you get all your porn from cockcage.com?

Is it a division of Ace Hardware or something?

by Anonymousreply 9January 10, 2022 9:26 AM

Only if you’re into S&M

by Anonymousreply 10January 10, 2022 9:35 AM

I have been told by a slave who wears one that he loves the uncertainty of when his master will release him and milk him. He also loves his prostate orgasms as he leaks fluid when fucked which to him feels like a continuous orgasm.

by Anonymousreply 11January 10, 2022 9:51 AM

Mentally ill bottoms.

by Anonymousreply 12January 10, 2022 10:00 AM

I just realized that tweet says "Mum and Dad". What is with this focus on incest? It's gross.

by Anonymousreply 13January 10, 2022 10:02 AM

That's horrible OP. Mutilated and then caged.

by Anonymousreply 14January 10, 2022 10:17 AM

What happens when you get a erection?

How do you pee? How do you sit on the toilet?

by Anonymousreply 15January 10, 2022 10:21 AM

Not as nasty as fisting, but not hawt.

by Anonymousreply 16January 10, 2022 10:25 AM

I Know Why the Caged Dick Schwings

by Anonymousreply 17January 10, 2022 10:41 AM

Lol @ R17

by Anonymousreply 18January 10, 2022 10:42 AM

given the excessive discussions towards neutering of gay male sexuality in the public of late... I suppose this is the next best thing before inevitable the snip.

Still, it's not if chastity devices are new nor seeking the subjugation of men. Though tis more popular in cfnm porn scenes than gay.

by Anonymousreply 19January 10, 2022 10:56 AM

When did they become a thing? I think they are daft, if I was about to have sex with someone and I saw they was wearing a cage I would be straight out the door.

by Anonymousreply 20January 10, 2022 11:01 AM

r20 Generally, it's not something you're likely to run into on a hookup.

In various forms, they've been around for centuries. Victorian era is where various devices peaked - mostly as anti-masturbation tools.

But in more recent times, the 70s as bdsm and kinks became more widely known.

The attraction for some is akin to edging.

from orgasm denial to hands free orgasms.

This is just a more aggressive option that involves a bit of cbt pain to it.

They desire to be in the 'cage' while at the same time being sexually stimulated.

of course, though there's a wide variety of reasons someone might seek it out.

It's not uncommon for those that have issues with their penis - too small, too big, not wanting one at all.

or guilt about one of their other fetishes, attractions, how much they jackoff, lack of self control, etc.

by Anonymousreply 21January 10, 2022 11:18 AM

There are some who try to shrink their penis by constantly wearing cages that are much too small. I don't mind regular cages - it's a fetish. But if you need to mutilate your body you probably have issues that you should unpack with a professional, for your own good.

by Anonymousreply 22January 10, 2022 11:36 AM

I don’t see the appeal, but we all have dark corners. Nobody is harmed by it. Different strokes.

by Anonymousreply 23January 10, 2022 11:41 AM

Lock her up!

by Anonymousreply 24January 10, 2022 11:44 AM

I don’t get bondage either where the person doesn’t end up not getting at least a hand job. How is it at all sexual? Getting spanked while you’re tied up or being put in a gimp outfit. Makes very little sense if the genitals aren’t getting stimulated.

by Anonymousreply 25January 10, 2022 11:54 AM

That's kinda hawt R11, but they don't seem hygienic.

Whatevs, people are kinky.

by Anonymousreply 26January 10, 2022 11:58 AM

Kris jenner should have made Tristan Thompson wear one

by Anonymousreply 27January 10, 2022 12:22 PM

This one is a dilemma for me. The radfem side of brain is like “yes peace and safety at last lock every cock up and leave them in there to wither”, but then the hippie side of the brain is like “why does everyone hate themselves and their sexuality so much?”

by Anonymousreply 28January 10, 2022 12:26 PM

I don't think it's about hating your sexuality. I think it's about being a total sub. Some guys get off on it, and some guys like being total doms.

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by Anonymousreply 29January 10, 2022 12:31 PM

[Quote] What happens when you get a erection?

The restraint and discomfort, even pain, is the whole point of the cage.

by Anonymousreply 30January 10, 2022 12:43 PM

I fucking hate it, I think it's a huge turn off and also incredibly insulting and psychologically damaging/regressive.

Not to kink shame, of course :-D

by Anonymousreply 31January 10, 2022 2:29 PM

how do you sleep with that thing on?

by Anonymousreply 32January 10, 2022 2:32 PM

Shouldn't the ass be caged? Looking at OP's pic, his caged cock could still fuck a bottom (although it would be a bit painful for the bottom).

by Anonymousreply 33January 10, 2022 3:22 PM

What do you think Mayor Pete is wearing, on-air, beneath them trousers?

by Anonymousreply 34January 10, 2022 3:30 PM

More BDSM, dom/sub bullshit for the freaks to try, along with furries and puppy play.

by Anonymousreply 35January 10, 2022 3:33 PM

I've come to the conclusion BDSM is a manifestation of shame and internalized self-bashing. To want to be humiliated or to want to humiliate, to find sexual gratification in that... that's reflecting a lot of internal combustion. Barring a handful of people who are just generally fucked up, of course.

by Anonymousreply 36January 10, 2022 3:40 PM

I read about a guy who was locked into one of those by his partner and then they had a break-up and he ended up having to go to an adult store to get a key to unlock it.

by Anonymousreply 37January 10, 2022 4:40 PM

I make Belle Lindz wear these. They are cheap and disposable but do the trick. I don't want her bringing germs to me with her promiscuous ass.

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by Anonymousreply 38January 10, 2022 4:53 PM

Can you imagine having a close connection at an aiport and the guy into front of you sets off the metal detector at security? 'MALE ASSIST!'

by Anonymousreply 39January 10, 2022 5:02 PM

How do you go to the bathroom?

by Anonymousreply 40January 10, 2022 5:23 PM

R39, I believe there are plastic cock cages that you can use to avoid being manhandled by TSA agents.

by Anonymousreply 41January 10, 2022 5:35 PM

Seeing as I oppose chastity belts for women, I suppose for parity I have to be against this too.

It does look painful and fucked-up, as well as physically unhealthy. If I had a son (Goddess prevent), I’d be quite saddened to learn he was into caging & BDSM, though before you all scream at me for shaming please note that I wouldn’t (I know I couldn’t) forbid it once he came of age. It just seems quite cold and sterile as kinks go, and not really intimate or a show of trust as some like to claim—just ritualised controlling behaviour. Plus the SM community has a history rife with abuse of vulnerable people, gays among them...

But generally and truthfully-speaking I don’t really care so much if a random guy not in my vicinity wears one; especially as many men could use a restriction from foisting their rancid dicks on innocent bystanders. On a certain type of man, it’s less a tool of oppression and more just a public safety measure, like a muzzle or a chokechain for a rabid guard-dog.

However, I do wonder about someone wearing it out in public, as a lot of users do, because isn’t that still a way forcing your kink on the public, albeit in secret?

by Anonymousreply 42January 10, 2022 5:38 PM

Would these cages even fit in a toilet? When you sit on a toilet, there’s no room for the cage. Would you have to shit standing up?

by Anonymousreply 43January 10, 2022 5:40 PM

[quote]isn’t that still a way forcing your kink on the public, albeit in secret?

Well if nobody knows about it, nobody is getting upset. If it gives the wearer jollies, so what?

I had a bf whose first job out of college was doing IT work for a Catholic Church. He was opposed to the Catholic Church's views on sexuality, but he needed the job. So he wore a butt plug to work. It was his way of flipping them the bird, I guess. In secret.

by Anonymousreply 44January 10, 2022 5:41 PM

His proper English mum must be so proud!

by Anonymousreply 45January 10, 2022 6:24 PM

[quote] Goddess prevent

What the ...??

by Anonymousreply 46January 10, 2022 7:46 PM

What is the appeal of this topic?

by Anonymousreply 47January 10, 2022 8:08 PM

R39 I had a somewhat similar incident. Several years ago I was traveling and had two thick metal cockrings in my carry on bag. I'd forgotten I put them in there, I thought they were in my checked bag. Anyhow, they must have set off a warning going through security as the TSA guy said they had to screen my bag manually. But quickly thereafter the guy who was looking at the x-ray monitor said, no, no , no forget it he's good to go! I guess he realized what they were, though it wasn't until I got home and I unpacked that I realized the cockrings were in my carry on bag.

by Anonymousreply 48January 10, 2022 8:59 PM

R43, you can’t be that stupid.

by Anonymousreply 49January 10, 2022 9:30 PM

I saw one of these on the reality show Gigolos haha

by Anonymousreply 50January 10, 2022 10:25 PM

That's a nice dick in OP's pic.

by Anonymousreply 51January 11, 2022 12:14 AM

[quote] I think it's a huge turn off and also incredibly insulting and psychologically damaging/regressive.

You sound like a typical repressed Brit.

by Anonymousreply 52January 11, 2022 12:37 AM

This is so gross and stupid. People need to get a part time job if they have this much free time.

by Anonymousreply 53January 11, 2022 12:38 AM

Not just locked, but seriously caged

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by Anonymousreply 54January 11, 2022 1:52 AM

there have to be some politicians wearing some I bet

by Anonymousreply 55January 11, 2022 9:10 PM

Hacker takes control.

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by Anonymousreply 56January 13, 2022 12:35 AM

[quote]Shouldn't the ass be caged?

Oh NO!

Mother Pence has been VERY clear:

My little clit is to remain caged AND my pussy is to be plugged - at all times - unless she removes them.

by Anonymousreply 57January 13, 2022 1:34 AM

And you sound like an ignorant bitch R52. Brits aren't repressed, that's a complete myth - if anything, Americans are the prudes of the world.

by Anonymousreply 58January 14, 2022 10:11 AM

I'm into being a cuckold and will occasionally wear one. I like the denial and I get a rush from letting my husband have control over my dick and orgasms.

by Anonymousreply 59January 14, 2022 10:27 AM

So you're a crazed pervert?

by Anonymousreply 60January 15, 2022 12:17 AM

I don't get it at all. Just gross. But then, I'm into stuff I'm sure other people wouldn't be too thrilled about either, so.. yeah.

by Anonymousreply 61January 15, 2022 12:18 AM

One assumes they need to be professionally fitted, like by a tailor, or whatever the correct equivalent is.

by Anonymousreply 62January 15, 2022 1:04 AM

R62 nah. the good ones are adjustable

by Anonymousreply 63January 15, 2022 4:58 AM

They're beyond silly looking and if a guy on grindr ever sends me a pic of himself wearing one, we're not a match!

by Anonymousreply 64January 15, 2022 5:35 AM

It looks stupid and not hot. I can’t be bothered with nut jobs locking up their…nuts.

by Anonymousreply 65January 15, 2022 6:24 AM

As a sub, I would LOVE a cock cage to insure men properly understand the guidelines of having sex with me. Most guys are annoying though - they say they want to be "on top" but then they betray their own words by trying to blow me or lick my ass. I ALWAYS stop them and say something like..."You really don't have to do that if you don't want to"...fortunately they get puzzled and they stop.

by Anonymousreply 66January 15, 2022 8:38 AM

I think it can be hot, but the language that seems to be prevalent in a part of the scene is a huge turn-off for me, like calling a penis clit or dicklet or whatever.

by Anonymousreply 67January 15, 2022 9:02 AM

Hey, I haven't seen any gay porn stars wearing one, but I swear a I once saw a pic of straight porn star Danny Mountain wear one - it was very hot, but I cannot find it. If anyone f iij nds it please do us all a favor and link it!!!

by Anonymousreply 68January 15, 2022 1:52 PM

People are just weird.

by Anonymousreply 69January 15, 2022 5:25 PM

I put my man toy into the cage if it plays with itself too much. No cumming without permission. Ever.

by Anonymousreply 70January 15, 2022 6:01 PM

There are whole blogs and sites dedicated to photos of caged cocks...

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by Anonymousreply 71January 15, 2022 7:23 PM

Shaved and caged:

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by Anonymousreply 72January 15, 2022 7:24 PM

Keeping that thing under control

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by Anonymousreply 73January 15, 2022 7:26 PM

What is the appeal of any kink, kink by its nature is an inexplicable yearning that can’t always be qualified.

by Anonymousreply 74January 15, 2022 7:40 PM

If you are a straight sub into these you are part of the LGBTQ+ community don't you know.

by Anonymousreply 75January 15, 2022 7:44 PM

Devin Franco looks pretty good at R73. Too bad his big cock is locked away.

by Anonymousreply 76January 15, 2022 7:46 PM

What's weird is that those blogs are mostly photos of normal porn where the guy's cock has been painstakingly photoshopped to be "caged". Some of the photoshops are really good, so someone out there is spending a LOT of time and talent on photoshopping naked guys into cages... which itself must be its own kink because I can't imagine why anyone would bother.

by Anonymousreply 77January 15, 2022 7:51 PM

R70 = Mother Pence

by Anonymousreply 78January 15, 2022 9:13 PM

Whore not lock up poosey before client pays ze money. First rule whore must learn.

by Anonymousreply 79January 15, 2022 9:36 PM

I didn't recognize Devin Franco r76.

by Anonymousreply 80January 16, 2022 11:15 AM

Me neither, R80. He's gotten huge.

He should probably cage his blown out hole before someone steps on it.

by Anonymousreply 81January 16, 2022 11:45 AM

They look great to us, OP.

by Anonymousreply 82January 16, 2022 12:36 PM

R77, cock cages are a thing. Why would someone bother to photoshop them onto a picture when guys wearing them and baring them of their own free will are plentiful?

by Anonymousreply 83January 16, 2022 1:09 PM

The attraction is mental illness.

by Anonymousreply 84January 16, 2022 1:19 PM

Geez, what a bunch of silly prisspots you all are

by Anonymousreply 85January 16, 2022 1:20 PM

Guys who are mentally ill are into fucked up shit because they're fucked up in the head.

by Anonymousreply 86January 16, 2022 2:48 PM

This just does not look comfortable

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by Anonymousreply 87January 20, 2022 6:34 AM

What happens if you get a hard-on? Doesn't it hurt?

Caged roosters, will you please weigh in?

by Anonymousreply 88January 20, 2022 6:41 AM

Psychological problems.

People who think they aren't hung enough?

People who beat other people, men, children?

Psychological issue.

by Anonymousreply 89January 20, 2022 6:45 AM

[quote]For the same reason everyone is into fisting now,

"Everyone" is into fisting now???

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by Anonymousreply 90January 20, 2022 6:49 AM

We had them growing up, cleaning chicken shit is a pain in the ass.

by Anonymousreply 91January 20, 2022 6:52 AM

Why does everything now days have to be so god damn appealing?

by Anonymousreply 92January 20, 2022 6:52 AM

I had an ex who was REALLY into this (as the wearer). I went along with it because although it's not my thing it didn't gross me out. He seemed to most get off on the torment aspect of it, of being edged and not "allowed" to cum etc. I admit I was ever so slightly turned off by his predilection for these devices.

by Anonymousreply 93January 20, 2022 6:57 AM

I didn't realize there's an entire culture around this silly shit. But I've had multiple guys on grindr send me pics of themselves wearing one of these contraptions while talking about their "clitty" or something to that effect. Idk...I blocked them.

by Anonymousreply 94January 20, 2022 7:29 AM

It's a turn-off to me. I don't like looking at caged cocks, and if I'm reading a porn story where one of the characters gets put into one, I'll stop. The concept is just gross.

And fuck accusations of "kink shaming." Sometimes, you should be ashamed.

by Anonymousreply 95January 20, 2022 7:44 AM

I don’t understand the concept of “kink-shaming.” Isn’t kink based in shame? Being “naughty,” being “forbidden,” being “inferior,” being “punished”? I thought shame was kind of the heartbeat for the whole thing ever since God shamed Adam and Eve for thinking about sex.

by Anonymousreply 96January 20, 2022 2:12 PM

R96 Yeah, I'm a cuckold and shame is a huge part of the kink for me.

by Anonymousreply 97January 20, 2022 2:23 PM

I agree that the whole idea of "kink-shaming" is ridiculous since kink is built on shame.

by Anonymousreply 98January 20, 2022 5:41 PM

I think they are HOT. And, I have searched porn for them. But, actually, can't find that many...

by Anonymousreply 99January 20, 2022 5:51 PM

OP picture comment: “mum and dad”?! Wtf? I don’t think I even want to know.

by Anonymousreply 100January 20, 2022 6:44 PM

^ thanks for pointing that out....I missed it. YIKES!

by Anonymousreply 101January 20, 2022 7:00 PM
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