Are You An Exhibitionist?

I "dated" a guy who liked people to watch him having sex

Madonna's Sex book is what happens when an exhibitionist has all the money in the world

I used to work across the street from the Hilton Hotel and there were usually one or two naked sightings per day. Amazing how some people felt free enough to stand in front of their windows naked.

Years ago I lived in an apartment and I could clearly hear the man next door having sex with his girlfriend. He liked having his male best friend watch him and sometimes he had 2 men in the room watching him. He wasn't shy!!

I'm sure many of us on here have visited Black's Beach in La Jolla

the risk can be a turn on but wouldn't want to be caught... except in an appropriate place. minimal legal risks and slutty guys around.

the naughty factor, i guess.

first legit boyfriend was an exhibitionist, a bit of a religious fetishist, religious hangups. He used to masturbate to Jesus' hardbody crucifixes spread throughout his home and we may have borrowed the confessional a few times, like during christmas mass one year. he had more standard exhibitionistic tendencies - like it's foggy, let's walk to park naked and screw on the lawn. when we became legal he got into porn, he drifted into that circle, i drifted elsewhere.

Voyeur here not an exhibitionist.

When I was young, not anymore. I also had a gorgeous guy across the green space from my apartment that was always naked. I loved glancing over at him. Blond, young, and a beautiful body. We would provide each other with little shows when the timing was right. Sweet memories.

That's not a room in front of a window in the link OP, but yes, I don’t see a problem.

Years ago, I lived in an apartment that faced many others in a large apartment complex. Thinking my blinds were closed, I would parade in the nude regularly. Once, though, I hurriedly left my apartment one evening without turning off the lights. As I looked up at my apartment as I walked to the parking lot, I noticed that I could see everything! As I am pretty well-hung, I was completely mortified upon this discovery, thinking that others thought I was an exhibitionist.

Once at a hotel in New Orleans I saw a man on a lower floor standing in the room naked at the window, he waved and held up a sign with his room number. He was hot so I went up and he sucked my cock.

Disgusting. Equally as disgusting as the cruising thread. Why must you make sex so public? No class around here I swear.

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I was always a voyeur - first at college, and when cruising. Then when I lived in a small college town there was an endless supply of hot married DILFs who wanted guys to watch and I did that several times. Very hot.

But I learned a few years back that I also love to be an exhibitionist. Not to show myself off so much as OP probably meant, but I really get turned on when I am servicing a guy, or he's fucking me, and someone watches. Did that at a bar in Toronto and it was amazing - so many hot guys watching and stroking while I slurped on a few hot guys.

Voyeur here which is why I'm glad the baths haven't gone the way of the dinosaurs. I've witnessed a lot of hot action.

R12 thread written with clutched pearls

Is this you, R14?

R17 I'd probably be more one of the guys on his knees here.....

that photo MUST be altered

Re - is that a Datalounger?

Was this gentleman excessively tanned, wrinkled, and surrounded by cats and the glorious sounds of some original cast recording? If yes, then probably.

[quote] Years ago I lived in an apartment and I could clearly hear the man next door having sex with his girlfriend.

I've mentioned him before but years ago I had a gay next door neighbor - nice guy, didn't hang out much with him but he was pleasant. Looked a bit like Tristan Paris - not short but not tall or muscly either.

It turned out that he was a total, raging top. I discovered this when I was in bed one night (his bedroom and mine shared a wall) and I could hear him talking dirty while he fucked the latest twink du jour. It was random but free and hot j/o material that triggered a few dozen of my loads during the year or so we were neighbors.

(Sadly, like Tristan himself, my neighbor is no longer with us. RIP to a nice guy with a fine cock, apparently)

Hmmmm....alot of voyers turn out to be serial killers !

It's Phoenix, OP.

They're all dying from the heat.

r10 is posting from the Humblebrag Hall of Fame.

Perhaps back in the day when I had something worth exhibiting.

Yes, but not publicly. Since I was a kid being the object of voyeurism was a total turn on. In reality it would probably be horrifying but as I swim naked and lounge by the pool in the privacy of my very secluded yard the thought of someone spying on me is hot. Having them watch me jerk off is even hotter.

Exhibitionists are usually fucked in the head.

Nice humblebrag R26.

R27 Actually in the ass

R12 hasn't been fucked since the Eisenhower administration.

When I was younger... Black's Beach is one of my fondest memories.

I go to Haulover Beach all the time. I get naked to enjoy the sun on my body, not to attract attention. I'm surprised so many naked people are willing to have conversations with others while they are sunbathing. You can't hide behind anything. Once you've gotten naked the first time, you will not be self-conscious afterward. It's a mood uplifter every single time.

r32, I've never been to an officially designated nude beach. Is it common for people to just strike up conversations with other beach goers that isn't a pick up line? I would hate it if some randoms started chatting me up at any beach while I am trying to read, rest, relax and take in the scenery unless it was obvious they were looking to hook up.

You'd be surprised that there isn't a hint of sex in any conversations I've had at a nude beach, R33. It's just normal conversation. You don't interrupt someone from what they are doing. When you walk out of the surf and head to your towel, you often say hello to the people who nod to you as you pass by. It's surprising so many people think nudity automatically leads to sex. They aren't necessarily connected.

You should get yourself to a nude beach sometime. Feeling the sun hit your chest and cock, the wind blowing through your pubic hair, there's nothing like it.

I don't feel embarrassed being naked around men in a locker room or sauna, but become shy and prude if a friend or co-worker is there to witness me in the state of undress

[quote]Disgusting. Equally as disgusting as the cruising thread. Why must you make sex so public? No class around here I swear.

R12, you came to DL for class??

LOL

WHO did DL post?

Toronto. All that Canadian cock......

I never thought of myself as one,but Ive never had a problem getting naked or having sex in front of others so I guess I am.

My current BF is an exhibitionist. He is probably on cam at some point every day. I have mixed feelings about it. I know it’s all about his ego, and better on cam than hooking up with strangers in RL but it does get a bit tiresome. Some days I’m amused, other days I’m apathetic and every once in a while I’m over it.

some men show everything, while being covered up

I will admit it, i was a streaker not once but twice

Are there Asian exhibitionists?

I'm enough of an exhibitionist that I started an xxx Twitter and probably only fans soon!

Black's Beach was more carefree before you knew that every person you see has an HD video camera with them

I would say a lot of people are. I’m surprised at how casually people share dick pics and sexual videos of themselves online. It’s even more prevalent since the pandemic and cam sex. think it’s awesome, but pretending it’s pervy or kinky is hypocritical.

When I was a carless, friendless, clueless teen in suburban Middle America, I thought it was sexy to walk by my bedroom window at night with the light on - NAKED!!

Exhibitionist is probably the wrong word, in that it seems to include those who subject unwilling participants into viewing their nudity and sexual activity. I personally love voyeurism and exhibitionism. I have no problem stripping down at a nude beach or being watched while having sexual pleasure. And I am very uninhibited in that I will walk around naked in a hotel room or my home with the shades open. In that sense I am an exhibitionist I guess. But there's no coercive element. I certainly don't want anyone viewing me who doesn't want to or shouldn't see me. That's something different entirely IMO.

I love a good exhibitionist

I very briefly dated a risk-embracing exhibitionist, but it's not my thing. When he 'jokingly' pulled down his trousers and underwear to his ankles to drunkenly wee up a tree, I did laugh (and admire his physique), but when a car drove past I panicked and hid in a bush!

That was only our first date. On the second, he placed my hand on his crotch on a train, but my anxiety kicked in and I pulled away. After a minute he gestured downwards - he'd whipped out his penis and was hard. Just no! There's a time and a place, and a train to London isn't it. I never saw him again.

The awkwardness of being at a nude beach disappears after the first hour

Hussies!

strumpets

Haulover Beach is enjoyable. It’s great to swim naked.

I had a fuck buddy who loved to show off on CTA trains in Chicago.

He was very lanky and sort of unusual looking. Very much the typical super skinny Polish guy. But he had a huge - genuinely HUGE cock. It was bigger soft than almost every cock I've ever experienced hard. So when he'd open his overcoat and let it dangle, it wasn't too hard for him to find some cock crazy MARY! that would cry out in ecstasy, and follow him home to take care of it.

Everyone at Blacks Beach is on the spectrum.

I guess I’m a bit of an exhibitionisr. Definitely walk around naked in my home and hotels with no worry about windows- it’s my space so if you don’t wanna see don’t look.

Also enjoy nudist campgrounds, beaches and public sex (bathhouse etc)

is it exhibitionist or narcissism when super well built guys strut around in spray painted on sexy clothing and in "inappropriate" places or wrong times? i.e. in church or doctor's office or when it's super cold outside, etc)...

Enough chit chat. Who is the guy in OP photo and when to I get to blow him?

I remember seeing a video or GIF of another guy at a nude beach with an equally impressive dong, flopping around as he walked.

But that seems to have disappeared with the great Pornhub purge from a few years back, along with that hot hot hot video of the guy walking (strutting, really) into a mens room in a club and pissing hands free.

r59, right? what a whopper!

Nice to look at (sometimes) but from a distance.

Look, don’t touch

🎶 From a distance

Just look at swinging cock

As it bounces.....to, and fro 🎶

[quote][R12] hasn't been fucked since the Eisenhower administration.

Me neither, and I'm a DL Icon!

it's a true artwork

I love trolling the validation starving sluts on Twitter.

These are two excellent exhibitionists.

And only one member of the public looks in (around the 9 minute mark)

For free R67, but the fact that some of them think it's worth money to see them naked is astounding.

No show, no grow.

I’m having an exhibit in Tulla’s gallery in May

Read all the posts to here to see more pics of the guy at OP.

Sad!

yehr oi am!!! :D

I enjoy flashing my pussy

When I’m thin, & live in my own place, I have zero issues spending my days off naked.

But I don’t like being nude when I’m chubby. Nor do I leave my blinds or curtains open.

If at a nude beach, I follow the “When in Rome” philosophy.

There's a secluded nude beach on a small lake in my city. Some people go nude, others don't. I finally went for it a couple times this past summer, it was fun. I admit there was a little sexual thrill but I didn't get hard or anything. A lot of the veteran nudists are the old/saggy/overly tan style of nudist but there was also a strong queer element and a nice mix of younger and older folks. I'll do it again this summer.

I am not an exhibitionist. I choose to live my life as I please in my own domain.

Persons may choose to look into my windows but they are intruders into my domain.

I’m naked from the waist down. I’m wearing a Care Bears sweatshirt I wrestled Corpse for at a Beverly Hills yard sale.

R78 Who is 'Corpse'?