I’m coming very late to this and after so much hype that it’s likely anyone reading it would feel let down, but I just finished Between the World and Me by Ta-Nehisi Coates and I’m feeling very frustrated and with lots of questions.
First, I did it as an audiobook read by the author and was very shocked that he repeatedly says “axe” for “ask” and there was obviously no move to correct his pronunciation.
He states repeatedly that he’s an atheist, but then goes on repeatedly to call Howard University Mecca so many times hammering it into the ground. To use this metaphor as a non religious person makes no sense to me.
He went to Howard University for five years and never graduated? What’s that about, was he thrown out? I did dip back into his earlier book, a memoir, where he admits that his father work there and he attended for free. This contradicts a lot of the imagery of being poor and downtrodden that he makes throughout the book. Having access to a free college education at a prestigious college is a level of privilege a very large majority of people don’t have access to. It makes me question about if he was granted entrance by merit or nepotism, if he was abusing the system by continuing classes after four years, and this weird reverence (calling it Mecca) he has for the university, but then he doesn’t respect it enough to finish his degree and graduate?
He describes meeting his son’s mother the first time while drinking beer and passing a joint, obviously in college, and possibly underaged. I just can conceive of presenting this information about it being all right in abusing illegal drugs to your fifteen year old child. He also mentions he was an unplanned accident, so obviously he’s not even practicing safe sex or adequate birth control.
He goes off on these rifts of talking the Dreamers, which I guess he trying to make a connection between these children of immigrants and the struggles of African Americans, but he never really delves into why he’s talking about them as a group and though repeating it frequently never really follows through.
I don’t know what the travelogue part about visiting France was all about in the middle of this book.
I wished he would have integrated the part at the end about visiting his dead classmate’s mother into the body of the story where’s he’s already talking about him earlier instead out isolating it at the end. It didn’t make for a cohesive ending.
That said, I did find his writing quite beautiful and poetic, but in need of editing and cohesion. Some of his imagery was quite striking too. Has anyone read it and have similar thought, questions or answers?