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Why is this forum so full of misandry feminists?

I can not remember having so many feminists and women here. Some even make misandrical comments. And whenever you have any post criticizing women's attitude comes a bunch of feminists to defend or attack men as if women could not be criticized.

by Anonymousreply 58January 9, 2022 11:49 AM

You sound toxically masculine, OP.

by Anonymousreply 1January 2, 2022 5:36 AM

Go dilate OP.

by Anonymousreply 2January 2, 2022 5:37 AM

OP's wording ("misandry feminists") has reminded me of something from the mists of internet time, and i don't even remember the source (some trashy reality TV show?) but it is the insult: "prostitution whore."

by Anonymousreply 3January 2, 2022 5:54 AM

shut up OP

by Anonymousreply 4January 2, 2022 6:50 AM

" And whenever you have any post criticizing women's attitude comes a bunch of feminists to defend or attack men as if women could not be criticized."

The fact that you think all women have an "attitude" and that you should be able to criticize them without any push back makes me think you're drunk posting.

by Anonymousreply 5January 2, 2022 7:20 AM

"How dare you refuse to trash women!"

by Anonymousreply 6January 2, 2022 7:29 AM

'Misandry' is Reddit Incel-Speak 101.

by Anonymousreply 7January 2, 2022 7:33 AM

r7 so, oppression/discrimination is like highlander, there can be only one?

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by Anonymousreply 8January 2, 2022 7:45 AM

Well, the replies thus far are certainly proving OP’s point.

by Anonymousreply 9January 2, 2022 7:58 AM

Theresa on Real Housewives of NJ lolol. Prostitution whore!

by Anonymousreply 10January 2, 2022 8:01 AM

If I were a woman, considering rates of sexual violence and abuse in the world and in relationships, I'd be a misandrist too; the title is earned.

Feminism does not equal misandry. I think this was deliberate on your part. It is for equal rights and the equal right of access to exercise those rights, in my view.

You shouldn't be so surprised when the mirror speaks back and tells you things you don't want to hear because you're not prepared to understand and accept women unless they're chained to the kitchen sink, making your dinner whilst giving birth.

Get a fucking grip, OP.

R3, is more offensive to me, that was Real Housewives of New Jersey, season two, the last episode, of I remember correctly. Teresa said it to Danielle Staub.

by Anonymousreply 11January 2, 2022 8:02 AM

r11 OP asked of this specific forum and didn't say feminism in general.

You're coming off like the histronic stereotype people suggest of the man hating feminist while claiming it's about equality but justifying misandry in the same breadth. Which would lead most to interpret that you don't believe feminism is truly about equality between men and women.

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by Anonymousreply 12January 2, 2022 8:17 AM

Boundaries.

Women don’t believe they should apply to them that’s why you’ll see them in gay bars and here but would throw a fit if a gay man ever decided to post on LChat or Mumsnet

by Anonymousreply 13January 2, 2022 8:19 AM

I think at least some of the more extreme ones are trolls, parodying people who actually think like that.

As I said in another thread, I'd have no issue with the topic if it could be kept to one thread. For a time it was only in the JK Rowling thread which was fine, because then I could easily avoid it, but recently there have been multiple topics and it's shoe-horned into threads that have nothing to do with trans issues.

by Anonymousreply 14January 2, 2022 8:22 AM

[quote] I think at least some of the more extreme ones are trolls, parodying people who actually think like that.

No, I really don’t think they are. They all seem genuine and sound exactly like the weirdly intense rad fems on Twitter and elsewhere.

by Anonymousreply 15January 2, 2022 8:25 AM

Says the OP of a site that coined the word "frau", has endless threads up about Karens and the many failings and sins of "white women", has posters who claim women hate sex, and who regularly moan about the infiltration of DL by rightwing fascists and racists whilst dehumanising women and reducing them to tired stereotypes - just the way said rightwing fascists and racists do about gas and nonwhite races.

by Anonymousreply 16January 2, 2022 8:28 AM

^*gays (not gas)

by Anonymousreply 17January 2, 2022 8:29 AM

If DL hates you so much why post here?

by Anonymousreply 18January 2, 2022 8:30 AM

R15 Possibly. I visit another message board site where there's a gender topic and it's made up solely of women sharing links to any and all news articles/Twitter posts about anything trans. It's a massive echo chamber where they all wring their hands and make out like the world is collapsing.

I can see a scenario where a few DL threads have been linked in a topic like I've mentioned and they've been outraged and decided to come here with their brigading. The downvoting of any posts they disagree with to get the poster silenced for a day or two is classic in a co-ordinated brigading attempt.

by Anonymousreply 19January 2, 2022 8:37 AM

They recently got two Let’s Be TERFs threads closed.

This is still up and the irony of them having gotten OP greyed out seems lost on them:

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by Anonymousreply 20January 2, 2022 8:39 AM

OP, you sound crazy! Chill and take a pill. Please, get some professional anger management assistance.

by Anonymousreply 21January 2, 2022 8:41 AM

OP, in case your sheltered, snowflake frame of reference hasn't noticed it, this board is sizzling with mama's boys, fruits, nuts, and flakes. We're all kinds of extremely fucked up and nasty. I for one welcome misandry feminists. They're entitled to their point of view.

by Anonymousreply 22January 2, 2022 10:11 AM

No, I’d like homophobic feminists to stay away.

by Anonymousreply 23January 2, 2022 10:13 AM

[quote] "How dare you refuse to trash women!"

Everyone is trashed on Datalounge.

You just believe women should be exempt, while you have no problem trashing gay men and trans women.

by Anonymousreply 24January 2, 2022 10:14 AM

"Prostitution whore" has been a long-standing joke on DL, newbies.

by Anonymousreply 25January 2, 2022 10:15 AM

One of them for sure is that cinesnatch creature.

by Anonymousreply 26January 2, 2022 10:16 AM

I'd like to think most people on DL have figured out by now that it's the trolls who start these "why are there so many awful trolls" threads. You guys do know that, right?

Twice now I've caught a troll posting both "I hate misandry terf feminists" crap AND "trans are literally erasing women" crap.

by Anonymousreply 27January 2, 2022 10:18 AM

R24, no such thing as trans woman ! Male to T more like it . They will never be women

by Anonymousreply 28January 2, 2022 10:21 AM

r19 is that they are brigading, but misses that the anti-trans trolls organize on KiwiFarms, Mumsnet, Twitter etc. and are the same group we've had here (by and large) for about two years now.

They're constantly talking to each other about their personal problems, referring to posts on these other forums, and if you say "X is a troll who said [racist thing]" their little friends from their other forums will show up saying "X is the best person in the world and you're evil and awful for not loving and supporting her in every endeavor!"

It could not be more obvious that it's a small group of ladies who have decided DL is their own personal playground.

by Anonymousreply 29January 2, 2022 10:23 AM

Well, OP is now greyed out... but tell us how there are no women here.

by Anonymousreply 30January 2, 2022 10:40 AM

Op has a lady penis

by Anonymousreply 31January 2, 2022 11:08 AM

[quote][R15] Possibly. I visit another message board site where there's a gender topic and it's made up solely of women sharing links to any and all news articles/Twitter posts about anything trans. It's a massive echo chamber where they all wring their hands and make out like the world is collapsing.

There's been a purity spiral in the whole TERF community. A lot of them have gone completely off the deep end.

by Anonymousreply 32January 2, 2022 11:12 AM

There's more misogyny on this site than in Saudi Arabia.

by Anonymousreply 33January 2, 2022 12:35 PM

[italic]Misandrical[/italic] comments don't necessarily mean the poster behind them is a [italic]misandry feminist[/italic], OP. Gay men are free to criticise straight men as well as straight women and are in a unique position to do both.

by Anonymousreply 34January 2, 2022 12:52 PM

First the rightwingers invade the site, now incels.

Hey OP, have you ever been anywhere in public? If you have, did you take a look around? It's filled with straight couples where the men are absolute shlubs. Shlubs though they may be, they obviously had some sort of game. That, or they dated within their range.

Stop blaming het women because you are a loser who has no game or think women who are way out of your league should give you the time of day.

by Anonymousreply 35January 2, 2022 1:06 PM

[quote] If you have, did you take a look around? It's filled with straight couples where the men are absolute shlubs.

I see way more of the opposite: a decently attractive man with a fat pig of a wife.

by Anonymousreply 36January 2, 2022 1:08 PM

It started with the gay X trans wars of the mid-2010s. Gender critical feminists found out about the Datalounge then and came squat here. The forum is now full of dour middle-aged lesbians who think Datalounge belongs to them. They successfully got us to stop calling women stinkfish and cry about MALE SCHOOL SHOOTERS every time you say something about Karens.

by Anonymousreply 37January 2, 2022 1:14 PM

Lesbians can dish it out, but they can't take it.

by Anonymousreply 38January 2, 2022 1:35 PM

This is boring I'm bored.

by Anonymousreply 39January 2, 2022 1:44 PM

This forum are mostly gay men and women, and straight women. All of them at some point were literally victims of straight men homophobia, misogyny and violence. Homophobia is a direct result of misogyny, everything woman related is inferior and unworthy, that why men with female trails are an abomination for them. I'm actually surprised this forum isn't more anti straight men, I assume is because the self hate and admiration for masculinity and straight dick.

by Anonymousreply 40January 2, 2022 2:07 PM

R13, I’m a woman, never heard of LChat or Mumsnet, and first came to DL because it ended up near the top result of my Google search.

by Anonymousreply 41January 2, 2022 5:03 PM

Why is this forum full of misogynist MRA Republicans like OP? People who hate feminists are reactionary right-wingers like the Colorado mass shooter.

by Anonymousreply 42January 2, 2022 5:05 PM

I think everyone should just agree with the anti-trans posters for a week or so. I'm pretty sure they'd vanish if they didn't have anyone to argue with.

That said, I think most do agree with their general views, but if they detect that you don't 100% agree with everything they say, out comes the "you're a misogynist!" card which pretty much ensures the discussion is then shut down.

by Anonymousreply 43January 2, 2022 5:14 PM

[quote]There's more misogyny on this site than in Saudi Arabia.

We don't rape and kill women who "talk back" like they do, so....

I'm assuming that this is an exaggeration.

by Anonymousreply 44January 2, 2022 5:17 PM

R43, the biggest issue with them is that a lot of them are actually as homophobic as they are transphobic.

I don't think they'll ever go away voluntarily. For all their obsession with having their own spaces trans-free, they certainly don't believe there should be any restriction on them posting on a gay board.

by Anonymousreply 45January 2, 2022 6:03 PM

R45 I haven't seen much evidence of them being homophobic, but you may be right. Perhaps some of them have been sent packing by the acid tongued gays. :D

by Anonymousreply 46January 2, 2022 7:42 PM

Here's a recent thread on two gay dads they were all over:

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by Anonymousreply 47January 2, 2022 7:45 PM

R44 - Let's call is hyperbole and split the difference.

Jesus, 60,000 thousand years of oppression, rape, concubinage, footbinding, suttee, female infanticide, laws that excluded them from inheritance, education, and fucking political power, the overwhelming number of people put to death for witchcraft over two centuries were women, male primogeniture . . . and female genital mutilation with sticks, rusty blades, and labia nailed together with thorns?

Hey, OP, did you happen to catch up on all the mass rapes that took place in recent years in . . . Let's seeee, here's a list: Rwanda, Serbia, Democratic Republic of Congo (still going on), Yemen, and Ethiopia. Oh, did I forget to mention Darfur for how many years?

You fucking creep.

by Anonymousreply 48January 2, 2022 7:52 PM

besides me and a few other authenticated posters, how do you know who's female unless someone says 'as a female'? I didn't read the entire linked thread but I didn't notice any obvious females.

by Anonymousreply 49January 2, 2022 7:55 PM

[quote] We don't rape and kill women who "talk back" like they do, so.... I'm assuming that this is an exaggeration.

No, they genuinely believe gay men are the biggest, most hateful women-haters there are.

by Anonymousreply 50January 2, 2022 8:01 PM

R50, I’ve seen some pretty strongly worded stuff in the anti-trans threads, as much by men as women, but I never saw anything anti-gay except from from trans saying femme gays would be happier as women.

by Anonymousreply 51January 3, 2022 12:32 AM

I know exactly what you are referring to, OP. I can't anymore.

When exactly did you ever deal with any of the things on your list, R48.? You are precisely why I'm done with this shit. If you think that shit is cute so you can play the victim, you've got another thing coming. I am fed up with this crap.

by Anonymousreply 52January 3, 2022 1:07 AM

"I know exactly what you are referring to, OP. I can't anymore."

Consider suicide. If you "CAN'T ANYMORE!!!!!!!!!!" put some backbone into it. Be a man and not a whiny crybaby.

"When exactly did you ever deal with any of the things on your list, [R48].? You are precisely why I'm done with this shit. If you think that shit is cute so you can play the victim, you've got another thing coming. I am fed up with this crap."

Speaking of playing the victim, are you so triggered by someone else mentioning real tragedies? Do you want to slice your wrists when some newsreader tells about a tragedy THAT THEY DIDN'T EXPERIENCE THEMSELVES?

No, seriously. You're too delicate to live dear.

Consider suicide. Put yourself out of your own misery.

I wish you only the best.

by Anonymousreply 53January 3, 2022 7:14 AM

[quote]I think everyone should just agree with the anti-trans posters for a week or so. I'm pretty sure they'd vanish if they didn't have anyone to argue with.

No, the anti-trans threads almost always have no one posting in them EXCEPT the anti-trans trolls. They're using them as an echo chamber, and to link to them from other forums and social media.

Regular DLers put the OPs and threads on ignore all the time, that's why the OP of anti-trans threads get grayed out so often. Like others already said, the anti-trans trolls are straight ladies who are homophobic, so DLers just avoid them. Every so often you'll see one of their troll threads with plenty of DLers telling them off, at which point the anti-trans trolls get spooked and run off for a few hours or even days.

Just in general, "agree with everything a troll says" is really stupid advice.

by Anonymousreply 54January 3, 2022 7:21 AM

I know the Gay Community doesn't talk about it and Kudos to OP for even creating a thread. The lesbians and their boy haircuts have always had an attitude and they have sadly come here. DL is like the Gay Bars--->>The Lezzbies ran their clubs into the ground and now they to the guy clubs to show off their flannel and masculinity....

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by Anonymousreply 55January 3, 2022 9:46 AM

R55, you are generalizing . There are feminine gay women , just like masculine gay men .

by Anonymousreply 56January 3, 2022 2:59 PM

R26, not sure what you mean. I'm a man. I have male friends. I have sex with men. I also like women and trans people. You see, R26, I can also walk and chew gum at the same time.

Whatever the case, you sound like a sock-puppet account. To my Ignore List you go. GFY and bye.

To others here, feel free to FF it.

by Anonymousreply 57January 9, 2022 12:27 AM

R54 I was mostly kidding because I know most people can't do one of the two things needed to eliminate trolls: ignore or agree.

by Anonymousreply 58January 9, 2022 11:49 AM
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