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Having Trouble Getting Hard during Sex

I'm a younger man and have met this amazing guy. We click on every level, have had deep emotional talks about our lives, and aren't really seeing other people. However, I have not been able to get too hard when we have had sex (twice three days apart).

There has been no penetration, just kissing and oral. I really like kissing and performing oral on him, but he feels guilty because he can't do that to me because I am not very hard. We have even tried to jack me off, but it hasn't worked. He thinks it is him, which it definitely is not.

Has anyone else had this problem before? How did you fix it?

by Anonymousreply 116January 17, 2022 9:01 PM

R1 I think I am just in a sexual rut. Usually I have no problem getting it up at any time of day.

by Anonymousreply 2December 30, 2021 11:57 AM

No self esteem or you eat shit food or drink too much if you aren't ancient.

by Anonymousreply 3December 30, 2021 12:00 PM

Or medication

by Anonymousreply 4December 30, 2021 12:00 PM

OP is 78 years young.

by Anonymousreply 6December 30, 2021 12:08 PM

I'm in my mid-twenties, which is embarrassing. I am a pescatarian and jog most days. I am staying at his place this weekend and am not going to touch myself until I see him.

by Anonymousreply 7December 30, 2021 12:14 PM

Madonna-whore complex? You like him too much to see him as a dirty slut to defile? (Just spit balling)

by Anonymousreply 8December 30, 2021 12:20 PM

R8 why do you say that?

by Anonymousreply 9December 30, 2021 12:34 PM

Well, it doesn't sound like it's physical so it has to be psychological.

by Anonymousreply 10December 30, 2021 12:39 PM

Do some aerobic exercise and see if that improves it--like running.

Also, have you been with anyone else in the mean time? Did it work then?

Has he tried oral on you? That can usually help

by Anonymousreply 11December 30, 2021 12:46 PM

R6 - And Chrissy Metz is 400 lbs thin.

by Anonymousreply 12December 30, 2021 12:49 PM

R12 Metz, like Jupiter, has acquired about 14 satellites over the years. She's just tonnes of fun.

by Anonymousreply 13December 30, 2021 12:52 PM

R8 may be right. OP, do you get hard thinking of other guys?

by Anonymousreply 14December 30, 2021 12:52 PM

It's probably just anxiety. Relax, switch off your brain, and let biology run its course.

by Anonymousreply 16December 30, 2021 12:54 PM

Your cock just ain't that much into him, OP.

You can't tell your body to feel something it don't.

Ask him if he has a younger brother.

by Anonymousreply 17December 30, 2021 12:56 PM

R17, brings up a good point. OP didn't mention physical attraction at all.

Are you actually attracted to him?

by Anonymousreply 18December 30, 2021 12:57 PM

Could you . . . see a doctor?

by Anonymousreply 19December 30, 2021 1:02 PM

R16 is clearly a dumb girl who has the luxury of just lying there like a corpse. Men actually need to get hard to fuck, dummy.

by Anonymousreply 20December 30, 2021 1:09 PM

You need to get your heart checked out, you probably have clogged arteries. Its a sign OP GO TO THE DR.

by Anonymousreply 21December 30, 2021 1:13 PM

Get your testosterone checked. But today, go to the corner store/vitamin shop and buy a couple of herbal hardon pills. Read the online reviews, some are more "speedy" than others. See if they work for you.

One time I brought a guy home from the gym and I couldn't get hard. I apologized, he left, I shut the door, and my dick stood straight up. WHY? Because it could, that's why.

by Anonymousreply 22December 30, 2021 1:14 PM

Why didn't you call me back inside, R22?

by Anonymousreply 23December 30, 2021 1:19 PM

Your body is trying to tell you something. Listen to it. Unless you are on antidepressants or other medication, which can seriously lower your sex drive.

by Anonymousreply 24December 30, 2021 1:20 PM

OP, how are the surroundings where you have sex? If it feels like a crack den, then it feels like one. My now ex-boyfriend has absolute hellhole of a house. He let his dog use the living room as a litter box, the smell was putrid. We would only go to his bedroom, which smelled like stale dirty air. A Days Inn has better accommodations than his house. He couldn’t make me cum, and I pertain it to the surroundings. He could’ve been the most romantic person ever, but my senses were made very uncomfortable for the moments we had together. If he’s a clean guy with a decent place and has sex with the lights on, you’re in luck.

by Anonymousreply 25December 30, 2021 1:22 PM

Sometimes injecting disinfectants will help.

by Anonymousreply 26December 30, 2021 1:27 PM

[quote]Having Trouble Getting Hard during Sex

As opposed to having trouble getting sex when hard

by Anonymousreply 27December 30, 2021 1:29 PM


by Anonymousreply 28December 30, 2021 1:30 PM

OP, maybe it's psychological? You clearly have strong emotional connection and maybe that level of intimacy is making you uncomfortable at some level, which is impacting your physical performance. I'm not a therapist...so just a guess.

by Anonymousreply 29December 30, 2021 1:30 PM

[quote] I'm a younger man and have met this amazing guy. We click on every level, have had deep emotional talks about our lives, and aren't really seeing other people. However, I have not been able to get too hard when we have had sex (twice three days apart).

If medications are not the issue. It must be psychological. Maybe you suffer from low self-esteem (I'm not worthy of this amazing guy!), or self loathing issues (you were raised to believe gay sex is wrong). Or maybe, on a subconscious level, you don't think he's the right guy for you at this time.

by Anonymousreply 30December 30, 2021 1:35 PM

[quote][R16] is clearly a dumb girl who has the luxury of just lying there like a corpse. Men actually need to get hard to fuck, dummy.

If there's no physiological reason, it's psychological. 90% of cases, in my experiences as a psychotherapist, it's some sort of (performance) anxiety.

by Anonymousreply 31December 30, 2021 1:37 PM

You can order cialis online and have it at your house in a few days.

by Anonymousreply 32December 30, 2021 1:37 PM

I was with someone who had the same problem. I really into him, so I was patient. The first time we were together and it didn't happen, I was very upset and thought it was me. My ego took a hit.

We talked about it the next day, and he was upfront about his anxiety. I understood and I saw him again. Same thing happened, but we still had a good time and I was very gentle with him. He liked to cuddle, I'm not a cuddlier, but it made him feel at ease.

Long story short, after quite a few times together, I gave him so much confidence ,he was able to overcome his anxiety and he left me for someone else.

Moral of the story....please don't do to someone else what he did to me.

by Anonymousreply 33December 30, 2021 1:44 PM

Are you self-conscious about something or something about your body... maybe?

by Anonymousreply 34December 30, 2021 1:46 PM

Some good advice. Here are my follow up comments:

I grew up in a small town where being gay was definitely wrong. If you're gay, they you have an HOV lane straight to hell.

I definitely feel he is too good for me. I think he is very cute and attractive. He makes me feel attractive and great, too. Up until him, I have never really had anyone treat me (romantically) the way he does. I don't mind myself very attractive or a catch and he told me I need to let him love and take care of me the way I deserve.

But I am looking for a long term relationship. I was build to think long term. I'm not a hook up type of guy. Him and I are so intimate and I love being close to him, pleasing him, etc. I feel bad that he thinks it is him.

I do get hard seeing model-type guys and porn videos. My usual masturbation technique is to jack off or hump the bed (please no judgement). I tense up a little when he grabs me.

This is also both of our second time ever having sex with someone else and neither of us has ever been penetrated. He is in medicine and has made the comment about my prostate (he said he can get me there easy, but I better be clean).

by Anonymousreply 35December 30, 2021 1:49 PM

Sorry for the long reply. I just do not know how to fix this problem.

I really just need to calm down. I can't just turn my brain off.

by Anonymousreply 36December 30, 2021 1:50 PM

OP- I have trouble getting SEX. What you have is the equivalent of rich people problems.

by Anonymousreply 37December 30, 2021 1:56 PM

OP is it because both of you are Tops or Bottoms? Or maybe there is no sexual chemistry for your side though he is attractive. Maybe his body odor or lack of it is triggering the issue. Or maybe you are so intent on pleasing him that you are not getting an erection as that is not your goal. I am not attractive at all and actually, lots of gay men of all stripes have called me ugly to my face. But I have met some really attractive guys and I did not have an issue. So it is probably the intent of pleasing him rather than being pleased as you think you are not worthy of him is what probably is causing the issue.

by Anonymousreply 38December 30, 2021 2:00 PM

I don’t know, OP. Maybe you’re just not turned on by him, y’know? Broccoli is good for you too but it’s not much of a turn on. Or maybe you’re anxiety is related to the newness of it all. I think rather than thinking about fitness models, you should put your attention on him. I also don’t think either one of you should be pursuing anal sex atm - given the current circumstances, that would be a disaster. You boys need to slow down and locate the present moment and stay there until it moves forward naturally.

I mean, when I was in my 20s just the thought of a warm body could get me hard but I’ve known people your age who suffer a lot of anxiety. Maybe that’s what this experience has revealed to you and as others have suggested you should see a doctor and maybe a therapist. Maybe it’s time to start doing that work.

There’s also Cialis which would be fine but I don’t think this should be the long-term solution as there is more here to find out.

by Anonymousreply 39December 30, 2021 2:02 PM

R37 I know there a ton more problems in the world (starving children, lack of COVID tests, but a spike in cases, inflation, foreign policy, etc). But I am asking gay men on a gay forum website a question about sex.

R38 I am attracted to him. I love his smile and how he makes me feel. I think I might not be so "submissive" you know?

R39 Definitely. I agree we should slow down. I am not going to try and stimulate anything until I see him next. It's like I have to be showered, awake, and have had a few cups of coffee before I'm ready. My libedo is Murray from accounting lol

by Anonymousreply 40December 30, 2021 2:12 PM

Is either of you a fatty?

by Anonymousreply 41December 30, 2021 2:30 PM

R41 no, we are both about 5'7/5'9 and around 150 lbs.

by Anonymousreply 42December 30, 2021 2:32 PM

Gurl, I can make men get hard and cum that haven't in years.

Venus, Mars, Neptune stellium in Scorpio, 5th house.

I should make them pay.

by Anonymousreply 43December 30, 2021 2:40 PM

R43 Nice! My Venus and Mars are in Aries and Virgo. Neptune in Capricorn. This is why I cannot relax. He is a Cancer.

by Anonymousreply 44December 30, 2021 2:46 PM

[quote]I'm in my mid-twenties, which is embarrassing. I am a pescatarian and jog most days. I am staying at his place this weekend and am not going to touch myself until I see him.

So, self esteem then.

by Anonymousreply 45December 30, 2021 2:51 PM

virgo could make you overthink. nep in cap could make you not open up.

watch a movie on the couch. no expectations and let whatever happen.

by Anonymousreply 46December 30, 2021 2:56 PM

R46 That's what I would like, but he doesn't own a TV or a couch. His apartment is two desks, several bookshelves, and the bedroom/bathroom/closet.

He just works and reads when home. But he is in the medical field, so he is on call a lot. Ergo, we hang out at his place more. (He has to be by his computer in case he gets a call).

by Anonymousreply 47December 30, 2021 3:35 PM

[quote]People with porn addiction may also place an unhealthy amount of pressure on their performance during intercourse which significantly affects their sexual experience. While they’re constantly watching people engage in sex, this person may find that their sex lives may feel less satisfying.

Stop watching porn, or cut him loose so he can find somebody else, who is not addicted to porn.

by Anonymousreply 48December 30, 2021 3:37 PM

R48 I'm not addicted to porn. I watch maybe once every three weeks.

by Anonymousreply 49December 30, 2021 3:39 PM

Thanks for the tips and advice.

by Anonymousreply 50December 30, 2021 3:58 PM

Join the club

by Anonymousreply 51December 30, 2021 4:01 PM

You should be hard already. No one should have to 'get you hard'.

It's not working; just be girlfriends.

by Anonymousreply 52December 30, 2021 4:33 PM

After all your explanations, we can only assume you're a loser, Op

by Anonymousreply 53December 30, 2021 4:37 PM

[quote]My Venus and Mars are in Aries and Virgo. Neptune in Capricorn.

Maybe it's a testosterone issue, after all.

by Anonymousreply 54December 30, 2021 4:54 PM

My first query was going to be porn use. That is a big issue for a lot of guys now, especially younger ones, the brain gets used to the hyper stimulation of flipping between hardcore porn vids, that actually one-to-one sex isn’t getting the brain and dick stimulated enough. Sounds like it’s more likely to be a psychological thing, maybe you’re giving yourself performance anxiety, or maybe you have unresolved body image issues or something. I’ve had all the above at various points. You’ll work it out. Good luck.

by Anonymousreply 55December 30, 2021 4:55 PM

I don't want him to leave me over this though. I'm very attached. I think he is too. He has made comments like "if we adopt children, err if I ever adopt a child..." and other subtle comments like that.

by Anonymousreply 56December 30, 2021 5:02 PM

I think you having sex has become such a huge thing in your mind that it's acting like a blockage. You need to talk to your guy about this and ask him to give you time and be patient. No shame in that. Also, touch him a lot, cuddle, kiss, watch tv in each other's arms, just allow yourself to get gradually used to his body and eventually the problem will resolve itself. You're just too inexperienced and anxious, that's all. Good luck.

by Anonymousreply 57December 30, 2021 5:10 PM

I think you’ll be fine OP. It’s really nice you’ve found someone you like so much.

by Anonymousreply 58December 30, 2021 5:12 PM

The onset of heart failure as your blood vessels are getting constricted and not enough blood flow to your dong during an erection. If you are doing extreme workouts, taking quack supplements, being deprived of sleep, just stop them all. You need to sleep a lot for the heart.

by Anonymousreply 59December 30, 2021 5:19 PM

Try mangoes?

by Anonymousreply 60December 30, 2021 5:22 PM

Aww you're babies! You've had sex twice before!?

You need to practice, "putting on the night moves". You just have to lay in bed one sunny morning and learn each other's bodies. Like you're 18 year olds. Just take turns with each other and go slow and explore. It's adorable! How new and exciting.

by Anonymousreply 61December 30, 2021 5:28 PM

Play Lou Rawls in the background

by Anonymousreply 62December 30, 2021 5:42 PM

“Having trouble getting hard” while laughed at as a somewhat superficial problem by some, is no laughing matter in a relatively young man. It’s actually one of the early, oft-ignored signs of cardiovascular problems. As men, our smaller vessels are often the first ones being affected by cardiovascular disease, the smaller vessels get clogged up or impaired before the bigger ones that eventually may cause M.I.

Early CV disease is often overlooked as a cause in erectile dysfunction especially in younger men. Particularly if the man looks fit physically. However, being physically fit outwardly doesn’t always correlate with what’s going on internally. I’ve had more gym rats, dude bro types as patients in the past, say, 10 years or so, who were diagnosed with fatty liver disease and hyperlipidemia among other conditions. I’m a DNP who did most of my training as FNP with an internal medicine physician. He was big on the link (supported by studies) between newly onset erectile dysfunction and early signs of CV disease.

Anyways, these were young guys (45 and under) who followed hardcore paleo/ very low carbs/ high fat diets for few years. Sometimes when you dig deeper into other symptoms, newly onset erectile dysfunction was one of them. Most were too embarrassed to mention it to their healthcare providers.

I would suggest you get a full physical exam that includes full set of labs. CBC w/ diff, CMP, full liver panel, lipid panel, CRP, these are just basics to get a better picture of your health.

by Anonymousreply 63December 30, 2021 5:45 PM

Quit porn, OP

by Anonymousreply 64December 30, 2021 5:47 PM

Try ass eating

by Anonymousreply 65December 30, 2021 5:49 PM

[quote]I would suggest you get a full physical exam that includes full set of labs. CBC w/ diff, CMP, full liver panel, lipid panel, CRP, these are just basics to get a better picture of your health.

If OP can't get hard on his own, then yes, I'd say, see a doctor. Otherwise, it's psychological.

by Anonymousreply 66December 30, 2021 5:55 PM

We’ve never had this problem but then our actia involves copious of fresh warm FUDGE!

by Anonymousreply 67December 30, 2021 7:29 PM

eat some mushrooms

by Anonymousreply 68December 30, 2021 9:18 PM

R63 interesting. What about a "some ed when performing but rock hard every morning without fail“ type of situation and cardiovascular disease?

by Anonymousreply 69December 30, 2021 10:29 PM

In other words r63, wouldn’t morning wood be a better indicator for your diagnosis, since it isn’t psychological/sexual arousal-related?

by Anonymousreply 70December 30, 2021 10:32 PM

Connor? Connor Jessup? Is that you?

by Anonymousreply 71December 31, 2021 12:42 AM

I had something similar happen to me. It was a psychological block. No bad things happened to me when I was young. Expectations is generally what the problem was. Performance Anxiety. Talk to your doctor and ask for some 100mg Sildenafil. They’re cheap especially when you use GoodRx.

The chat with a sex therapist. Sounds like performance anxiety. You like him a lot and you’re scared of “not performing to his expectations”.

My 2 cents

by Anonymousreply 72December 31, 2021 1:05 AM

Frottage. Bump pussies!

by Anonymousreply 73December 31, 2021 1:16 AM

[quote] I'm in my mid-twenties, which is embarrassing. I am a pescatarian and jog most days. I am staying at his place this weekend and am not going to touch myself until I see him.

See a urologist. Erectile dysfunction at your age could be a sign of a physiological issue.

by Anonymousreply 74December 31, 2021 1:23 AM

You’re a bottom OP

by Anonymousreply 75December 31, 2021 12:04 PM

R75 Truth. Tops never have problems getting er up. Bottoms can never keep it up. That is not psychological, it is purely biological.

by Anonymousreply 76December 31, 2021 12:40 PM

So all the "tops" I've been with, who have 10" long cocks that they can't keep hard are really..."bottoms"? O-kay.

I guess Ken Ryker was a bottom all along...

by Anonymousreply 77December 31, 2021 1:24 PM

Horse cocks are a different beast altogether, cunt. For one, they are disgusting.

by Anonymousreply 78December 31, 2021 1:27 PM

I bet it’s a lot of jerking off.

Do you get normal hardons when you jerk off or when you wake up in the morning? If so, it’s likely just psychological. Go have sex with a hookup and see if you continue to have the problem

by Anonymousreply 79December 31, 2021 1:29 PM

There is absolutely nothing "psychological" about a bottom being unable to get hard.

by Anonymousreply 80December 31, 2021 1:30 PM

A couple of things. Before him, did you watch a lot of porn? You can condition yourself to only become aroused like that. It could be physical. Go to a sex shop and get some over-the-counter hard-on pills. Most of them contain viagra just not legally but work just the same. If htat works you could have some form of ED.

Your diet is good, you are healthy and young, do you get hard normally? LIke thinking about fucking him does that get you hard? What turns you on in your head?

by Anonymousreply 81December 31, 2021 1:32 PM

Do you watch a lot of porn? It can desensitise you to real life situations. If you do, try having a break, and concentrate on having a relaxed, affectionate time with your partner without pressure to perform. If the situation persists you should discuss it with a therapist. You are too young to be stuck with this.

by Anonymousreply 82December 31, 2021 1:36 PM

[quote]Truth. Tops never have problems getting er up. Bottoms can never keep it up. That is not psychological, it is purely biological.

Correct; the top's dick usually isn't thick enough to hit the right button. Physiological.

by Anonymousreply 83December 31, 2021 6:50 PM

Or biological. Whatever you want to say.

by Anonymousreply 84December 31, 2021 6:50 PM

OP: Clogged arteries, blood vessels. That's why Viagra "works". It helps dilate blood vessels.

by Anonymousreply 85December 31, 2021 6:58 PM

r85 no Viagra relaxes the smooth muscle of the penis and the muscles in artery walls to allow blood flow. It also is a pDES inhibitor meaning it keeps that blood flow going to help maintain an erection.

by Anonymousreply 86January 1, 2022 6:03 PM


by Anonymousreply 87January 1, 2022 7:06 PM

I stayed over last night. He found my sweet spot on my neck. I came almost immediately.

by Anonymousreply 88January 1, 2022 8:12 PM

r88 you went from no boner to premature ejaculation? Bravo!

by Anonymousreply 89January 2, 2022 1:58 AM

R89 seriousness or sarcasm?

by Anonymousreply 90January 2, 2022 2:29 PM

You are straight Op

by Anonymousreply 91January 2, 2022 2:37 PM

Sorry for the joke response. I read the thread and want to offer a more sincere one. You indicated that this is just a 2nd partner for both of you and in your previous relationships neither were penetrated. I don't want to assume it's limited sexual experience because you could have been with one guy for 2 years. If that is the case you both seem to identify as tops. Maybe your body is trying to let you know in this situation you are to be the bottom.

If it's early in your sexual experience if you are exclusively top or bottom or in-between but in this relationship your dick is letting you know. Nice that things are heating up with you two but after the weekend, just try and jack off without him there to make sure it's not something physical once that is resolved, I think you can find your way through it. Take your time and have open communication. Seems like it could be the real deal.

by Anonymousreply 92January 2, 2022 2:54 PM

R28 - “ Viagra”

R28 for the win. Put your emotions and hang ups aside gentleman, and take the Viagra.

by Anonymousreply 93January 2, 2022 2:57 PM

r90 Serious. You went from I can't get it up with him to him finding your spot and causing you to blow..Bravo!

by Anonymousreply 94January 2, 2022 9:59 PM

and you old folks thinking a 2o something has cholesterol problems...oy!

by Anonymousreply 95January 2, 2022 10:08 PM

OP here giving updates. Sometimes I feel like I'm being really difficult and he just accommodates me. I feel really bad about it and try to discuss it, but he tells me I want to discuss too much. He says I just need to enjoy our time together and stop working about everything.

I'm a Virgo, he is a Cancer.

by Anonymousreply 96January 14, 2022 2:45 PM

R96- The Politically Correct name for Cancer is Moon Children

by Anonymousreply 97January 14, 2022 4:00 PM

Stop being such a frau, OP!

Concentrate on the cock ffs!

by Anonymousreply 98January 14, 2022 4:00 PM

OP, again, your problem is due to poor blood flow. Have your doctor check for good/bad cholestrol (HDL, LDL, etc), plus triglyceride levels.

by Anonymousreply 99January 16, 2022 7:46 PM

FYI Yesterday I had no problems. He stayed at my place Friday night and left a few toiletries on purpose.

by Anonymousreply 100January 16, 2022 7:49 PM

r100 I don't think he has any problems are reported. Just needed to get over the hump so to speak.

by Anonymousreply 101January 16, 2022 10:58 PM

R101 Yes. I have been very stressed out.

by Anonymousreply 102January 16, 2022 11:02 PM

How embarrassing for you. Such things don't happen to REAL men.

by Anonymousreply 103January 16, 2022 11:08 PM

R102 Stop watching so much porn and avoid 'death grip' masturbation techniques. Death grip masturbation and excessive porn consumption can cause erectile dysfunction. Visit 'Your Brain On Porn' dot com to learn more. Read the book of the same name by Gary Wilson.

by Anonymousreply 104January 16, 2022 11:09 PM

OP will be fine - he has a boyfriend he loves and they are fucking and it sounds lovely to be honest. Very sweet.

Anyway. NEXT.

by Anonymousreply 105January 17, 2022 1:10 AM

All this Covid stress is not helping. I’ve gone through the cycles of complete disinterest to the point of being asexual to throwing myself at anything that moved and back again.

It’s definitely due to the isolation/stress/duress etc..

by Anonymousreply 106January 17, 2022 1:15 AM

I don’t think our bodies are designed to want to breed during a pandemic. You body is like: just survive this dude and we can have some fun later!

by Anonymousreply 107January 17, 2022 1:17 AM

R105 love? I am definitely falling for him. It is so easy.

He is a pediatrician and I am a law student. He is so nurturing and kind. He also wants me to succeed and believes I can do anything I set my mind to.

by Anonymousreply 108January 17, 2022 2:28 AM

It's either he's not physically appealing to you or you're having some cardiovascular problem.

by Anonymousreply 109January 17, 2022 2:31 AM

Oh I thought you said you loved him. MY BAD.

Lol but seriously what is the issue at this point? You said you fucked him the other night with no problem.

Seems like fake complaining about your sweet and supportive doctor boyfriend. Boo hoo. Some of us have actual problems…? Get ahold of yourself.

by Anonymousreply 110January 17, 2022 2:56 AM

R110 I was having problems getting hard. But it was just a bad penis month I guess.

by Anonymousreply 111January 17, 2022 2:58 AM

I doubt if OP is even a man. Just a troll.

by Anonymousreply 112January 17, 2022 9:53 AM

Carrie’s taste is in her arse. It’s amazing what some women will do to get close to power.

by Anonymousreply 113January 17, 2022 11:17 AM

R110 What are your actual problems?

by Anonymousreply 114January 17, 2022 8:18 PM

I am troubled because I am having a hard time getting sex.

by Anonymousreply 115January 17, 2022 8:34 PM

I just saw an article somewhere about a guy who used that expanding foam you use in home repair, spraying it in his partner's urethra to try and make him stay hard. The poor guy ended up losing the use of his penis.

by Anonymousreply 116January 17, 2022 9:01 PM
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