What did you try when you got bored with vanilla sex?

Chocolate sex.

OP-The real problem is -

YOU'RE A WHORE DARLIN.

R2, I am now!! And happily so.

Scat. No, seriously. And I didn’t mean to.

I was in a bathhouse and a guy was eating my ass. Then he said push push! So I pushed out some poo and he ate it.

I became nearly obsessed with three ways - me and another top with a bottom. A bottom bud and I would spend hours on the apps looking for a 2nd top. Nothing better ever than making out with a hot top while tagging a bottom. Or having the third guy working my chest and nipples while fucking the bottom. Or spit roasting him.

I’ve peed on a guy. It seems to thrill him but didn’t do anything for me. He did have the body of a god though

I tried sex in public bathrooms and parks for a bit—but I hated the constant fear of interruption. I guess some people get off on that

Went to a gay resort—THAT was fun.

Black guys.

I had a top friend who was into that too R5. I am a top too and he would have an easy time finding bottoms who wanted two tops.

It was sort of odd in that it felt like he and I were the ones having sex-- the bottom would be blowing use while we made out or one of us would be fucking the bottom while the other one got head and we'd be making out with each other, heavy eye contact, pretty much ignoring the bottom except to tell him to do something to get the other one off.

We tried DPing a bottom once but the guy had trouble taking both of us and eventually gave up

My non vanilla fantasies are not applicable or possible in real life. I would like to get a moonlighting job performing FULL CAVITY strip searches on men. I would have hidden cameras to video and take photographs of ONLY the hot guys which I know would only be ( if I was lucky) one out of ten guys.

R9, I’ve too extended my tastes to other ethnicities—and am I glad I did!

I’m currently going through a South Asian guy phase—it’s pretty great

R10 yes yes yes. And the hyper masculine sometimes aggressive talking too

Although how did this work anatomically

[quote] one of us would be fucking the bottom while the other one got head

The 90s spanking, it was a great form of safe sex, then later watersports.

R14- In 1998 I had some NYC detective come to my apartment so he could spank me. He was a real tough guy but the spanking did not turn me on. I would have much preferred to have actual SEX with him. He just spanked me and stayed completely dressed 🥱

A woman

I’ve tried some tantric sex stuff and it really is mind blowing—it however takes time and patience

Spanking and other aggressive stuff like spitting do nothing for me

I let a stranger tie me up, cover my head with a mask, and take pictures. It was kind of hot but scary because he was a complete stranger. Not my thing

R17- Tantric sex- The only thing I think of is that scene in Sex And The City when that unattractive man is having tantric sex and shoots his - you know what on to Miranda's forehead.

Got into the fisting scene. Prefer it as a top. Love watching the bottom space out

R20, it’s more like meditating while having sex—it does make the orgasms very powerful

R9 and R12 on behalf of all non-white men, I thank you for fetishizing all us POC. 😒

[quote] shoots his - you know what

The DL Maiden Aunt Brigade Strikes Again

We'd need smelling salts if we say the words "cum" "jizz" or even "semen"

The leather scene is fun when trying it intermittently. Hunky hairy men in leather are a huge turn on. It’s amazing when one is fucking me in a sling.

Some guys seems to get into leather 24hours a day—which is when it gets tired

Bless his heart, OP has tried so many different forms of kink, he's had to leave over a half dozen posts on this threasd outlining each one!

R23, I’m not fetishizing different ethnicities—I’m enjoying them

I never liked Vanilla much

My favorite is Pistachio

R27, if you're not into POCs, you're a racist. If you like them, you're fetishizing them. There's no way to win.

R26, Bless your heart. You actually think only one person is using the account

I’m liking bears

R31- then you should go to Provincetown in July for BEAR week

R32, I’m def planning to this year!!

Bears are only allowed in Ptown for one week?

I like bears but once they get obese, it’s not sexy anymore

My best friend love bears (he’s a fit, twinky type) and had so much during Bear week that he needs to rest another week just to recover.

^so much sex

Trying trans?

R38- I might want to try that sometime- To fuck a guy with a PUSSY

I have an acquaintance who is dating a trans man. They fuck up the ass. He doesn’t like his vag touched

HER vag

Abstinence

But really, abstinence does wonders to your sex drive

[quote] What did you try when you got bored with vanilla sex?

Keeping the lights on.

a lil leather, light S&M, bondage, edging

experimented with fisting when I was young, too much work now

R36- I bet you most Bears would be DROOLING if a good looking masculine white muscular guy started flirting with them- in spite of their body acceptance crap.

[quote] [R36]- I bet you most Bears would be DROOLING if a guy started flirting with them- in spite of their body acceptance crap.

Fixed

I've actually seen bears reject muscular guys. It was the weirdest thing because I was sure no one ever rejected them.

Starting in my 40s, learned to relinquish control as a counterbalance to my Type A quasi-alpha professional/personal demeanor, and so have enjoyed bottoming, dom/sub scenarios, role plays immensely

R49, I"ve moved in a similar direction--letting myself be more relaxed and used

R24- or Sperm

piss

Reading a book OP.

Dulce de leche.

OP, do you have a particular fetish? Why not explore it?

S*c*at

Trans”men” with bonus holes

[quote] I've actually seen bears reject muscular guys. It was the weirdest thing because I was sure no one ever rejected them.

I’ve actually seen bears reject muscular guys. It was the weirdest thing because I was sure no one would ever reject me.

Fixed that too.

Huh?