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What are the cruising areas where you live? What are they like?

Parks, docks, piers, campus men's rooms highway restrooms. Spill, with your personal experiences.

by Anonymousreply 600January 25, 2022 2:07 AM

Don’t cruise any more (can’t be bothered investing the time) but met lots of interesting people when I did. Too many to recall but two that come to mind:

* a beautiful young guy who came buckets (he could have filled a bucket) who was the pet of a Marxist contessa in Rome. She’d paid for his air ticket to go away for the summer and hence he ended up in my city.

* the most successful rentboy in the city. He’d finished with a client and had a swanky hotel room to spare so invited me back. Bangs of blond hair, a body like pale silk stretched over steel, and a thighslapping dick. He later went to LA and made his fortune. A very open sweet personality too, so I wasn’t surprised.

by Anonymousreply 1December 17, 2021 2:04 PM

Every public toilet at every mainline railway station in London.

by Anonymousreply 2December 17, 2021 2:09 PM

People who cruise should be fucking arrested. Do this in PRIVATE not in public spaces for the whole world to see. Sick and tired of these folks into cruising...

by Anonymousreply 3December 17, 2021 2:16 PM

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by Anonymousreply 4December 17, 2021 2:18 PM

I don't consider myself sex-negative, but I can't abide by this time of behavior. It gives gay men a horrible reputation, and it is really why they hate us. I imagine that people who engage in this type of lewd behavior need to test daily for HIV and other STDs. Pure filth, if you ask me.

by Anonymousreply 5December 17, 2021 2:21 PM

[quote] Pure filth, if you ask me.

Won't someone please fetch Aunt Pittypat her smelling salts?

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by Anonymousreply 6December 17, 2021 2:26 PM

Where do you live r3? Are you out? Where did you live when you were in your 20s and 30s? A metropolis, city, town, village or rural area?

You don't have to answer any of this. Just curious.

by Anonymousreply 7December 17, 2021 2:26 PM

It’s more where *aren’t* the cruising areas.

by Anonymousreply 8December 17, 2021 2:30 PM

I just hang out around the middle schools looking for young talent.

It's an old show-biz tradition and it really works!

by Anonymousreply 9December 17, 2021 2:32 PM

I miss being in a big city. I loved all the cruisy spots in office buildings, where I could score some businessman/daddy types.

by Anonymousreply 10December 17, 2021 2:32 PM

Chicago closes its public restrooms along the lakefront trail after Labor Day, so after a lot of complaints a few port-a-potties were scattered about. Judging by the number of cars parked near them (and nowhere else on cold days) with their engines running, they seem to be in play.

Also the bird sanctuary near Montrose is Chicago's own Bramble. The old bramble was down near Fullerton and is now covered by a big building housing a nature (butterfly) tourist attraction.

by Anonymousreply 11December 17, 2021 2:56 PM

Chicago used to be the rocks at Diversey. But that was more of a networking cruising - or in other words the place to meet and then take it somewhere else, and not a place to actually have sex, I guess.

by Anonymousreply 12December 17, 2021 3:21 PM

Chicago is a very slutty city. A friend of mine would point out all these random places he'd cruise for cock during his lunch hour. I suspect DC has a big cruise scene too. Those restrooms around all the monuments/parks ALWAYS had creepy guys sneaking around with their cocks out.

by Anonymousreply 13December 17, 2021 3:35 PM

[Quote] Those restrooms around all the monuments/parks ALWAYS had creepy guys sneaking around with their cocks out.

I'm getting flashbacks of the ONE time I went to take a leak in the men's room at Penn Station. It lived up to its legend. I fled.

I still occasionally see it in my dreams and it makes my heart go all Aunt Pittypat.

by Anonymousreply 14December 17, 2021 3:39 PM

In my late teens back in 1996 our local Iowa tv station did a "shocking" expose about men hooking up in local parks and wooded areas. I remember The look of disgust on the face of the meteorologist who did the report when he found blankets and mattresses strew about. Those vile assfuckers!

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by Anonymousreply 15December 17, 2021 3:42 PM

So it’s not as great as it once was, during the AIDS crisis, when I was a young horny gayling, before I was able to get into clubs cruising around public restrooms was my version of safe sex. Whenever you see a urinal with a plastic bag over it, it’s to keep someone from cruising in the one right next to it.

Decades ago, restrooms were much more grand scale, especially department stores and libraries and had a dozen urinals in a line and it was fun. Modern restrooms are designed to combat cruising and often the door is propped open to avoid a warning sign so guys have a moment to disengage before someone comes in. They also got rid of blind spots or corners.

Hey, if you have a high sex drive, it’s less risky than anal. There’s no way I would do anything nowadays and wind up on a sexual predator list, though.

by Anonymousreply 16December 17, 2021 3:49 PM

I was recently in Golden gate park in San Francisco and surprised to see the cruising still exists near the windmills . It was my go to place 40 years ago.

by Anonymousreply 17December 17, 2021 3:52 PM

I'm glad gaylings have moved past this appallingly disgusting behavior to settle down into more heternormative lives, and are not stuck in some '70s time warp where promiscuous sex with random petri dishes was the norm.

by Anonymousreply 18December 17, 2021 3:58 PM

Fuck the haters -and anyone else who wants it. Cruising may be dying out, but there were and still are many worse things going on out there.

by Anonymousreply 19December 17, 2021 4:04 PM

In Cincinnati, the cruising place was at the gazebo in Burnett Woods, next to the university. I had my first experience cruising when David Daniels (the countertenor) took me. He left me alone and went off to some guy in a car. I was skinny and pale and pimply - no one was interested. But I found a friend sitting there, so we outed each other and ended becoming a couple!

by Anonymousreply 20December 17, 2021 4:15 PM

I like my life in the shadows. The demimonde of cruising with its frisson of danger and risk appeals to me more than the sunny pastel world of heteronorm gays.

by Anonymousreply 21December 17, 2021 4:16 PM

Is there anything more boring than HETERONORMATIVE?

by Anonymousreply 22December 17, 2021 4:16 PM

R18 Agreed. People who expose themselves in public areas are disgusting and should be labeled as sexual predators. There's a time and place for this, and it is definitely not in public restrooms.

by Anonymousreply 23December 17, 2021 4:24 PM

[quote] It gives gay men a horrible reputation, and it is really why they hate us.

Yes, because heterosexual people NEVER have sex in public. It’s unheard of.

by Anonymousreply 24December 17, 2021 9:33 PM

[quote] this appallingly disgusting behavior to settle down into more heternormative lives,

Right. Because that’s what we aspire to be.

by Anonymousreply 25December 17, 2021 9:34 PM

[quote]I like my life in the shadows. The demimonde of cruising with its frisson of danger and risk appeals to me more than the sunny pastel world of heteronorm gays.

I'm going out on a limb here, but guessing you have dialed a rotary phone with a pencil?

by Anonymousreply 26December 17, 2021 9:41 PM

Didn’t realize that cruising was still a thing since the apps. Is Central Park rambles still a thing?

by Anonymousreply 27December 17, 2021 9:42 PM

I'm in London and cruising is still very much still a thing despite the apps. Almost every public toilet or open space is a known cruising zone. I live in Blackheath Village in SE London and the Blackheath Pits is a notorious zone for cruising after dark. You get all sorts there. I've even seen people hanging out there in daylight hours hoping to strike up a conversation.

by Anonymousreply 28December 17, 2021 9:49 PM

r24, of course straight people have sex in public, but they have not made a subculture out of it like the gays have. I would gather that with gays forming 3-5% of the population, they fuck in public well out of proportion to their numbers compared to straight people.

by Anonymousreply 29December 17, 2021 9:57 PM

London does seem to have retained its cruising spirit. I’d say it’s dead in most major US cities. I enjoyed it - the fear added to the heart quickening lust. But much safer for everyone with Grindr. It was a time in history unlikely to be repeated.

by Anonymousreply 30December 17, 2021 9:59 PM

Got news for you R3- cruising happens everywhere, public and private hetero and homo. It’s one of the principle mechanisms by which people meet.

Would you also like to stop the sun rising at dawn?

by Anonymousreply 31December 17, 2021 10:01 PM

UK cruising was mainly centred in the public toilets found in public spaces, hence the term 'cottaging' (old public toilets looked like little cottages). I've done a bit of cottaging/cruising since the rise of the apps and they seem to overlap. Lots of people out cruising the heath or wherever will also often be on their phone. Or if you live near to a site you'll find people cruising outdoors will be up for a hook up since they've travelled to the area and it does get very cold this time of year.

by Anonymousreply 32December 17, 2021 10:05 PM

Well I NEVER!!

Good day sir I SAID GOOD DAY

by Anonymousreply 33December 17, 2021 10:06 PM

I used to live for the porno palaces in Kenosha, WI in my closeted days, when I'd drive back and forth from Milwaukee to Chicago.

by Anonymousreply 34December 17, 2021 10:10 PM

I don't care if SOME straight people do it too. That doesn't mean that it's not disgusting and lewd. People who engage in these types of perverted activities should be arrested and their names advertised in the local paper. I'm generally not one to judge, but your reap what you sow.

by Anonymousreply 35December 17, 2021 10:11 PM

[quote]Where did you live when you were in your 20s and 30s?

Honey, this guy, along with the other clutching naysayers are all in that younger demographic. They just don't get it - and take their ability to be open & free for granted.

by Anonymousreply 36December 17, 2021 10:12 PM

R35 - not judgey at all.

by Anonymousreply 37December 17, 2021 10:14 PM

Lindsey Graham's veranda

by Anonymousreply 38December 17, 2021 10:50 PM

I was in London and stopped at a little cemetery to actually look at the gravestones. There were men everywhere! Obviously a major cruising site (I don't remember where it was). I just always thought that was funny. One guy actually followed me out to the train station, but I left him hanging.

by Anonymousreply 39December 17, 2021 11:08 PM

Woodys?

by Anonymousreply 40December 17, 2021 11:10 PM

When I was in college and would come home for the summer, I remember hearing about a great cruising area on a heavily wooded area on the side of a hill, overlooking the lake. No one, other than the indulgers would ever think of going into that area. I just happened to go there after one of by high school classmates told me about it, although he had never been there himself. So, one weekday, the two of us decided to find the place in the afternoon. We eventually found it and it was amazing. There were about ten guys cruising the woods, a couple of them with their flies down and their hard dicks sticking out, a kind of " Suck me" invitation. As we went farther, we saw a couple fucking and others on their knees sucking. We separated for a few minutes, as I walked back to where the other guys were. I cruised for a couple minutes, which I had never done before, and then went back to find my friend. When I got to where I left him, I saw him with his pants down, being sucked off. He looked at me and smiled. As I had never even seen his dick, I walked a little closer and just watched. I watched for a minute and felt a hand reaching for my fly. A guy wanted to blow me. I, of course, let him and there we were- two high school classmates getting blowjobs in the cruisy area of town. I remember every minute and returned a countless number of times to get sucked, suck , and get fucked it the ass. It's where I lost my anal virginity. Unfortunately, a couple years later, the city announced that they were going to develop the area, clear out some of the trees, and build walkways from the park to the beach. A good thing gone, but the memories of "forbidden" experiences still make me smile.

by Anonymousreply 41December 17, 2021 11:17 PM

Putting aside the disgusting aspect of this type of behavior, not to mention that it reflects poorly on your breeding (no pun intended!), aren't any of you the least bit frightened of picking up STDs. If you're on PrEP, that does not protect you against STDs other than HIV, and there's always the danger a new strain of AIDS, i.e., SuperAIDS, could develop from all of this. Just too much risk involved for my comfort level.

by Anonymousreply 42December 17, 2021 11:28 PM

Bring back the inquisition I say!

by Anonymousreply 43December 17, 2021 11:37 PM

R20, I also met my first adult sex partner in Burnett Woods.

by Anonymousreply 44December 17, 2021 11:41 PM

10 of America’s Most Famous Gay Cruising Spots, Past and Present

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by Anonymousreply 45December 18, 2021 12:24 AM

I haven’t cruised in decades but back in 1990s, The bathrooms at the computer lab in college was a big cruising spot. As was the sauna at the rec building. I was so young a pretty that lots of places became cruising spots as so many people were interested. I could pick up people at book stores regularly. Then of course there were the gay bars and bathhouses. No one’s interested anymore. I’m old and fat (and married). Those were exciting times though.

by Anonymousreply 46December 18, 2021 12:32 AM

R45, supposedly Van Johnson was busted for cruising in Pershing Square but MGM covered it up

by Anonymousreply 47December 18, 2021 12:48 AM

Is Royce Hall still cruisy?

by Anonymousreply 48December 18, 2021 12:51 AM

[Quote] I'm going out on a limb here, but guessing you have dialed a rotary phone with a pencil?

R26 oh yes. Before that I used to ask the operator for a connection.

by Anonymousreply 49December 18, 2021 1:38 AM

R23 Clutch those pearls, you old nellie cunt.

by Anonymousreply 50December 18, 2021 1:52 AM

The wrestling team's locker room at Ohio State

by Anonymousreply 51December 18, 2021 1:59 AM

God R42 there aren’t strains of AIDs that are transmissible, it’s HIV that is transmitted. Whatever about the rest of your dumb comment, how are you ignorant of the difference between HIV and AIDs in 2021?

by Anonymousreply 52December 18, 2021 2:06 AM

R3 gave up sex decades ago and collects Hummel figurines instead.

by Anonymousreply 53December 18, 2021 2:07 AM

The downtown jewelry store rest rooms, when all the hot guys come in with their fiancées to pick out their clams' engagement rings. ;)

by Anonymousreply 54December 18, 2021 2:11 AM

The Old Vic

by Anonymousreply 55December 18, 2021 2:13 AM

R3 I am in my 30s, hardly that old. I am glad I wasn't around during the seedy cruising times.. I am also quite ugly so I'd be rejected.

by Anonymousreply 56December 18, 2021 2:36 AM

Cruising wasn't about 'beauty' or posing. It was finding someone and getting busy sucking cock, or fucking if you had some privacy. Hunter gatherer at its best.

by Anonymousreply 57December 18, 2021 3:38 AM

Gay men who engage in this sort of activity have very low self-esteem. No one with even a smidge of pride in themselves would act so heinously. Have some pride in yourselves.

by Anonymousreply 58December 18, 2021 3:42 AM

Do you mean having sex or the fact it's not in bed with the lights out and you don't feel bad about it in the morning? sex

by Anonymousreply 59December 18, 2021 3:47 AM

Alive and well in Australia. Apparently there were about 30 guys in one park the other night where I live.

by Anonymousreply 60December 18, 2021 4:08 AM

Restrooms are FABULOUS Gurl !!!!!

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by Anonymousreply 61December 18, 2021 4:37 AM

Nothing wrong with a little cottaging!

by Anonymousreply 62December 18, 2021 4:43 AM

The Minneapolis Airport men's room

by Anonymousreply 63December 18, 2021 4:48 AM

There always were gays who did not like public cruising and sex. But they were not puritanical about it until the Reagan shifted the entire political spectrum to the right. The apoplectic fits up thread need to be seen in that light.

by Anonymousreply 64December 18, 2021 4:51 AM

They are everywhere I telling you ..... RIP Cynthia

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by Anonymousreply 65December 18, 2021 4:56 AM

So many memories:

Woodland, Cowan and Washington Parks in Seattle...

The Quad and Green Library restrooms at Stanford...

The windmills in San Francisco

Blacks Beach and Mission Bay in San Diego

The American River bank in Sacramento

by Anonymousreply 66December 18, 2021 5:06 AM

Public restrooms are unsanitary and always smell bad. Why the hell would you wanna suck a guys cock after he has pissed in the urinal? Gross!

by Anonymousreply 67December 18, 2021 5:17 AM

The smell of piss and disinfectant still makes me horny.

by Anonymousreply 68December 18, 2021 5:43 AM

The fourth-floor bathrooms in one of the libraries at my uni were notorious.

by Anonymousreply 69December 18, 2021 5:56 AM

Careful. You might get arrested.

by Anonymousreply 70December 18, 2021 11:22 AM

The sauna at the CCRB at the University of Michigan in 1987.

by Anonymousreply 71December 18, 2021 12:00 PM

No objections on moral grounds. But when you really need a restroom and can't find one you know the reason, and know who's to blame.

by Anonymousreply 72December 18, 2021 12:14 PM

The UK even has a cruising scene for te straights. It’s called ‘dogging’ but it’s usually out of the way woodland car parks. It’s usually not an urban thing. Gays can potentially cruise you anywhere in the city. Any public toilet, on the trains, many parks, cemeteries, church yards, you name it.

The pearl clutching is amusing to me. Yes, it’s so much safer and more ‘dignified’ to invite a complete stranger off an app to your home who then has your address and can them geotrack you from that point forward.

by Anonymousreply 73December 18, 2021 12:33 PM

[quote] It gives gay men a horrible reputation, and it is really why they hate us.

And we should give a shit, why?

And, really, you're full of shit on this, anyway.

by Anonymousreply 74December 18, 2021 5:45 PM

[quote] Blacks Beach…in San Diego

Now I’ve got my eye on you!

by Anonymousreply 75December 18, 2021 7:47 PM

When I was much younger in Atlanta the cruising spots were literally on every block, with Piedmont Park being probably the biggest. The bush queens were all over the park every day and night. I have no idea where the cruising spots are these days, but I do believe the forested area across from Dobins AFB out in Marietta is still quite active. It's unbelievable who's been arrested in that spot. Doctors, lawyers, ministers, lots and lots of Air Force guys from Dobbins, and every other type in between.

by Anonymousreply 76December 18, 2021 8:14 PM

The clutchers upthread will never understand. (They never HAD to). But ... who cares? Fuck 'em.

Cruising was an art, an adventure, a thrill ride at times. I've been through it all, in terms of relationships (some moderate in length - and one now surpassing 30 years). I knew one-night stands, the failed attempts at LTR and I know the joy of a successful, satisfying, respectful LTR with a life partner.

But I still have to say ... some of the best sex I EVER had was while cruising. There were a few 'interactions' that still to this day I think, "Holy fuck, that was hot!" 40 or so years later, and I can still remember every second (while I never even knew their names). Not all, of course, but definitely a few that were quite memorable.

So, for me ... Good Times! For the clutchers: I feel sorry for you. You TOTALLY missed out.

by Anonymousreply 77December 20, 2021 11:54 AM

Mid to late 1980s, San Francisco, Lafayette Park. Best place for cruising. Always something available, even group scenes. Especially hot to run into friends who were doing the same. Loved it.

by Anonymousreply 78December 20, 2021 1:09 PM

R77 I love you!

by Anonymousreply 79December 20, 2021 1:46 PM

[quote] but definitely a few that were quite memorable.

Yeah, twenty five years later I still remember sunny fall afternoons in the Cathedral of Learning, surrounded by a dozen other horny twentysomething men, all of us hard, all of us shooting our loads.

No words to describe how hot that was, and still is. How truly beautiful.

by Anonymousreply 80December 20, 2021 1:48 PM

Yes, it must be a thing of beauty to have total strangers ejaculate raw poz loads into your cavernous holes. What if a stranger, God forbid a child, were to wander into the area while you're fornicating? Do you people not understand how truly damaged you are? Any normal person would find that type of behavior disgusting. Not beautiful. Not thrilling.

by Anonymousreply 81December 20, 2021 2:02 PM

Won’t anyone think of the children???!!

by Anonymousreply 82December 20, 2021 3:06 PM

R56 - “I’m also quite ugly so I’d be rejected.”

Not necessarily true. I remember when I was cruising (young, hot and 30 years old) I would hook up with all kinds of men. Part of the excitement for me was fucking types I never spoke to in gay bars in public: old, chubby, minorities, or conventionally unattractive. It was like a dirty little secret.

by Anonymousreply 83December 20, 2021 3:19 PM

R83 = George Michael.

by Anonymousreply 84December 20, 2021 3:25 PM

This thread is repulsive and just reinforces the stereotype of the hyper-promiscuous, sex-addicted, disease-riddled homosexual man. Grow up and/or seek professional help. This is why we will never be fully accepted by normal straight society.

by Anonymousreply 85December 20, 2021 3:33 PM

[Quote] This is why we will never be fully accepted by normal straight society.

And we want this, why.

by Anonymousreply 86December 20, 2021 3:40 PM

R85 - I despise “normal straight society,” therefore I would never seek their approval.

by Anonymousreply 87December 20, 2021 4:12 PM

I hate the constant fear with public hooking up: Will the police arrest me? Will my hook up rob or kill me? Will I get HIV?

by Anonymousreply 88December 20, 2021 4:41 PM

[quote] This is why we will never be fully accepted by normal straight society.

You type homophobic.

I tried “normal,” I didn’t like it.

by Anonymousreply 89December 20, 2021 5:01 PM

In Chicago the 2nd floor men's room in Macy's (née Marshall Field's) was active until a few years ago. It was a delightful throwback!

by Anonymousreply 90December 20, 2021 5:18 PM

Yeah I don’t engage in shit like that

by Anonymousreply 91December 20, 2021 5:20 PM

Did anyone else ever notice that when you have a large group of men having sex together that the pheromones seem to mix to create an almost hypnotic haze? Kind of a subliminal odor/chemical reaction that feels instinctive and ancient ?

by Anonymousreply 92December 20, 2021 5:21 PM

R92 it’s demonic

by Anonymousreply 93December 20, 2021 5:25 PM

R88 That's all part of the fun!

by Anonymousreply 94December 20, 2021 5:28 PM

R93 I'm glad to know at least demons care enough to show up when called

by Anonymousreply 95December 20, 2021 5:53 PM

R35

What the fuck is actually your problem? Are you kidding? Why should people be publically shamed and labelled predators for having sex in a hidden area of a forest, or in a parked car or in an otherwise empty bathroom..?? THEY ARE NOT HURTING ANYONE.

Fine, some are drug addicted exhibitionists/mentally ill types who do it daily and in the open hoping to shock others...THAT is definitely a problem. And taking those people aside and getting them help or banning them from the area, yes, that makes sense.

But the way you talk about it, some gay curious young guy who gets hard at a urinal and nervously touches another dick for the first time in his life only to get caught by a security officer deserves to have his face printed up in the paper and his name on the sex offender registry? What??

Yeah, go fuck yourself. Not everyone is a pervert you moron. Go live in some repressed country with hypocritical politicians quick to jail gays.

by Anonymousreply 96December 20, 2021 6:05 PM

R81 isn't a man (trans doesn't count) and types straight, homophobic gash to her very core. Fuck you, R81, just fuck you and all the bile you've vomited out here. If you are an actual biological male, you are a vile, self-loathing judgemental dick. And a troll.

I'm not a fan of cruising restrooms as they can be very unsanitary, but it's not as though men are shamelessly whipping out their dicks or baring their asses with reckless abandon in front of women, children, or total strangers just outside or even inside. And, virtually all non-restroom cruising takes place in patches of woods or obscured areas where you'd have to go considerably out of your way to get to, and, if an area is even remotely viewable by the public, the cruising takes place at night.

by Anonymousreply 97December 20, 2021 6:31 PM

You park pervs don't think kids wander into the area?!?! If they don't see you engaging in these activities, they certainly find your used condoms (if you use them at all) and discarded bottles of poppers. Seriously, you're ok with kids finding these things? Kinda sorta maybe makes you wander if straight people have been right all along. hmmm, imagine that?!?!

by Anonymousreply 98December 20, 2021 8:26 PM

The world is filled with many wonders. Who knows, finding a used condom might just be the spark that creates a great work of art or cures cancer.

by Anonymousreply 99December 20, 2021 8:28 PM

R98 - I’m ok with that. Kids are curious creatures. I know I was. Let them watch (from a distance) and get an education on human nature.

by Anonymousreply 100December 20, 2021 8:29 PM

R98 they’re narcissistic sex addicts. They don’t care.

by Anonymousreply 101December 20, 2021 8:29 PM

R98, kids aren't going public parks at 2 am unless they're drug dealers

by Anonymousreply 102December 20, 2021 8:31 PM

Kids are just as likely (if not even more so) to find and see all the things you mention from straight guys having been engaged in "public" sex, asshole. Horny heteros pick up whores from street corners and bars and go into parking lots, alleys, and while parked in their cars on the street to blow their loads for all to see, so go fuck yourself R98.

by Anonymousreply 103December 20, 2021 8:38 PM

R98, You seem as though you're utterly repulsed by the idea of strangers pursuing and engaging in sex, no matter what. People who are into consensual sex with strangers in open places out of public view shouldn't be named and shamed for life, equated with rapists and violent predators, or sent to prison.

I don't think you have a dick. Or, if you do, it's fake, and stitched together from the obviously numbed folds of your clit. You hate gay men and it's extremely unlikely that you're a biological male.

Also, R98, you couldn't give rat's ass about what anyone really might see, including children. You're an asexual nub of a human who most likely thinks that sex itself is vile.

You type just like that troll (it wouldn't surprise me if you're the same person) in the recent SJP horse humor thread.

by Anonymousreply 104December 20, 2021 9:23 PM

[quote]Do you people not understand how truly damaged you are?

lol, R81. Talk about damaged!

by Anonymousreply 105December 20, 2021 9:38 PM

I'm really surprised at some of the opinions here. Like...really?

Its like there's no spectrum here. No nuance. Have sex anywhere but in your house with the blinds closed and you deserve to be stoned to death...

???

Cottaging/public hookups have long been a part of gay culture. Its not for everyone but that doesn't mean everyone doing it is on meth or something. Jesus.

by Anonymousreply 106December 20, 2021 11:27 PM

Even if I was young again I wouldn't engage in cruising today. Things are just so much more dangerous today than they were in the 70s & early 80s when it was so much fun to be out on the prowl. I look back on my cruising days with great love. I had a blast. And you would be shocked to know some of the guys I 'had' when cruising. it certainly was not what many would think. I had some of the best looking guys I've ever seen.

by Anonymousreply 107December 20, 2021 11:38 PM

Sex al fresco is the best. Like all good things, it's not for everyone.

by Anonymousreply 108December 20, 2021 11:41 PM

That’s one of the things that excites me about cruising, r107.

You literally never know who is going to show up, and you could be pleasantly shocked, as I have been many, many times.

by Anonymousreply 109December 20, 2021 11:43 PM

To the faux moral prisspots: Kids are watching porn these days, an easy click away. Seeing a blowjob in the woods would be ho hum, other than the fact it was 'real' people having sex

by Anonymousreply 110December 21, 2021 12:03 AM

r110, porn is relatively harmless. I would not want a child to stumble upon two men having sex. It's something that they can't unsee and would traumatize them psychologically for life.

by Anonymousreply 111December 21, 2021 12:07 AM

Hmm- Incest, Fisting porn, Bondage, Rape, Gangbangs, exploitation of 'tiny' girls-- all in close up, heightened, endlessly available. Relatively harmless. Good to know

by Anonymousreply 112December 21, 2021 12:16 AM

r112, to be perfectly frank, most straight people, esp. straight dads, would rather their kids see hetero bondage or gangbang porn scenes than 2 guys fucking in real life.

by Anonymousreply 113December 21, 2021 12:30 AM

[quote]Kids are watching porn these days, an easy click away.

Not to mention how many 'kids today' are on Only Fans or Chaturbate. More likely to stumble upon THOSE places than a wooded Parkway rest area.

by Anonymousreply 114December 21, 2021 12:40 AM

As I posted above, FUCK 'EM!

Their moralizing won't stop behavior that happened 30 - 40 years ago. So go ahead and post your memorable experiences!

Who gives a flying fuck what these little helicoptered shits think?

by Anonymousreply 115December 21, 2021 12:43 AM

I'm a mom, and I don't want my kiddos watching porn, but I don't know what they do when they're at their friends' houses. If they stumbled upon two guys having sex, I would go all bulldog on the guys' asses because men should not be having sex with each other in public. I'm not homophobic, but some acts belong behind closed doors.

by Anonymousreply 116December 21, 2021 12:44 AM

If the thread is so repulsive, R85, then go the fuck elsewhere.

If you have the underlying attitude you're displaying why did you click into this thread at all?

by Anonymousreply 117December 21, 2021 12:46 AM

R78 My first night cruising in Lafayette Park was October 31, 1993--the night River Phoenix died.

It was Halloween and, IIRC, there was a full moon.

Definitely a hot scene. I ventured up there as late as 2002 and there was a really good looking guy obviously looking for head. By that time I was too wary of cops to help him out.

by Anonymousreply 118December 21, 2021 12:52 AM

R85 and R116 is the same homophobic cunt posting as both a man and a woman. Gay sex is vile to her, and it doesn't matter if it's in the middle of Broadway or in the middle of the Black Forest at midnight.

R116, you aren't fooling anyone, you're as homophobic and hateful as a gash can come. WTF are you even doing on this site?

by Anonymousreply 119December 21, 2021 1:13 AM

R78 and R118, I just checked out Lafayette Park on Google street view and it doesn't seem very secluded to me. There are several multi-story apartment buildings that face out towards it and not really any dense vegetation to conceal sex activities. Is the landscape there nowadays much different than back then?

by Anonymousreply 120December 21, 2021 1:25 AM

R120 Most cruising in Lafayette Park was at nighttime, I can't ever recall daytime action. And yes, I think that there was denser vegetation at the time.

by Anonymousreply 121December 21, 2021 2:12 AM

R111

You are a complete retard.

The entire world is not a daycare center for your crotchfruit.

by Anonymousreply 122December 21, 2021 2:20 AM

Wow just wow re the misogyny on this thread. Do you all hate your mothers THAT much? OK so they might have been too clingy, but they only were like that because they sensed you were "different" and needed their protection. It's not their fault. Don't blame them. Misogyny is never the answer, especially since it's the flip side of homophobia, for obvious reasons.

by Anonymousreply 123December 21, 2021 2:37 AM

Cruisingforsexdotcom is still up and running. It will give you all the known gay cruising spots in all major and less cities in the country. It also gives all info about dangers of arrest and any other pertinent info.

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by Anonymousreply 124December 21, 2021 3:17 AM

So far the only place it still seems to be going on is London. Nobody's mentioned a currently active place.

by Anonymousreply 125December 21, 2021 5:39 AM

R125 it happens in most cities.

by Anonymousreply 126December 21, 2021 6:16 AM

Gross and repulsive. So tell us again how all those Aids deaths were Reagan's fault.

by Anonymousreply 127December 21, 2021 6:28 AM

R127

I am seriously disgusted with you and the others here like you.

YOU are gross and repulsive. Take your hate elsewhere.

by Anonymousreply 128December 21, 2021 6:55 AM

CFS might still be up and running, but never updated. I used to check out CFS about 25 years ago - and I recently took a gander at it: and I'm not kidding, some of the comments and 'reports' are the same freakin' ones from 25 years ago.

by Anonymousreply 129December 21, 2021 11:13 AM

R71!!! That is where I had my first sexual encounter with an older man! I hooked up with a lot of people there starting in 1991.

by Anonymousreply 130December 21, 2021 11:14 AM

[quote]Is there anything more boring than HETERONORMATIVE

Yes, gay stereotype of cuing bathrooms for sex.

by Anonymousreply 131December 21, 2021 11:19 AM

Cruising is mostly dead in places where being gay is socially acceptable. In America, just like most of the bars and bath houses, cursing in public restrooms is mostly dead. More so than bars where it's not all about sex. Of course places like Germany, Spain and the UK were being gay is legal including marriage, there's still a lot of closet queens there, not sure why, but there is. Ergo, more cruising and bath houses. It's the casualty of social acceptance.

by Anonymousreply 132December 21, 2021 11:30 AM

Cruising is the relic of the past mostly for Caftan wearing Boomers and Grandpas who wont let go of their youth. Just look at the comments on any site that still lists spots to cruise, always complaints about too many old guys lurking around every corner.

by Anonymousreply 133December 21, 2021 11:30 AM

Some of the critics on here don't seem to have an understanding of what cottaging actually involves.

Most of the time it might just be a quick wank at a urinal or nipping into a cubicle for a blowjob. It's not all about waiting for a small child to walk in before starting up a bareback gangbang and pissing on each other.

by Anonymousreply 134December 21, 2021 11:38 AM

R134 proves my point. I rest my case.

Cottaging? Wank? those are UK terms. And for the record Gramps, no one is assuming some bareback gang bang going on, you watch too many 80's porn videos.

by Anonymousreply 135December 21, 2021 11:56 AM

The only embarrassing times I had when cruising was way back in the late 70s when I encountered one of my parent's close friends and one of my former high school teachers in porn shop back rooms on different occasions. When my parent's friend died he'd been married to his wife for over 60 years.

by Anonymousreply 136December 21, 2021 12:06 PM

C floor Princeton. If you went there, you’ll know.

by Anonymousreply 137December 21, 2021 12:31 PM

Rutgers U. library restrooms were so active in the 70s that they took the stall doors down. That made it even hotter and more popular, since you were able to fully see naked guys sitting on the toilets.

by Anonymousreply 138December 21, 2021 12:34 PM

How’s the Ramble in Central Park these days? Nyc input please.

by Anonymousreply 139December 21, 2021 12:41 PM

All the "cursing is who we are" trolls posting from the 70's.

by Anonymousreply 140December 21, 2021 12:45 PM

Well I never. I always watch my language when I'm out cruising!

by Anonymousreply 141December 21, 2021 1:11 PM

[quote] I would not want a child to stumble upon two men having sex. It's something that they can't unsee and would traumatize them psychologically for life.

"Think of the children!!!" This was included in every media story (newspapers, magazines, TV news) about cruising areas. EVERY SINGLE ONE. How many children are out in the park or in public restrooms at 11 pm???

by Anonymousreply 142December 21, 2021 2:05 PM

R139, I think those days are completely over.

The younger gays' reliance on apps have killed cruising areas, bathhouses, bars, pron shops, etc.

I think, overall, it's a good thing as keeping sex private is an essential part of being accepted as equals in society.

by Anonymousreply 143December 21, 2021 2:07 PM

Equal but different. That's what I would like.

by Anonymousreply 144December 21, 2021 2:10 PM

I do truly miss college cruising. This was in the late 80s/early 90s. The library restroom was always a sure bet. Also college parties after everyone got drunk was full of horny frat boys; if they didn’t find a girl they were open to other action. Many appreciated blowjobs were given.

by Anonymousreply 145December 21, 2021 2:14 PM

I do an open house every Saturday, 2 pm to 2 am or so. Word has spread and it's now one of the most popular cruising and hook-up stops in our area. I have 60 acres and the house is isolated.

I have security and no booze can be brought in, no open drug use and no phones. I sell drinks and beer cheap, but it's mainly hooking up and sex that the guys have on their mind. Some join up and take off, which is fine. The sheriff's office gets a donation for their "support" services if needed, and it's all nice and easy. Only a couple of issues ever. I get some college guys from a state u and some military guys from a base not far away , so there's always a mix of ages. All word of mouth. Gets crowded sometimes.

by Anonymousreply 146December 21, 2021 2:22 PM

So basically you have open orgies at your house. Whatever floats your boat but that's not cursing Dear. It's an invite only sex party.

by Anonymousreply 147December 21, 2021 2:26 PM

my computer

by Anonymousreply 148December 21, 2021 2:28 PM

the entire 3rd floor of the Capitol

by Anonymousreply 149December 21, 2021 2:30 PM

Thats fascinating. What state are you in. Yes, the state of arousal, I know... But.

by Anonymousreply 150December 21, 2021 2:37 PM

No one ever said that DL was lacking for absolute filth, and this thread proves that in spades. Sickening.

by Anonymousreply 151December 21, 2021 2:54 PM

R151 - Lol. I love your trolling. But I know you’re truly a filthy person just like us, and also enjoy getting sprayed with dick juice in public places.

by Anonymousreply 152December 21, 2021 2:58 PM

Supposedly there are some senators and congressmen who have been known to cruise in D.C

by Anonymousreply 153December 21, 2021 7:22 PM

So, would those of you who are shocked and sickened support legislation to severely criminalize - beyond loitering - public gay cruising and sex? Oh, let's say 20 years in prison.

by Anonymousreply 154December 21, 2021 7:39 PM

R153 No, they wait until they're somewhere far from DC, somewhere they'll never be recognized. Somewhere like Minnesota, for example.

by Anonymousreply 155December 21, 2021 7:43 PM

Oh, that’s pure baloney.

by Anonymousreply 156December 21, 2021 8:55 PM

There definitely aren't any senators cruising the Capitol restrooms. Trust me, I've checked

by Anonymousreply 157December 21, 2021 9:36 PM

The office buildings however...

by Anonymousreply 158December 22, 2021 12:24 AM

R120 Yes, at some point the vegetation in Lafayette Park was cut way back, presumably to discourage cruising.

It became a shell of its former self where there were many places that were relatively secluded and out of the sightline of the residents of the buildings around the park.

by Anonymousreply 159December 22, 2021 1:16 AM

[quote] I'm a mom...

Then gtf off of Data Lounge

by Anonymousreply 160December 22, 2021 1:25 AM

and can we settle it once and for all. Your Shit Tzu baby cuddles puppy dog DOES NOT make you a mom either

by Anonymousreply 161December 22, 2021 1:42 AM

R42, 58- get a life you two. Cruising and picking up a hot guy is one of life’s thrills and nothing, I mean nothing makes you feel more alive and in the moment. It can be safe if you know what you’re doing and as long as there are men- it will continue.

As for my pedigree for the dolt who says people who do this in these places are poorly bred or something like that… I’m the WASP son of a multi millionaire family with memberships in all them”right” clubs, homes in the places you’d expect and all that bullshit. My self esteem is just fine: I’ve had 2 long term relationships, hope to have another. I have a good life full of friends and family. and I have a PhD and a long and successful career.. And I can be a great big slut. You don’t have to have all the advantages in life that I have had to do it. As they say, the best things in life are free-

by Anonymousreply 162December 22, 2021 3:31 AM

r162 =

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by Anonymousreply 163December 22, 2021 3:34 AM

[quote] I was recently in Golden gate park in San Francisco and surprised to see the cruising still exists near the windmills . It was my go to place 40 years ago.

OMG, I can't believe that's still a cruising spot. That's in the hinterlands of SF and GG Park.

by Anonymousreply 164December 22, 2021 3:56 AM

I like to play that GOOP song on my Walkman when I'm cruising.

by Anonymousreply 165December 22, 2021 5:02 AM

plenty of cruising still out there...... smart enough to not be on this thread

by Anonymousreply 166December 22, 2021 5:13 AM

Zoomers , do you cruise the streets? Or are you too busy looking at your phone to notice people or people who are cruising you?

by Anonymousreply 167December 22, 2021 7:21 AM

When I was tweaking I would just walk the streets and lift my leg for any old piece of meat at the gas station or park or whatever

by Anonymousreply 168December 22, 2021 7:39 AM

[quote]Zoomers , do you cruise the streets?

No Granps, there's this thing we use, it's called the Internet. We leave that to you nasty old trolls.

by Anonymousreply 169December 22, 2021 7:47 AM

All of Montreal is a cruising area.

by Anonymousreply 170December 22, 2021 8:02 AM

Still four rest areas 40-60 miles from Boston still somewhat active. The closer ones closed long ago.

Went to them all in October 2021, my first time returning since the pandemic began. Some outside action still, at night, in "spurts," but obviously not like years ago.

by Anonymousreply 171December 22, 2021 8:56 AM

The rest stops on the Garden State Parkway. I didn't do anything but I saw a lot of fat hard Jersey dick.

by Anonymousreply 172December 22, 2021 9:20 AM

Thankfully technology has changed and the new generation isn’t cruising in seedy locations and illegally exposing themselves in public. There’s hookup apps and those kinds of resources now. Also everyone in Gen Z has an OnlyFans and is just a thirst trap. They’d shiver at the fact of actual sex in the flesh. Good for them.

by Anonymousreply 173December 22, 2021 1:56 PM

Cruising has a social LIVE aspect that internet activity doesnn't provide. Can't even compare the two. You can meet and enjoy the company of someone you don't have sex with while cruising...

by Anonymousreply 174December 22, 2021 2:12 PM

Let me try to bring some perspective for you young ‘uns.

The next time you’re on Grindr, or social media, or the List sites, or where ever you are looking to hook up, look around at all the people around you. From 5 feet to 15 miles away, each and every one of those people would have been cruising years ago. Do you know why? Because that, along with gay bars, was the only outlet. Those married and/or closeted guys who could not afford to have their neighbor, wife, co-worker, friend, etc. see their car parked outside of a gay bar or porn theatre would go to the cruisy parks, where if anyone else was there at that time of night, it was for the same reason, so there was no concern.

Those same people today are not on the apps for similar reasons, so they still cruise.

I don’t get why people would think anyone would be “out in the open” having sex, gay or straight. Obviously that activity is hidden, both from anyone that can see you and sometimes even from fellow cruisers. I guarantee if you walked into a cruisy bathroom and weren’t actively looking, you’d never know anything was ever going on. If there’s activity and the door opens, do you really think we continue?

by Anonymousreply 175December 22, 2021 2:45 PM

Some of you people must put your nose up whenever you pass a motel.

by Anonymousreply 176December 22, 2021 2:47 PM

R170

How so?

by Anonymousreply 177December 22, 2021 2:48 PM

You need to take a bleach bath after reading this thread. Is it any wonder we don't want our children around you?

by Anonymousreply 178December 22, 2021 2:55 PM

R178

Stop reading then..?

Weirdo.

by Anonymousreply 179December 22, 2021 3:14 PM

Being shocked by cruising and outdoor sex is a middle class people thing.

by Anonymousreply 180December 22, 2021 3:19 PM

"Being shocked by cruising and outdoor sex is a morally upright people thing."

There, fixed it for you. Have a blessed day!

by Anonymousreply 181December 22, 2021 4:13 PM

[R139]: It seems the Ramble is no longer of much note for cruising. Fencing around forested areas discourages entry. The two meadow areas, where many used to sunbathe, are now pretty much shaded, so that they’re no longer covered with lush grass. The two bare rocks, where men used to sunbathe, sometimes nude, are now shaded by taller trees. The whole area is now overgrown with foliage, and not many people, making it more inviting to muggers.

I wouldn’t even recommend it for casual strolling.

by Anonymousreply 182December 22, 2021 4:15 PM

I will give it up to the Elder gays for educating me on this topic.

When you THINK about it, hooking up/sex with random strangers is a risky venture NO MATTER the context.

We frequently discuss news articles on here about people preying on gay men thru Grindr, to meet up and then beat the living shit out of them. Yet, the Grindr generation is oblivious because it has yet to happen to them. A lot of strangers are also LYING about their age/HIV/STI status on Grindr as well. A lot of you really feel comfortable inviting people into your home when you’re not sure if their photo is real?? Hell, I’ve done it because cock is cock, but I am not ignorant to the risk.

To the fraus screaming “THINK OF THE CHILDREN” when I was a little gayling, I used to ALWAYS find my older brother’s porn tapes AND he used to hook up in my room. Did my Mom say a peep? Oh, but when I came out…..

Kids will stumble onto sex when they’re ready. Cruising is something done after dark/in the shadows. Nobody is laying a blanket in the middle of 5th Ave and busting it open right there. If you’re kids are in the park after dark, it sounds like YOUR problem. And at least you can see the stranger’s face and you know why they’re there. Minimal threat with gay bashing, same deal with Bathhouses.

180+ replies in this thread and virtually NO mention of NYC locations. *sigh* I think I was born in the wrong generation….

by Anonymousreply 183December 22, 2021 4:35 PM

[quote] Is it any wonder we don't want our children around you?

Wow.

You sound sane.

by Anonymousreply 184December 22, 2021 4:43 PM

^That's rich coming from the Central Park cum dump.

by Anonymousreply 185December 22, 2021 4:48 PM

I can only hope some of the posters here one day find themselves out and about with an over-full bladder but no place to go, many cities no longer providing such facilities because they attract too many men without a full bladder.

As you sow, so shall you reap.

by Anonymousreply 186December 22, 2021 6:13 PM

R181 smh 🤦‍♂

by Anonymousreply 187December 22, 2021 6:44 PM

Cursing for strangers at night in a dark park? What could go wrong?

Jeffrey Dahmer,

John Wayne Gacy,

Randy Kraft,

William Bonin,

Colin Ireland,

Dennis Nilsen,

Gary Ray Bowles,

Stephen Port,

Bruce McArthur

by Anonymousreply 188December 22, 2021 6:50 PM

So much safer to pick them up on Grindr.

🙄

by Anonymousreply 189December 22, 2021 6:54 PM

R65 - Cynthia Manley is dead?

I had no idea.

: (

by Anonymousreply 190December 22, 2021 6:55 PM

R188 anyone could also list the countless amount of women that have been killed or raped in their own homes by their partners / husbands, I’m guessing that would far outnumber your little list.

by Anonymousreply 191December 22, 2021 6:55 PM

R189, at least you know you won't get arrested by using grindr. People have been arrested for park sex and bathroom cruising. Larry Craig lost his senate seat and all he did was tap his feet, he didn't even score

by Anonymousreply 192December 22, 2021 6:57 PM

[quote]So much safer to pick them up on Grindr.

Except none of them picked up their kills on Grinder. It leaves a digital paper trail.

by Anonymousreply 193December 22, 2021 6:58 PM

[quote] I don't care if SOME straight people do it too. That doesn't mean that it's not disgusting and lewd. People who engage in these types of perverted activities should be arrested and their names advertised in the local paper. I'm generally not one to judge, but your reap what you sow.

I hope to God you're not a gay man because, if you are, there will be a very special place in Hell waiting for you.

by Anonymousreply 194December 22, 2021 6:58 PM

A little head in the park...it happens.

by Anonymousreply 195December 22, 2021 7:01 PM

[quote] Except none of them picked up their kills on Grinder.

They didn’t pick them up in cruising parks either.

by Anonymousreply 196December 22, 2021 7:04 PM

They picked them up at crusy locations, didn't have to be a literal park Gradpa.

by Anonymousreply 197December 22, 2021 7:09 PM

In addition to your atrocious grasp of English, you also have no idea what you’re talking about in these cases either.

by Anonymousreply 198December 22, 2021 7:13 PM

It's not always disgusting, lewd, depraved or immoral. Sometimes it just happens - to the best of us godfearing, upright, normal gays and other normal people.

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by Anonymousreply 199December 22, 2021 7:15 PM

What's a crusy Gradpa?

by Anonymousreply 200December 22, 2021 7:17 PM

Gradpa is an ode mad widda code.

by Anonymousreply 201December 22, 2021 7:20 PM

Gramps. There fixed it.

by Anonymousreply 202December 22, 2021 7:26 PM

My drag name is Crusty Magda.

by Anonymousreply 203December 22, 2021 7:28 PM

Sunday...in my blue crisply pressed and tight levis.

On the brown, dirty condom-strewn grass

Let me cum

As he fingers my bum,

Cruising on a Sunday,,,

by Anonymousreply 204December 22, 2021 7:55 PM

I can't tell you how disgusting I find this thread. I feel the need to douse my computer in bleach. Why are threads like this allowed on what should be a child-safe and family-friendly board?

by Anonymousreply 205December 22, 2021 8:19 PM

Child-safe and family friendly, the DL? I can't tell you how laughable I find your comment.

by Anonymousreply 206December 22, 2021 8:33 PM

Nursing homes.

by Anonymousreply 207December 22, 2021 8:35 PM

R206 I think he was being sarcastic.

by Anonymousreply 208December 22, 2021 8:44 PM

I hate the danger of cruising spot (and chance of arrest). Yes, many thrive on that.

That’s why I enjoyed bathhouses way more.

by Anonymousreply 209December 22, 2021 9:18 PM

Have you ever been to Montreal, R177? All the good looking men are gay. And there's a lot of good looking men in Montreal, it's probably one of the hottest cities in the world.

by Anonymousreply 210December 22, 2021 9:53 PM

Is Trudeau allowing us back up there yet?

by Anonymousreply 211December 22, 2021 10:23 PM

The young homos of today have been conditioned mainly by AIDS to be terrified of impromptu sex action with someone you don't know. We did have those fears and we weren't uptight about sex in the 70s. We were a big part of the sexual revolution. We wanted it, we found it, and we got it when the gettin' was good. Not one iota of remorse or shame for all the incredibly hot action we had. We're just sad you young'uns are so uptight about it. But, don't besmirch what you never experienced yourselves. Hearing about it makes it sound a lot more trashy than it was.

by Anonymousreply 212December 22, 2021 10:27 PM

R212, plenty of young guys have sex with strangers on grindr. You need to get out more.

And as for the idea that no one felt any shame in the 70s.....tell that to all the guys who were deeply closeted and lived in fear. Homosexuality was still considered a mental illness in the 70s. Guys still went to therapists to try to be "cured"

by Anonymousreply 213December 22, 2021 10:37 PM

Mais bien sûr, R211!

by Anonymousreply 214December 22, 2021 10:40 PM

Oh, no, r214! Now’s no time to have a stroke. You didn’t answer my question yet!

by Anonymousreply 215December 22, 2021 10:51 PM

To all those posters who are wagging their fingers, reaching for their smelling salts, or whipping up a moral panic, you should know your history.

Cruising in public restrooms -- tearoom sex -- or cottaging was often the only outlet for gay men prior to greater social acceptance of us. Societal scorn and condemnation forced gay men to engage in this.

Yes, I get it. I don't like going into the sauna of my gym (because I liked to do so after a hard workout pre-Covid) and have a guy cruise me and want to do it right there. It's a form of harassment.

But I do like to cruise public spaces ( hotel bars in particular), pick up a guy, then go back my or his room, and get it on.

I'm 58. I remember when I was in college in the early 80s, there was a particular section of a beach where I spent my summers that was known as a gay cruising spot after dark. There was a particular thrill about the place. But I also knew that the cops would more likely harass you, arrest you, or do worse to you than the straight couples they discovered making out or more. They would be told to cut it out and little more.

by Anonymousreply 216December 22, 2021 11:12 PM

[quote] plenty of young guys have sex with strangers on grindr.

You clearly don't know much about cruising. The excitement comes from the hunt. The furtive sex is the cherry on top. There's nowhere near the same level of excitement looking for dick on Grindr.

by Anonymousreply 217December 22, 2021 11:51 PM

That is so true. Sometimes the hunt is far more thrilling than the catch.

by Anonymousreply 218December 22, 2021 11:52 PM

R217, I didn't comment on whether it was exciting or not. I was responding to the comment that "younguns" don't ever have sex with strangers.

It's funny how some old people think they're experts on "young people today"

by Anonymousreply 219December 22, 2021 11:55 PM

R219 exactly where did I say young people today don't have sex with strangers? That's right, I didn't. I basically said young people don't cruise for it the way we did back in the day. A cell phone app is not cruising. Cruising involves a long hunt and then (hopefully) a quick down & dirty act of passion. Grindr is nothing like that.

by Anonymousreply 220December 23, 2021 12:02 AM

Um, there's not much of a hunt involved if you are going to a cruising ground where everyone is there to have anonymous sex. Unless you weigh 300 pounds, you probably won't get turned down. And in the first sentence of your statement you flat-out said that "younguns" are terrified of sex with people they don't know because of AIDS. So, yes, you did say it

by Anonymousreply 221December 23, 2021 12:06 AM

Throw away all those Truvada pills kids! You have no fear in hooking up with guys you don't know on Grindr.

That's the problem with sex today. Too many accouterments required.

by Anonymousreply 222December 23, 2021 12:27 AM

The LA River.

by Anonymousreply 223December 23, 2021 12:34 AM

You mean that concrete ditch with the trickle running through it?

by Anonymousreply 224December 23, 2021 12:35 AM

R224, yes. She is our namesake river and we are very proud of her.

by Anonymousreply 225December 23, 2021 12:36 AM

I did whitewater rafting on the LA river once. On a skateboard.

by Anonymousreply 226December 23, 2021 12:48 AM

[quote]Um, there's not much of a hunt involved if you are going to a cruising ground where everyone is there to have anonymous sex. Unless you weigh 300 pounds, you probably won't get turned down.

Um, what are you talking about, silly young person? Back in the day, the best looking, sexiest guys at cruising spots would not have sex with just anyone, even if the other person was young and normal weight. Rejection was part of cruising in bathhouses, parks, public washrooms, etc.

by Anonymousreply 227December 23, 2021 1:31 AM

What are you talking about silly old person? Guys who troll bathhouses aren't known for their pickiness.

by Anonymousreply 228December 23, 2021 1:34 AM

I assume the Meat Rack on Fire Island is still busy.

by Anonymousreply 229December 23, 2021 3:22 AM

It's funny that someone who was either too young or hadn't even been born when we were cruising in the 70s & 80s seems to know everything about it.

by Anonymousreply 230December 23, 2021 1:33 PM

A mouth is a mouth.

by Anonymousreply 231December 23, 2021 2:11 PM

The whole idea is sick disgusting and illegal. I’m glad technology has afforded better ways of doing the “deed”.

by Anonymousreply 232December 23, 2021 3:50 PM

You can't smell 'em on Grindr.

by Anonymousreply 233December 23, 2021 3:52 PM

Are there any in Indiana? I ask because I'd like to reach out to young men in need of my ministry.

by Anonymousreply 234December 23, 2021 3:59 PM

I like cruising, but it's kind of useless now. I'm 63, trim, but no one is interested.

by Anonymousreply 235December 23, 2021 4:05 PM

R235, go cruising at night. Wear a wide brim hat. Keep your head down.

by Anonymousreply 236December 23, 2021 4:19 PM

[quote] It's funny that someone who was either too young or hadn't even been born when we were cruising in the 70s & 80s seems to know everything about it.

It’s not that they know everything about it, they were taught/“empowered” that their opinion mattered for something.

And they have lots of opinions. On everything. Including shit that they’ve never done.

by Anonymousreply 237December 23, 2021 4:50 PM

Young gays today for the most part aren't as brave as we were back in the day. I can't blame them though. We didn't have the internet or smart phones to do all the work for us. Modern technology has taken most of the fun out of being young, horny, and on the prowl for some strange.

I once had a very hot encounter with a super hot uniformed NYC cop in the old Glory Hole Club on 11th Ave., back in the 80s. He kept begging me to "tickle my balls while you're sucking and it'll make me cum". I did and he did, and then he smiled, zipped up and went on his way. Or the night Jack Wrangler and I shared some mega hot passion in a stall at the old Adonis Theater. Nope, these youngsters today know nothing.

by Anonymousreply 238December 23, 2021 5:28 PM

R235 On the other hand, it's kind of nice to be able to go out for a stroll in a public park at 11pm and not get pestered.

by Anonymousreply 239December 23, 2021 5:54 PM

Cluck cluck cluck said the chickens

by Anonymousreply 240December 23, 2021 6:17 PM

[quote]Chicago is a very slutty city.

I see your Chicago, and raise you New Orleans. :-|

by Anonymousreply 241December 23, 2021 6:22 PM

Personally, I find this thread and the subject matter absolutely vulgar. I know this type of sexual behavior goes on in one of the parks in the next town over, but I certainly don't enjoy reading about it. My DH takes a shortcut through that park at night on his late nights from work after he gets off the train, and has observed this type of behavior. He is not as repulsed by it as I am. He has a live and let live attitude, but I find this type of anonymous homosexual sex concerning, and I've pleaded with him to take the slightly longer way. He just laughs it off.

by Anonymousreply 242December 23, 2021 6:29 PM

[quote]My DH takes a shortcut through that park at night on his late nights from work after he gets off the train, and has observed this type of behavior. He is not as repulsed by it as I am. He has a live and let live attitude

🤣 Anyone else up to giving her the bad news?

by Anonymousreply 243December 23, 2021 6:39 PM

😁👍 Nah, we'll let her continue to live in her own little world.

by Anonymousreply 244December 23, 2021 6:44 PM

R238 must be one of those eldergays who think 40-year-old millennials are young. Damn, how decrepit do you have to be to think middle-aged people are kids?

by Anonymousreply 245December 23, 2021 7:00 PM

Yup love the sinner but hate the sin. Isn't it great Jesus forgives those sins?

by Anonymousreply 246December 23, 2021 7:04 PM

Cram it, churchy.

by Anonymousreply 247December 24, 2021 1:01 AM

Was Anita Bryant right after all?

by Anonymousreply 248December 24, 2021 1:05 AM

I'm repulsed too but I enjoy it and then go to confession and I'm cleansed. Repeat. I'm made of flesh and I am weak but the Good Lord always forgives. He gives me strength to carry on.

by Anonymousreply 249December 24, 2021 1:14 AM

Fulfilling your wicket, carnal desires in public parks! Fornicating in the bushes! Judgment Day is going to be very interesting for all of you. Making the popcorn as we speak. Have a blessed day!

by Anonymousreply 250December 24, 2021 2:53 AM

To get us back to the original question and away from scolds...

Dick Dock.

Never been. Everybody here knows everything and everyone's business.

But it's still on my bucket list. At least as an observer.

by Anonymousreply 251December 24, 2021 2:55 AM

You won’t achieve enlightenment if you go chasing after hedonistic desires of the flesh.

by Anonymousreply 252December 24, 2021 5:42 AM

Agreed, r252. Very refreshing to hear that on this board. Gives me hope.

by Anonymousreply 253December 24, 2021 6:14 AM

[quote] Judgment Day is going to be very interesting for all of you

Judgement from who? That mythological sky fairy you churchy cross backs are always on about? No hon, what's going to be interesting is when you draw your last breath and never reach the pearly gates because they don't exist. Hopefully our life force does continue on in some form so you can finally reach your own enlightenment on all the lies you've been told all your life.

by Anonymousreply 254December 25, 2021 12:58 AM

Being sex addicted or self destructive isn't good...but pushing your boundaries, experiencing a thrill and being spontaneous can be.

In other times, orgies and casual sex and outdoor sex were not as taboo. Opening yourself up to new experiences is a good thing.

by Anonymousreply 255December 25, 2021 3:14 PM

Gross gross gross!

by Anonymousreply 256December 28, 2021 1:24 PM

[Quote] I assume the Meat Rack on Fire Island is still busy.

From the reports I get, it’s not really a thing anymore.

by Anonymousreply 257December 28, 2021 1:34 PM

Where in PTown is the dick dock exactly???

by Anonymousreply 258December 28, 2021 1:34 PM

Anyone from LA? Remember the cruising spot at the casting pond in the Arroyo Seco in Pasadena? I was too young at the time but would bring my dog down there for walks.

by Anonymousreply 259December 28, 2021 1:42 PM

R258

Underneath - literally - The Boatslip, a bar and hotel complex. Known for its Happy Hour. And the Dick Dock.

by Anonymousreply 260December 28, 2021 1:54 PM

R260, so you go around the Boatslip to the beach side and hang out underneath?

by Anonymousreply 261December 28, 2021 2:41 PM

[quote] Fulfilling your wicket, carnal desires in public parks!

That's how you get a 'sticky wicket', no?

by Anonymousreply 262December 28, 2021 3:13 PM

I've gotten my jollies in some quite unusual locations in my time. But it was always in private with no chance of anyone being around who wouldn't want to see what was going on. Well unless they were there for the same reason. But one place I never ever even considered doing it was anywhere other people could possibly happen upon us innocently, especially out of doors. In my day we called the guys who were into that "bush queens".

by Anonymousreply 263December 28, 2021 3:19 PM

Sort of an oxymoron.

by Anonymousreply 264December 28, 2021 4:07 PM

[quote] Opening yourself up to new experiences

I see what you did there!

by Anonymousreply 265December 28, 2021 4:08 PM

R261

Yes.

"... the D*ck Dock is located underneath the pool terrace of The Boatslip Resort. You can access the beach down some steps to the right of The Boatslip, and the action will be to your left, under the boardwalk."

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by Anonymousreply 266December 28, 2021 5:17 PM

Am I the only person who finds this sort of deviant behavior shockingly appalling? I hate to break it you, but fornicating like animals won't exactly entitle you to the keys to HIS kingdom. I'm just trying to wrap my mind around why you would trade eternity in heaven for a few minutes of satisfying your lustful, wanton (and wicked) desires. I feel sorry for you, truly I do. You have been sold a bunch of goods by the gay community that this type of behavior is normal. You think they're your friends, but they are wicked. The Bible talks in length about evil disguised as good. It's not too late to repent. Have a very blessed day.

by Anonymousreply 267December 28, 2021 6:34 PM

Is r267 a parody post?

by Anonymousreply 268December 28, 2021 6:44 PM

I believe the mayor (or some such other Politico) of Provincetown spends a lot of time at the DickDock look for jock cock

by Anonymousreply 269December 28, 2021 6:47 PM

For someone who hates the thread that much, claims to be a mother with “kiddos,” thinks she needs to take a bleach shower and then in later posts her computer should be doused in bleach, she sure is spending a fuck ton of time on this thread.

Trolldar this cunt, you’ll see.

By the way, cunt, you and your gash don’t belong here.

by Anonymousreply 270December 28, 2021 7:30 PM

I hate to break it to you, R267, but God and Heaven don't exist.

by Anonymousreply 271December 28, 2021 7:33 PM

And you know this how, heathen at r271? You'll see. You'll ALL see.

by Anonymousreply 272December 28, 2021 7:40 PM

R267/R272 is one of those people who've let religion drive them completely mad.

by Anonymousreply 273December 28, 2021 8:49 PM

There is a park near the 101/405 where I used to meet with a trainer. Very out of the way with a huge parking lot. Over time I realized it was a cruising ground. I would watch guys walking back into the wooded area. Sometimes guys would try to make eye contact with me in the parking lot. i eventually walked back there just to see what it was like and there were empty condom wrappers, tissues, etc. on ground.

In the 20 or so sessions I never saw someone remotely fuckable go back there. It was all men in their 60s-70s who did not remotely take care of themselves. Just kind of sad to watch.

by Anonymousreply 274December 28, 2021 9:05 PM

I spent 3 years semi permanently in LA back in the mid 80s. I only went to the Griffith Park Observatory one time. But, on the drive up there through the park I kept seeing men (never any females) walking around in the bushes, crossing the roadway going off into more bushes. I don't remember seeing any trails. I wondered back then, but never asked, if those were guys cruising for some dick.

by Anonymousreply 275December 28, 2021 9:28 PM

R269 = DL fave Andrew "Milky Loads" Sullivan, mayor of the Dick Dock.

by Anonymousreply 276December 28, 2021 10:04 PM

[quote]There is a park near the 101/405 .....

And in what city is the 101/405?

by Anonymousreply 277December 28, 2021 10:10 PM

The crackpot asshole at R267 is one of reasons the USA is so fucked up today. He'll believe a book written at least 50 years after the events described, filled with contradictions and inconsistencies, written by semi-literate morons who believed the earth was flat but refuses to accept or believe anything that modern science teaches.

by Anonymousreply 278December 28, 2021 10:12 PM

I’m just down the road from the Dick Dock as I type. I’ve always been too shy to enjoy its delights and now that I’ve watched that AHS I’d be too scared.

by Anonymousreply 279December 28, 2021 10:19 PM

R278 Better not to engage these clowns. Just FF them.

I wish there were a firey Hell for people like them.

by Anonymousreply 280December 28, 2021 11:57 PM

Almost 300 posts and so far all this talk be like, "back in the 70's and 80's I used to go to_____________is it still happening"?

by Anonymousreply 281December 29, 2021 12:07 AM

R279

We can grab a few drinks and go together. To observe.

by Anonymousreply 282December 29, 2021 12:12 AM

One time I was in the Atlanta Hartsfield airport and walked into the men's room, and in the long line of urinals there was a guy who was obviously jacking off right at the urinal. You could tell by his arm motion. He was pretty hot too. He wasn't looking around or trying to cruise, just trying to get himself off. It was a bit shocking but it seemed like a natural thing. I think a couple of other guys noticed him too, but nobody said or did anything.

by Anonymousreply 283December 29, 2021 12:17 AM

The men's restrooms in the Atlanta airport are the only public loos I've ever been in where the female cleaning staff just walk in unannounced and start cleaning while men are standing at the urinals pissing.

by Anonymousreply 284December 29, 2021 12:31 AM

After reading MANY of the earlier comments, R267 is clearly not the “only one who thinks” the way they do. Yes, there’s a lot of idiotic, shorn-scrotum sensitive and highly triggered prisspots out there. But then again, I didn’t trolldar this thread, or any other for that matter.

But I do want to add that I don’t believe the “Mayor of PTown” and de facto, the Dick Dock is Milky Loads Sullivan. He’s not even the most notable resident, as that should go to Mr. Waters, he of the perfect pencil mustache that once saw walking towards me, just above the dunes at the beach there.

No, the Town Manager of Provincetown is the equally DL-worthy Alex Morse. The ex-Mayor of Amherst who barely escaped the snares of gay-on-gay political espionage in the last MA congressional race.

And dammit, I’d be lying if I said I didn’t hope to see/nail him on my next visit there!

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by Anonymousreply 285December 29, 2021 12:41 AM

For this you know, that no fornicator, unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and God.

Ephesians 5:5

by Anonymousreply 286December 29, 2021 12:41 AM

Oh do please shut the fuck up. Don't you have a cross you need to get nailed to or something?

by Anonymousreply 287December 29, 2021 12:52 AM

R286 is Madison Cawthorne, jacking off while reading this thread.

by Anonymousreply 288December 29, 2021 12:53 AM

R286 please take your blessed day, scriptures and in all Christina love and kindness, shove themm up your ass.

Then devoutly ask your skyfairylord to felch them out of you a d spit them on your face

by Anonymousreply 289December 29, 2021 12:54 AM

Yes, the Bible says all kinds of wild and wacky things, R286. It's your choice whether you believe in that stuff.

by Anonymousreply 290December 29, 2021 1:35 AM

Yes, the Bible is such a lovely book. Here are some very revealing verses for R286. I wonder if she'll pray on them.

1. God himself will kill tens of thousands if it pleases him: 1st Samuel 6:19 in the King James Version: “And he smote the men of Beth-shemesh, because they had looked into the ark of the LORD, even he smote of the people fifty thousand and threescore and ten men (50,070)”.

2. You can kill a woman if she seizes a man's private parts without his permission: Deuteronomy 25:11-1: If two men are fighting and the wife of one of them comes to rescue her husband from his assailant, and she reaches out and seizes him by his private parts, you shall cut off her hand. Show her no pity.

3. Perversity and human trafficking condoned: "Slaves, be subject to your masters with all reverence, not only to those who are good and equitable but also to those who are perverse." (1 Peter 2:18)

4. Sex slavery condoned: "When a man sells his daughter as a slave, she will not be freed at the end of six years as the men are. If she does not please the man who bought her, he may allow her to be bought back again." Exodus 21: 7-8

5. Divorce akin to debauchery: "Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth adultery." (Luke 16:18)

6. Cannibalism: "And the king said unto her, What aileth thee? And she answered, This woman said unto me, Give thy son, that we may eat him to day, and we will eat my son to morrow. So we boiled my son, and did eat him: and I said unto her on the next day, Give thy son, that we may eat him: and she hath hid her son...." (II Kings 6:28-29)

7. If your genitals have been damaged, stay out of church: "He that is wounded in the stones, or hath his privy member cut off, shall not enter into the congregation of the Lord."(Deuteronomy 23:1)

by Anonymousreply 291December 29, 2021 1:43 AM

And 7 more.

8. Incest and getting drunk with dad is no problem if the world is running thin on suitable DNA donors: And the elder said to the younger Our father is old, and there is no man left on the earth, to come in unto us after the manner of the whole earth. Come, let us make him drunk with wine, and let us lie with him, that we may preserve seed of our father. And they made their father drink wine that night: and the elder went in and lay with her father: but he perceived not neither when his daughter lay down, nor when she rose up. And the next day the elder said to the younger: Behold I lay last night with my father, let us make him drink wine also to night, and thou shalt lie with him, that we may save seed of our father. They made their father drink wine that night also, and the younger daughter went in, and lay with him: and neither then did he perceive when she lay down, nor when she rose up. So the two daughters of Lot were with child by their father. [Genesis 19:31-36]

9. Looking at a woman with desire is akin to adultery: "But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart." (Matthew 5:28)

10. But incestuous rape is cool: And when she had presented him the meat, he took hold of her, and said: Come lie with me, my sister. She answered him: Do not so, my brother, do not force me: for no such thing must be done in Israel. Do not thou this folly. [II Kings 13:8-12] But he would not hearken to her prayers, but being stronger overpowered her and lay with her. [II Kings 13:14]

11. Pray in private, and if you do so in church, do so quietly: Matt 6:5 "And when you pray, do not be like the hypocrites, for they love to pray standing in the synagogues and on the street corners to be seen by others." 12. If you offend God he will kill you: "And Er, Judah's firstborn, was wicked in the sight of the LORD; and the LORD slew him. And Judah said unto Onan, Go in unto thy brother's wife, and marry her, and raise up seed to thy brother. And Onan knew that the seed should not be his; and it came to pass, when he went in unto his brother's wife, that he spilled it on the ground, lest that he should give seed to his brother. And the thing which he did displeased the LORD: wherefore he slew him also." (Genesis 38:7-10)

13. God smites women, children and often animals with equal gusto, he seems to equal evil and wrong doing by association, rather than by being guilty of the personal, individual act: "Behold with a great plague will the LORD smite thy people and thy children, and thy wives, and all thy goods: And thou shalt have great sickness by disease of thy bowels, until thy bowels fall out by reason of the sickness day by day." (II Chronicles 21:14-15)

14. Rev 21: 8 "liars--their place will be in the fiery lake of burning sulfur. This is the second death." Eternal damnation for lying? In South Africa murderers and rapists often get released for good behaviur, lying is politics.

by Anonymousreply 292December 29, 2021 1:43 AM

Unfortunately there aren't any cruising places where I live, because I'm the only gay in the village.

by Anonymousreply 293December 29, 2021 2:10 AM

[quote] 9. Looking at a woman with desire is akin to adultery: "But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart." (Matthew 5:28)

Nothing in there about looking upon men with lust.

by Anonymousreply 294December 29, 2021 2:30 AM

Oh there are plenty of passages that speak to men's lust. PLENTY. And fair warning, none of them have anything positive to say on the subject, especially those that speak to men's lust for other men. Sorry to break it to you.

by Anonymousreply 295December 29, 2021 6:42 AM

There is nothing in the Bible attributed directly to Jesus about homosexuality. Everything about the subject was written by people who had one thing in mind, and that was to scare as many people as possible into believing every word that came from their mouths and doing what they were told to do, which most of all included financially supporting religion.

The Bible is nothing more than a book of intimidation tactics. It's full of lies, mythology, and things that if done today would end you up in prison.

by Anonymousreply 296December 29, 2021 1:55 PM

Let's not let Bible Bitch derail this thread. Let them readeth the shit of the bull which they so enjoy.

Oh who are we kidding - they can't read.

Anyway, back to the point. There have been some washrooms ideal for cruising in my area, and I've seen some guys clearly doing so...but they seem to get cracked down on . One out of the way mall bathroom got locked up, which was a shame because it seemed well designed for cruising. It makes you wonder if the security folks caught guys being really reckless....or if cops were called.

I imagine it must be awkward trying to handle having a popular restroom in your establishment. Do some relish arresting people....do others just lock the doors after the cruisers leave?

I'd like to think some security teams have some compassion/common sense and don't want to drag gay/curious guys through the mud....but maybe they relish it. I don't know.

Any former security types able to chime in on how they handled a cruisy bathroom? Look other way? Call the cops only on the most frequent offenders? Is there a generally accepted strategy taught to most security teams?

I saw a security team patrol a bathroom at the mall over Xmas. Wondered if that was more about catching shoplifters or cruisers....

by Anonymousreply 297December 29, 2021 2:14 PM

[quote] Let them readeth the shit of the bull which they so enjoy.

😂😂

by Anonymousreply 298December 29, 2021 2:16 PM

I've read that homosexual school teachers frequent parks to engage in illicit sexual behavior. It's one thing, say, for a plumber to satisfy his lustful desires in a public park, but a teacher? They should be fired immediately and never be allowed within 100 feet of children ever again. The thought of them influencing and guiding our children sickens my stomach. Would you really be ok with that?

by Anonymousreply 299December 29, 2021 2:51 PM

[quote] I've read that homosexual school teachers frequent parks to engage in illicit sexual behavior.

That's utter bullshit.

One person making that grave error in judgement does not make "all" gay school teachers.

Go ram a rusty tetanus covered dildo into your festering gash

by Anonymousreply 300December 29, 2021 2:59 PM

R297 Security guards usually show up at a store or mall when there's been recent complaints or a lot of activity. It never seems to have any rhyme or reason.

Though sometimes outsiders have influenced people paying attention to cruising.

If there's a politician that wants to make a point about "cleaning up" things, going after cruising has historically been considered, well, low lying fruit *pun not intended*.

Same for local news stations. For years, local stations would often do very one sided reports on cruising in that very hyped, IT'S UNDER YOUR SINK AND IT WILL KILLLLLLLLL YOUUUUUUU sort of style they do. And of course if one or two stations do it, they trade notes and dozens across country would take their turn.

by Anonymousreply 301December 29, 2021 3:06 PM

I can’t believe that Jesus never sucked a few cocks in his time, or even took a bite of the pillow whilst a pilgrim fucked him, I’m sure they were at it like rabbits back then as they had fuck all else to do. I love that the lunatic ‘cruising is disgusting’ troll is still on this thread with 300 posts, he is probably wanking his micro penis whilst fantasising about what he missed.

by Anonymousreply 302December 29, 2021 3:29 PM

[quote] I've read that homosexual school teachers frequent parks to engage in illicit sexual behavior.

Well let's also talk about all the ministers that do the same thing, many getting arrested every year, then. Do you want them preaching the word of God? Or do you not want to discuss that?

by Anonymousreply 303December 29, 2021 3:39 PM

One thing I've learned in my almost 69 years on earth is that you can not judge a man (or a woman) based on his private sexual tastes or desires, as long as they're not causing physical harm to anyone. If you do then you'll have few to no friends, doctors, dentists, attorneys, plumbers, electricians, or any other type of person to associate with.

by Anonymousreply 304December 29, 2021 3:42 PM

r303, if a minister is caught engaging in that type of behavior, then he too shall be removed from his pulpit, lest he exert influence over our children. God gave people the freedom to choose good or evil. Whatever a person does is his own business, but he must accept personal responsibility for following a wicked path and deal with the consequences of his immoral actions. Until he repents and decides to follow the path of righteousness, this person has no place being anywhere near our children. Our children are precious and oftentimes easily influenced, and I will not allow them to fall prey to sinful flesh peddlers.

by Anonymousreply 305December 29, 2021 4:12 PM

R297 As I recall, reports about the Larry Craig arrest had a lot of detail about police m.o. He wasn't caught with another gentleman but stung by police bait.

by Anonymousreply 306December 29, 2021 4:52 PM

R295 Oh there are plenty of passages that speak to men's lust. PLENTY. And fair warning, none of them have anything positive to say on the subject, especially those that speak to men's lust for other men. Sorry to break it to you.

I was talking about the passage quoted by the poster, idiot.

by Anonymousreply 307December 29, 2021 5:33 PM

^^^And my reply was tongue in cheek, anyway. Sorry you're so dull.

by Anonymousreply 308December 29, 2021 5:35 PM

Fuck off already. No one wants you here, you pseudo pious CUNT.

by Anonymousreply 309December 29, 2021 5:35 PM

[quote] the Town Manager of Provincetown is the equally DL-worthy Alex Morse. The ex-Mayor of Amherst who barely escaped the snares of gay-on-gay political espionage in the last MA congressional race.

Yes, I believe it's Alex Morse who has a reputation of enjoying the DickDock in Ptown. He likes young jocks.

by Anonymousreply 310December 29, 2021 5:37 PM

Yes R305, most anyone caught doing that would probably be removed from their positions if they were working with children. That's just the way our society works. But all that shows is that we're all sinners in Mr. God's eyes. Are you saying if a man caught in a sting operation who then goes to church and begs for forgiveness for his carnal sins should not be forgiven? If God forgives then there should be no reason for that man to be removed from his position.

by Anonymousreply 311December 29, 2021 5:37 PM

[quote] He wasn't caught with another gentleman but stung by police bait.

I was caught once years ago and didn't do anything. A guy tapped his foot, had me step outside of the stall and lo and behold, it was the store detective.

I pleaded innocence and curiosity, and was young enough to be believable so I was let go with a warning, but yes, entrapment is their game.

by Anonymousreply 312December 29, 2021 5:38 PM

R305 do you always talk like you are one of the 12 Apostles?

by Anonymousreply 313December 29, 2021 5:39 PM

What I mean is mall security, when they know a washroom is being used for sex, how do they handle it? Ignore until there's a real complaint? Keep video records of who goes there every week to build a case and then try to entrap the most frequent visitors with the aid of cops? Just lock the door and wait a few months?

One office building with a popular foodcourt washroom installed a pad that requires a key card, so only employees can access it.

...honestly...it seems like these cruising places are disappearing because security teams are systematically catching wise and shutting them down.

by Anonymousreply 314December 29, 2021 5:41 PM

R314 The thing is, cruising places have been discovered and shut down for eons. Usually, the action will find its way to a new space or new place.

Security acts on it if the action gets to be a constant thing, or someone becomes very obvious/brazen about what they're doing (and there are idiots out there who will do dumb shit). One person getting sucked off is not going to trigger a massive response but daily activity might.

In addition to patrols, they sometimes try things like taking the doors off of stalls or off of the bathroom itself. I know the bathrooms I used to cruise at a university had things happening in the stalls that would make Caligula blush, so they took off all the stall doors. It tampered down some of the action but then it just turned into a meeting place and j/o area.

They did that at my favorite department store cruising spot, which just made it easier for the guy to stand in front of cocksuckers like me to get sucked off.

Years ago when I worked in a downtown office building, the building a few streets over had a very cruisy men's room that was pretty glorious - all filled with suit and tie types. They changed it so it had a code entry but I had a friend that shared it with me. Worked for a while until more people knew it. The barber had a shop across the way and could see the men's room entrance...eventually he came in to get sucked off too.

[quote] One office building with a popular foodcourt washroom installed a pad that requires a key card, so only employees can access it.

Guessing this is the Chase Tower in downtown Chicago.

by Anonymousreply 315December 29, 2021 6:01 PM

[quote]Am I the only person who finds this sort of deviant behavior shockingly appalling?

Yes hon, you are. No run along and say a prayer for us to keep yourself busy.

by Anonymousreply 316December 29, 2021 6:07 PM

[Quote] It's one thing, say, for a plumber to satisfy his lustful desires in a public park,

Ew. No. Just no. I wouldn't want a lustful plumber plumbing my plums.

by Anonymousreply 317December 29, 2021 7:18 PM

Oh my smelling salts! A man touched another man's 🍆!

In daylight, out in the open! Without benefit of clergy!

NELLIE PRISSPOT PEARL CLUTCHER HISS ACTIVATE!

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

by Anonymousreply 318December 29, 2021 7:28 PM

The Rhode Island State House was fairly active at night. It was like this during the late 1980's and early 1990's. Just go to the park benches that face the train station and soon enough you'd have a hookup.

by Anonymousreply 319December 29, 2021 7:46 PM

[quote]I've read that homosexual school teachers frequent parks to engage in illicit sexual behavior. It's one thing, say, for a plumber to satisfy his lustful desires in a public park, but a teacher? They should be fired immediately and never be allowed within 100 feet of children ever again. The thought of them influencing and guiding our children sickens my stomach. Would you really be ok with that?

What are you talking about? You're not going to find kids looking for sex with teachers in cruisy parks at night, just other adult gay men. What people do on their own time is their business. Yes, R299, such teachers are going to try very hard to convert all their students into little homosexuals who like to cruise parks. Won't somebody please think of the children. No idea what you're babbling about.

I have a straight acquaintance in Estonia who didn't even know there was gay cruising going on in public parks in his country, that's how discreet gay men are. He assumed that kind of thing only went on in Western Europe and the U.S. but a gay American friend of his who had visited Estonia confirmed that gay cruising in parks goes on there too.

It's always the people who pretend to be the most pious that do the most disturbing things in their private lives.

by Anonymousreply 320December 30, 2021 1:39 AM

I think these days the answer is on apps.

by Anonymousreply 321December 30, 2021 1:42 AM

Here is everything I ever said about homosexuals and homosexuality:

by Anonymousreply 322December 30, 2021 1:50 AM

They cruise for Covid tests here

by Anonymousreply 323December 30, 2021 2:04 AM

Is cruising still a thing on the East Coast? Out here on the West Coast it's pretty much gone. The once gay city of Long Beach used to have crusy book stores, gay beaches, crusy restrooms bath house and bars. It died out about 20 years ago once civil unions came about. We have an openly gay mayor, and a hand full of empty gay bars, that's about it but still one of the largest concentration of LGBT people in Los Angeles.

As part of the push for rights, the people who were in change at the time decided it all had to go if we wanted the straight public to be on our side of acceptance. I think they outlawed adult book stores of any kind within the city limits. It worked and now as a result, no one feels the need to hide anymore. Being gay in LG is not a problem. It's very pro gay, I am cool with that.

by Anonymousreply 324December 30, 2021 2:39 AM

[quote].... , and a hand full of empty gay bars, that's about it but still one of the largest concentration of LGBT people in Los Angeles.

Yes, gay people now live their lives online. It's very sad.

by Anonymousreply 325December 30, 2021 3:02 AM

[quote] I've read that homosexual school teachers frequent parks to engage in illicit sexual behavior.

Why are people taking this poster seriously?

"Some people say...."

by Anonymousreply 326December 30, 2021 3:03 AM

[quote]Yes, gay people now live their lives online. It's very sad.

Not completely, I go to a lot of gay social events in LB. Some have gatherings of over 200 gay men at a time. They just are not into hanging out cursing bathrooms and book stores any more.

by Anonymousreply 327December 30, 2021 3:23 AM

[quote]I've read that homosexual school teachers frequent parks to engage in illicit sexual behavior.

[quote]Why are people taking this poster seriously?

It's fun to have someone post from the 1950s!

by Anonymousreply 328December 30, 2021 3:34 AM

Covid has quieted outdoor cruising areas for now but I'd rather have sex with a pickup outdoors than in his home or mine. I've always preferred a walk through a cruising area than being in a bar. I've walked miles for good dick and found some of the best. I've been active for quite a few years, never picked up any diseases. My first gay experience was on a beach in North Palm Beach FL. Only one time was I stopped by law enforcement while driving through a cruise area near Boston and later that night the officer called me and wanted a date (the answer was no). Washington Park in Portland OR was fun when a very cute guy in a Jeep stripped naked while parked (mid-day) and I jerked him off through his car window. Hotel saunas can be fun too, I've been sucked by a few hubbies while their wives were waiting outside the door.

by Anonymousreply 329December 30, 2021 4:11 AM

I was talking about gay bars and clubs, R327.

by Anonymousreply 330December 30, 2021 4:19 AM

Go R329! Get you some good dick!

by Anonymousreply 331December 30, 2021 5:10 AM

I see Jesus when I suck cock.

by Anonymousreply 332December 30, 2021 7:28 AM

[quote]Am I the only person who...

says like the 100th frau on this thread.

by Anonymousreply 333December 30, 2021 7:29 AM

I don't cruise. There was a cruise at the end of my old office cul de sac, adjacent to a riverbank. Frequented by lots of dads on the DL, in minivans bearing "baby on board" signs, child care seats, and those suction cup child window shades.

by Anonymousreply 334December 30, 2021 8:22 AM

r333 fraus and judgmental lezzies... remember the lesbian wtf is cruising song "pease park" by the gretchen phillips experience - well, babydykes usually don't outgrow the militant uppity shit until they hit their 40s then enter their slut phase or finally discover the lesbian sex clubs, get a kink outside of uhauls and moving truck uniforms.

by Anonymousreply 335December 30, 2021 8:30 AM

One of my friends baby dyke daughter just came out about a year ago. She's already planning a wedding. Why is this such a stereotype thing with them? I think only the second girl she has ever been with.

by Anonymousreply 336December 30, 2021 11:40 AM

[quote] says like the 100th frau on this thread.

No, it’s only one deranged cunt. Once you block the gash, the thread is nice.

by Anonymousreply 337December 30, 2021 1:36 PM

Putting GOD and fundamental Judeo-Christian laws of nature and decent morality aside, how can you engage in such filthy acts with strangers of all people? Good old fashioned common sense tells me that you'd risk being killed or contracting innumerable sexually transmitted diseases. At this point, I actually must bring HIM back into the conversation. Must I remind you what Exodus 23:25 says about sickness? "You shall serve the LORD your GOD, and HE will bless your bread and your water, and HE will take sickness away from among you." You should take from that if you cease this wicked behavior, HE will not visit illness upon your bodies.

by Anonymousreply 338December 30, 2021 6:49 PM

Not enough F&Fs in the world for R338, but I’m adding mine.

by Anonymousreply 339December 30, 2021 6:54 PM

RE338 We don't want your jesus. We are happy to live in what you call sin.

by Anonymousreply 340December 30, 2021 7:30 PM

We all live in sin, r340. That's the nature of being human. I am not without sin. But the difference between you and me is that I recognize when I have sinned and beg HIS forgiveness. You lack any degree of self-awareness that you're sinning, so you keep on doing it. One of the great advantages of having a personal relationship with JESUS is that it helps you understand when you're sinned and how to best try and avoid committing that sin again. Weigh the momentary pleasure you get from hooking up in parks against the eternal all-enveloping love you can get from Jesus. I can assure you, there's nothing comparable.

by Anonymousreply 341December 30, 2021 7:37 PM

R341, we don't beg for God's forgiveness because we're enlightened enough to know that God is a myth. If praying for forgiveness from an entity that you believe exists then well and good. But don't expect everyone else to believe the same things that you do. And don't try and shame other people for their activities because of your beliefs. You're not going to persuade anyone here to become a believer if they are not already. If you think God disapproves of what people here say they do then use your prayers to pray for them if it'll make you feel better. Frankly if I you I would be afraid of God's vengeance against me for coming to a place surely you consider a den of iniquity, and associating with those you consider heathens and apostates.

by Anonymousreply 342December 30, 2021 7:51 PM

I haven’t read this thread yet but please tell me the information is not all 15 years old, stale, obsolete, etc…

by Anonymousreply 343December 30, 2021 8:28 PM

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by Anonymousreply 345December 30, 2021 8:55 PM

I don't get R344

by Anonymousreply 346December 30, 2021 9:09 PM

Jesus was an insatiable bottom.

by Anonymousreply 347December 30, 2021 9:10 PM

Not true. I heard Paul satiated him.

Course, you didn’t hear it from me since I ain’t one to gossip.

by Anonymousreply 348December 30, 2021 9:46 PM

R341 is right. Everyone lives in sin. But he asks for forgiveness. So he can sin again tomorrow in the park with a cleansed soul.

Fuck. Rinse. Repeat.

by Anonymousreply 349December 30, 2021 10:11 PM

I once had a guy peek through my stall door while he beating off at the nearby urinal...he was hairless and looked about 16. He was Asian, though, so who knows. He could have been 21. I thought he'd give up and go away when I ignored him, but this kid stayed at the urinals for a good ten minutes nervously trying to get some action from the men who came in. He was staring at everyone. Very weird. Very annoying. Must have been nervous and horny like crazy.

Thankfully he gave up at a certain point and left. Bottom line - if you're young, don't cruise. You're only enticing the extremely reckless. And if you naturally look young and want to cruise, grow a beard or something.

by Anonymousreply 350December 30, 2021 10:19 PM

Not to judge, but if you play with fire you WILL get burned.

by Anonymousreply 351December 30, 2021 10:28 PM

... but you judge anyway.

by Anonymousreply 352December 30, 2021 10:35 PM

R341, are you one of those people who goes to conversion therapy and tries to pray away the gay? If you want to be a celibate gay person all your life or marry someone of the opposite sexy that you're not sexually attracted to, that's your choice.

How can you get love from someone (Jesus) who doesn't exist? It's all in your imagination.

by Anonymousreply 353December 30, 2021 11:32 PM

Religion is a very persistent delusion.

by Anonymousreply 354December 30, 2021 11:36 PM

One of the problems I have with religion is that if you go into any church on Sunday the vast majority of the people there have lived sinful lives all week long thinking as long as they show up to church on Sunday all their sins will be forgiven, and they can just start sinning all over again until the next Sunday. I really don't think most of them actually believe in God or they'd be terrified to test him like that. They're just going through the motions because it looks good to the other people in town. It's more a social occasion than anything else.

And of course the preachers are there for one main reason. To tell everyone a pack of lies in order to guilt them into putting as much money in the collection plates as possible. Church is primarily all about money.

by Anonymousreply 355December 30, 2021 11:50 PM

[quote] Bottom line - if you're young, don't cruise. You're only enticing the extremely reckless. And if you naturally look young and want to cruise, grow a beard or something.

This doesn’t make any sense at all.

by Anonymousreply 356December 30, 2021 11:55 PM

If I was young again I still wouldn't cruise. There are far too many crazies out there these days.

by Anonymousreply 357December 31, 2021 12:10 AM

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by Anonymousreply 358December 31, 2021 12:32 AM

"botherers"

what a weird fucking phrase

where are you from?

by Anonymousreply 359December 31, 2021 12:48 AM

"God botherer" is not a new term at the DL. It means people who try to get you on their ultra religious train.

by Anonymousreply 360December 31, 2021 12:51 AM

I've been on the DL since 1998, and I have never seen that expression.

by Anonymousreply 361December 31, 2021 12:57 AM

I'm reminded of a visit to a friend's home several years ago for Sunday dinner. His wife's old 80+ year old cantankerous father was there too. The news was playing on the TV and they were reporting about something with the Catholic Church and there was a procession of Bishops at the Vatican. The old man piped up and said "huh, you ever seen so damn many cross backs in your life?". I liked that old geezer.

by Anonymousreply 362December 31, 2021 1:11 AM

I always say, if being gay was a sin, it would have been in the 10 commandments. Obviously things like lying or coveting your neighbors wife is MUCH MORE A SIN.

by Anonymousreply 363December 31, 2021 6:33 AM

Do they say anything about coveting your neighbor’s husband?

Whew. I’m good then.

by Anonymousreply 364December 31, 2021 1:40 PM

Any Home Depot restroom on a Sat afternoon

by Anonymousreply 365December 31, 2021 3:48 PM

Really? I thought only straight guys were into home renovation and all that manly stuff.

by Anonymousreply 366December 31, 2021 3:51 PM

Not my thing as I don't want to be arrested but...

A local porn "star" has been filming at the nearby park for his OF. Other local OF folks are following suit.

I see a crackdown imminent.

by Anonymousreply 367December 31, 2021 3:59 PM

I can’t believe people actually come on DL to condemn gay behavior. This thread makes clear what it is about so if you’re not interested, why not just scroll by? It’s not like anyone’s mind is going to be changed by a comment.

by Anonymousreply 368December 31, 2021 5:37 PM

Because some people like to feel morally superior, R368.

Many of these people need a hot fireplace poker shoved up their ass.

by Anonymousreply 369December 31, 2021 6:08 PM

[quote] I thought only straight guys were into home renovation and all that manly stuff.

Do you live under a rock?

by Anonymousreply 370December 31, 2021 6:09 PM

Homo Depot where men can get the job done.

by Anonymousreply 371December 31, 2021 9:40 PM

[quote]Do you live under a rock?

No, I don't. I just know the stereotype that lesbians are into home renovation and gay men are into art, hairdressing, theater, musicals, antiques, etc. and other things that traditionally interest straight women. And gay men are useless at home repairs. I have no reason to believe that stereotype isn't 95% true.

by Anonymousreply 372December 31, 2021 10:07 PM

And you think only gay guys cruise?

Oh, bless your heart, honey.

by Anonymousreply 373December 31, 2021 10:18 PM

A blast from the past. Back in the 60s and 70s the huge standalone Sears store located at the Buckhead 5 Points in Atlanta had a men's room on the 2nd floor that was notorious. I was there with my mother once when I was 12 years old. I had to pee desperately and I walked into that bathroom and the wall outside the cubicles was lined with men just standing against the wall doing nothing. I had no idea what was going on but it scared me just the same because there were so many men in there and the looks on their faces as I walked in told even my 12 year old self I needed to get out of there. I told my mother I couldn't use that rest room and we went and found another one. I never told her what I had seen.

By the time I was a grown man I had heard about that very same bathroom. It was still going strong. Apparently Sears knew all about it but never did anything to stop it. Then Sears sold the property and the store was torn down.

by Anonymousreply 374December 31, 2021 11:25 PM

[quote] And you think only gay guys cruise?

Many years back I knew a hot gay guy who owned a bail bond agency. We were talking over drinks one night and I he told me that a lot of his business came from people being arrested in police stings in the back rooms of porn shops. I just assumed it was all gay men, but he said a lot of them were straight couples who'd go in the booths and fuck like wild animals.

by Anonymousreply 375December 31, 2021 11:30 PM

If you are gay and own a home you are into home renovation- it's a rule

If not renovation - gardening (or both)

If neither - sport, hobbies, sex, (over)work

by Anonymousreply 376December 31, 2021 11:34 PM

[quote] No, I don't. I just know the stereotype that lesbians are into home renovation and gay men are into art, hairdressing, theater, musicals, antiques, etc. and other things that traditionally interest straight women. And gay men are useless at home repairs

How sad and antiquated.

by Anonymousreply 377December 31, 2021 11:36 PM

re home depot. If you want big straight daddy dick. Try the bathrooms on the weekends when the husbands run out to get stuff for thier projects...

by Anonymousreply 378January 1, 2022 12:30 AM

[quote]gay men are into art, hairdressing, theater, musicals, antiques, etc. and other things that traditionally interest straight women. And gay men are useless at home repairs.

Art = Only rich queens, regular gays cannot afford that.

Hairdressing = Nope. I am not a woman, why would I care about women's hair?

Theater = Nope, hate it.

Musicals = Nope, hate them too. And I will add Karaoke to that too.

Antiques = Nope, never owned one in my life, into minimalism and by that, I don't mean Mid-Century

Gay men are useless at home repairs = Wrong, I know more gay men that have remodeled their houses themselves than straight ones these days.

by Anonymousreply 379January 1, 2022 1:03 AM

R372 is hopeless.

I have a problem with people who ignorantly believe and perpetuate gay streotypes.

Are you even gay, R372? Are you another frau who shouldn't even be on this site?

by Anonymousreply 380January 1, 2022 1:36 AM

Believe it not R372 I know gay men who are complete slobs. Couldn't care less about fashion, never clean their homes, and only put dishes in the dishwasher once the sink is overflowing.

Open thine eyes and thee shall see.

by Anonymousreply 381January 1, 2022 1:55 AM

[quote] it's a rule

There are no such rules, R376.

by Anonymousreply 382January 1, 2022 2:14 AM

Most restrooms are barely clean enough to use. I can’t think of a place less erotic. Plus with everyone walking around with a camera, it’s too easy to be recorded.

by Anonymousreply 383January 1, 2022 2:17 AM

R372 sounds like the 60 yo Mary who was sad she didn't get her chicken wing

by Anonymousreply 384January 1, 2022 2:28 AM

[quote] Most restrooms are barely clean enough to use. I can’t think of a place less erotic.

MARY!!!

by Anonymousreply 385January 1, 2022 3:12 PM

A “God Botherer” is someone who prays excessively.

by Anonymousreply 386January 1, 2022 3:54 PM

This is the first time my American ears have heard the term "God Botherer." It's a slang term used in the UK, Australia, and New Zealand.

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by Anonymousreply 387January 1, 2022 4:50 PM

[quote]Art = Only rich queens, regular gays cannot afford that. Hairdressing = Nope. I am not a woman, why would I care about women's hair Theater = Nope, hate it. Musicals = Nope, hate them too. And I will add Karaoke to that too. Antiques = Nope, never owned one in my life, into minimalism and by that, I don't mean Mid-Century. Gay men are useless at home repairs = Wrong, I know more gay men that have remodeled their houses themselves than straight ones these days.

When I wrote interested in art, I didn't mean buying major pieces at Sotheby's and Christies on a regular basis. I meant flipping through art history books because the subject interests you.

Whenever there's a major awards show, there's an awful lot of gay men on DL who comment on the hair, make-up, and fashions worn by actresses, female musicians and other celebrities.

I know gay men do home renovations but I thought they hired people when it's something major. Anyone can slap on a coat of paint. I guess it depends on how much money you have and your skill level if you hire someone or do it yourself.

You mean to say, R379, that you're interested in physics and engineering. You're interested in team sports and how cars work? You mean to say right now you're drinking a beer while listening to a football game and building a table. R379, why must you turn DataLounge into a HOUSE OF LIES.

by Anonymousreply 388January 1, 2022 4:54 PM

We call them Bible Beaters - America

by Anonymousreply 389January 1, 2022 4:55 PM

Bible beaters? Here in America? Never heard of it. Bible thumpers is what we call them.

by Anonymousreply 390January 1, 2022 4:57 PM

Don't beat your Bible. It's a crime.

by Anonymousreply 391January 1, 2022 4:58 PM

[quote]ou mean to say, [R379], that you're interested in physics and engineering. You're interested in team sports and how cars work? You mean to say right now you're drinking a beer while listening to a football game and building a table. [R379], why must you turn DataLounge into a HOUSE OF LIES.

Actually, my partner has sold his 6th retro car that he repaired and fixed himself. He worked in a body shop when he was young. He drinks beer too imagine that. My best friend is contractor, he builds things with his hands like houses. Not that unusual, lots of gay carpenters out there. Superbowl Sunday is an annual thing I do with a bunch of gay friends at a local gay bar. Gays are into sports now, you really need to keep up.

by Anonymousreply 392January 1, 2022 5:00 PM

I think Bible Beater is what they say in Canada.

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by Anonymousreply 393January 1, 2022 5:02 PM

[quote]Whenever there's a major awards show, there's an awful lot of gay men on DL who comment on the hair, make-up, and fashions worn by actresses, female musicians and other celebrities.

Whenever I go to Mommy Blogs they all seem like they don't have jobs, fat slobs, living off their husbands and popping out kids for the eventual divorce and claims of victim and child support. There sure are a lot of them. That must mean all woman are just like that because every time I go there they seem to be fixated on food and being housewives. You mean to tell me some of them actually want to work? LIES.

by Anonymousreply 394January 1, 2022 5:06 PM

Sorry, R392. You and your friends are outliers. That's a fact. You guys try way too hard to butch it up. Are you all bears and leathermen? That would explain things.

Btw, any gay man who doesn't like "The Sound of Music" has something wrong with him.

A lot of stereotypes have a core of truth in them.

by Anonymousreply 395January 1, 2022 5:07 PM

[quote]A lot of stereotypes have a core of truth in them.

You mean like most woman are Cunts?

by Anonymousreply 396January 1, 2022 5:09 PM

No, the stereotype is that many DLers are cunts.

by Anonymousreply 397January 1, 2022 5:10 PM

[quote]Are you all bears and leathermen? That would explain things.

I am not a bear or leather-man but even if I was, it's a part of the gay community. A big part from what I have seen. That's like me saying woman with careers are outliers, most are cunty housewives at the core.

by Anonymousreply 398January 1, 2022 5:12 PM

If you did a survey of all the gay men in the Western world, you'd find that a lot more have the interests I described at R372 than the ones R379 and R392 describe. Deal with it. How many famous fashion designers can you name that aren't gay men?

by Anonymousreply 399January 1, 2022 5:21 PM

[quote] That must mean all woman

JFC, your ignorance extends to basic grammar too.

[quote] You mean like most woman are Cunts?

[quote] That's like me saying woman with careers

by Anonymousreply 400January 1, 2022 6:16 PM

r295, what an insipid and shallow life you lead.

by Anonymousreply 401January 1, 2022 7:53 PM

What a strange example of thread creep.

by Anonymousreply 402January 1, 2022 9:49 PM

Back to the original thread topic: Buena Vista Park, SF

by Anonymousreply 403January 1, 2022 9:49 PM

“thread creep.” Now that’s a new one.

by Anonymousreply 404January 2, 2022 3:44 AM

[quote]How many famous fashion designers can you name that aren't gay men?

None, because I don't really care about fashion.

by Anonymousreply 405January 2, 2022 3:55 AM

Well, you'd have to be living under a rock to not know any of them, R405.

by Anonymousreply 406January 2, 2022 4:58 AM

No I just dont care about fashion R406. I am more of a jeans and t-shirt kind of guy. Not every gay man is some NYC fashion chasing queen. It's a wast of time and money if you ask me. I don't really care what other people think, I am not that insecure. Label chasing is a hobby of the vapid and shallow.

by Anonymousreply 407January 2, 2022 5:14 AM

R407 yes you don’t seem insecure at all.

by Anonymousreply 408January 2, 2022 5:24 AM

Here in Uruguay, R404, we call them Thread Slinkers.

by Anonymousreply 409January 2, 2022 6:31 AM

R401 got his number wrong. He was referring to R395, not randomly harkening back to some innocuous reply.

At least, I hope so.

by Anonymousreply 410January 2, 2022 6:34 AM

You're a profound person only in your own mind, R410.

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by Anonymousreply 412January 2, 2022 2:35 PM

[R250]: Nothing worse than a self-hating religious fanatic. Too guilty to admit to having any enjoyable sex life, you have to keep projecting your misery onto others.

But don’t worry. When you’re dying, all your fears and guilt will surface.. As a former hospice nurse, I know.

by Anonymousreply 413January 2, 2022 2:53 PM

In NYC, it’s gotta be gym locker rooms.

by Anonymousreply 414January 2, 2022 3:35 PM

400 posts and most of them are talking about the past. Like 20 or 30 years ago.

by Anonymousreply 415January 2, 2022 11:34 PM

Ok, I'll be current. During the past 2 weeks I've peed in Penn Station and visited the Ramble several times including last night. Penn Station is as clean as it's ever been with a police desk right outside the door, big dividers and an attendant inside, it's still revolting and people were lingering/jerking just like every other time in my life.

The Ramble OTOH has never been safer/nicer and less sexy and I've been going there since 1980. The paths are all paved and brightly lit, the exact opposite of what it was before. Still, there was plenty of action going on. One night I counted about 50 guys and about 30 a couple of other nights. Mostly, Young horny guys.

The police are rarely on foot/car. When they want to break up the party they use helicopters, they're a boner killer.

I've never used an app, I like to see, feel and smell someone. I've hooked up with hundreds of men in the Ramble, every one of them immaculate. Even if they worked all day you smell the shampoo, conditioner, body lotion, laundry soap and deodorant.

by Anonymousreply 416January 3, 2022 12:34 AM

Have you ever been caught and had to go to court, R416? Have you ever been in the Ramble after hours and been caught and ticketed?

by Anonymousreply 417January 3, 2022 12:49 AM

You can literally smell the stench of STDs emanating from r416's post.

by Anonymousreply 418January 3, 2022 1:01 AM

It must be exhausting to repress your inner slut, R418. How do you do it? Drink?

by Anonymousreply 419January 3, 2022 1:11 AM

don't show them gay twitter, r419.

by Anonymousreply 420January 3, 2022 1:12 AM

No. I am always on the lookout and I know the park very well. All my encounters take place off the path where I have a clear view of anyone approaching. Also, cops work in groups or at least pairs so I never approach ANY group or couple.

by Anonymousreply 421January 3, 2022 1:17 AM

Sex energy is soul energy and I consider all 200 of my lovers soul mates. 200 men in 40 years- one at a time, many of them I remember vividly. Men come from all over the world to have sex in the Ramble and I've given many of them memories of a lifetime. Lots of tourists, Rich kids held captive by their families escaping for a "run in the park" or cyclists who get "lost for a few minutes". I'm a retired whore now but the last dick I sucked was a Dominican on a bike. I was just sitting on a bench and he took it out. He took. It. Out. I remember thinking if this is the last dick I suck I'm good with that. I've had sufficient.

by Anonymousreply 422January 3, 2022 2:52 AM

add some enjambment, r422, and you have a pomea.

by Anonymousreply 423January 3, 2022 2:57 AM

Used to ramble through the park

Shadow boxing in the dark

Then you came and caused a spark

That's a four-alarm fire now

I never made love by lantern shine

I never saw rainbows in my wine

But now that your lips are burning mine

I'm beginning to see the light.

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by Anonymousreply 424January 3, 2022 4:02 AM

[Quote] In NYC, it’s gotta be gym locker rooms.

A Rican muscle twink shot his load straight down my throat in the locker room. It was very dare of him. It was such a quick encounter, I don't know how it all happened!

by Anonymousreply 425January 3, 2022 9:20 AM

[quote] add some enjambment, [R422], and you have a pomea.

No! You don’t want to add that, it tastes nasty. Besides, if you can’t get it done with your mouth, adding enjambment will only make things sticky.

by Anonymousreply 426January 3, 2022 2:29 PM

[quote] 200 men in 40 years- one at a time,

One at a time? Aw, that’s boring.

by Anonymousreply 427January 3, 2022 2:30 PM

R422 Dominican dick is a strong argument for the existence of a deity!

by Anonymousreply 428January 3, 2022 3:08 PM

Bump for cruising.

by Anonymousreply 429January 8, 2022 3:20 AM

You can literally smell the stench of yeast infection emanating from R418's smelly cottage cheese gunt.

by Anonymousreply 430January 10, 2022 3:53 PM

Never done it in a cruising area but have accidentally stepped into one and suddenly realized where I was. Haven't thought of this in years: at university, we had a library that afforded the male director of that library a view of the men's room. He would catch the eye of a college boy on the way to take a piss and then choose the adjacent urinal while keeping a side-eye on young cock. It was an open secret. We all talked about it. Once I saw this library director on a very awkward looking date with a woman at a place we college boys would hang out. I mean, even at a glance a dumb college kid like me could see that this man, deep into middle age, was having a hard time relating to this woman. Funny how memories such as that stick with one ...

by Anonymousreply 431January 10, 2022 4:06 PM

I live in a small town and there is an area that's public preservation land that has been a well known cruising spot forever. It's near a highway, so it became popular with guys from all over. Somehow, it has now reverted more to a hiking, dog-walking area for everyone. It used to be a place that was notorious. It seemed dangerous, but I never cruised so I don't know, it just seemed like it was a big, unguarded area and you could get killed there.

by Anonymousreply 432January 10, 2022 4:13 PM

Just go to Sniffies.com anonymously and find out

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by Anonymousreply 433January 10, 2022 4:51 PM

Threads like this one should not be allowed on female- and family-friendly boards. It's really disgusting. I don't need to be reading about this sort of filth. I mean, I'm aware that it goes on in the gay lifestyle, but I don't need to read out the ins and outs of this type of behavior. It was better for me in the abstract.

by Anonymousreply 434January 10, 2022 4:55 PM

434 lol

by Anonymousreply 435January 10, 2022 4:58 PM

R431 we had the same situation. The head of the computer labs had an eagle eye view to the mens room entrance and would clock if a hot young guy was going in there. It's how he found me.

He was skinny and a bit unusual looking, but he followed me in, came up to the urinal and *thwack* out sprung his enormous dick. His trick worked with me and who knows how many others.

by Anonymousreply 436January 10, 2022 5:12 PM

I wish I had discovered cruising earlier when it was still more popular. I was a university student in the mid 90's and sometimes while studying at the library I would sit in one of the library cages in the stacks near (but not too near) the gay studies books. I'd take a few from the shelf and read passages while taking breaks from studying. I read about tea rooms in the books and surely there must have been some around campus but I never either noticed or did't look hard enough.

In grad school in the early aughts (must have been around '07 or '08) I happened to be connecting through the MSP airport and happened upon the notorious Sen Craig bathroom--before he made it national news. This was my introduction to cruising! Holy moly--I wasn;t expecting anything but did saddle up to a urinal to piss in the third row of urinals. The room was like three hallways once you came in---one for sinks, the next was urinals on both sides, and the third was stalls on one side and urinals on the other. I am a little pee shy so I went to the last row of urinals and let the urine fly. A super hot/hung flight attendant took the urinal next to me. I soon realized that he was hard and jacking off...a handsome hairy uncut monster of cock. My eyes were glued to it and he shot a load all over the urinal and zipped up.

I had a fairly long layover there and went in a few times--in retrospect not likely the wisest thing to do. But plenty of hot pilots/FA/biz guys at the urinals looking to show off. My flight wasn't until evening and I went back after the early evening connection rush was over. The bathroom was then pretty empty--although I had made eye contact with a suited biz guy at the sinks. He did join me for a mutual wank after--visiting from Rome. That's all I've really done while cruising--jacking off and maybe a handjob. It's the excitement of getting off and seeing other guy doing the same. I don't think I would fuck in a bathroom.

Agree with the poster about mainline train stations in London as well. They are pretty open and most don't have large dividers if any at all, so it would make anything hard to do. If slow can be hot to watch another guy jack his cock discretely.

by Anonymousreply 437January 10, 2022 5:23 PM

[quote]Threads like this one should not be allowed on female- and family-friendly boards. It's really disgusting.

I will presume that your post is with out sarcasm, in which case, bitch please.

by Anonymousreply 438January 10, 2022 5:28 PM

no, i ignored them and i think it is the same of 2 posters i have on ignore. some 1/2 latino cali, ex-teacher homeschooler with a slant to posting on specific threads.

or someone's sockpuppets to rile folxs up.

by Anonymousreply 439January 10, 2022 5:48 PM

Has anyone ever caught the other guy filming you? I see vids online where a guy is jerking, totally unaware that he's being filmed by the dude in the next stall. Sometimes they spot the phone overhead and freak out and that's where the video ends.

I realize it may sound naive to say but that's bad form. IIf someone tried to film me, I'd flip out and attack them.

by Anonymousreply 440January 10, 2022 6:01 PM

[quote] Threads like this one should not be allowed on female- and family-friendly boards.

This isn't one, you fat cunt! Get the fuck out!

by Anonymousreply 441January 10, 2022 6:04 PM

r441, you sound delightful. Between your negative attitudes about family and women and your engaging in homosexual activity out in the open for all the world to see, your parents must be so proud. Pure filth.

by Anonymousreply 442January 10, 2022 7:05 PM

[Quote] that's bad form. IIf someone tried to film me,

I knew a guy who used to film guys he found hot and send them to me. I found that creepy and stopped chatting with him.

by Anonymousreply 443January 10, 2022 8:01 PM

enjoy squirt, r443.

by Anonymousreply 444January 10, 2022 8:20 PM

The devil is hard at work in this thread, I see. You're mocking GOD. This is not HIS plan for you. I hate to break it to you boys bit, giving in to your carnal desires is not gonna get you the keys to HIS kingdom. It's the plain and simple truth. But I do have some good news for you. It's never too late to accept GOD to abandon your wicked ways. Don't let the devil win.

Have a very blessed day!

by Anonymousreply 445January 10, 2022 8:30 PM

Sin, repent, repeat. Enjoy yourselves Xtians!

by Anonymousreply 446January 10, 2022 8:33 PM

r446, I hate to break it to you, love, but repenting only counts if you're sincere about. Repenting just to absolve yourself of sin but with the full intent to commit the sin again isn't gonna cut it with HIM. If you really want to experience all the abundant riches HE has to give, then you really need to mean it and decide right there and then not to commit the sin again. If you don't do that, it's fruitless.

by Anonymousreply 447January 10, 2022 8:48 PM

He said the same thing R447 But I mean it I mean it! I told HIM I mean it. He said okey dokey the flesh is weak and go sin no mo. I said okey dokey too but I'm WEAK! He is right. I'm weak. But I always repent. We meet like once a week after I do my laundry.

by Anonymousreply 448January 10, 2022 9:03 PM

[quote] can be hot to watch another guy jack his cock discretely.

Oh, dear!

by Anonymousreply 449January 10, 2022 9:31 PM

R439, who the fuck are you talking to?

by Anonymousreply 450January 10, 2022 9:31 PM

[quote]You're mocking GOD. This is not HIS plan for you.

[quote]Yeah, twenty five years later I still remember sunny fall afternoons in the Cathedral of Learning, surrounded by a dozen other horny twentysomething men, all of us hard, all of us shooting our loads. No words to describe how hot that was, and still is. How truly beautiful.

Why then does God create the powerful attraction vividly evoked by the second quote above? God made beautiful bodies to be enjoyed and celebrated. It's more unnatural to resist such attraction. And unstoppable anyway, as this thread shows.

by Anonymousreply 451January 10, 2022 9:44 PM

^GOD's challenge to you is to resist temptation. Can you imagine all those young "beautiful bodies" that wouldn't have been lost to AIDS had they not given into temptation. Wicked ways have consequences, unfortunately. We've all seen fist-hand evidence of that, I'm afraid.

by Anonymousreply 452January 10, 2022 10:37 PM

[quote]R434: Threads like this one should not be allowed on female- and family-friendly boards. It's really disgusting. I don't need to be reading about this sort of filth. I mean, I'm aware that it goes on in the gay lifestyle, but I don't need to read out the ins and outs of this type of behavior. It was better for me in the abstract.

R434: You don’t dictate your shit onto our board. Take your yeasty cunt and slime trail your way the fuck out of here. Don’t let the door bang you on the ass!

by Anonymousreply 453January 11, 2022 1:03 AM

We don't want his kingdom so please go away

by Anonymousreply 454January 11, 2022 2:00 AM

The mens room on the top floor of Bergdorf Goodman (housewares) was active for years. The shop ladies knew what went on up there. I had a few guys show me hard dick and got a couple of blow jobs too. It was a suit/tie/afternoon kind of crowd.

by Anonymousreply 455January 11, 2022 2:39 AM

Nah r452 the wicked rule the world. The good ones suffer to be with you ( roll eyes) after they die. Or so the wicked gaslight the good ones. But you know that wink wink.

by Anonymousreply 456January 11, 2022 3:32 AM

These college aged guys now would never go for this. They insist that you DM them on Instagram, then you go through a series of naked submissions on Snapchat. Like zoom in here and do this and hold up three fingers.

Once you are approved for the first two rounds you then need to answer a long series of questions about “what are we going to do”, in detail, and you must cover every possible contingency.

Then you go through a cooling off period because they basically just use you for masterbation material, and then they text you out of the blue one night, weeks later, and want to do it on the car outside their shared apartment. And then they ghost you.

Jesus just forget it already.

To think that any of that generation would dare to partake in spontaneous intimacy is unheard of.

by Anonymousreply 457January 11, 2022 3:33 AM

What ever happened to holding hands?

Or walking along the sidewalk, arm in arm, underneath the moonlit sky?

by Anonymousreply 458January 11, 2022 3:37 AM

R457 that’s tragic and hilarious at the same time. I also believe you. Hooking up online now is worse than a job interview.

by Anonymousreply 459January 11, 2022 3:42 AM

R459 interesting

by Anonymousreply 460January 11, 2022 4:03 AM

*infuriating

by Anonymousreply 461January 11, 2022 4:04 AM

that's what happens when you shave 10 years off of 60 plus and use a twenty year old pic, gramps.

by Anonymousreply 462January 11, 2022 4:10 AM

[quote] What ever happened to holding hands?

People like you used to throw things at us when we held hands in public.

by Anonymousreply 463January 11, 2022 12:13 PM

Public parks and highway rest stops. There are still cruisy lake shores, like in the French movie Stranger by the Lake (2013), and I enjoyed that for 15 years but I've aged out.

by Anonymousreply 464January 11, 2022 12:27 PM

R445 Oh please, you are here because on some level you are getting off on hearing these salacious details but your self loathing brain washed religious conditioning has you publicly clutching your pearls while you are privately touching yourself.

by Anonymousreply 465January 11, 2022 12:34 PM

[quote]GOD's challenge to you is to resist temptation.

Why?

[quote]Can you imagine all those young "beautiful bodies" that wouldn't have been lost to AIDS had they not given into temptation.

And most now are not lost to AIDS, so God's supposed sadistic wrath evidently needs to recalibrate.

[quote]Wicked ways have consequences, unfortunately.

Plenty here to testify that the main consequences of 'wicked ways' are fond memories. It's notable that people you'd deem unwicked also suffer consequences. Your God metes out incurable diseases quite randomly. Even to people who only cruise on ships.

by Anonymousreply 466January 11, 2022 1:07 PM

What age were you all when you eventually stopped cruising? For me it fizzled out in my early 50’s.

by Anonymousreply 467January 11, 2022 2:01 PM

Mid-50s.

by Anonymousreply 468January 11, 2022 2:48 PM

I saw a guy in his 70s, I think, at a urinal waiting to play. He was hung....but desperate and chatty. Not ideal.

Men age decently enough so I'm surprised to hear some of you feel you aged out.

by Anonymousreply 469January 11, 2022 5:50 PM

When exactly did we get to the point where engaging in sexual activity just became another bodily function and is no different from urinating or defecating? Romantic intimacy is meant to be special and symbolizing an emotional and physical bond between two people who are in love. The sexual revolution did so much damage to American values. The world would be a much better place if we could go back to the 1950s when not everything and everyone was sexualized and there was much more to life than fornicating with strangers. Disgusting.

by Anonymousreply 470January 11, 2022 7:36 PM

^ What's romance got to do with sexual activity?

by Anonymousreply 471January 11, 2022 7:39 PM

Early 50s as well, was when it was fading for me. I had had SO MUCH SUCCESS. From smutty sex, to exciting, to friendly, to beautiful encounters and even some relationships. COVID put a lid on it.

I remember when I was young and while I wasn't hostile to the 50 year olds and up, I was completely uninterested. And anyone who cruised a fair amount know about the annoying trolls mostly guys 35 and up who just won't take no for an answer.

When I cruised in my 40s, got lots of action from twinks. 40s is a "hot daddy" to a twink. 60 is NOT.

I could always pick it up again if COVID fades but I'm more curious to keep it a memory and transition to whatever is next. Which appears to be nothing. And nobody over 50 is dating - its a desert in my parts. Covid makes it worse. At least with cruising areas, you might get laid, or have a chat and a joint with some old reliables from yesteryear.

by Anonymousreply 472January 11, 2022 7:41 PM

[quote]The world would be a much better place if we could go back to the 1950s when not everything and everyone was sexualized and there was much more to life than fornicating with strangers.

And homosexuality was classed as a mental illness and criminalised. Good times.

by Anonymousreply 473January 11, 2022 7:44 PM

What's your point, r473? Many closeted homosexuals lived perfectly normal and healthy heterosexual lives, and they were quite content. It was only during the sexual revolution that militant homosexuals told these perfectly happy people that they wouldn't know true happiness until they accepted homosexuality as their one and only identity. Unfortunately, many went like sheep to the slaughter. Have a blessed day!

by Anonymousreply 474January 11, 2022 7:50 PM

[quote]Many closeted homosexuals lived perfectly normal and healthy heterosexual lives

Goos lord r474, just die.

by Anonymousreply 475January 11, 2022 7:58 PM

How much straight privilege do you have to have to try to claim gays were happier in the closet?

You breeders were happy, because you liked us invisible

Well, fuck off. We’re not going back to invisibility just for your convenience.

by Anonymousreply 476January 11, 2022 8:10 PM

[quote] How much straight privilege do you have to have to try to claim gays were happier in the closet?

It’s like the yahoos who claim blacks were happier as slaves

by Anonymousreply 477January 11, 2022 8:11 PM

Homosexuality is a psychological state that can be suppressed and that sort of behavior modified. Black is solely a physical trait that cannot be altered. Apples and oranges, I'm afraid.

by Anonymousreply 478January 11, 2022 8:21 PM

WONT SOMEONE SHIT RAZOR BLADES INTO THIS CUNT'S MOUTH?

by Anonymousreply 479January 11, 2022 8:47 PM

[quote] Homosexuality is a psychological state that can be suppressed and that sort of behavior modified.

Thank you for identifying yourself as ignorant evil.

Goodbye

by Anonymousreply 480January 11, 2022 8:57 PM

What planet are you on, R474? Absolutely stunning. I hope you're trolling.

by Anonymousreply 481January 11, 2022 9:18 PM

The Bible dictates that intercourse is only to be engaged in within the confines of a marriage sanctified by and before GOD. HE explicitly forbids any other sexual contact outside of marriage. Fornicating in the woods like two base animals was definitely not part of HIS plan. HIS is a wonderfully designed plan that has endured for centuries and centuries.

by Anonymousreply 482January 11, 2022 9:30 PM

We really don’t care what your invisible sky fairy supposedly has to say on the subject of our sexualities.

He doesn’t exist and you are a blithering idiot.

by Anonymousreply 483January 11, 2022 9:33 PM

Another totally pretend christian who misses the whole point of Jesus’ teachings

Hint: He wasn’t into hate like you are.

by Anonymousreply 484January 11, 2022 9:38 PM

Some of the scandalized posts on this thread are GOLD.

by Anonymousreply 485January 11, 2022 9:58 PM

of all the infestations on this board, the infestation of God botherers is one of the least welcome.

by Anonymousreply 486January 11, 2022 9:59 PM

[quote] I'm more curious to keep it a memory and transition to whatever is next.

I feel the same.

I was at the buffet many, many times. But I do feel as though I have had a taste of all the candies in the box, so to speak. Do I occasionally crave another taste? Sure, but nothing porn or a photo can't take care of for me.

I regret nothing of my cruising time, but at this point, I think the fun of the pursuit would be gone.

by Anonymousreply 487January 11, 2022 10:03 PM

Once around the garden only!

by Anonymousreply 488January 11, 2022 10:04 PM

I hate to tell you what the Bible says, but it's clearly stated in Revelation 21:8. There's no disputing what happens to the sexually immoral, among other sinners:

But the cowardly, the unbelieving, the vile, the murderers, the sexually immoral, those who practice magic arts, the idolaters and all liars—they will be consigned to the fiery lake of burning sulfur. This is the second death.

by Anonymousreply 489January 11, 2022 10:30 PM

Lying fake xtian

by Anonymousreply 490January 11, 2022 10:32 PM

This thread has the distinct smell of Poo Soes.

by Anonymousreply 491January 11, 2022 10:44 PM

^^I meant to type “Poo Shoes.”

by Anonymousreply 492January 11, 2022 10:45 PM

It doesn’t smell like her (her odor is unique), but it’s some diseased trash troll like her.

by Anonymousreply 493January 11, 2022 10:56 PM

Everything must come to an end; and when jesus, god, and the bible arrive, well its time to turn out the lights on this thread.

by Anonymousreply 494January 11, 2022 10:59 PM

Sky fairy? Really?!?! LORD, make YOURSELF known to this person. Reveal YOURSELF to him in all YOUR glory. YOU will bring this fornicator to his knees, and for the first time in his miserable life, he will not be on his knees out of lust for another man. LORD, take the wheel. Hurry!

by Anonymousreply 495January 11, 2022 11:04 PM

Will you shut up until then, you diseased cunt?

by Anonymousreply 496January 11, 2022 11:08 PM

Jesus is horrified by your hateful misinterpretation of his teachings.

Jesus is pro gay and pro love. You pretend Xtians just spew hate.

by Anonymousreply 497January 11, 2022 11:11 PM

R489, what you translate as "sexually immoral" the New Testament gives as πόρνοις (pornois), which my Greek dictionaries translate as "male prostitute." Are the guys having sex in cruising areas going to the lake of fire only if they take money from the other guys?

by Anonymousreply 498January 11, 2022 11:12 PM

If Jesus did return, he’d be the most pissed off at the scum who twist his words to spew their hate

by Anonymousreply 499January 11, 2022 11:13 PM

Religion kills. It always has; it always will. Humankind must evolve.

by Anonymousreply 500January 11, 2022 11:29 PM

Jesus is cumming!

by Anonymousreply 501January 12, 2022 5:42 AM

Jesus sucked plenty of cock in his day I’m sure, he was a hot n horny guy. Just the same as those rampant priests and monks. Let’s face it, religion and the church is basically cock heaven. Next time your at church take a good look at the vicar or priests robes, chances are there’s a few cum stains on them that haven’t washed out. I wonder if Jesus was top or bottom?

by Anonymousreply 502January 12, 2022 6:26 AM

[quote]HE explicitly forbids any other sexual contact outside of marriage.

[quote]There's no disputing what happens to the sexually immoral, among other sinners:

Shame about that vast list of places in which sexual abuse by Catholic clergy had taken place at the end of 'Spotlight.'

If only those abusing clergy hadn't attempted to repress their sexuality by hiding within the church, they might have developed more healthily, and not ruined countless thousands of young lives.

The would-be sexual repression was of course compounded by the attempted cover-up by the Catholic hierarchy. And all because the church cannot accept the natural desire for many men to enjoy each other sexually.

Repression and hypocrisy embodied by religion creates abuse to a far more damaging extent than any perceived demerits of the sexual revolution.

by Anonymousreply 503January 12, 2022 8:58 AM

Anyone cruised in the desert? Did you get sand everywhere?

by Anonymousreply 504January 12, 2022 9:14 AM

Why would you cruise in the desert instead of on a beach?

by Anonymousreply 505January 12, 2022 9:35 AM

Because Jesus wandered there for over a month. Duh.

by Anonymousreply 506January 12, 2022 10:06 AM

LINK = This whore was the best. No Joke...Clearly Homemade and real...He does anyone. Sucks and Bottoms for the old dick you mostly see at parks. He should be in the DL Hall of Fame.

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by Anonymousreply 507January 12, 2022 10:10 AM

In New York, the hottest guy is always on the other side of the subway platform. I'm 60 but from 50 feet away I look 40.

Not long before covid, I got on the train and I saw this old guy with a Sony Walkman cassette player and I laughed and thought, I love this guy. After a minute I recognized him as a man met in the Ramble 30 years ago (one of the lucky 200). A Colombian, he looked exactly like Juan Valdez, the coffee guy. We hung out for awhile and drank whiskey.

He was from a small village and I remember he told me he had 5 kids. I said something like "Wow, how'd that happen?" and he unzipped his pants and unfurled a cock that "I didn't know whether to shake hands with it or give it a peanut", so I did both.

He said, the women in my village won't take no. I had to leave my town before I ended up with 20 kids. I remember thinking "That's an immigrant story that needs to be told. Is that why NY is filled with so many big cocks? Gay men with big cocks who were forced to prove their masculinity in their small towns and needed to escape?" Ken Burns, where are you?

Meeting people under the trees and stars is an equalizer. I wouldn't have met this guy IRL.

by Anonymousreply 508January 12, 2022 12:49 PM

[quote] wonder if Jesus was top or bottom?

Definitely top, to judge from the spooning in John 13:23-5.

by Anonymousreply 509January 12, 2022 1:38 PM

[quote] Next time your at church

Oh, dear.

by Anonymousreply 510January 12, 2022 2:14 PM

There was only one around here but when I was a kid the cops busted it up.

by Anonymousreply 511January 12, 2022 3:00 PM

Continue to mock HIM. Go on! I can't stop you. I hope you're partial to extreme heat, because I have a strong hunch that when you leave this world and transition to the next world, you will experience an eternity of "wicked"ly hot temperatures like you've never experienced before. You boys are a fan of "globull" warming theories, so this will work out quite nicely for you. Have a very blessed day!

by Anonymousreply 512January 12, 2022 3:09 PM

Threatening us with a hell that doesn’t exist is hardly incentive.

You have sinned against Jesus by twisting his words into hate. If there were a hell, you’d be the first piece of shit dumped into it.

by Anonymousreply 513January 12, 2022 3:15 PM

I live in Berlin the entire city is a cruising area. I cannot count the number of times guys have picked me up in the grocery store.

by Anonymousreply 514January 12, 2022 4:23 PM

So anyway, in NJ on the parkway the bathrooms are crazy busy on the weekends. I saw a guy leave his wife at the gift shop and dash in to the men's room. I went in and washed my hands. I went to piss and I heard gagging in the stall behind me, out runs this tall dude in sweat pants followed by this fat, sweating bald guy. When I finished the guy was with his wife in the gift shop, 3 minutes tops.

by Anonymousreply 515January 12, 2022 4:30 PM

R512 There is no HIM you daft cunt, there’s no fucker up there. You are as bat shit crazy as those terrorists who blow themselves up believing they’ll be rewarded with a dozen virgins on the other side. Stop reading the bible and jack off to the hot pictures of Jesus instead. Go on, you know you want to you self loathing nancy boy.

by Anonymousreply 516January 12, 2022 4:48 PM

[quote] I live in Berlin the entire city is a cruising area.

Is Germany permitting tourists from the United States right now?

by Anonymousreply 517January 12, 2022 6:00 PM

[quote] I saw a guy leave his wife at the gift shop and dash in to the men's room. I went in and washed my hands.

Be honest. The fat sweating bald guy got to him first. Been there. (I think we all have.)

by Anonymousreply 518January 12, 2022 6:02 PM

More bad news for you atheists from THE GOOD BOOK. Judgment Day will not be pretty for you, I'm afraid to say. If these verses don't motivate you to change, then there's not much more I can do help you.

Corinthians 6:18: Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body.

Galatians 5:19-21: Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions, envy, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these. I warn you, as I warned you before, that those who do such things will not inherit the kingdom of God.

by Anonymousreply 519January 12, 2022 9:39 PM

R519 Noone here wants your help. You are only here to scratch a gay itch you are in denial about.

by Anonymousreply 520January 13, 2022 4:01 AM

R519 Tear up your fucking bible you cock sucking idiot. But don’t waste the pages, use them as cum rags whilst you are jacking your micro penis to gay porn whilst repenting at the same time.

by Anonymousreply 521January 13, 2022 6:50 AM

Just block the bible thumper.

by Anonymousreply 522January 13, 2022 6:51 AM

[quote]More bad news for you atheists from THE GOOD BOOK.

It can't be bad news for atheists, because atheists by definition don't believe in 'the good book.' It's neither bad news nor good news, but simply an irrelevance.

by Anonymousreply 523January 13, 2022 7:56 AM

Oh if only you boys would hunger for and worship THE LORD with the same fervor you do male flesh, the keys to HIS kingdom would be yours in a heartbeat! Just think how fulfilling it would be to be on your knees praying to HIM in a house of worship than committing an act of sodomy on a random stranger in a park. I promise you, HIS daily bread is ultimately more nourishing for your soul than your daily "breed" is for your body.

by Anonymousreply 524January 13, 2022 1:15 PM

Thanks, Poo at R524. By the way, do you still scrub the shitty toilets at the Bellagio?

by Anonymousreply 525January 13, 2022 1:19 PM

R508 your post made me cackle. I wish we still had W&W on the front page so at least one of those gems could appear there.

by Anonymousreply 526January 14, 2022 11:01 PM

Are there any in Orlando, Florida?

by Anonymousreply 527January 14, 2022 11:17 PM

Try the 'It's A Small World' ride

by Anonymousreply 528January 17, 2022 8:44 PM

Here's the listings from www.cruisingforsex.com, R527. Sometimes the listings are out of date, but if there is a recent post, it should be correct.

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by Anonymousreply 529January 17, 2022 8:52 PM

I looked at listings for a particularly nasty place I'd heard about, and it did not disappoint.

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by Anonymousreply 530January 17, 2022 9:25 PM

You can also check squirt dot org.

Their listings are up to date.

Fair warning though, you can only look at a limited number of listings unless you’re a paid member, so don’t just click on random listings to see. After 24 hours the clock resets and you get another amount.

by Anonymousreply 531January 17, 2022 9:37 PM

^Thanks for the tip, whore.

by Anonymousreply 532January 17, 2022 9:54 PM

Oh, my pleasure.

The more the show up, the merrier!

by Anonymousreply 533January 17, 2022 9:57 PM

This thread is in dire need of an exorcism asap. Have a blessed day!

by Anonymousreply 534January 17, 2022 10:24 PM

Oh, R534. I just know there's an inner slut inside you struggling to get out.

by Anonymousreply 535January 17, 2022 11:06 PM

Wow that CCBC place sounds grim. The comments sound like they were written by DLers.

by Anonymousreply 536January 18, 2022 1:25 AM

CCBC?

by Anonymousreply 537January 18, 2022 1:56 PM

I just walk down the highway in nothing but daisy dukes, a g string, boots, and a ripped up tee shirt. I walk into the roadhouse bar and I’m forced to slow dance with a number of hillbillies then I end up getting fucked sometimes by 2-3 guys, sometimes I get beat, sometimes beat and fucked. They throw glasses at my feet, pour bottles of beer over my head, sometimes women will throw a punch, sometimes I’m dancing with the women. I always end up fucked by at least one guy.

by Anonymousreply 538January 18, 2022 2:16 PM

R537, check out the review at R530.

by Anonymousreply 539January 18, 2022 2:28 PM

Oh, thanks, r539.

Didn’t know what it meant.

by Anonymousreply 540January 18, 2022 2:43 PM

CCBC? Cathedral City Boys' Club?

by Anonymousreply 541January 18, 2022 2:43 PM

I wonder what went on at my Uni washrooms now. Was too shy to ever do anything but get in and get out...

I also wonder if security guys ever let students off the hook. I mean, if it's some 60 year old guy with no business being there, that's one thing. But if two students are exploring their sexualities and get frisky, isn't that the kind of situation where you let them off with a warning? Rather than arrest?

....we never really hear from people who get caught and prosecuted for this type of stuff (for obvious reasons) but I assume it can really mess up their lives.

by Anonymousreply 542January 18, 2022 3:18 PM

R541 It's our nickname for you.

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by Anonymousreply 544January 18, 2022 5:50 PM

R530 I can't believe cruisingforsex.com is still around! It's been around since, like 1996/7??

by Anonymousreply 545January 18, 2022 7:31 PM

[quote]R541 It's our nickname for you. Cunt Cunt Bitch Cunt.

You're so sweet, Sanjay. Thanks. 😘

by Anonymousreply 546January 18, 2022 8:36 PM

[quote]R530 I can't believe cruisingforsex.com is still around! It's been around since, like 1996/7??

I especially like reading about the Ramble in Central Park, NYC: muggers, undercover cops, a straight girl who wants to come watch. Good times.

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by Anonymousreply 547January 18, 2022 11:03 PM

Posted May 27 2021: Heads Up! Police are investigating a reported same-sex gang rape here: The alleged victim told cops he was walking inside the park just before 1 a.m., at West 77th Street and West Drive, when he saw five men sitting on a park bench, police sources said. The men then got up and followed the alleged victim, he told cops. He said he fell and was sexually assaulted by two of the men. The alleged victim said the five male suspects, all about 30 years old, ran off after the incident.

Update 5/28/21: Additional reports say the victim was a 19 year old trans man.

---- DL - did the rapists know he was trans or meant to rape a female of the night?

by Anonymousreply 548January 18, 2022 11:45 PM

I don't know. I don't live in New York but I would assume sex workers go elsewhere to ply their trade, not a gay cruising spot.

There is a possibility that he was lying about the gang rape.

by Anonymousreply 549January 19, 2022 1:06 AM

Article about the rape.

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by Anonymousreply 550January 19, 2022 1:08 AM

Was it rape rape? It sounds like he was cruising to get fucked in the park and it got out of hand.

by Anonymousreply 551January 19, 2022 2:20 AM

I dunno. Do trannies go to HOMO cruise areas to get fucked? One presumes they want men who want them as trannies.

by Anonymousreply 552January 19, 2022 2:29 AM

How're the Palisades these days? It's been ages.

Here's a post of interest from CFS _

[Quote] osted Feb 23 2019: It's reported that public sex is diminishing in New York City Parks. A Times article mentions Central Park, Fort Tryon Park, Forest Park, and Kissena Park, also reviewing other locations. To document this, it notes: Officers wrote 432 tickets in 2007 for what is referred to as "sex in park," according to Police Department data. Last year, through late December, they wrote six.

Not only are summonses down, but fewer New Yorkers are calling 311 to lodge complaints about lewd acts in public. In 2013, there were 483 complaints of lewd acts; last year, there were 283, according to the city.

The decline has been so precipitous that it raises obvious questions: Are the police telling frisky parkgoers simply to move along, or have New Yorkers lost some of their lust? Is it the Police Department that has changed, or is it us?

The answer may be a combination of both: City parks are more crowded, with visitors traipsing through even some out-of-the-way spaces; and police officers are also increasingly looking to solve neighborhood problems without resorting to handcuffs or tickets.

The police still target the most active locations and make arrests, yet those related to sex in public have also been on the downswing. The department recorded slightly more than 470 misdemeanor public lewdness arrests last year, down from nearly 700 in 2010. (Reported rapes have increased, but those in parks are rare.)

...The areas with zero park-sex tickets recorded over 10 years were some with little to no park space to speak of — Midtown Manhattan; Jackson Heights in Queens; Canarsie in Brooklyn — and others like the central Bronx neighborhoods of East Tremont and Belmont, where there are parks but, apparently, no sex seen by officers.

The act — considered a violation of park rules that currently carries a $100 fine — has to be witnessed by an officer for any action to be taken.

"You walk through the park and see a guy leaning against a tree: What crime is being committed there?" said Officer Bryan Polster, whose assignment includes Fort Tryon Park. "Just to be meeting someone in the park is not a crime. And I think that's why the complaints are nonexistent."

by Anonymousreply 553January 19, 2022 2:35 AM

I don't know, R551. It's hard to find updates about this story online because the victim isn't identified by name. Maybe his descriptions of the attackers are too vague to arrest anyone and the case is going nowhere.

by Anonymousreply 554January 19, 2022 4:51 AM

r550, it’s been almost a year ago. That case has been dropped.

With the new Manhattan DA not even concerning himself with or even prosecuting sex crimes, I guess all the Manhattan parks will busier than ever this spring/summer. They were pretty hot last summer. Cops want even bother;

According to twitter videos, Europe and Latin America seem to be hotbeds for cruising.

by Anonymousreply 555January 19, 2022 5:44 AM

Thanks, R555.

by Anonymousreply 556January 19, 2022 6:44 AM

[quote]I also wonder if security guys ever let students off the hook. I mean, if it's some 60 year old guy with no business being there, that's one thing.

I like to give back by discussing showbiz opportunities with the young.

by Anonymousreply 557January 19, 2022 8:32 AM

Where will all the gross sluts go now to take anonymous loads?

by Anonymousreply 558January 20, 2022 5:02 AM

Keep spreading your AIDS and continuing to blame President Ronald Reagan. You gay creatures never learn, do you? Well, GOD is watching and taking notes and keeping score. The cops may no longer care, but HE certainly does. Keep on mocking HIM. Have a blessed day!

by Anonymousreply 559January 20, 2022 12:59 PM

[quote]Well, GOD is watching and taking notes and keeping score.

He'll need a vast notebook indeed for all the Christian child abusers. Meanwhile, consensual gay sex will continue.

by Anonymousreply 560January 20, 2022 4:32 PM

Seriously...are some us here (yes, I mean you, religious nutbags) pretending that all the straight sex that happens is polite, holy, only behind closed doors and done one specific way?

Riiight. Sure.

Men have sex with women in bar bathrooms, in public parks, on beaches, in taxi cabs, on trains, rooftops, stairwells....anywhere they damn well please. And women LIKE IT.

Everyone - straight women in particular! - love Samantha from Sex and the City because she acts out her sexual fantasies. By the standards some of you are applying to gay men in this thread, she'd be a registered sex offender in prison right now.

Stop acting like you are the only ones who get to have fun. It's BS.

by Anonymousreply 561January 20, 2022 5:35 PM

R599, do you know that medications for AIDS are way better than they were in the 80s, that if a gay man is quickly diagnosed and takes his meds as directed, he can live close to a normal life span. The meds are effective at clearing HIV from blood and other bodily fluids and make it much less likely for a man with AIDS to transmit the virus.

I've read that if a woman comes down with certain STI's for the first time during pregnancy and is untreated, it can have dire consequences for the developing fetus. It can cause the baby to be stillborn. Rembrandt made a portrait of a man born with a deformed face because his mother had syphilis. That is why pregnant women are routinely tested and treated for STI's and discouraged from having sex later on in pregnancy.

That is probably why Christianity has traditionally encouraged monogamy and discouraged sex outside of marriage. STI's could have major consequences but now we live in a different world. STI's can be diagnosed and all of them can be treated and completely cured with the exception of herpes. Genital warts can be avoided with the HPV vaccine. Of course, any damage caused before the STI is diagnosed and treated will remain.

I'll bet plenty of straight people slept around centuries ago despite the condemnation by religion and when there were no antibiotics, no HPV vaccine and diseases like syphilis could be fatal. Let's not be hypocritical.

Try to keep up with the times, R599.

by Anonymousreply 562January 20, 2022 5:46 PM

R558 Wherever the fat, nellie prisspots like you aren't around, so they don't hear your hissing and cluck clucking tsk tsking,

by Anonymousreply 563January 20, 2022 7:58 PM

Looks like they tried, but failed, to close down the Froot Loop.

We SHALL over come! And come all over.

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by Anonymousreply 564January 20, 2022 8:02 PM

Ah, I have many fond memories of Schenley Park. One only had to take a walk in the woods to find married men anxious to shoot their nut and then leave.

by Anonymousreply 565January 20, 2022 8:33 PM

I'm the pro-Ramble or any private park and anti-Penn Station or any other bathroom cruiser. I told a story on the deleted (?) Ramble thread that this past April on the warmest day of the spring and on the day the NYC mask mandate was listed there were 100 guys gathered together in one small forest area in the Ramble. Of course people on DL told me "this never happened" but it did.

The MOST bathroom action I ever witnessed in my life was at O'Hare airport, just before Christmas, near the USO club just after 100's of soldiers arrived from all over to go home. Some were dressed up for their families and some looked like they got off from a year in an Iraqi desert but the terminal was swarming with them. I was coming from a funeral and I was sick and using the toilet for real.

The busiest bathrooms can be the crusiest because so many people are using it quickly. The bathroom was clean and the doors were very low, perfect for privacy. I was in there for about 10 minutes and I could just feel the sex all around me.

I'm totally sensitive to smell and I have ZERO desire to get caught in a bathroom in an airport but this was totally hot, all those horny soldiers. If I hadn't been sick I would have definitely taken advantage of it. But you know, that really is life isn't it? Nothing ever quite working out. You wait your whole life for a dream boat military man in uniform to stand next to you with a hard on and YOU have diarehea from Aunt Jeans artichoke dip which you KNEW was going to make you shit but you ate it anyway due to anxiety and boredom?

by Anonymousreply 566January 20, 2022 8:59 PM

R566 hahaha - awww sorry man. That sucks. But yes, that is exactly what happens. You're about to leave and someone perfect walks in.

Has anyone gotten trapped by an over-eager/won't take no for an answer type?

by Anonymousreply 567January 20, 2022 10:07 PM

Can someone explain to me just how you men achieve sexual satisfaction by lying with another man as he would with a woman? Intercourse is meant to be a beautiful and complementary act uniting man and woman into one being under GOD. Not to be crass, but the genitalia of a man and a woman complement each other. The bodies of two men and two women simply cannot complement each other. Fornication between members of the same sex is simply unnatural. Certainly someone on this devil-infused thread agrees with me.

by Anonymousreply 568January 20, 2022 10:14 PM

Hey R568, your post is simply unnatural. Go elsewhere, would you please?

by Anonymousreply 569January 20, 2022 10:56 PM

[quote]Can someone explain to me

I think you're tipping your hand here, churchy.

by Anonymousreply 570January 20, 2022 11:18 PM

One of the very few things gained from Covid, is that the notorious park (known for nighttime cruising in my city back in the 80's 90's but during Grindr days quite dead) has now again flourished with masked men all looking for that perfect dick or perfect mouth.

by Anonymousreply 571January 20, 2022 11:20 PM

R571 what is the causal relation or connection to covid for the resurgence of park cruising? Grindr isn't dead. Explain please.

by Anonymousreply 572January 20, 2022 11:24 PM

The idolators mentioned in r571's post will face the wrath of GOD come Judgement Day. I hate to be the one to break it to them, but it won't be pretty. I hope they have a high tolerance for extreme heat. Very extreme. I often wonder why these creatures are ready to endure an eternity of fiery hell simply for the few seconds of carnal pleasure derived from illicit, unnatural fornication. I suppose when your the spawn of Satan himself, lust always wins out. Have a very blessed day.

by Anonymousreply 573January 21, 2022 12:02 AM

You must be trolling, R568.

Some of us just have no sexual interest in women. Deal with it.

by Anonymousreply 574January 21, 2022 2:42 AM

Aw, poor R573. You haven't figured out that the Bible is just a collection of fairy tales. Maybe you'll get it one day.

by Anonymousreply 575January 21, 2022 2:44 AM

“Has anyone gotten trapped by an over-eager/won't take no for an answer type?”

There’s always one, isn’t there.

by Anonymousreply 576January 21, 2022 2:54 AM

Those are usually also the cockblockers—won’t leave and kill any action/vibe.

by Anonymousreply 577January 21, 2022 5:20 AM

And it's always at the urinals, so they have a perfect view of everyone...and then they stand there forever and STARE with the crazy eyes.

Hate that.

by Anonymousreply 578January 21, 2022 6:26 AM

R568, why do you spend so much time hanging out on a chat forum intended for gay men? Are you a gay man who is undergoing conversion therapy to become a red-blooded hetero?

by Anonymousreply 579January 21, 2022 8:03 AM

[quote]I hate to be the one to break it to them...

You hate it so much that you keep on returning to repeat your hatred.

by Anonymousreply 580January 21, 2022 8:12 AM

I'm too shy and too cautious for cruising.

by Anonymousreply 581January 21, 2022 8:22 AM

You want to talk about the KINGDOM OF GOD? Fort Tryon Park near the Cloisters, back in the day. Jesus, Glory Be To God, those were great, HOT times!

by Anonymousreply 582January 21, 2022 12:01 PM

R568 homosexuality is normal. That's why it exists and persists, regardless of what some random book of desert tribals says. As for me, I've tried both, and fucking a man is much much better than fucking a woman.

by Anonymousreply 583January 21, 2022 2:31 PM

I eat piles and piles of shit! Mmmm, where is my hot colostomy bag stew?

by Anonymousreply 584January 21, 2022 2:35 PM

Don't any of you boys worry about getting arrested by the police? I guess the thrill of potential arrest is part of your pathology. You know, your local newspaper will publish your names. Do you really want your families and friends to learn of your homosexuality in a news story about you being rounded up for engaging in homosexual activity in park? Seriously? If I were a parent whose child's teacher was named as a known park fornicator, I certainly wouldn't want you teaching my child. I would demand that you be removed from your position at once, and I would make sure that happens.

by Anonymousreply 585January 21, 2022 3:42 PM

r582. Yes. Ft. Tryon is active at all hours but not like it used to be. Like the Ramble, they've spent millions renovating and making the park safer and nicer but it's not as sexy.

by Anonymousreply 586January 21, 2022 3:43 PM

Who wants to bet R585 is listed among the names in this heterosexual item?

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by Anonymousreply 587January 21, 2022 4:45 PM

[quote]Don't any of you boys worry about getting arrested by the police? I guess the thrill of potential arrest is part of your pathology. You know, your local newspaper will publish your names. Do you really want your families and friends to learn of your homosexuality in a news story about you being rounded up for engaging in homosexual activity in park?

What?! Names published in the newspaper? Since when? This isn't the 1950s.

by Anonymousreply 588January 22, 2022 2:04 AM

There was a bust here in the late 80's R588, and names were listed.

by Anonymousreply 589January 22, 2022 7:39 PM

Do you live in the Bible Belt, R589?

by Anonymousreply 590January 22, 2022 8:17 PM

Publication is rare. And also, if you're dumb and don't know how to be subtle, then you're at higher risk. Most cruisers know the score and know how to avoid arrest.

by Anonymousreply 591January 22, 2022 9:05 PM

I live in a small town where people love to gossip R590.

by Anonymousreply 592January 22, 2022 11:36 PM

This documentary on the murders of gay men in cruising areas on Amazon is good, and made me think about how many dangerous situations I put myself in cruising or hooking up. When you are young, your sex drive can override your good sense. People using apps today or going to cruising areas need to be careful and trust their instincts if something seems suspicious.

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by Anonymousreply 593January 24, 2022 7:06 PM

as sympathetic as I am to the men pictured at R587, you know at least a few of them were one of thos old trolls that are ALWAYS at a cruising place - there every day like clockwork.

that ALWAYS pop up like Where's fucking Waldo when two younger guys are trying to get off together.

The kind where you could not go to a place for a year and the day you decide to go, boom, there's that old wrinkled bitch.

Someone probably narc'd on those old fucks.

by Anonymousreply 594January 24, 2022 9:46 PM

R594 It’s pretty standard for trolls. I used to feel sorry for them, then I noticed how they aren’t interested in each other, either. It would be cool if they stayed in their lane, but usually they don’t.

by Anonymousreply 595January 24, 2022 10:09 PM

No one is getting arrested in NY at any park. Those days are over. I expect this to be the wildest spring/summer in years.

Cops will ignore petty crimes, since the DAs are throwing them out anyway.

by Anonymousreply 596January 25, 2022 1:39 AM

Hopefully some of the cops will come out for a blowie or two.

by Anonymousreply 597January 25, 2022 2:00 AM

Gah, I could really use a nice hot load

by Anonymousreply 598January 25, 2022 2:07 AM

or two

by Anonymousreply 599January 25, 2022 2:07 AM

or ten

by Anonymousreply 600January 25, 2022 2:07 AM
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