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Theres gotta be something beyond this life

Right?

It gets more and more absurd and meaningless with each passing year. I believed in random beauty but it seems everything in life is pre-planned and things have been decided for us by others, often centuries ago. Maybe we will only be truly free after all of this madness called life.

by Anonymousreply 63January 1, 2022 4:13 PM

To quote one of my favorite movies: "What you got ain't nothin' new. This country's hard on people. You can't stop what's coming, it ain't all waiting on you. That's vanity."

by Anonymousreply 1December 17, 2021 9:46 AM

Whatever does or doesn't happen you won't know one way or another

Here's another way of looking at it. What happens after we die is the same thing that happened before we were born

by Anonymousreply 2December 17, 2021 10:11 AM

Yes, there is more to this life than what we experience. The interesting thing is it’s not beyond this life, it’s here now. We just don’t experience it. It doesn’t start after this world as we know it, we just are able to perceive it after death. But don’t rush it. You’ll have forever to figure it out later. For now just explore the miracle of being in this realm at the exact same time as 7.5 Billion other people. This realm that lasts 1/1000th of a blink of an eye compared to the expanse of time. Don’t worry or rush what is next - you’ll be there before you know it.

And “Freedom” is the most over used word. It’s not human nature to want to be 100% free. 100% Freedom includes a lot of work and bullshit most people don’t want to deal with. Freedom to source your own electricity. Freedom to figure out how to dispose of all your waste. And 100% freedom definitely doesn’t include the Internet, or reliable clean water. We are social animals and living in a society you relinquish a lot of your freedom to survive, to get along, to actually enjoy a less stressful life. All those life conveniences we’ve signed up for chip away at 100% Freedom - then again, who wants that?

But when you consider the rest of the world, within all of these constricts, waivers and social agreements, Western Civilization for the most part is the FREE-ist of all. We get to enjoy a larger portion of the good aspects of Freedom - which includes selfishly lamenting that we don’t have more.

by Anonymousreply 3December 17, 2021 10:13 AM

What’s it all about Alfre?

by Anonymousreply 4December 17, 2021 10:19 AM

Life sucks and then you die.

And then death sucks.

by Anonymousreply 5December 17, 2021 10:20 AM

There are Human Rights, and then there are privileges. The problem is most people have constructed their entire life around these privileges and begin to feel like they are human rights. They aren’t. So it’s not very mature to want 100% unbridled access to these privileges and expect that you can use them however you want. Part of your agreement of participation IS being told what to do and how you can do it, and certain decisions about your life being made for you. If that’s not cool with you - you do have the human right to choose the 100% freedom above.

by Anonymousreply 6December 17, 2021 10:23 AM

I think about life and I think about death, and neither one particularly appeals to me

by Anonymousreply 7December 17, 2021 10:25 AM

R5, not to sound completely morbid, but no one has any proof that Death isn’t the best thing to happen to you in Life.

by Anonymousreply 8December 17, 2021 10:25 AM

^Debbie Downer’s maudlin twin sister who they keep locked in a crate in the basement

by Anonymousreply 9December 17, 2021 10:31 AM

Pms R8 - I ww’d you first

by Anonymousreply 10December 17, 2021 10:33 AM

It all comes down to frothy manloads

by Anonymousreply 11December 17, 2021 10:35 AM

R11 is Andrew Sullivan. Lol

by Anonymousreply 12December 17, 2021 10:53 AM

[quote] "What’s it all about Alfre?

[quote] —Viola

R4 🤣

by Anonymousreply 13December 17, 2021 10:57 AM

deep thoughts with OP

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by Anonymousreply 14December 17, 2021 11:27 AM

There’s nothing, OP.

by Anonymousreply 15December 25, 2021 3:22 PM

The next world is going to be indescribably glorious

by Anonymousreply 16December 25, 2021 3:30 PM

Your atoms and energy will survive but not you.

by Anonymousreply 17December 25, 2021 3:39 PM

The soul is eternal, the flesh decays to dust

by Anonymousreply 18December 25, 2021 3:40 PM

OP suffering a bout of Xmas melancholy.

Just put Christ back in Christmas. You'll find renewal. (wink-wink, wink-wink)

by Anonymousreply 19December 25, 2021 3:44 PM
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by Anonymousreply 20December 25, 2021 3:48 PM

How many people have lived and died since man existed? There can't be an after life existence for all of those souls, can there?

by Anonymousreply 21December 25, 2021 3:58 PM

When the body dies, it is the consciousness which is absorbed back into the spiritual realm. Nearly all near death experiencers insist that we're eternal beings attending earth university. The spiritual realm is perfect, and therefore cannot provide the eternal soul with the learning experiences attains through life on earth. YouTube has plenty of personal accounts.

Gay man shares his ND experience.

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by Anonymousreply 22December 25, 2021 3:58 PM

Can I drop out of Earth University please?

by Anonymousreply 23December 25, 2021 4:00 PM

Yeah fuck this life especially the last few years. There’s no point unless you’re the 0.00001% whose lives haven’t been impacted at all.

by Anonymousreply 24December 25, 2021 4:14 PM

Give it up, already. There's dirt. That's your afterlife.

by Anonymousreply 25December 25, 2021 4:17 PM

R22 " YouTube has plenty of personal accounts"

They also have plenty of "psychics" - doesn't make it true.

by Anonymousreply 26December 25, 2021 4:20 PM

Billionaire Kerry Packer had a near death experience and said it was all terror and flames

by Anonymousreply 27December 25, 2021 4:22 PM

R27 I hope that’s where most of them go. They had it good at the expense of others.

by Anonymousreply 28December 25, 2021 4:27 PM

Don’t count on it. Make now matter.

by Anonymousreply 29December 25, 2021 4:48 PM

Sadly there’s nothing after this

by Anonymousreply 30December 25, 2021 4:52 PM

R6 = Ayn Rand's ghost

by Anonymousreply 31December 25, 2021 4:53 PM

Sadly for alot of us there is.

by Anonymousreply 32December 25, 2021 4:53 PM

Yes, OP- I rigged it all up like a giant domino game. You have no personal autonomy, you're just my muppet.

by Anonymousreply 33December 25, 2021 4:54 PM

Those who say there is just nothing after you die are every bit as as bad as ultra religious nutbars who claim there are harps, angels, St. Peter, and naps on clouds.

People can talk about near death experiences but the reality is absolutely no one alive knows what happens after you die. If there is some form of alternate consciousness, you'll become aware of it after you kick it on earth. Or if there truly is nothingness, you won't be around to be aware of THAT, so it won't matter anyway. Anyone who claims to know anything different is just being arrogant or grasping at hope.

by Anonymousreply 34December 25, 2021 5:25 PM

I'm old and reclusive and I think of this world as a charnel house but am still able to appreciate its beauty and majesty.

This is going to sound like a bromide and dismissively kooky but I genuinely believe we are here to learn to love ourselves. By love I mean care and respect, gentle guidance and introspection, establishing boundaries and humanitarian principles and remaining intact and self-protective when they are violated. Believing you are worthy even though you know you have terrible thoughts and uncharitable feelings.

Self-loathing is easy and gives rise to egoism. People who love themselves care about the least among us.

I'm not a follower of the sky god religions btw, and I'm not recruiting cult members lol.

by Anonymousreply 35December 25, 2021 5:29 PM

Maybe all your dreams come true.

by Anonymousreply 36December 25, 2021 5:41 PM

I like your take, r35.

by Anonymousreply 37December 26, 2021 2:29 PM

We don't know so I'm indifferent to the topic.

by Anonymousreply 38December 27, 2021 5:23 PM

Since NONE of us knows what's "on the other side" you better fucking live every day as if it's your last.

by Anonymousreply 39December 27, 2021 5:41 PM

This is all there is or ever will be.

Make the best of it.

by Anonymousreply 40December 27, 2021 5:48 PM

There are many dimensions. I am sure you ascend to another dimension.

by Anonymousreply 41December 27, 2021 6:07 PM

Death is just nature's way of telling you to slow down.

by Anonymousreply 42December 27, 2021 6:11 PM

We know 100% factually that things exist that we can't see - radio waves, cellular waves, wind, certain colors even. So who is to say that there aren't thousands if not millions of other things we don't know that exist that we can't see? Think of your body as a prism and the energy inside can only experience the things the prism is set up to receive. Once that energy is released from that prism no one knows what it experiences or what worlds open up to it. One thing we do know is that energy is neither created nor destroyed, so it does continue on in some shape or form - whether the experience is singular or absorbed into a larger source. But it isn't just extinguished. And since Like attracts Like, I would imagine that energies with similar structures, similar imprinted experiences in this world are attracted to each other outside of the body.

by Anonymousreply 43January 1, 2022 7:50 AM

I think when you die you're dead, and that's it. This one life is all we get.

by Anonymousreply 44January 1, 2022 9:40 AM

[quote]We know 100% factually that things exist that we can't see - radio waves, cellular waves, wind, certain colors even.

Not to mention the elusive good republican.

by Anonymousreply 45January 1, 2022 9:49 AM

Atheism is a soul killer. Makes life meaningless

by Anonymousreply 46January 1, 2022 10:21 AM

Belief in any sky god makes life a comedy.

by Anonymousreply 47January 1, 2022 10:55 AM

R46 funny, I think the exact opposite: As an atheist, I don’t seek comfort in talking snakes and mythical beings — this life isn’t a dress rehearsal for something better.

This is all we have. Try to make the most of it. Redefine “success” as something personal that has zero to do with job title, status or possessions.

Just my take.

by Anonymousreply 48January 1, 2022 11:05 AM

u just gotta believe

by Anonymousreply 49January 1, 2022 12:56 PM

R47, I think it makes life a tragedy. The world has been fucked up from the word go, and God could intervene but chooses not to.

by Anonymousreply 50January 1, 2022 1:12 PM

R46, no, atheism makes you appreciate life for what it is, instead of wasting your life hoping for a better one after you die.

by Anonymousreply 51January 1, 2022 1:19 PM

R46 Believing in more than just what you see is not just about an afterlife. Atheism embraces the idea there there is a nothingness after death. But a belief that there is more to what we see, including existence after death can lead to a fuller life, a fuller existence during the life you have here in this body.

[quote]atheism makes you appreciate life for what it is

Yet atheism limits the idea of what life actually is to what we can see and experience. There maybe several things that we cannot see or physically experience that affect our day to day lives. I don't personally believe in dieties or gods of any sort. But I do believe there are natural forces, cosmic energies at play. I agree with atheists in their belief that there is no god controlling our lives. But I disagree that life is just what we see. Our biological bodies live and die but human beings are more than just the physical. And that something more doesn't just start at death, it is here now and will always be in some form.

by Anonymousreply 52January 1, 2022 1:31 PM

[quote] Here's another way of looking at it. What happens after we die is the same thing that happened before we were born

You think you’re saying something new or revelatory (“here’s another way of looking at it”) but you’re really not.

Here is another way for YOU to look at it. Maybe “being born” wasn’t the beginning of anything.

by Anonymousreply 53January 1, 2022 1:38 PM

Why does there have to be?

by Anonymousreply 54January 1, 2022 1:42 PM

"Billionaire Kerry Packer had a near-death experience and said it was all terror and flames".

The keyword here, "billionaire"

by Anonymousreply 55January 1, 2022 1:43 PM

If there is no afterlife , I would sin constantly

by Anonymousreply 56January 1, 2022 1:45 PM

Nope

by Anonymousreply 57January 1, 2022 2:04 PM

Nope, as a person with an advanced degree in physics I can tell you, this is it. this is it, this is life the one you get, so go and have a ball.

by Anonymousreply 58January 1, 2022 2:11 PM

Life is a cycle. You live, you die, You come back again and then die again. No one is in control except you. You choose what you will go thru in life, who you will be, who the people are that surround you in life. All of it is to learn. The things you choose to go thru is so that you can learn from them. To what end purpose, I do not know.

by Anonymousreply 59January 1, 2022 2:12 PM

We really have no idea. Which is either the most disturbing or most free-ing aspect of life. We have just made up a purpose and construct over thousands of years - but really have no idea. It can be nihilistic - or a reason to make something up, knowing it’s totally made up but believing it anyway.

by Anonymousreply 60January 1, 2022 2:52 PM

only some people have no idea. some of us know.

by Anonymousreply 61January 1, 2022 2:54 PM

R58, please use your advanced degree in physics to explain what triggered the Big Bang. Or in what form the universe existed before the Big Bang. Or how gravity actually works. Or exactly how the earliest forms of life sprung into being.

You don’t know shit.

by Anonymousreply 62January 1, 2022 3:01 PM

[quote]How many people have lived and died since man existed? There can't be an after life existence for all of those souls, can there?

Plenty of deep outer space to an extent we can't comprehend to contain all those souls, should they be seeking afterlife dwelling arrangements.

[quote]Billionaire Kerry Packer had a near death experience and said it was all terror and flames

Sounds promising. Maybe it's indeed easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the Kingdom of Heaven.

by Anonymousreply 63January 1, 2022 4:13 PM
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