She’s not saying anything women don’t know.
Straight porn is really extreme. Men tend to be more visual than women, and they imprint easily on straight porn. There’s a lot of straight porn that is about slapping, choking and beating women, which is presented as normal and cool, and any women who don’t want to be beaten during sex are depicted as “prudes.” Not everyone wants to endure a beating to get sex. I think that’s why a lot of younger people, especially women and girls, describe themselves as asexual. If your choices are either to be beaten and get sex, or not be beaten and don’t get sex, and you’re a virgin teenager watching porn and think porn is an accurate representation of sex, you’re basically being brainwashed to hate sex. And boys are being brainwashed to become woman beaters to prove they’re “manly” like the guys in the porn.
I had an ex who had old European porn magazines from the 1970s. It was all storylines of some guy meeting some woman or a group, and they mutually decided to have sex or an orgy. No one was being beaten or roughed up, it was all consensual sex. My dad collected Playboys in that era, and I saw them much younger than Eilish. They were all glamour shots of very pretty women with big fake boobs, airbrushed to perfection. Nothing bad there, nothing negative or traumatic. But that was long before Eilish’s childhood. It’s gotten a lot worse since then.
Porn producers have decided to change the entire standard of what sex is, for profit. People are turned off by sex and porn because the porn is ugly and violent. If someone was making sex positive straight porn, kids could see it younger and not be traumatized by it. But they’re making incest porn, bondage, degrading porn, they’re normalizing face slapping, spanking and choking. In real life, abusers who choke their victims are much more likely to kill them. Battered women’s shelters say a woman who is choked even once is much more likely to be murdered. And porn is teaching young women that choking is “normal” and something they have to pretend to enjoy if they want to be in a relationship. So a lot of younger women have decided they can pass on sexual relationships. Younger women and girls have been exposed to more violent porn, that’s why they’re less sexual. The people in straight porn who are getting beaten are almost always women. And aggressive behavior begets other aggressive behavior, so it’s possible all these incels with guns are actually being inspired by porn’s “my way or the highway” attitude towards sex and dominating women.
About her saying that women don’t look like that, porn actresses have all had hue boob jobs, they have butt implants sometimes, they’ve had their noses redone. Other than the implants, they’re very thin. It’s not normal for a woman to have huge boobs and be skinny everywhere else. Fat doesn’t go to one place only. They’re making an unrealistic standard nobody without plastic surgery can live up to. Girls see that and try to starve themselves, or get called fat by boys, but they can’t be both skinny in one place and fat in another at the same time. Boobs are pure fat.
Eilish plainly covers herself because of the gawking her boobs get. That’s sad, she has a good figure and she covers herself out of fear of ridicule or staring. People these days get a thrill out of picking people’s looks apart. Another consequence of the internet age, you can rip people apart anonymously and never get called out on it.
