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Why do Brits call their queen "Mom?"

Is it like she's their symbolic mother, like Mary?

This is some sort of esoteric cultural practice, right?

Feels tribal.

by Anonymousreply 41October 3, 2022 11:30 AM

It's how Brits pronounce ma'am. Short for madam.

by Anonymousreply 1December 10, 2021 10:28 AM

Why did the Prince marry a horse?

by Anonymousreply 2December 10, 2021 10:31 AM

If you’re thinking of “the Queen Mum,” that was the current Queen’s mother, not the Queen herself (well the Mum had also been Queen, just not anymore).

by Anonymousreply 3December 10, 2021 10:33 AM

Americans say mom, Brits say mum — And the Queen is addressed first with "Your Majesty", and later in conversation it's custom to address her with "Ma'am". NOT "Madam".

by Anonymousreply 4December 10, 2021 10:35 AM

Why did OP go off her meds again?

by Anonymousreply 5December 10, 2021 11:06 AM

“Mums the word.” I always wondered where that term came From.

by Anonymousreply 6December 10, 2021 11:12 AM

Without getting into this argument again, there are far more British accents than receive exposure.

Some say 'mum', some say 'mom', some say 'mam'.

by Anonymousreply 7December 10, 2021 11:19 AM

It's actually "Mam" as in "jam". You use Your Majesty upon being introduced, and then it's Ma'am.

As in jam.

Bond calls M Mum. It's garbled Ma'am.

And yet another profoundly stupid, smug, condescending thread by a witless Yank who knows nothing about Britain, but is anxious to despise us.

By the way, as most of us have never and will never meet her, we call her . . .

The Queen.

And after she is raptured, no longer to reign o'er us, the Ma'am as in jam will become "Sir" after a first greeting.

That sound "tribal" to you, too, you moron?

by Anonymousreply 8December 10, 2021 11:47 AM

Quite racistly, the required pronunciation is different depending on who you are.

British subjects are obligated to address her Majesty as "Mom."

Americans and Canadians are told to say "Ma'am as in jam."

Presumably the Palace figured out at some point that the Yanks were mocking them in private and acquiesced to a slight change in protocol.

by Anonymousreply 9December 10, 2021 12:59 PM

R9, basic reading comprehension is required for DL.

by Anonymousreply 10December 10, 2021 1:06 PM

R8 come sit next to me.

by Anonymousreply 11December 10, 2021 1:13 PM

R4 Madame in the UK exclusively refers to female pimps, I think. I remember some snarky remarks when the U.S. almost had our "Madam President."

by Anonymousreply 12December 10, 2021 5:04 PM

R8 God forbid anybody have a laugh.

by Anonymousreply 13December 10, 2021 5:05 PM

R6 I had a French colleague who spoke English quite well but not fluently. When he was a student he bullshit his way into a job translating subtitles for American movies. One film's line of dialogue "Mum's the word!". He translated it as "c'est maman!".

by Anonymousreply 14December 10, 2021 6:02 PM

R12 not true. Brits tend to affectionately call spoiled brat little girls "she's a real little Madame".

by Anonymousreply 15December 10, 2021 6:03 PM

R15 Well! Madam President, indeed, then.

by Anonymousreply 16December 10, 2021 6:12 PM

"Mam as in ham, not mom as in farm" is what comes to mind...

by Anonymousreply 17December 10, 2021 7:01 PM

R18 - The thread wasn't put up for a "laugh". No one but a complete eejit would have put that "sounds tribal" phrase in if it had been.

DLers are generally better at witty titles than that.

by Anonymousreply 18December 10, 2021 7:23 PM

When I taught you to call me Ma'amie Dearest, subjects....I wanted you to MEAN IT.

by Anonymousreply 19December 10, 2021 7:25 PM

R18 No we aren't. When Mom dies the thread will be titled "Lizzie Windsor is DEAD TO ME." Predictable beyond belief.

by Anonymousreply 20December 10, 2021 8:16 PM

Then why do they call her Mammy Eisenhower?

by Anonymousreply 21December 10, 2021 8:37 PM

R21 She was a primitive fertility figure, a totem of fecundity in a postwar culture where maternity was sacrosanct and feminine domesticity necessary for the survival of the tribe. Her cult was believed to have ushered in a "Baby Boom."

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by Anonymousreply 22December 10, 2021 10:07 PM

R.I.P. Mom 😭😭😭💔

by Anonymousreply 23September 12, 2022 6:10 PM

Ma’am tomorrow, ma’am yesterday, but never, ever ma’am today!

by Anonymousreply 24September 12, 2022 6:19 PM

[quote] Quite racistly

R9 Quite stupidlly

by Anonymousreply 25September 12, 2022 6:21 PM

Get your hearing checked, OP.

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by Anonymousreply 26September 12, 2022 6:37 PM

R18 Go tell yourself!

by Anonymousreply 27September 12, 2022 10:28 PM

R8 called her Mum when he met her.

by Anonymousreply 28September 12, 2022 10:38 PM

[quote] Americans say mom, Brits say mum — And the Queen is addressed first with "Your Majesty", and later in conversation it's custom to address her with "Ma'am". NOT "Madam".

What about "Madwoman"?

by Anonymousreply 29September 13, 2022 1:24 AM

She'll be a mummy soon.

by Anonymousreply 30October 1, 2022 12:02 PM

She's not my Mom and she never will be.

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by Anonymousreply 31October 1, 2022 1:44 PM

R22 Like a Virgin Mary figure.

by Anonymousreply 32October 1, 2022 1:47 PM

I would call Hillary Clinton mam if I met her.

She reminds me of the late queen, i.e. an old white woman.

by Anonymousreply 33October 1, 2022 1:48 PM

R6 mum's the word means you'll keep your mouth shut about what someone has told you.

by Anonymousreply 34October 1, 2022 2:02 PM

The Virgin Mamie

by Anonymousreply 35October 1, 2022 2:26 PM

R34 You're bloody well right it is.

by Anonymousreply 36October 1, 2022 4:44 PM

R33 I call all older white women Mom just to be safe. Don't know who might be the Queen or not, they all look the same. I hear she's dead, I'll believe when I see it.

by Anonymousreply 37October 1, 2022 4:46 PM

Meet your new mam, kids:

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by Anonymousreply 38October 1, 2022 5:24 PM

[quote]Americans say mom, Brits say mum

Not all Britons. In Birmingham it has always been mom for some reason. Mum pretty much everywhere else though.

by Anonymousreply 39October 1, 2022 8:12 PM

Mammy in Ireland.

by Anonymousreply 40October 2, 2022 2:31 AM

Yes, mam, mammy or other variants all exist in parts of the UK but by and large the mom/mum split goes that way.

by Anonymousreply 41October 3, 2022 11:30 AM
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