I have a complicated situation, but I’ll try to be brief. My wife and I (both women) began having regular threesomes with a close friend (also female) about a year ago. It was fun, uncomplicated, and spiced our lives up during COVID, when there was really nothing else to do. But recently, we’ve realized things are actually quite complicated. My wife and I both fell in love with our friend, and she with us. We’re not in a place to explore a poly relationship—we’re already in the fringe being a same-sex couple in our small Midwestern town—but we can’t continue as a closeted triad because the feelings are real. We know we need to break up, and that at least one of us will get hurt. Our friend has said the marriage should be protected, but I’d rather be with her than my wife. I think she might agree, but I know she would tell my wife if I asked, so I’m afraid to until I’m certain of her answer. Unfortunately, I suspect my wife is thinking the same thing. We do all love each other and want to maintain a friendship if we can. How do we figure out how to minimize the hurt one of us will feel and decide who gets to keep our new love?
Luscious labial lesbian lust. What advice does datalounge give?
by Anonymous | reply 11 | November 24, 2021 1:03 PM |
Who does the new gal like best?
by Anonymous | reply 1 | November 24, 2021 12:32 PM |
Don't be disgusting OP.
by Anonymous | reply 2 | November 24, 2021 12:35 PM |
[quote]How do we figure out how to minimize the hurt one of us will feel and decide who gets to keep our new love?
talk it out, over a nice nutloaf
by Anonymous | reply 3 | November 24, 2021 12:36 PM |
Get a divorce. It's not like you and your wife will ever be in a happy and healthy marriage again, after this.
by Anonymous | reply 4 | November 24, 2021 12:36 PM |
New tool belts for the lot of you.
by Anonymous | reply 5 | November 24, 2021 12:38 PM |
You brought this on yourself, OP. Have fun with either losing your wife, your friend, or both.
This is why you don't fuck your friends with your spouse -- this is what happens.
by Anonymous | reply 6 | November 24, 2021 12:44 PM |
Shame on you, I thought lesbians were decent girls.
by Anonymous | reply 7 | November 24, 2021 12:47 PM |
Arm wrestling should settle it.
by Anonymous | reply 8 | November 24, 2021 12:50 PM |
Oh why must lesbians imitate us? Messed up thinking with dick is our thing.
by Anonymous | reply 9 | November 24, 2021 12:55 PM |
R7, some of the lesbians I know leave gay men way behind when it comes to being wild.
by Anonymous | reply 10 | November 24, 2021 12:56 PM |
Leave a cane catalog out somewhere conspicuous, with the cane you've been wanting circled boldly. If one of them presents you with this fabulous gift, she's your gal.
by Anonymous | reply 11 | November 24, 2021 1:03 PM |