"Breeding" questions

Nowhere near as important as SAFE SEX.

Sex phobic caftan wearers is neither funny nor productive.

If that's how you respond or deal with people who may have perspectives different from your, your problem isn't the dick inside you, it's the dick you are.

Anyway, this post is just a troll flamin'.

It's purely psychological, as are most things when it comes to sex.

OP, are you proud of yourself, now that you've triggered poor R2?

Not so much triggered as annoyed, R4. Stupid is so thick here on the DL.

My ex, a top, insisted on it once we were tested and monogamous. To him it was proof I loved him. I suspect it was also that he enjoyed thinking he "owned" me sexually. Eh, whatever.

It did nothing for me, but I was happy to oblige as he was one helluva fuck and it really turned him on.

Very hot

Can't beat baby-making.

Bump

He'll shoot your eye out.

Yay heteronorms!

I prefer it on my face or in my mouth. Just a personal preference. I've had guys nut in me, usually by accident because my hole is so good, but it really didn't do anything for me . Finishing on the face is just more intense.

From a top's perspective, it just feels better to keep going all the way, rather than to stop, pull out, and finish off by hand. Sure, for some guys there may be a psychological element to it -but I think it's just physiological.

Thanks, R13. That’s helpful.

Top here and I agree with r13, although that also applies to wearing a condom (my adamant preference). Just fucking until you cum is awesome.

[Quote] because my hole is so good I don’t know what that means, and I’ve fucked a good number of bottoms, some hotter than others, but their holes weren’t noticeably different.

Fair enough, R13.

And OP wearing a condom doesn’t make me sex-phobic or caftan-wearing and I’d fuck you silly until your eyes crossed but I won’t because I hate you.

Pulling out is for porn.

You, my dear, are a CHEAP SLUT!!!

I, at least, have the sense to charge!

The feeling of having a guy cum inside you, especially if he cums a lot, can be amazing.

But I'm super picky about who - has to be the right guy, a dick I can take, etc.

You can't feel it, R20.

R21 I can. I'm sorry your cavernous cunt is unable to feel such pleasure.

I gotta say I agree with R18 -Pulling out was invented for porn. Money shots and all that. It's not what people do in real life.

I mean, I love porn where someone pulls out because I want to see the load.

Top here. Cumming inside is so much better.

Pulling out and kicking it…I might was well have just jacked off.

r20, and if, as any good bottom can, have a simultaneous orgasm, the throbbing, clenching asshole meets the throbbing expanding cock. Closest thing to heaven on earth with a tongue down your throat.

R26 YES! Have had that happen several times.

Always surprising the top when it happens, as I shoot far and shoot a lot. So we end up with a real explosion, inside and out.

Breed me, Seymour

I regret making the comment in the original post about caftan wearers. It was silly and unnecessary.

The main thing it did was turn this thread into a debate on barebacking. I started with the assumption that men are increasingly going without condoms. And a curiosity about what that is like for the guys who do.

My fault completely that the thread got sidetracked.

Cool of you r29. Now I don’t hate you anymore. We can fuck.

WHAT?????????? A THREAD GETTING DERAILED ON DATALOUNGE??? HOW DARE THEY!!!

As a bottom I don’t feel it when a top cums in me—but I know the top feels it.

When I first went in PrEP, I let a poz (undetectable) guy be the first to cum in me. That was a psychologically hot moment for both of us. All that pent up emotion exploded. Phenomenally sexy

Breeding means selecting one person and forcing then to fuck another to produce a human. Like you breed cattle. Gay men don't breed. The people who use this term re: gay sex need to seek therapy.

Sorry not sorry.

I was SHOCKED by this thread! I thought this was a thread discussing good breeding, manners and poise, not whose asshole has the most cum!

R33 I agree with you. It’s a stupid description for the phenomenon. But it’s the one people now use and understand. I put the term in quotation marks because of my ambivalence.

There doesn't seem to be an alternative term or phrase. Splashing his sugar walls, maybe??

The thought of coming inside my boyfriends butt is what makes me hard to begin with.

I know long term partners that still use condoms with each other although they have been monogamous for 20 years . They say they came out in a time gay sex was thought of as deadly and it’s still emblazoned in their brains

R38 / that’s not unusual amongst our age group — the advice was always assume any partner is HIV positive and act accordingly to protect yourself. There also the underlying fear of a “monogamous” partner having cheated on you - which is often more visceral and instinctual that rational in many relationships. I never bottom, but went on prep just so I didn’t have those nagging old worries around sex anymore.

[quote] Pulling out is for porn.

Exactly. Why would anyone want to pull out and finish off by hand. You can use your hand any time you want.

Flood my basement honey!

[quote]Why would anyone want to pull out and finish off by hand.

Are you saying that those of us who like a guy to finish on our face our in our mouth are somehow wrong ?

[quote]From a top's perspective, it just feels better to keep going all the way, rather than to stop, pull out, and finish off by hand.

My personal take, as a top, is quite different. I mean, I do agree that it feels better to go all the way without stopping and changing the dynamic, but that's not really it. For me it's a fucking insanely intense feeling to shoot your load while you're fucking someone's hole, and you ride each wave of orgasm with a hard thrust into his ass. OMG, it's the greatest physical feeling ever.

R43 Do you use condoms? I’m asking because I’m wondering whether the intense sensation you describe only happens bareback.

I know all about topping

R44, that's a good question. I've done both, and the feeling is slightly more intense without condoms. That's where the psychological part comes in, I guess. The thought of "breeding" a guy while experiencing that intense feeling makes it a better experience, but I'd rather come without pulling out while I'm wearing a condom than to do it raw but then pull out before I come.

Thank you, biology.

Breeding tells. So watch out for leakage down your leg at dinner afterward.

So we all agree, shooting your breeding sperm into a dark hole with no rubber and NO PULLING OUT is the ultimate sex act. Nothing straight about that.

[quote]The feeling of having a guy cum inside you, especially if he cums a lot, can be amazing.

Pure BS. Bottoms cannot feel the difference between cumming inside with vs without a condom. All about the size of the cock, if it's hitting the prostate and general skill of the top thrusting. It's purely psychological for the bottom. As a top, there is a difference since a condom provides a barrier to some sensation.

You can't feel when someone comes inside you because it's basically all the same body temperature, yes? So it's not like you'd feel the sensation of a warm liquid shooting inside you because the spunk is pretty much the same temperature as the inside of your hole.

So what's the answer? Get your ass fucked by a guy with a raging fever!

Researching vaping can be overwhelming. Who knew there were so many different types of pens from which to choose: dab and wax pens, THC vape pens, vape pens for oils....yikes!

And I'm clearly in the wrong thread!! Sorry

yall some hoes up in here

Breeding suggest better bottoms over time.

I breed pugs, does that count?

Gross. I wish we would evolve to a post-sex society and be a sex-negative culture. Humanity must move past its carnal desires for the flesh...

R57 MARY!

Why, R57? What is wrong with sex? Why are you so hung up on medieval mores and phrases like "carnal desires?" We don't need to be post-sex --We just need to be post-STIs.

[quote][bold]Humanity[/bold] must move past its carnal desires for the flesh...

Then we wouldn't be [bold]human[/bold], dear.

[quote]Gross. I wish we would evolve to a post-sex society and be a sex-negative culture. Humanity must move past its carnal desires for the flesh...

🍑🍆💦

All guys over 30 should be tops. Who wants an elderly bottom? All bottoms should be twinks

R62 = hasn't had a second date since Clinton was President

Anytime I fuck with a condom, I can't cum inside. They kill all sensation for me. I always have to pull out and finish off by hand.

This is why I hate condoms.

I've had a lot of good sex and always safe. I like to cum inside but it didn't matter to my bottoms that I was Cumming in a condom.

R65, I still use condoms all the time also but was just being honest about how they kill all sensation for me. That said, all the bottoms I've been with never seem to mind my pulling out and cumming on their face or chest, so it all works out.

[quote] I know all about topping —Andy Cohen, Power Top

That’s the funniest thing I’ve read all week.

Condoms don't kill sensation for me that I can tell, I should add. Left to me, I'd say it's also largely psychological to think that they do. But that's me. I won't fight it.

Another top here, and I agree that cumming inside a partner--with or without a condom--is much preferred. It is my favorite way to finish by far.

It sounds like raindrops falling on a tin roof.

I never cum when wearing a condom. I have to take it off and beat off.

R64, I have a great FB like that. He will fuck the hell out of me, with my cumming three times but he can only cum if he jerks off without the condom.

He insists of wearing a condom because he’s married.

The difference in feeling is exemplified by trying to jerk off while wearing a condom. Do you feel much at all! ?

R73 I tried that on the advice of a doctor.

I never came with the condom on while jerking off. No real sensation.

Not very important.

"Breeding" seems at least partially oriented towards biological women who fetishize male homosexuality. The same types who feverishly write Internet erotica about werewolves, knotting, the guys from Supernatural, etc.

This thread is making me horny as hell!

Back in my youth I loved feeling the spray of my boyfriend's cum in my ass?

^^^Delete question mark. there was no doubt about it

I prefer bread to breed

I can't even remember the last time I had sex with condoms. My philosophy was to let the top decide. With PrEP, condom are totally unnecessary.

If there was great chemistry with the bottom, like you were both very into how hot each other was, then cumming with a condom on inside him just seemed to seal the deal, sort of proof that this was hot sex.

For guys where there was less chemistry, I usually had to resort to pulling out and jerking off after they came or when I got bored, whichever happened first.

Watching a guy push your cum out of his ass is hotter in a porn video than in reality.

Oh my STARS! Sexual intercourse? With the LIGHTS on???

SHRIEK!!!!!! *takes Silkwood shower*

Like responsible gay couples everywhere, we focus our breeding activities on surrogates.

I won't denigrate anyone who wants to wear a condom, but I can unequivocally say that bareback feels better physiologically. I compare fucking with a condom to using a dildo, and while dildos have their time and place, if I'm with a human I want to feel that skin-on-skin contact and particularly the sensation as he pulls his cock right out to the edge and the ridge of his glans crosses those nerve endings... which a condom obscures. A condom also has a different drag coefficient than human flesh which no lubricant can emulate. But these physical feelings pale in comparison to the psychological connection I achieve in fucking bareback, and I fully admit that about 95% of the pleasure I derive is in this realm.

And that's why I find R38's comment about long-term partners fucking with condoms unrelatable. I'm of that era and I fully understand why they feel the way that they do, but as my doctor pointed out to me about 30 years ago, if you're both negative there is no risk. That't not to say I ran around and fucked any random hookup without protection, but part of what I find hot in any sexual encounter goes beyond the physical act. And while I can't feel his load splattering my guts, the thought of it as his cock throbs inside me (which I do feel if I can pause before blowing my load) pushes me over the edge, and then feeling it leaking out and running down my legs afterword is divine. Bottom line (no pun intended), it's the intimacy of barebacking that I crave, and I choose to reserve for my partner whom I trust implicitly.

Calling it "breeding" is due to porn. Paul Morris may not have been the first use of the word in relation to homosexual fucking, but he certainly popularized it and made it the taboo it is. It was a complex psychological tactic to repurpose the word and it fits with the kind of porn he makes and who he is. It's not for everyone, that's for sure.

to the people saying a bottom cannot feel it, I guess you never had an enema? You feel that going in. If a top has a decent load, you can feel it.

[quote]Breeding tells. So watch out for leakage down your leg at dinner afterward.

Don't you have to douche so your quimmy is fresh if he wants to kiss it or eat it out later?

I had cancer and lost the ability to cum, although I can still dry orgasm. Bottoms love it. I can fuck without pulling out and no risk of HIV.

I just started letting my BF cum in my ass. I don't feel his load, but I feel his whole body tense up when he shoots. Its very hot.

Bug chasing and breeding came in with HIV. Prior to that, coming in an ass was just having sex.

[Quote] to the people saying a bottom cannot feel it, I guess you never had an enema? You feel that going in. If a top has a decent load, you can feel it.

That’s a ridiculous comparison. The amount of fluid in an enema is like Niagara Falls compared to cum

I was taught the pull-out rule by my “first love” in the mid 90s. This worldly god taught me that it was ok to not use a condom as long as he pulled out. “Ok” *insert airhead tone*. Mentally, I was a total bottom and still hadn’t matured enough to fully understand all the nuances of nasty, blow-your-mind sex. I was shocked when the rebound, big-black-dicked, but not attractive face, fuck-buddy I hooked up with after “first love” dumped me, asked me if he could cum inside me. I was only shocked for a few minutes though. By the time he told me he was cumming, I was begging him to cum inside me. About seven years later I was getting in touch with the nasty top within myself. He wanted to “breed”. He just did, I don’t know why. Anyway, I’ve been cumming inside guys since then. Around 2009/2010 I added pulling out back to my repertoire…….. and then putting my slimey, but still hard dick back inside them. This drives them crazy, and they jack themselves off to a body-trembling orgasm. That’s my story.

R92 7/10.

R93 Lol! Thank ya, thank ya! Yes, I could’ve done better, both in my writing and my sex skills.

R94 it was really well done. Except for the vaguely racist part.

You keep the reader interested and titillated. And that’s the mark of a good EST.

Wait... R92 was "vaguely racist" in his description of having sex with a black guy? Should he not have mentioned his FB's race?

It's primarily psychological, at least for me (as a bottom). I can definitely feel my bf shoot, and just knowing that he's cumming in me really turns me on. I'd say about half the time we achieve something like simultaneous orgasm; when we don't I like him to cum first. Then usually I'll jack myself off once he pulls out, and it's just as good for me.

That said, I also find it hot when he pulls out and cums on my chest or stomach. I'm happy to j.o. to that, too.

As a bottom, I’ve never felt the cum as a top is shooting, but like others I can feel the top’s cock pulsating and throbbing as he’s cumming. Love it when my partner cums inside me and I can feel the sensation of his cock twitching and throbbing. Like a good top, he usually gets me off first, then me cumming sends him over the edge and he cums shortly after.

Bump

You can have my sperm inside of you...

if you ask for it

[quote]How important is it to come inside the bottom?

Critical, if you want to get her pregnant...

I’d rather cum in him I guess. Especially if it’s a new guy. If it’s a fuck buddy whom I know is totally clean down there then I love pulling out and cumming on their face but only if they eat it. With that said, I like switching back and forth depending on the guy. So I guess I prefer them eating cum? But the first fuck has to be cumming in them.

how can he get pregnant if you come in his mouth?

even if you can't feel the ejaculate in your ass, you feel the sensation of his cock throbbing and you feel the spasms in his body, especially if he ends with a deep, bone crushing thrust

[quote]Wait... [R92] was "vaguely racist" in his description of having sex with a black guy? Should he not have mentioned his FB's race?

mentioning that he was black was as important as mentioning that he was ugly......make of that what you will

I bred a very hot muscular hairy bottom in his mid 20s this afternoon. A guy was just leaving when I rolled into his place. I nodded at the previous top, and the bottom said “Round 2!” I ate the existing load out of his hole to ensure that my sperm was dominant and then plunged the remainder of the previous guy’s load out with my cock before depositing my spunk into the bottom’s guts.

And I thought of this thread on DL before I opened his door.

R106 3/10

10/10 because it actually happened r107

Just another day of an attractive gay man in a major city who is not afraid of having sex and is on prep

^What's felching like? R108

Fresh loads from a man’s ass taste delicious r109…guzzling them down is the reason that I was born. They taste so sweet sweet, full of life, because another man has loaded another man’s ass. It’s way better than a load straight from a cock.

Stale, old loads? Got to say…those do nothing for me. It’s like rotting fruit.

How long can the load be marinating in the ass before it's considered "stale"? r110

Check the sell by date.

R95 R105 Thanks again for the feedback. I appreciate hearing it. About mention of race and looks, yes it needs to be included, otherwise you’re erasing people. Looking over what I wrote, I could’ve said big-dicked black man, rather than big-black-dicked.

I never wear condoms and I always cum inside the dude’s ass. When I was with my girlfriend for 4 years, we tried rubbers only one time and then never again. Tried to get her pregnant every time. But she was on birth control.

Which by the way is less effective at preventing pregnancy than PrEP is at preventing HIV infection.

Trust in PrEP. Go raw. Let him cum right inside your hole. The other STIs are trifles and can be taken care of with one dose of antibiotics in the off chance you contract one. I’m a legendary slut, and for all the BB sex I had, and all the hundreds of guys I hooked up with, I’m still HIV negative and only ever had one STI, which I discovered right away and was promptly treated for; the infection cleared up in a few days.

All worth it. Truly nothing better than having a guy grip you with his rectum while you spasm in ecstasy and spray your load deep inside his butt.

I always have to cum deep inside the other guy. Bareback. Nothing’s better than that.

Someone said above all holes are the same. I beg to differ. Each one is different - some are tighter all around, others have a tight sphincter ring but looseness everywhere else, some are intermittently "clenchy", and many are so relaxed and loose that you have to throw a hambone in there just to get a little friction. I agree with those who said that the sensation of the bottom cumming is a huge turn on and can bring on an orgasm in the top, because the muscles of the asshole will clench with each ejaculation. I also agree that there is no unique sensation to the bottom when the top cums inside., There's already lube, so there is "moistness" back there. Before silicone lube, when all we had was the sticky stuff that could dry up and get gummy during the course of the fuck, there might be a change after ejaculation because ejaculate is more slippery than that kind of lube. But it would be the rare date whose cum was so voluminous that it would be noticeable in that regard.

Vers here. Am I only one that loves the cum dripping out of me for days? Fuck it turns me on.

I'm a bit confused by the comments from some of you saying you can't feel it when a load is pumped inside you - I don't think you can feel the jizz actually hitting the walls of your rectum but you can definitely feel an extra 'push' for want of a better word, well I can at least, assuming it's a decent sized load. Are you telling me that when you douche, you can't feel the liquid going in? How fucking desensitised are your ragged holes??

However, I wouldn't say it's particularly pleasurable at least in my opinion, I don't personally get anything out of it. As far as topping is concerned, where my main preference lies - I actually don't see much difference between squirting in a condom versus squirting inside, so as long as I'm not pulling out to cum, it doesn't really matter to me.

R118 Are you saying that in a world free of STIs, it wouldn’t matter to you whether you wore a piece of latex or not?

I'm sure Emily Post must have written a chapter or two on the proper deportment for a lady of good breeding.

Ahh sorry but no way is wearing a condom better than bareback. If you have a fetish for latex maybe. I feel closer to the person and I love cumming inside them. It makes me feel like I own them yes. But it's also so pleasurable and intense

Cumming while your cock is shoved as deep as it can get in someone's warm, slippery ass or mouth is one of the best feelings in the world.

R85 agree, and foreskin adds to that "drag" coefficient you're talking about and you can't get that if someone's got a piece of the shower curtain on their dick and the foreskin isn't free to slide.

We have spit, sweat, and precum thanks to God so we are made to have the man sex without anything manufactured being part of the experience. If there's pain or something's not working, you only need to add more of those three natural things.

I can totally feel it when my man cums in me. Not like something is sloshing around, but in addition to the pump/pulsing of his dick with each shot, there's a warmth. It's hard to describe but it's pleasurable and I've never been wrong in terms of knowing if he finished or not, because I can feel the load somehow. He loves it when we simultaneously finish together - he says my hole grabs hold of his dick like a vise. I hope years from now it still does.

Finally it's just less mess to clean up to take the load. I've really only had that dripping out thing happen a handful of times, and that was usually on a 2nd or 3rd go round when we just stayed in bed all morning or he slid into me at night and shot and stayed in after till he fell out during the refractory period.

Neat freaks love internal cum shots, as r123 pointed out

I exclusively cum in another man’s mouth or ass

I’m so glad the bareback + cumming inside contingent is winning out in this thread.

Any “condoms forever” posts aren’t showing up for me, because I already have those people blocked, for other reasons presumably.

I like when the tops sort of convulse as they cum in me.

I am a top and I actually really get off making a bottom cum. It's one of the things I ask most bottoms before I hook up - can you come that way? I don't always cum as the top, but I love making a bottom cum. It's so hot to me. I sometimes just have to call it when a bottom just wants to get "loaded up." That does nothing for me. I don't want to be in a long list of guys just using the guy as a receptacle. And I especially love when a bottom can't help but come. Like when they say if you keep doing that I am going to cum. Sometimes I hold back because I want to fuck longer, other times I just keep going and love feeling them shudder and their eyes roll back as they grab at you. And feeling them squeeze down on my cock when they orgasm, and the intensity of the moment can make me cum. And when I cum, I like to shoot inside of them. It is such a good feeling. It feels very anticlimactic to jack off after which I have to do sometimes when a bottom can no longer get fucked after he's cum himself. But by that time, I can call it and sometimes go home and jack off thinking about how I just made some guy fucking him and how good it felt.

[quote]I like when the tops sort of convulse as they cum in me.

And I like it when the bottom cums while I'm fucking him, and I can feel his hole convulse around my dick...

It doesn't always happen, but it's good when it does

What lot of bug chasers you people are.

Old PTSD sexless priss pot ^

I don’t think my parents ever used condoms with each other, R129. Were they bug chasers?

R127, you sound like you're good in bed and care about the other person's experience.

R129. Sometimes I think that posters like you WANT gay men to get HIV.

Now with PrEP there is no reason for anyone to become infected. At least people in the first world.

There is work to be done in poorer nations where people do not have access to proper healthcare. And there are those in the US who still are uninsured. But PrEP is a major leap forward. And should be celebrated. Gay men can return now to normal human sex.

R129 is just bitter that he missed out, and he’s too ancient for man to want to fuck his decrepit corpse r133.

That, and shrieking mind paralyzing PTSD, are the reasons that the maiden aunt brigade are the way that they are.

[quote]many are so relaxed and loose that you have to throw a hambone in there just to get a little friction.

WW for R116

Hambone 🤣

I really, really want to breed Connor Jessup. Sadly, it's probably been done a hundred times before.

[quote]I really, really want to breed Connor Jessup. Sadly, it's probably been done a hundred times before.

Oh yes, at one of my pool parties.

[quote]Sadly, it's probably been done a hundred times before.

Sheesh, is that really so many times?

Bump

I hope this thread hasn’t petered out. We had some good comments.

R136 You and me both

Bump

CJ has a bizarre chest hair pattern, doesn't he? All down the center.

Gurl Im just not into cum like that

Bump

R136 R141

Bump

Bump

Sump

As a top, it feel fucking amazing breeding a bottom. It feels good when your cock is still twitching when cumming, and feeling the anus around it. When you're actually cumming and you bury it as deep as you can. Not only does it feel good, but I find it very intimate. It does a psychological effect, but it's mostly physical for me.

This being said, I have never understood what physical satisfaction the bottom can feel. Can they actually feel the cum shooting inside them?

Do you only fuck mutes?

^luv ya🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@R151

No, doll. You can't feel the jizz. But you can feel your tops orgasm.

R153 I think you meant R150.

^ troo dat

thx

It's true

no matter how much I enjoy the fucking

I usually like to finish with my hand

R150 Yep, as a top, cumming inside has both a psychological and physical upside.

Physically: The continued friction of the hole as you cum creates a "fuller" orgasm.... pulling out to jerk off, creates a "one point" orgasm... the head of the dick. Cumming inside makes me feel the orgasm in my whole body, especially the muscles of my back and glutes. Also, if the hole is tight, I can feel the "spurts" of my cumming... 2-3 large spurts, which make the load more pleasurable.

Psychologically: cumming inside is a mark of my Owning the bottom. Claiming him. And his surrender to that makes the emotional connection much deeper. Also, the idea of his walking away with my seed inside him seems so intimate... and again gives me some "alpha satisfaction."

But then it's just fucking, all these are just words, eh?

R157 gave me wood

R158 Did R157 give you wood because you’re a top and agree with him or because you are a bottom and like the way he describes the experience?

R146 that is so fucking hot!!! I could almost feel Connor's rosebud encircling my dick.

I'm not R158, but it got me hard because of the way he described the experience. As a bottom, that's exactly what I want: To make the top feel alpha. It's weird. In non sexual scenarios, I am not like that all. But with the right man? I love feeling owned in bed. And I love it more if they love it.

^^That was for R159 and about R157's post^^^

Did [R157] give you wood because you’re a top and agree with him or because you are a bottom and like the way he describes the experience?

Both

R161 Thanks. That’s the kind of insight I was looking for.

It's interesting to me how I love to get fucked (and bred) until I cum; after that, it hurts and I want my bf outta me. I take a physical sensation as purely pleasure until orgasm; after that, it's pain. Weird.

I suppose there's some chemical explanation of it, or psychological, or both. Whatever the reason, you can ram me like a jackhammer until I cum. I guess that's why I like my bf to cum first. And knowing that he just jizzed in me makes me even hornier -- if I haven't cum.

After a man cums, there's a huge drop in dopamine. That's why if you are getting fucked and you cum first it goes from "fuck me harder" to "are you done yet?"

but psychological stories are so much more interesting, R166

I wonder what Connor's over-possessive mother thought when she saw that scene of him being fucked up the ass at R146.

R150, surely you've heard of the prostate.

R168 Is that really Connor J?

Daddy bear pron is the best for hot breeding scenes. Why is that? I've been getting off on them lately especially the amateur stuff.

Because Daddy Bears are uninhibited pigs. Which makes them so attractive.

R169 Your prostate will still be stimulated regardless of condom or bb. A dick is a dick, Mary.

A bottom who cums hands free is the ultimate for a top. Sort of proof of your fucking skills.. Not every bottom can do that, but when they do...damn

Breeding the bottom seems to play a major role in OnlyFans porn (or maybe just the ones I've seen) but watching the bottom expel the cum from his hole seems to be the OF equivalent and SeanCody and CorbinFisher guys jumping up to "hit the shower"

R173, You obviously didn't read the post to which I was responding. (see R150). Stupid queen.

I wish there was a feature on DL where instead of reading "Mary" in R173 or "Stupid queen" at R175, you would just hear a hissing noise.

I think a feature with Melania whispering "poosey" would be a helpful addition too.

Agreed R177

Does anyone remember IRC? There was a command one could use to send a .wav file to another user’s computer and it would automatically play.

My friend would get so mad when I’d send him “Your pussy stinks!” while he was at work. But how was I supposed to know he was at work. He shouldn’t have been chatting then!

R174 I appreciate your comment on “hands free” orgasms. But I didn’t quite understand what you meant about Sean Cody guys. Is there ever any breeding on that site?

R175 Yes, that was me, dipshit.

Can we please quit arguing and get back to the subject at hand?

R170 Yes that's really Connor Jessup at R146 , it's from a short film called Crazy House:

R183 Is the film worth watching otherwise?

R177 maybe this will help?

R166 that’s why men are better edged and denied.

R183 Was that a body double or was Connor really showing his ass?

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R166 Thanks. That helps explain a common phenomenon.

[quote]Pulling out is for porn.

Obviously you want to see the money shot. The more cum, the more masculine the guy is.

r165, I've learned to completely relax and cum hands-free multiple times before he cums. I have to be on my back with my ass up on pillows and him holding my legs up and spread or resting on his shoulders. This seems to work only with poppers. If I have an ejaculation from penis stimulation, then like you, my system shuts down, and I want him to finish ASAP (and yet sometimes it still does feel good if I can relax again).

My partner and I are old, survived the AIDS epidemic, and don't like condoms. We found each other later in life and have deep trust despite that our relationship is long-distance and we currently can only see each other 2-3 months. But if we were ever to open our relationship in any way when we retire together (not bloody likely, but it looks hot -- at least to us -- in old man group pron) there WILL be condoms. The first time we fuck when we visit, he usually cums inside me first and finishes me off with a dildo. I think he enjoys the act of making me cum. That "ownership" thing? Or maybe because he is kind and knows that I get off on it.

A top (bless you) up thread mentioned that he doesn't get what pleasure a bottom can feel. You have no fucking idea! Let's keep it that way; please continue to provide your services to your happy partner(s).

R191 what’s the reason you’ll use condoms in a future group situation? Now that there is PrEP, HIV is safely off the table. Are you concerned about other STDs?

I've only let two guys breed me w/o condoms in my life: my first bf in the 80s (we were at a rural college and lucky) and my bf for the last 20 years. Condoms for everyone else, thank Christ.

[quote]many are so relaxed and loose that you have to throw a hambone in there just to get a little friction.

A straight guy I used to work with joked that he had to "strap a two-by-four to my ass to keep from falling in" when screwing his wife after baby number four.

[quote] I've learned to completely relax and cum hands-free multiple times before he cums. I have to be on my back with my ass up on pillows and him holding my legs up and spread or resting on his shoulders. This seems to work only with poppers...

And I must have a shrubbery! One that looks nice and is not too expensive

[quote] But if we were ever to open our relationship in any way when we retire together (not bloody likely, but it looks hot -- at least to us -- in old man group pron) there WILL be condoms...

And a SECOND SHRUBBERY! Only, slightly higher so we get the two-level effect, and a little path running down the middle.

Sure PREP protects against HIV. But you don't want herpes type one or two (no cure, only treatment, and a responsible person should tell partners if they have it, even if they're not having an outbreak). You don't want HSV/warts (get that vaccine if you can). You also don't want to constantly be getting gon, syph, chlamydia--every BB encounter puts you at risk for these, and in large cities they have become rampant during the pandemic. While condoms don't totally eliminate the risk, they do add to risk reduction for these STIs, reduction PREP doesn't provide.

R196

Gonorrhea: Curable in 1 week max.

Chlamydia: Curable with 1 pill in 1 day,

Syphilis: Curable in 2 weeks max.

HIV: Not curable, but almost 100% preventable if PrEP is used correctly.

HPV: Most strains preventable with vaccine, and if you get it, it goes away in most cases in 1-2 years. Good thing you won't get cervical cancer because, duh, you don't have a cervix.

Herpes 1. (aka oral herpes): Most people will get herpes 1 at some point in their life. This being said, most people are asymptomatic their whole lives and never get cold sores. They're mostly a stereotype. The virus is in fact a type of cold, that is EXTREMELY easy to get it. As easy as sharing utensils or drinks. Even some children get it early in life. In fact, it's so common that when you get an STDs test, they don't include it. You have to specifically ask for it, and they might even charge you extra.

Herpes 2 (aka genital herpes): If you are a 100% condom user, it reduces the chances of getting it only by 30% meaning you might as well not use condom if you are still 70% still likely to get it. If it's any consolation, statistically speaking, it's more common in straight people, especially women. But that doesn't mean it's not present in the gay community.

Hepatitis A & B: A vaccine for both is almost 100% effective at preventing both. If you somehow get it because either you're not vaccinated or because under that very slim chance, there are antiviral medications for it, and even without them, and it goes away on its own in 4-8 weeks.

If you are fully on PrEP, then you should not worry other STDs. They're part of life, just as common colds are. If you're not worried about colds, then you shouldn't worry about STDs. They're mostly stereotypes because they are related to sex, therefore are considered a taboo subject. If you're fully on PrEP, that means you must get tested every 3 months for STDs, which is enough time to detect and treat the treatable STDs without them causing any severe damage. If you don't get tested, doctors can't prescribe it to you. People who are paranoid about them are just 80s survivors who still have PTSD.

^ isn't it just easier to use a condom with people you don't know?

R198 Before the pandemic, did you use a mask everywhere you went to prevent any type of airborne virus?

no but wtf does that have to do with the price of tea in China?

you just rattled off a laundry list of STD's that I'd rather not have in the first place, rather than go to the free clinic to get cured of

These are a few of my favorite things, R26!

R200 What does China have to do with this?

If they were airborne, I am sure you wouldn't be wearing a mask either. Just because they're related to sex people make a big deal about it. This goes back to the Conservative times when people were expected to remain virgins until marriage.

^ ???

r194, by then he should have saved her the pregnancy bother a fucked her up the ass.

Seriously. Think about it. Would you give up kissing because you might get a virus that you almost surely have already? I, for one, would much rather have herpes lesions on my penis rather than on my mouth.

R205 doesn't know how common HSV 1 is lmao. Even children get it sometimes and never manifest symptoms, Mary.

R206 I totally get how common the herpes virus is. Last time I researched it: 92% of the American population. That's why I said that "you probably already have it."

R207 Oh, sorry. I misread your comment. My bad.

R197 Thanks for the facts. It's needed here.

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[quote]OP: Yes, I'm on PrEP.

Pity.

r192, absolutely, regardless of what the reckless, ignorant, pompous ass r197 claims.

Hawt young guys don't get diseases. That's for old gays.

Enjoy your anal warts and syphilis, R197.

This purpose of this thread has nothing to do with disease.

The purpose of this thread is to enable four lunatics to pretend their colons are full of nerve endings.

[quote]The purpose of this thread is to enable four lunatics to pretend their colons are full of nerve endings.

Just a hunch,

But I have a feeling you've never given your partner an anal orgasm

The prostate isn't in the colon is it? I'm talking about the fanciful descriptions of feeling semen splashing in your guts.

Nobody described a “feeling of semen splashing in your guts”. What some bottoms experience is the sensation of being attractive to a top man. When he comes inside you you know you are appreciated.

^ oh, MY!

Sometimes you can feel the top spasming and pulsing as he cums.

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It's a nightmare, actually. A messy nightmare. I got pregnant and then miscarried a week before my 2nd trimester. The kid would be 14 years old, now.

I hope I ruined this obvious troll thread with my sad frau story from 15 years ago. Happy holidays, everyone!

“Happy holidays”?

Well now you’ve stolen CHRISTMAS too, sad frau.

If he had come in your ass you would not have gotten pregnant.

R223 what ruins DataLounge threads are fraus commenting on subjects that by definition have nothing to do with their experience.

r225 That's actually not true. Sperm can swim. It's rare and unlikely, of course, but it can happen due to "leakage." It is more likely to happen in the doggy position than missionary for that very reason.

r224 It's fine. I was only 20 and the father was a narcissist. Bullet dodged. Innocent life saved.

[quote]HPV: Most strains preventable with vaccine, and if you get it, it goes away in most cases in 1-2 years. Good thing you won't get cervical cancer because, duh, you don't have a cervix.

Just saw this. You can still get anal cancer, sir. One thing I will never forget when I was studying medicine and during clinical rounds shadowing a bariatric surgeon/gastroenterologist, while he was going over dictation protocol with the students, his resident popped his head through the door and asked him to come into the exam room because one of the patients he was examining appeared to have a growth that looked like anal cancer.

So the resident, GE, myself and another student went into the exam room so that the GE could take a look. One thing that I will never forget and scared the absolute hell out of me was seeing this young man who looked no older than 19, with a cluster of cauliflower shaped warts around his anus. And the smell...dear god. The entire exam room was absolutely rancid. As soon as the GE saw it, he looked to his resident and said, "your assessment is correct." He then told the patient straight that it looked like anal cancer and proceeded to educate him on how important it is to use condoms when having anal sex, and then ordered a biopsy. Come to find out, it was anal cancer; at 19. Which, as you well know, killed Farrah Fawcett. Just depressing.

I'm sorry but, the existence of prep does not preclude the need for condoms. HPV is serious and yes gay men can get cancer from it.

I think it's unlikely that getting fucked gave a 19 year old anal cancer

The patient also admitted to having unprotected anal sex during the examination.

And more information.

Also, this specific case took place in 2013. Don't be stupid. Use condoms if you're not monogamous.

So get HPV and hepatitis vaccinations, take Prep, have your valacyclovir pills ready for your herpes outbreak, and we don’t have be anything to worry about! Such fun!

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It the top has 8 inches or more, the load can be deposited in the sigmoid colon, not the anus. Accordingly, the load might stay in for hours. That can be exciting or bizarre or disturbing, when long after the sex act, there is the remainder in your toilet or your jeans.

Back on topic: my partner fucked me this morning with my ass raised on two pillows and my feet up on his shoulders. I was so relaxed that I came hands-free on my face, which turned him on so much that he came inside me within seconds. Am learning how to stay relaxed so that he can still penetrate me after I've orgasmed and it still feels great.

[quote]he can still penetrate me after I've orgasmed and it still feels great.

#goals

R234 Hot.

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You can get throat cancer from HPV, from doing the oral.

Every bottom I've ever known has told me that you do not feel it when the top comes in your butt. There is no sensation down there.

[quote]Tops: How important is it to come inside the bottom?

How else am I gonna get you knocked up, baby?

Excellent post OP. Send these ancient queens on their ivory thrones of bitterness and decay into a tizzy. They've forgotten what it means to be a gay male or even a male at all. I've been taking my hot guy's load for the last four months and have no regrets, but at every turn have been shamed on this site by the cuntly pearl clutching forgotten shadows of who they once were. This is not an ageist thing whatsoever. My great grandfather lived until 99 years old and was chasing old lady ass in his building up until the very end.

Hi. I’m Herpes.

Hi, I'm Monkeypox and I'm gonna eat your flesh.

R242 Daddy! 😍😍😍😍😍

Whew R26! Yes Sir! Yesiree! 🖖

I treat my body as a temple. And those things -- those things R243 does -- I would never do.

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Do gay men have the secret desire to get pregnant like women???

R250 I wasn’t aware it was a secret?

That term is gross, and any guy that asked me to "breed" him would leave unfucked.

Yeah... YEAH! Ejaculate that semen into my anus baby!

Its interesting shooting my load deep inside someone. Then they have to deal with it as they choose. I also have enjoyed being the receptacle. I had a long term horse hung fuckbuddy who would shoot it so deep it would come out the next morning and I found that very erotic.

For me it has nothing to do with getting pregnant. I don't really like kids.

It has everything to do with lust and getting a top so hot he dumps his load in my ass.

The world is already overpopulated, not a good time for breeding.

I agree with R13 and others who say it just feels better to keep going and not pull out. Condom or bare doesn't matter. (I gotta imagine it's the same for straight guys to finish inside, too.)

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