Unaccepting family

I’m sorry op. She’s an asshole and you shouldn’t care what she thinks. You deserve to be loved and she’s a failure as a human being.

I'm sorry, OP. That's....impressively stupid.

Dirty bitch.

If indeed true, I'm sorry OP. I hope you have not wasted time trying to change her feelings. She is not worth it or worthy of being a part of your life.

Sounds like she needs to be put out of her misery, ignorance and stupidity, OP.

How much of a dumb redneck is your sister?

Homophobia hasn’t been mainstream since the 80s.

Her loss, OP. You should refer to her as a "relative," not "sister" (if at all).

Count your knowledge of her true character among your Thanksgiving blessings, a silver lining of sorts.

I have several family members who outright rejected me for being gay, and many others who've been complicit in their silence. These people don't get a single moment of my time, for any reason. Move on, OP. Life's too short to let damaged people bring you down.

I had an aunt who felt the same way. I wasn't invited to weddings, graduations, wakes. She died of COVID complications in August. You are supposed to say nothing but good of the dead. Aunt Nancy is dead. Good. (Hat tip to Bette Davis. )

[Quote]These people don't get a single moment of my time, for any reason. Move on, OP. Life's too short to let damaged people bring you down.

This.

I don’t think I can ever have a relationship with her again after the last visit. I have to put her in the balcony and never again try to mend ties.

Wutta Kunt

No, OP; rather, you do not accept her because she is an ignorant bitch. I love you!

Time to slip in a little cyanide into her stuffing this Thanksgiving...

Don't be afraid to cut family members out of your life. Just because they happen to be related to you doesn't mean they deserve your time.

I bet she’s fat.

When I first moved to San Diego, I consulted a local psychic. A mild-mannered Britisher in his 40’s, he took a moment, then told me, “I can sense the spirit of your mother. She wants you to be happy, but she’s disappointed you’re homosexual.” So I told him to tell her to go back to Hell where she came from.

He was shocked.

True story.

^ Very possible that psychic was projecting.

Aren't most mothers disappointed their son is a homosexual?

If she's unaccepting, she doesn't deserve to be called "family". Feel free to cut all ties and move on.

Call me!

Stop bitching and make an appointment with a mental health counselor, OP. 26 years, and you're looking to an anonymous message board for sympathy? I have problems of my own, thank you very much.

OP, Tell her you'll drop a shitty condom on her face in her coffin.

And then do it.

I'm sorry for your sister as she is quite possibly denying herself the opportunity to have a good relationship with a sibling for completely stupid reasons. I'm sorry for you having to deal with this but perhaps you aren't missing out on anything. Honestly, do you need toxicity in your life.

I had a similar situation with my then boyfriend's family. His sister-in-law let his mother know that she would not be attending the family Christmas if if I was there. His mother let her know quite quickly that no one would be able to dictate who she would have in her home, told her she would be missed and hoped that she came to her senses by Christmas next year. When I found out about this, I thanked her and told her I was sorry. She told me I had nothing to be sorry about and then told me she would rather have me there than her. She said she loved me like one of her own sons while she saw her daughter in law as a childish whiner and complainer, said she hated her attempt to manipulate others. That woman is now my mother in law and I love her and feel closer to her than I did to my own mother.

If it's any consolation OP your sister is almost certainly a stupid, careless anti-vaxxer who will inevitably get Covid-19 and hopefully die from it too.

Same, OP. People are strange, OP. I don’t get it. But life is too short. You’re better off, OP.

Was she such a cunt her entire life ? Sounds like she is a rotted little bitch.

Fuck her husband.

When my aunt went into hospice I flew out to stay with her. Her right wing, nutcase daughter said she wouldn't come home if I was there. Her mother told her it was her choice if she wanted to stay away while she was dying.

The daughter (my cousin) and I got along just fine. But, she is still a right wing nutcase and I live 2,000 miles away so I don't really engage with her.

Were you disinherited, OP?