"Stories About Sex With Celebrities Are Bringing Women Together Online"

I know I should be more open-minded but Buzzfeed has the most annoying writing staff of entitled twats who overdramatize every damn thing.

Jenny seems not very bright.

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[quote] About two days later, she recalled, the messages changed in tone. “It was abrupt. It [went] from talking about normal life … and then [he] started requesting very sexual, and — now that I look back at it — very embarrassing things,” she said. She told me he asked for nude photos and explicit videos, which she sent and basked in his attention via Snapchat, phone calls, FaceTime, and texts.

God, what a dipshit Jenny is. I feel zero sympathy for her.

So, you're feeling you were exploited? Well, then maybe next time you'll remember not to send sexts the minute a guy snaps his fingers.

Who is going to buy the cow when you're giving away the milk for free?

Educated Guesses on the ID of David?

These women sound, well, stupid.

What kind of pathetic woman doesn't tell a dipshit like that to fuck off? The girlfriend acted cold when she met "Jenny" because she knows exactly what her boyfriend does but she still wants to stay with a famous actor. No sympathy for her either.

"John" is BJ Novak from The Office, believe it or not.

I follow Deuxmoi and his serial dating was a much-discussed drama a few months ago.

That is why it is better to be a gay or closet celebrity because they will keep it quiet.

I want to know who David is.

“I want it to be understood that I’m not scorned. I’m not sad because I didn’t get him as a boyfriend.”

You totally are.

This is nonsense. Young people want to have sex and will always try to talk each other into it. The fact that he's famous shouldn't be exploited. She wasn't an actress trying to get a role through him.

R12 is correct.

Women are trumping this shit up on essay sites and social media now. And then in a year or two, they'll be complaining that men don't want to have sex with them, aren't approaching them socially, have limp dicks, and wouldn't it be exciting to reclaim some of the truly masculine caveman sexual aggression of the '70s?

This has been happening since the late '90s — it started in publications like Jane, Bust and Nerve. It occupies about three- or four-year cycles. Whatever men are "doing," according to the writer's interpretation, it's not what women want or need, and they're just passive subjects.

Michael Fassbender once hooked with a very attractive female friend of mine by hitting on her via social media. She has the screenshots to prove it too.

She also brags about it instead of making herself out to be a "victim."

Modern journalism has devolved into this. American Gen Z may be the most sex-negative generation. Sex is now made out to be scary and dangerous. And everything is made out to be predatory. Instead of talking things out and reaching an understanding. It's just making assumptions and demonizing the other party. Being young is about making mistakes and learning. Sex is an act that has consequences but it should not be demonized nor should all men or women be generalized based on bad experiences. It's all so childish.

One of my female friends who libves in LA was a fuckboddy for Moby in the early 00s. He would text her often with booty calls, and she would always respond.

She does not feel victimized at all--she thinks now that both he was pathetic and she was pathetic back then.

Well, if you’re a booty call for Moby it’s a given at some point you’ll look back and feel pathetic.

Moby and Faggbender are gay.

R13, Agreed. Where does personal responsibility come into play? These women are adults.

My next door neighbor in West Hollywood was once married to a very famous rock star. They stayed together for a while, had a child, and then went through a bitter divorce. He, of course, has moved on and probably barely remembers her considering all the drugs they took in the 1980s.

She, however, kept his name and will drop her former relationship with him into almost any conversation. She's bitter and angry and you just want to slap her and tell her to get on with her life. She was quite attractive when young and clearly could have had another relationship but she didn't seem able ever to get past having once been a Queen of Rock

I know another one once married to a major 70s rocker and it's the same thing: she still talks about it, 50 years later.

Interestingly enough, the comments on the Buzzfeed article aren't supportive. Some hope for sanity in this world!

Oh, allegedly the other one is Jason Segal. Eww!

The amount of privileged, sheltered rich white kids writing articles is becoming a nuisance. They treat their experience as universal and their opinion as fact.

They do sound stupid, but part of our ridiculously stupid culture, centered around the stupidity of celebrity.

Since they're not naming names, I find it hard to care.

Is there ANY phrase more annoying than "power imbalance". Just one more way for women not to take accountability.

Okay, maybe "white privilege" is just as bullshit but both are close.

White privilege is a useless term because it simplifies the complexities of white supremacy and racism to just blaming all white people. Systemic problems originated from those who have power. To have privilege you must have some capital power. Thus poor whites in a trailer park are not privileged since they have no power to enforce laws or change culture. Rich white people from Beverly Hills are privileged. Middle class white suburban teens are privileged. But rich black people like Oprah, Lebron and Will Smith are privileged. Systemic racism disenfranchised Black people and Native Americans and still does today but that was due to the people in power that made it that way, as in the small minority of affluent whites who held government office. Those systemic problems only continue because the ones with power are not held accountable. That power is still held in the hands of a small population of extremely wealthy.

Normally, I’d comment “It’s called personal agency girls, try it.” But the truth of the matter is, they were objectifying the famous actor - he didn’t want them but they can’t accept that.

Anything about Chalamet?

r28

r28 It's only a matter of time. He seems to have a good team protecting him.

R16 So how’d she like Moby’s Dick? Great White Whale or DJ Minnow?

R18, Just because they're more gay than straight doesn't mean they'd go for an occasional 3-way if they found an eager young woman. I've been propositioned by mostly gay men although I'm not into casual, even though they were hot.

Fuck you [R22] ! Racist piece of shit saying Buzzfeeds crappy immature writers are “all white”. There’s plenty of idealistic moronic people of colour on that crap site. It’s ok to crack jokes at one races expense but shoe on other foot and it’s a racist cancel war!

I wouldn't go so far as to call them bitter hags. It's just not a particularly interesting story. He wanted casual sex, she wanted a relationship ...and they ultimately went their separate ways. I will admit I found the article a bit drawn out for the subject matter so I skimmed parts of it and might be missing something.

Why wouldn’t he fuck me? You know he had the gall to say “I don’t think we ever ACTUALLY dated”? I named my fucking kids SPENCER and KATHARINE but I can NEVER act white enough for him.

r20 its hard to break up from proximity to massive celebrities. The way you are treated by everyone is a very specific experience and there's definitely a harsh reality check when many of the friends you made turn out to just have been friends so they could have a famous person at their dinner party to attract more famous people.

Poor white trash men stormed and defaced the Capital and threatened to kill the VP and members of Congress. None of them were shot dead.

I rest my case.

"She also brags about it instead of making herself out to be a "victim."

I used to do that...

No, R26, you're wrong. You're engaging in that dishonesty that white people always use to try to trivialize and diminish the extent and severity of their (America's) racism by trying to suggest that there's no difference in the way America treats Black people and white people. There most definitely is. White privilege isn't about money it's about race. It always has been and believe me poor white people what would not trade places with a rich Black person if they knew it meant being Black for the rest of their lives. People like you need to stop LYING. The white people who downplay White Privilege are the ones who know it exists and wouldn't have it any other way. They just desperately want to remove the focus on it for fear of losing it.

True that, R36. Everywhere you go.

Going out to a club with someone also means the drug zombies latch on. Right into my face, searching for a reflection of themselves in my eyes.

R20

I’m dying to know which rock stars.

R26 answers the question "Tell me don't understand White Privilige without saying you don't understand White Privilige"

Here's a hint: Oprah having more societal clout than a poor white person does not refute the entire concept of White Privilige.

Unless, of course, R26 was specifically trying to obfuscate the concept on purpose for some reason....

I don’t think “John” would be BJ, just because of the age/timeline. “John” was in his 40s in the early 2000s; BJ is that now.

Jon Hamm instantly jumped to mind, but his fame and peak whore days would have been early 2010s.

Fassbender is a well-known pussyhound, and although Moby always pinged for me, multiple women (including Natalie Portman) accused him of creeping on him.

Creeping on THEM, I mean!

R18 Everyone is gay in your pea sized brain.

In one of the gossip threads on here, someone claimed that Michelle Williams dumped Jason Segal because he was obsessed with adopting the kid she had with Heath Ledger, even though he wasn't close to the kid at all.

If he is this "David" that means he approached "Jenny" while she was with her kid.

I find this weird because literally every single straight guy I know considers it a "dealbraker" if a woman has a kid and won't date her.

I also think "Jenny" disclosing PTSD and abuse early in the relationship weird. I had a traumatic childhood that left scars, but I've never told them until I knew that the relationship was getting serious.

Or is this something that women do?

Actors are bad news. They are total narcissists. I've never been involved with one, but have worked with many over the years and they are all undependable flakes.

I have no sympathy for these women--they're all pathetic.

I want to read the essay that the whiny bitches wrote about the guy who fucked them all but refused to make any of them the Official Public Girlfriend. I'm sure it's earnest and full of outrage. I am certain everyone in the equation is white.

Rich white girls posting their Ls.

[quote] Fassbender is a well-known pussyhound, and although Moby always pinged for me, multiple women (including Natalie Portman) accused him of creeping on him.

Natalie Portman fucked him in the late 90s until she realised that sleeping with her favourite pop star 16 years her senior was doing nothing for her complaints that the media treated her like a Lolita.

And then she shamed him when he was down and out, accusing him of using her to sell his book. Haven't watched her in a film since. What a cunt.

[quote] [R16] So how’d she like Moby’s Dick? Great White Whale or DJ Minnow?

She did not tell me and I did not ask. It's not my business.

Relax R54. Don’t you know a Melville joke when you hear one?

The media is way, way too obsessed with stories of unhappy sexual encounters. I'm not talking about stuff like the steubenville or Stanford case, where actual crimes were committed. But there is a weird fixation on turning every time a person feels unhappy with a fling into a histrionic front page story. There is something weird going on that seems to be beyond concern for vulnerable people being taken advantage of.