My Cat Died Last Night

I am so sorry for your loss OP. I think dying in his sleep is a blessing for him, I always worry about my pets last moments being scared of a veterinarian or feeling my emotions. What a wonderful life you must have given him.

My thoughts are with you, OP. My cats are my babies

I'm so sorry, OP. I genuinely feel for you. I've been there, and I know how it feels. Cats ARE family, to those who love them. When this has happened to me, I get a new cat or kitten as quickly as possible. It will never exactly take the place of the kitty who died, but it will give you something to dull the pain just a bit.

So sorry for the loss of your sweet kitty.

Aw, I'm sorry, OP. My cats are my family too. I've lost pets in the past and it always hurts. Take care.

I'm so sorry to hear of your pain, Op, on the loss of a friend and companion of 16 years. RIP, George.

I'm so sorry for your loss, OP. Frankly I'd be more surprised if a man didn't cry or feel emotional after losing their beloved cat.

Take care of yourself, and allow room for the sadness. This pain is worth all the joy and comfort George brought into your life.

Hugs.

I'm sorry to hear this. Your love for your cat is real and that was reciprocated. You gave him a great life, and he added immensely to the quality of yours. Hope you feel better soon.

I'm typing on my desktop with my guy laying right beside the keyboard, eyeballing my every move.

I can't imagine what it will be like to lose him, so I truly feel your pain, OP.

Cliched as it may be, but this too will pass and perhaps another wonderful cat will come into your life.

Sorry to hear, OP. I lost my Boxer male back in July, so I know what you're feeling. It sucks now, but I know it'll get better. Hope you feel better soon. Perhaps it may be time for a new kitten soon, eh? Best wishes.

I'm sorry! I had the same experience a couple of weeks ago. It's so damn sad. They really are a member of the family. Mine had to be put down. The vet was very kind. I'm glad you old boy went in his sleep. By all means cry! Its totally warrented.

I am very sorry for your loss and hope the sweet memories replace your sadness soon.

“Grieve not, nor speak of me with tears, but laugh and talk of me as if I were beside you..I loved you so — ’twas Heaven here with you.” - Isla Paschal Richardson

Fuck anyone who says it's silly. I don't have emotions for animals or humans, but I can appreciate those who do.

So sorry to hear that, OP. Be grateful for having such a great friend for so long. And that he died peacefully.

Cry, grieve, wet yourself, etc. -- but then get another cat. Your previous cat won't come back and claw your eyes out. In the meantime, you'll have a new lover in your life.

R13: "I don't have emotions for animals or humans..."

Get help.

It's part of what we sign up for when we bring a pet into our lives, unfortunately.

16 years is a good, long life for a cat, and never forget that you made that possible by taking such great care of him.

One of mine died suddenly at age 6 last year. What I wouldn't give to have had another 10 years with him!

Dear OP - I am very sorry to hear this. I have lost a few myself over the years. I have one girl right now (84 in human years) who is ok - but starting to have some chronic issues. Anyway, I'm somewhat ashamed to admit, I've had a few tough years getting over one in particular. Hit me hard. So I sort of know what you are going through.

There is no remedy. It is heart wrenching and the sudden void is just excruciating and soul destroying. I get it. I will tell you a story however. It might not help much, nor alleviate the heartache but here goes.

I went into the Vet's office a few years ago with my boy (the one I referenced above). He had been my pal, my buddy, extremely smart, and he really was a good friend, such great company. Anyway, I walk into the clinic that day, doing what I had to do when in the flash of an eye, this stunning, blue-eyed Siamese caught my eye.

She was just sitting there, behind a door, in this tiny little alcove, a cage of sorts, looking so forlorn, friendless, no one loved her kind of thing. I kept walking, went into the room, and within minutes, my friend was gone. I was numb, upset, heartbroken. The vet knew me over the years and ....the strangest thing happened. As I was turning to leave the room where I was leaving my boy, the vet's assistant came in and gave "Anya" to me.

I embraced the vet's assistant at least 3X. So, here I was heartbroken, crying and then....suddenly ecstatic. I had two competing emotions and no control over either. I left my boy behind that day and walked out of the clinic - it was a gorgeous sunny day - with this beautiful stunning Siamese feline. It took me about 3 years to get over the loss and Anya certainly helped me a little. There's no road map for grief - everyone deals with grief differently. I hope you find solace in the happy moments, the great memories and I hope you don't close yourself off to .....perhaps....another friend. In time.

Not expressing this properly but ....I do feel for you. Stay well. And take care.

My cat died 15 years ago and I still think about him OP. We feel your pain.

It's the worst. I'm so sorry, OP. I'm glad you and George had each other for as long as you did.

Count yourself lucky it wasn’t a dog that died

Well, you must have taken great care of him for him to have enjoyed that relatively long life. That deep sadness means you really cared about him, and for him, and I think pets realize that. I’m glad he’s at peace but I know you’re very sad and plenty of us here are sad, too, for you both. Celebrate that long, happy friendship. Think of him and smile, when you can.

Cat people are the best. I'm sorry you are grieving. I know it hurts, pretty sure we cat people have all been there. When you are up to it, please go to a shelter and rescue a cat or two that need a good home. I rescued a feline brother and sister this year and I'm so happy I did. You will be happy again, even though you're in pain now. Take care.

It's not a tragedy when a being reaches such a great age and has the blessing of dying peacefully in their sleep, after a life of being loved and giving loved. He's free of his ageing body now but the love last forever.

My cat is asking about your cat’s stuff.

Too soon?

So sorry, OP. It sounds like you had a great 26 years with each other. That's a treasure will remain part of you.

I understand, OP. A cross-species friendship is profound and humbling. It’s pure. My animal companions have saved me throughout my life, and without them I wouldn’t be here.

I know your heart is broken. I understand. When my cat of 16 years died 2 years ago, I wanted to die. I thought the grief would kill me. But remember, it’s part of the bargain—they live for a shorter time than we do, and the grief is worth the love. I know you wouldn’t trade anything for your time together. You carried him through and gave him a life of safety and health and love and friendship. That speaks volumes about what a good person you are, and George was lucky to have you too. So many animals never get that.

When your grief is quieter, remember something: if you still have love to give, consider sharing your life with a new animal companion(s). The grief will never go away, but you can provide love and a home to another needy soul whose lives are shorter than ours and depend on us for their lives. Two years ago I never wanted another cat again. Now we have two, who have become the kindest, gentle, happy beings. They’ve gone from skin and bones in an animal shelter to having complete safety and good health and lots and lots of love. And somewhere in there my heart healed, just enough.

I’m so sorry for your loss. My heart is with you.

Im so sorry OP. I lost my dog of 15 years in December of 2020. Nothing prepares you for it, or the void you have to face when they are gone. I still cant look at pictures of him and not feel upset. A few months later I adopted a puppy, and it helps get you over it to some degree. While it's not your old friend, it's a new one to lavish all the love you feel on them. Take time to grieve, you will know when you're ready for a new buddy.

I am sorry for your loss, OP. It's always hard, but it's SO damn hard when they've shared such a significant percentage of your life, and gone through all those ups and downs by your side.

I feel we will see them again. I'm more of a dog person myself, but it seems that a lot of cat people have the feeling that many cats don't actually 'leave' when they go. You will love again. The shelters are full right now. When you're ready, give yourself the gift of that love again. Fill your years with it!

Beautiful post r26. And all the others as well.

I lost my Lucie last week and buried her in the backyard. She was 13. She had been getting skinnier and skinnier. Then she stopped eating. Her balance started failing her.

Before I went to work, I groomed her and told her it was okay to 'let go'. She would see her little brother Tobie again, and wait for me on The Other Side.

When I came home she was dead.

OP, I went passed this thread three times, because I felt to open it and read your OP would rip my heart out again. I’ve lost two over the last 4 years (brother and sister). But then I thought if I could help in some way, it’s my obligation to be there and give you virtual hugs knowing what you’re going through.

When I lost the first one I cried like a little schoolgirl for DAYS. The first day I was all the time. The next days I had to go to work with no other choice, so I would find the bathroom or a private place at work and cry some more. To look at me you’d get quite a, well I don’t know what (a laugh?) from seeing this big burly blue collar guy crying over his cat, but guess what? I had to. I didn’t think the pain would ever go away. The good news is, while it never goes away, it does lessen a bit. You’ll always remember George as I do mine, and there will always be a tug at your heart when you think of him, but I promise you, soon you’ll remember him and smile rather than cry. You’ll remember something he did that’ll make you laugh until you cry and those will be happy tears.

George will always be with us in our hearts and minds.

I wish I had sage advice to make you feel better, but I really don’t. I just ducked in here to let you know two things: you’re not alone and it truly does get a little better with time.

**hugs**

If you could tag threads on DL, this one needs a cry warning.

r31 - I hesitated as well reading this thread but knew there was someone in need. So, I took the risk. Definitely needs a crying warning. lol

Never be sorry. It’s a big loss. You lost a being you loved. Something would be wrong if you weren’t sad.

So sorry OP. Its so hard. I've always had dogs, but to me its the same thing. My thoughts are with you :)

You're quite right to be in grief, OP, and this honors what I'm sure was a wonderful friend and the life-enhancing friendship between you.

Do try to feel blessed that your cat died in his sleep at the venerable age of 16. Many older cats blessed with long lives have a painful and difficult decline, with issues such as kidney disease, etc. Your special friend got the dream passing, and God bless.

Sending hugs, OP. Sincere condolences to you.

No one should mock you for losing and mourning a beloved companion. So sorry for your loss. 😘

OP, I am so sorry for your loss! Rest In Peace, George, who it sounds like left this world peacefully in the safety and comfort of home, and with the knowledge that he was well loved by you. And that love never goes away.

Oh, OP. Don’t ever feel shame for grieving a beloved pet. I’m very sorry and while I’m more of a dog person, I do love cats, too. They’re wonderfully quirky creatures. Take care of yourself.

Sorry for your loss, OP. Our pets take a piece of our hearts when they go.

Sorry for your loss, OP. It’s real, deep pain. Hugs to you.

Sad.

Time for a kitty. With the life expectancy of cats, this one will outlive you.

Fingers crossed, dear.

OP it is not silly for a man to cry when his faithful companion makes the pass. I'm sure many more years by proxy were shed for your furry friend. I'm sorry OP; it wouldn't hurt as much if you didn't really love the little creature and the pain is a necessary complement to the joy you shared.

Very sorry OP. I hope you start to feel better soon.

What a beautiful, sincere post with truly great responses.

OP, there’s another kitty out there who needs you as much as you need it! May I suggest/recommend adopting a “mature” cat whose previous owner either died or had to give it up because of life changes? These are the hardest cats to place, and they are EXTRA GRATEFUL and loving when they find a new home. Cats aren’t dumb; they know what’s going on.

^To add to R46, when you feel ready, OP, what about fostering a cat and seeing how it goes?

My friend developed Covid and subsequently passed and her largest concern was placement of her (adult) cats.

Fostering a cat initially without a commitment may be easier.....but could also turn into a real and permanent relationship.

I am so sorry to hear of your loss of George, and I send you peaceful and healing wishes❤️

I’m so sorry, OP. Our pets are cherished members of our families.,I’m sending good thoughts your way. I love George’s name, by the way! A great name for a great cat.

Another here, feeling your pain, OP.

Would you share some stories about George with us? How he came to be yours, his habits.

It is a blessing he died in his home, feeling safe. It must have been traumatizing for you to discover, that shock alone is awful.

Pets are family. You lost a family member of 16 years. I'm sorry for your loss. :-(

I’m so sorry OP, sending love. You gave that little man a wonderful life and a peaceful end. That’s all he would’ve asked of you.

And cry as much as you need, losing a pet is a hard hard thing to do.

I’m sorry, OP. In situations like these, pets really are your family and people can be nonchalant when they die. You have my condolences.

OP, I still have anniversary grief for my dog who died in 2014. It really doesn't matter whether or not they're the same species as you are, you are going to feel the loss of a loved one.

The question is always, do I get another pet? After what I thought was a respectful waiting period I adopted two senior cats, and after the last surviving one of that pair died last year I adopted my current cat within a month because I was damned if I was going to sit alone grieving while some unhomed cat was stuck in a cage somewhere.

Just throwing out there that a respectful waiting period is wonderful (no sarcasm) but it's also ok to immediately get an animal if need be. My big guy goes, I think I will need a (likely foster) dog that same day. My big guy would understand. The only way even a tiny portion of my grief would be alleviated is by turning it into love and caring for another animal.

I am so sorry, OP. There was a time when I used to think that they are just animals, so what, but I have gone 180 on that. I didn’t have pets growing up but when I started having a cat I discovered the strong bond and wonderful companionship with an animal. It isn’t just older gay men either, it is everyone who feels this. I have an older married FB Friend with lots of family and friends who still posts pictures of his best friend, a little Yorkie who died five years ago.

As a cat lover I feel for you. When my last cat died, I cried for four days. He was a feral rescue and was completely crazy, shat and puked everywhere, and I am convinced he had a brain injury- he used to run into walls. Despite all this I could see a little corner of him that wasn’t frightened and angry, and I was crazy about him. I gave him the best care I could, and I hope he felt safe with me. Your cat had a good long life full of love and kindness. That must count for something.

So sorry for your loss, dearest OP. They really do leave their paw prints on our hearts. And after reading all these kind, respectful responses, I must be around onions as I've no clue about the tears in my eyes while reading all of this. Take time to grieve. The pain is actually a reminder of how much you loved the little rascal and I'm sure, in his way, he adored you too. Sending a big eHug from Canada.

It’s not silly at all to cry.

So sorry OP. I've had to put down 2 beloved pets, one dog and one cat, and it was the worst. I took some solace in being there to show them love in their last moments--I'm sure your kitty knew he was loved as well.

Thank you so much, everyone. R24, you actually made me laugh through my tears -thank you for that.

[quote] That speaks volumes about what a good person you are

Let’s not get carried away. No offense to any of you, but assholes have pets, too.

OP, please accept my sincere condolences. There is no pain like losing a pet. ❤️

Dear Op, it is awful to lose them. I am so sorry for your loss. I feel your pain and wish I could give you a hug. I miss my cats of yesteryears, one of them still makes me cry when I think of him. He was a truly special soul. It’s been over ten years and I am no longer financially able to take on the responsibility of a pet who light out live me. Just know that you have him the best life and that one day you will reconnect with that soul. I send you so much love at this awful time.

My baby kitty died last spring he was 18 years old. The best thing to come out of the trauma was i heard him for a couple nights after he died walking on the hardwood floors, he had a long claw that would click as he walked. I still miss him but know now that his spirit goes on.

So sorry to hear this. With time, it will hurt less, but grieve any way that feels right for you. If you don’t, you’ll carry more damaging pain for much longer

Let me give you a hug, OP. It's time for him to go, it's like your son has left the nest. He's had a happy, joyful life with you and that the best you could have done for him. Yes, you should cry and grieve and mourn, but take care of yourself. Take care, OP.

Let George's memory be a blessing to you.

Sorry for your loss, OP. Cry as much as you need to and don't mind anyone who gives you crap over it.

RIP George. So sorry, OP.

Sorry, OP. It never gets easier. Glad you had George. ❤️

George was lucky to have you. You sound lovely OP, and I'm sending virtual (((hugs))).

OMG OP, I am so sorry! I LOVE kitties, I love my 17 year-old cat, and I love my roommate’s cats, one who is really social. I can’t imagine how heartbroken you must feel.

Mission accomplished OP. Well done. Do the same for another.

I do believe this is the sweetest thread I've ever read on DL. Thank you all for this lovely send off for George.

Hey OP - How are you doing? Checking in to see how you are today - Hope you had a good day. :)

As a fellow cat owner, Jonesy and I send you big hugs and head butts. I hope you will get another kitty soon, so many need loving owners like you. Xxoo

I'm sorry for your loss, OP. I've had 11 cats throughout my life (2 are living now). I've been through the heartbreak many times. I know it is difficult. It will get easier and you will start to just remember all the happy times and all the love you shared. If you want to, when the time is right, allow another cat to choose you as his/her human. But your cat that just went to heaven will always have a place in your heart.

OP, I condole you.

I couldn’t read this thread in its entirety because I still get weepy about the death of one of my cats. He lived to be 18.5 years old, and up until last year continued to be the longest relationship I’d ever had with a male of any species.

I hope you feel privileged that you got to spend the time you did together, and secure that you gave him the best life he’d ever possibly know. That’s the gift, and the curse, of being a “human” to a cat.

Can I have the scratching post and catnip toys?

My heartfelt condolences, OP 😞

OP again - I really appreciate all the kind and supportive comments. The last couple of days have been rough -especially the nights without my George cuddling on the bed. At some point I'm sure I'll get another cat -most likely from a shelter- but I'm not ready for that yet.

Thank you for being here for me, Datalounge.

Back in February I lost BOTH my cats, OP. I used a surrogate to get through the loss; I needed it for about 4 months. The surrogate got me through feeling totally suicidal. Any belonging can be one, one of your cat's soft toys, for example.

I am so sorry, OP. Mine died 8 years ago. I bawled for a month straight. She was almost 17 and the most loving cat.

I believe that she still watches over us and I feel her loving presence in the house. God bless. Hugs.

OP, condolences. My two girls are 13 and just had some teeth extracted. They are showing their age, but otherwise are healthy. I can't imagine them infirmed. My head knows that they can't go on forever and at 13, it's really not that far off but my heart can't imagine their absence. I'm bracing for heartbreak.

OP I hope you can find some comfort knowing your cat had a great and happy life. He lived in love. We should all be so lucky.

I lost my boy in January. I mentioned it in another thread at the time. I was completely devastated. I lost two very close human friends to COVID in 2020 and my reaction to my cat’s death was so much worse. It was worse than when my grandmother died TBH and I adored her. My cat just got me. He was my soul mate. His absence is profound but it hurts less. My other cat and dog were grieving too so we had a little support group going. When you’re ready a homeless cat will be grateful that you picked him/her.

These comments have brought me to tears, such beautiful words written. Take care OP ❤️.

Sending you good energy and a hug OP. I hope you find some strength and peace tonight. The nights are the worst. I slept with my dog's blanket for about a week. I don't care if I get Mary! 'd for admitting that.

Hugs OP

[quote] I don't care if I get Mary! 'd for admitting that.

I’m not crying, YOU'RE crying!

And trust, hon, I’ll be the first to slap a bitch who does Mary! you.

I'm so sorry OP...I love cats and adore my little guy.

Thinking of you, OP, and sending lots of hugs.

BOGO at PETCO

I’m so sorry OP.

My 21-year-old cat died a few years back and I think about him every day. We went through a lot together. I know you must feel the same about your little guy.

Be thankful he had a peaceful transition and be comforted knowing that he knew you loved him. The hardest part of loving an animal is saying goodbye to them.

This thread should have come with a do not read on the train while wearing a mask warning.

OP I just wanted to say that you are in my thoughts. George was lucky to have such a great person. We all will have to go sometime and to die at home, in our sleep, at an advanced age, with a loved one near is the best way to go whatever our species. We should all be as blessed as George when the time comes..

My condolences OP (hugs)

It's very hard when your pet dies. Get a kitten.

So sorry for your loss, OP.. I'm sure he loved you very much.

I still miss my kitty.

I’m so sorry OP. I didn’t think I would make it when my dog died, it was devastating. I made her a little grave in the garden with daisies growing on it. Love to you.

I’m so sorry for your loss OP. I’ve been there. It’s horrible. Sending you so much love.

How painful, OP. I am so very, very sorry about your dear George, and I am so very, very sorry for you. I know too well how deeply this hurts. The emptiness left behind. It sounds like you took lovely care of each other, and he died the way most of us want to. Quietly and in our sleep.

Cry your eyes out, no shame there, not one iota. It will hit you at strange times. Because even though it gets...different as time passes...it doesn't exactly get easier if that makes sense. He will always be a part of you. I still cry over my big tabby Bubba at the oddest times, and it has been 14 years now.

You'll know when/if it is time to find a new friend. Right now, just let your feelings and memories flow.

Sending you a massive hug, much love and warmest thoughts.

May his memory be a blessing to you OP.

It sounds like you loved him very much and he knew that and had a happy life because of it.

It's completely rational and normal for you to be upset and sad and all that. Pets are a part of your family and your life and you should indeed mourn him.

You are in our thoughts.

I’m sorry OP. There will be one waiting for you at a shelter when you’re ready.

Does anyone on here use chewy.com for their pet supplies? They’ve been wonderful to some neighbors on my block who have experienced the recent loss of their pets… sympathy cards and bouquets.

[quote]There's a real hole in my life now.

Is it the hole in your backyard you put your cat in?

Purrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrsssssssssssssssssss

I buried my 18 year old cat, Edward, in my yard after he suffered a stroke. The following day, I cried all day long. It's such a terrible loss to lose a loving and loyal creature who is always there for you, and makes even a bad day better. As someone once told me your home is missing a heartbeat when your pet passes away. I'm really glad I decided to bury him in the yard, it's actually been a source of comfort.

Im so sorry OP Thank you for starting this thread, i hope you find some solace from the sweet posts. My beautiful 13 year old black cat suddenly suffered a stroke before Christmas, her condition got worse each day until i had no choice but to put her to sleep on January 6, a day that will live in infamy. I am forever grateful that we got to spend every day together because of COVID and that i was able to care for her and offer her strength and love like she did for me in her last days.. It will be tough but you’re a better man for having loved your boy George.

My beautiful cat Nightshade was killed by 1 of my neighbors almost 2 years ago. I found her dead in an alley not far from my home. Some druggies are around in my area & a black cat can be a target (I didn't know this at the time in my area).

Nobody loved me more in life than she. I miss her everyday. She wasn't a cat to remain in doors but I tried my best to keep her inside.

Someone left her in my area as a kitten & she wandered up onto my very high porch. I just had to keep her as she was so cute. We bonded immediately (I had plenty of strays out at my parents country house but none like her) & had many favorite games. She loved a green plastic stick that had a fabric creature on the end which she loved to jump up at as I twirled it around the back yard. I would throw the entire thing out in the grass after she would get exhausted playing with it & she would put the plastic stick in her mouth & bring it back to me like a dog with a fetching stick, She was so small but she managed to bring it to me so many times without dropping it. I was amazed by her. She would have to lay on my chest whenever I was on my desktop & I would have to hold her until I did something to scare her like sneeze, cough, etc. A truly 1 of a kind cat.

The DL was comforting at the time of my loss & I'm glad that most of the replies for you have been thoughtful.

Cat protects another from pack of dogs.

Hi OP,

How are you?

OP here - I brought George's ashes home today. I sat in the parking lot and cried for a bit before the drive home. The house seems empty -I'm so used to seeing him sitting on the back of my chair, or curled up on top of the bed...

I really appreciate all of the kindness and support. So many of you have gone through this, and it helps when you share your thoughts and memories. Thank you.

What a wonderful gesture or action in memory of George, OP r112. I do that for mine as well and keep them in the bedroom closet - close by. I am glad that some of our comments on DL are somewhat reassuring or comforting. Sometimes something as simple as knowing that you really are not alone in this is kind of soothing and lessens the angst a tiny bit.

My older female cat is having problems peeing. It started last night about 8PM and she did sleep but this morning she is still acting cray. I have called all over looking for a vet but none are taking new patients. What to do? I did buy some GNC Urinary Support for her so I hope that helps. Any tips anyone?

I'm sorry, OP.

Can we have its stuff?

R114...Usually, there is an emergency vet somewhere around. Vet now!

Emergency numbers. Call any vet, any clinic, they all provide numbers for After Hours care. I would call now. The longer you wait, more pain for the pet, more $$$ for you. Not a good scenario.

Thanks. I am still trying to find her care.

If it's urinary blockage, she needs care now. Don't bother with vets, go to a vet emergency hospital.

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss OP. I still miss my cat. I cried when he died like I never cried for my parents at their passing.

Wondering how you're doing OP. To let you know we're here if you need an ear or....just a hug.

Thank you, R121 -I appreciate it. I miss George terribly. I didn't realize how many of my daily routines were centered around him, and after so many years they are just automatic. I'm totally changing up my morning routine -I can now make my bed whenever I want, as no one else is sleeping on it. I can pee without first refilling a water bowl... Small stuff, but daily reminders that things have changed. A few friends have sent sympathy cards in the mail. Reading them makes me teary all over again, but I am glad to have them (the friends and the cards).

I'm so sorry OP. My critter will be 12 next spring and is still very healthy as far as I know, but he's getting in that age range for cats when anything could happen. I never had pets before I adopted this guy 6 years ago and had no idea how intertwined our daily lives would be. He's the most human-focused cat I've ever met. Inter-species friends is the best way I can describe it, as stupid as that sounds. The day his time is up will be overwhelmingly sad and I don't know how I will deal with it. I'm not good with goodbyes.

It's good you have friends who care and are understanding of how hard it is to lose a beloved pet.

Take care, OP.

(((Hugs OP))) ❤️❤️❤️

OP, the sympathy cards are nice. No one sent one to me except my vet's office and like 20 people signed it with a memory or nice thing to say about my cat. That meant a lot. In his last few months, my cat was throwing up a lot, so I replaced my duvet with some machine washable quilts that were washed and bleached about every other day and looked like hell, but are still intact and warm. I donated them to the animal shelter today, they put out an appeal for blankets for the dogs, so I feel good that they may be keeping someone warm tonight.

Its last thoughts were, as every one it had over its years life, were of itself.