Rest Stop?

Clearly you must have given off some gay vibe for the guy to take that risk. But guys get horny and sometimes like to do risky things.

The concept of having sex in a public restroom revolts me.

Jesus, get a room!

You should've left your feathered boa in the car, OP.

"Get rid of my iced coffee." That was repulsive.

[quote] I am far to paranoid

And far too stupid.

Yeah people still do stuff like that.

I wish they did - but now people are too aware of gayness for it to go incognito. Oh the glory days of the 1970s.

There will always be bathroom perverts.

[quote] I just finished and left.

Scandalized, OP finished masturbating and left.

Married men have to get it somehow.

It was a time warp OP. You landed in 1957. Eisenhower was president and guys were having sex in public bathrooms across America.

Was this written by the same guy who wrote the hunky medical assistant post?

Yes, R11, I remember it well: "Glans Across America".

What state did this toilet trade take place?

r14 Nevada. I was coming back from Vegas...it could have been early CA I cannot remember. I was just amazed in the days of Grindr. He was not at all bad looking he could easily get laid on an app.

When Jim McGreevey was New Jersey governor, his detail would drive him to rest stops on the Garden State Parkway and New Jersey Turnpike. When he left the job, went to a seminary to become an Episcopal priest. To this day no Bishop will ordain him. Moved from Plainfield to Jersey City with hope of running for mayor when Steve Fulop planned to be governor. That never happened, either.

When the mayor job didn't come through, Steve Fulop made him head of Jersey City's Employment & Training Program (JCETP). He was terminated in 2019 . Haven't heard from him since

If an Episcopal bishop won't ordain you then you've fallen pretty low.

MARY!

Even in shithole Kentucky, gay people still do that.

Highway Rest Stop sex lives on in France, Switzerland and Italy.

It still happens. Less than in the past, but it does happen. More overseas than in the US. The best cruising I ever did was in malls in Thailand, Malaysia and the parks in Taiwan.

In the states you can still find it. I was recently cruised on an Amtrak going from LA to Seattle. Got a bj in the bathroom. University libraries and bathrooms are also good spots. Plus parks and bus stations.

I would have been freaked out too OP

I don't do a lot of highway driving and don't ever remember being the only person in a rest stop bathroom (or even them being anything less than crowded) but that's crazy

Aren't Amtrak bathrooms private R22?

I would have thought it would be easier to fire up Grindr on the train and see if anyone was around.

I just drove 750 miles on a road trip. Every rest stop I frequented had a middle aged man sitting out front or loitering. I got glances from three of them! It’s just not a hot situation for me. I like it outdoors, but in the woods or the desert outside of Palm Springs.

AND THEN HE FLASHED HIS HARD WEINER!!! RIGHT IN THE OPEN IN THE FILTHY HIGHWAY RESTSTOP JOHN!!

Oh, the humanity!

Hi drove from Los Angeles to Vegas once I was really tired so I hung out at a rest stop it was about 2:00 in the morning.

I slept in my car and had to go and pee. They were some guys using the bathroom, but no action. There was a huge sign that said everything is captured on camera (Not in the bathrooms I hope )and "loiterers" will be prosecuted to the full extent of the law

R24 He didn’t cruise me in the bathroom. He cruised me in the observation train. The LA to Seattle train (or it may have been SF now that I think about it) has a fun observation room of large glass windows. He looked at me for a bit, I maybe eye contact and he motioned towards the bathroom.

Next time, OP, just stomp your foot and say "I do declare, Sir! I'm sure I don't know what you mean!" while founding out in hysterics. It's simply the way this situation is to be handled.

I was once cruised by a guy at the food counter at a health food store. That's much more wholesome than being cruised in the men's room at a highway rest stop.

OP, what were you wearing?

I wonder if cops still do this kind of entrapment stuff?

R29 still a better love story than Twilight.

I would have had to mutter something like "no thanks, but good luck with that", or "nice" before leaving.

The idea of it played out in pron can get me all boned up, but the reality of it is something else altogether.

I thought the same thing as r33.

I find it revolting so EVERYONE ELSE MUST AS WELL!

HISSSSSS!!!!!

[quote] AND THEN HE FLASHED HIS HARD WEINER!!! RIGHT IN THE OPEN IN THE FILTHY HIGHWAY RESTSTOP JOHN!!

AND I stomped my foot and told him I was a good Christian woman and I never in all my life!

Sidenote: Stay tuned for the 983,567,238,763,198 threads I'll make about this very moment and how sad I am that I didn't actually take him up on it.

Pre-pandemic, it happened all the time in the restrooms at Grand Central Terminal and Penn Station. I haven't been back into the city much since then.

Until recently, it was pretty common to see in the rest stops on the I-87 portion of the New York State Thruway. Most of them didn't have barriers, but many are now closed and undergoing renovations, so the barriers are sure to appear.

[quote] Does this still happen in the grindr age?

Apparently it does, OP. And, for as long as Mother Nature still produces testosterone in men and ensures that cock is the most delicious delicacy on earth, it always will. All squared away on this now? Cheers.

Dirty birdie.

"but I am far to paranoid to do anything like that. "

You seem so desperate for attention to make up stupid shit. Sad.

Next time you think you want to type out a stupid story like this, use your time to take a professional writing class.

How romantic

Op here I am not a prude, I have done dirtier shit, I just didn't know people still did that since grindr.

WHORE!

Grindr is a waste of time.

I would have looked at him and said “that rest stop urinal you are pissing in is cleaner than my mouth and hole. Yet, my mouth and hole won’t cost you a dollar to use.” His answer would have made his intentions clear.

OP one of the lessons lost on you is that live cruising in public, face to face, dick to dick, presented hole to eyes, gives the opportunity to spontaneously score sex with people you would NEVER say yes to, online. And with people who would never say yes to you.

[quote] He was not at all bad looking he could easily get laid on an app.

Not true. It’s easier—and a hell of a lot more exciting—just to go to a public cruising spot and get off with someone there. I’ve done it hundreds of times. I’ve hooked up with maybe 20 guys on Grindr. Cruising in person is much, much faster and less of a hassle.

I have no idea why people think dating apps are the answer. I guess they might solve the problem for people who don’t do in-person cruising for whatever reason.

My hometown and my college were in PA, two hours apart on I-79. 79 had some notoriously cruisy rest stops.

I cannot tell you how many times this very scenario happened over 4 years. It was not a porno fantasy nor a rare occurrence. I didn't participate every time that, uh, I was offered a peek, but I remember gulping down a few loads and watching some beautiful cocks fire off some amazing shots into the urinal at other times.

[quote] I have no idea why people think dating apps are the answer. I guess they might solve the problem for people who don’t do in-person cruising for whatever reason.

Dating apps are just a different version of the phone meetup or phone sex lines we had in the 90s. A haven for people who wanted the excitement of possibly meeting but are too scared to actually ever show up in person. They talk it to death or have their fantasy at a distance but shoot their load and never show up.

It;s usually the scared nellies who have sex in the dark and leap out of bed screaming in horror and running for a long, hot Silkwood shower if even a molecule of another man's semen lands on their body.

Thank you, R53. My thoughts exactly.

ppppp

When I was a freshman at Harvard, early 80s, they removed all the doors of the men's stalls at the Science Center. It had become an out of control cruising stop. Did they ever replace the doors?

I went to a public swimming pool in Astoria or Long Island City a couple years ago and almost all the stalls had their doors removed too! People were being naughty in the locker room as well.

I'm not a prude, I love sex parties and bathhouses, but none of this garbage in a public place with kids around.

OP, he was probably a trucker with a nice cab. Mood lighting and music. You missed out.

The impertinence!

OMG, I had no idea anyone did this ever, I am shocked.

I went to a mall, one of the very few still around and there was all sorts of whatever you call this for old gays. Cruising? at the restroom and It was near a kids store so I reported them to the security guards.

If you can't control your sex urges even closer to a store where children shop, you deserve to be caught. Hopefully they beat some of these creeps up. There were at least 8 guys jerking off there, that's disgusting.

Y'all realize this is another concern-trolling, anti-gay-sex post, right?

[quote] When he left the job, went to a seminary to become an Episcopal priest. To this day no Bishop will ordain him.

Probably didn't empathize with someone who only fucked people older than 10.

[quote] OP, he was probably a trucker with a nice cab. Mood lighting and music. You missed out.

NI disco ball in there? Oh, that’s a hard pass.

Thank GOD this is still going on!

The 1970s were so wonderful. Always an adventure. Great memories and stories to tell.

Of course with cell phone cameras, security cameras, policing...and the general prudish atmosphere, the good times are never coming back.

I'm a little jealous, Op. It's been about 30 years since I've been propositioned.

You know you could have just put the iced coffee in the trash.

R61, let’s not even dwell on your sign-off of ‘We’re not in Iran’ immediately after your fervent hope that some gay guys get beaten up. Let’s instead note your attempt to connect ‘gay men up for sex’ with ‘children at risk’. Yes, you're playing that old filthy game of quietly implying that gay men are child-predators, which marks you out for the cunt you are. I hope you’re ff’d into oblivion.

This is why they hate us.

R61, You are an asshole.

[quote] The concept of having sex in a public restroom revolts me.

She's so genteel.

r68 - it was being recycled and needed an outlet. The translation I had to piss like a racehorse.

OP, you have become very desperate for attention. The last few years have messed with us. It may be time to take a step back and reflect. I'm sorry that things have come to this for you.

Did you call the police?

Did you think about suckin?

Seriously, you were offended by this? Not even a little bit aroused?

When Patrick Kennedy was a RI Congressman, the highway rest areas there were his favorite haunts.

I would NEVER dare do anything public. These days everyone has a phone or recording device. Wouldn't be surprised if you got in trouble via entrapment. Fantasize about it and jerk off, don't ACTUALLY ACT ON THIS!!!

[quote] When I was a freshman at Harvard, early 80s, they removed all the doors of the men's stalls at the Science Center.

They did the same at the restrooms on various floors of the Cathedral of Learning at Pitt.

It may have stopped two guys going into a single stall, but it then turned the entire stall area - about thirty stalls, divided into two rows facing each other - into a giant voyeur/exhibitionist's heaven. Can't tell you how many times I jacked with four or five other guys, as we all splattered out loads on the floor.

I like a good tug in a rest stop.

I like to watch a good tug in a rest stop.

Have dick will travel. Even better, have hard dick will travel.

Are you trying to tell us something, #77?

I would never put my pictures on an app. There are many like me.

I have never gotten it on at a truckstop but I have met men everywhere, except online. The only bars I go to are hotel bars. I hate gar bars.

Men are everywhere, sex is everywhere, just tune in.

R83, He's now married with kids, but it's an open secret that "Patches" craved anonymous rest area cock.

I've actually never seen or participated in any 'rest room' action - the only thing that came close was I was in a cubicle at the toilets of large train station in London one day and someone was leering over the top of the stall down at me, as soon as I became aware and went to look up they ducked away though so I never actually saw them. I felt pretty violated because I was fairly young at the time, 17/18 or something - now I would probably laugh it off or give them a wiggle.

This thread reminds me of the restroom scandal that occurred in Mansfield, OH in 1962. There was a documentary done on this actual hidden police filmed footage. And yes, the men here who were identified and found were brought on charges, and imprisoned.

[quote]the toilets of large train station in London

Still active, at least pre-Covid. Plenty of what so startled OP on offer.

This article is about the video in r87.

[Quote]MPD had dozens of names, they made 79 arrests and asked folks to rat out their queer neighbors. During the ensuing months there were 39 trials and — convicted by home movies — the gay felons were sent off to Lima State Institution for the Insane to be evaluated for their level of deviancy.

[Quote]All totaled, local men spent 68 years in prison for their crimes against humanity.

To R63 implying Episcopalian priests have a sex abuse scandal, it's not so. I'm Catholic and rag on the Episcopalians for standing for nothing but they don't have much of that. The gay men they ordain are open and often same sex married and a lot healthier than Catholic priests. Having women priests around, and bishops, keeps that down as well as women are less willingbtontolerate abuse of children.

Every time we have a thread like this, someone like r87 posts that video made 60 years ago. We’ve all seen it.

And times were a lot different then.

I've been so cock deprived through COVID that I want to wander into someplace like this.

Do you talk to yourself, OP? Because he probably heard you lisping before you got to the door.

You shouldn't be holding a plastic coffee cup while driving, Blanche.

Well OP, it happened to you so I guess the answer to your question is yes?

r93 No but maybe my purse and heels gave it away?

Route 80 between Bergen and Morris county had 2 of the best rest stops anywhere. Jon-Erik Hexum used to frequent the one in Lodi.

I think it's perfect erotic activity - it's safe sex! You can leave if it's not your thing! It can be loads of fun!

[quote] When Patrick Kennedy was a RI Congressman, the highway rest areas there were his favorite haunts.

Description of one firsthand eyewitness incident, please.

r92 Jon Erik was straight.

[quote]The concept of having sex in a public restroom revolts me.

[quote]She's so genteel.

But the grime, the moist stench… the lingering flatulence : (

No no no no no

[quote]R97 Route 80 between Bergen and Morris county had 2 of the best rest stops anywhere. Jon-Erik Hexum used to frequent the one in Lodi.

If Benedict Cumberbatch doesn’t frequent it, it’s sub par!

[quote] But the grime, the moist stench

The caftan flapping.....the 🔥 FLAMES! 🔥

R100-You're tediously funny.

The Patrick Kennedy tea room stories don 't surprise me a bit, despite his being married to a woman. When I was young, I spent a couple weekends with a guy who was involved in RI politics, and when I was visiting him, I heard him play an answering machine message left by Patrick. It said something to the effect of "Oh, X, I MISSED you at the parade today. I REALLY wanted to see you blah blah blah", with the tone of someone who had a crush on the guy. I thought "that dude is gay and crushing on (or secretly involved with) my date."

gasp!

It’s fun if you can get it

R100-Not while I was sucking his dick, he wasn't.

Sounds fun.

Was.

I got caught by a state trooper on 79 in PA.

He told me "Well, you're pretty, so I'll let you go." I thought I was going to have to suck him off to get out of it but two big vans filled with families came in and I just went to my car and got the fuck out of Dodge.

(while I like daddies and probably would have been into blowing almost any cop, this dude looked like an older, fatter version of Gomer Pyle's boss)

OP: Nothing wrong with wanking among men hopefully without those boner-killing urinal dividers. We need more places like this.

Dear Lord in Heaven!

I am confident this is NOT what Eisenhower was thinking when he designed the interstate system.

For shame!

R2 is the great-grandson of Jesse Helms

Who said he wanted you OP, he might have gotten off just being watched.

R113 I for one can't pee WITHOUT those dividers. I have a shy bladder, I usually just go to a stall to piss. I cannot fathom the hotness of cruising in a disgusting bad smelling restroom.

"Shy bladder" = small dick

The rest stop in Lodi had no bathrooms. It was a semicircle off Route 80 where horny guys parked to get their dicks sucked. You hooked up and then went into the local nabes to park and fuck. If you wanted tearoom sex, you went to the Garden State Plaza in Paramus.

OP = Marion Lorne

R121 The Ramble in NYC is still a thing though not in the winter i assume and people like the quick anonymous thrill and danger. It's quicker and easier than Grindr and more spontaneous and might also get a group thing going and some people are exhibitionists.